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Politics › Re: President Buhari Meets Goodluck Jonathan (Photos) by otijah(m): 3:13pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Both of them aren't smiling, what is happening? |
Music/Radio › Re: Grammy 2020 Awards: Burna Boy's Fans Support Him Over Angelique Kidjo by otijah(m): 4:25pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Ok |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Hull City Vs Chelsea : FA Cup (1 - 2) - Live by otijah(m): 8:29pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Full time 3.5 thank 88k in d account |
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upholds Tambuwal's Election As Sokoto Governor by otijah(m): 10:22am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Jezyfreezman: I have a 5bedroom duplex for in wuse2 for sale at 285million, mind my signature if you have interest 2gini? |
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upholds Tambuwal's Election As Sokoto Governor by otijah(m): 10:21am On Jan 20, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu To Attend Parents Burial February 14 by otijah(m): 10:24pm On Jan 17, 2020 |
tomju: Honestly, I dont understand this IPOB. You keep refering to your country as ZOO yet you are coming back to bury your parents in that same Zoo. Who is fooling who? I just pray DSS or NA no carry am o. Remember, the last time his lawyer accused Nigeria Army of Abducting him until news filtered he was spotted abroad. It never rains it pours is about to come to pass......Watching. Oga na you and Buhari dey d zoo. Am not from the zoo. Am a Biafran. The earlier you know this the better for you |
Crime › Re: Almajiri Boy Beheaded In Beji, Minna (Graphic Photos) by otijah(m): 7:16pm On Jan 17, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu To Attend Parents Burial February 14 by otijah(m): 7:11pm On Jan 17, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Supreme Court Judgement: PDP Says The Destiny Of Imo State Has Been Taken Away by otijah(m): 7:28am On Jan 15, 2020 |
God am ashamed of father Mbaka |
Car Talk › Re: Check Out This Mad SUV From Innosson Vehicles. by otijah(op): 6:15pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Car Talk › Check Out This Mad SUV From Innosson Vehicles. by otijah(op): 6:14pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
I just came across this beast today and to my greatest surprise it was from our very own IVM. We will get there one day
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Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Odumeje Denies 80 Nigerians Were Deported From Indonesia Because Of Him by otijah(m): 10:37pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Even a insane man would know when a story was cooked up to bring a good man down.
Odumeje (the lion) Anu ke eji Anu ku sidi, Janu Ke silasigi Sedukeji imanda sanu ke sigasidi
The lion odogwu anyi ji eje ogu
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Travel › Re: Two Containers Fall On Vehicle In Onitsha by otijah(m): 2:16pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Onitsha city has committed a big sacrilege The gods are angry |
Health › Re: How I Got Infected With HIV by otijah(m): 4:52pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
I hv done all the test needed yet negative. Still my mind won't let me be oo. Depression and thoughts are killing me slowly. Don't know how someone will tell me that after the results read negative, that there are still chances of positive in future dyydxx: Dude, go for a proper lab test by 3 months and then after 6 months. How you described it isn't how HIV is contracted. The rest you are saying don't follow.
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Phobias/HIV-Phobias-Anxiety/show/1776649 Hi all!
I wanted to talk about this briefly. I've been a regular contributor for years on the HIV Prevention forum here at MH, so I see just how common HIV Anxiety is. Some people may have had a scary situation, such as finding out an ex partner had become infected, and they can't seem to accept that they're okay.
However, the majority of people we see had NO risk at all for contracting HIV, yet the fear still consumes them. This can be a common phase, particularly for a young adult in their late teens, early 20's. It is also far more common in countries where sexual activities are viewed as being "bad", and where religions dictate strict sexual behaviors of a certain sort. We get a LOT of posters from the Middle Eastern countries.
So, why do people develop such a strong and irrational fear of HIV? For one, the stigma behind it. The stigma surrounding HIV has improved a lot since the emergence of the disease, but not completely. Also, in those countries I mentioned above, HIV still has a very strong stigma attached to it, and it is still largely seen as a "gay" disease, which is shunned in many parts of the world. Additionally, the education behind HIV is primarily delivered in a "fear based" fashion, for good reason. Educators DO, to a point, try to "scare" children about HIV in hopes they will be very careful in the sexual arena. This plants a seed in the heads of kids about HIV. They are taught to fear it rather than learn about it. MOST people have an extremely overinflated view of HIV, and the risks associated with it. Most people would tell you you can get HIV from kissing, or sharing someone's toothbrush. WRONG. Or, from getting your nails done, or a tattoo. WRONG again. There's a simple fact that people with a fear of HIV MUST start getting into their head...HIV is HARD to get. You'd have to work pretty hard, or take extreme risks to end up infected.
Also, while there are FAR too many people infected, the overall numbers, in comparison to the total population, are small. MOST people do NOT have HIV, even sex workers. The ONLY way you COULD end up with HIV is if you have unprotected sex (vaginal OR anal) OR if you share IV drugs. That's it. People find that impossible to believe, but it's true.
Ok, so you've developed an abnormal fear of HIV. You're fearful of public bathrooms, you don't like to shake hands with strangers, you have even imagined that someone poked you with a needle, or that you stepped on one. So, what do you do? IF your fear is a result of a REAL HIV scare, then give it some time. Usually the anxiety will start to resolve. If it's not related to an actual HIV scare, or if you cannot believe your negative results, or if you're dreaming up all kinds of irrational scenarios of how you could have been exposed...it's time to get some professional help. People knowledgeable about HIV can tell you ALL day long that you weren't at risk, or don't have it, but your irrational mind won't let you believe it. Just like any kind of anxiety disorder, or OCD,or depression, when fears become obsessive, or phobic in nature...seeking a mental health professional is the only logical choice. Usually with a combination of meds and therapy, they will help you learn to break that anxious cycle of thinking and worrying. It takes some time, and some work, but it can be done. You don't have to live in fear, and HIV is NOT out to get you!
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Politics › Re: Taylor William Ogofugha Shot Dead! ADC Warri Chairman Killed by otijah(m): 8:31pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
RIP sir You want join politics |
Nairaland General › Re: People Killed In Onitsha Fuel Tanker Fire Outbreak (Graphic Photos) by otijah(m): 8:23pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
I was opportuned to passed through that road during when that tanker fell. I could see the fuel visibly flowing through gutters, as at then. My greatest surprise is to hear that after 2hrs that the fuel caught fire. Jesus Obiano You are FAILURE |
Sports › Re: Ranking Of Golden Boot Winners: Messi The 1st To Claim This Award For 6 Times by otijah(m): 8:07pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Their cup of tea. Meanwhile Liverpool= counter attack Chelsea= widespread attack Man City= pressuring attack Tottenham= quick pass attack Man U= Heart attack |
Celebrities › Re: Phyno Celebrates His 33rd Birthday Today by otijah(m): 8:39am On Oct 09, 2019 |
Phyno so I senior u? U are mad! |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Mercy Cries As Tacha Gets Disqualified While She Gets 2 Strikes (video) by otijah(m): 10:02am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Ok |
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Named 2019 FIFA The Best Men's Player by otijah(m): 9:15pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
We have just witnessed another daylight fraud by Fifa again. What in God's name did Messi won to deserve that award. Van dijk and Alison was far much better than Messi this year only that football doesn't honor goalkeepers. |
Sports › Re: The Best FIFA Awards (Live Updates) by otijah(m): 8:58pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
O Boy we just witnessed another fraud in fifa again |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Eintracht Frankfurt Vs Arsenal : Europa League (0 - 3) On 19th September 2019 by otijah(m): 3:28pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
Amateur league |
Celebrities › Re: Tboss Shares First Baby Photos by otijah(m): 7:33am On Sep 18, 2019 |
Flesh of ur Flesh, Blood of ur Blood, for pikin wey u no know him papa. Na Craze dey ur head |
Politics › Re: Inaugural Speech Of Mallam Mele Kyari, New NNPC GMD (Photos) by otijah(m): 11:24am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Every where you go now is kyari |
Politics › Re: Celebration In Osogbo As Supreme Court Upholds Oyetola's Victory by otijah(m): 10:59am On Jul 05, 2019 |
So no more going to court again Make person hear word |
Politics › Re: Okorocha Produces Handover Note After Ihedioha Issued Ultimatum- Pictures by otijah(m): 9:08am On Jun 04, 2019 |
O Boy I don dey vex 4 dis Ihedioha oo, What's all this? Look at sanwo olu, no time to fight Ambode 4 now, soo energetic and hard working
Ihedioha please leave Rochas and start working for the main time haba |
Celebrities › Re: "When You Give A Donkey Too Much Attention, It Will Think It's Horse" - Olamide by otijah(m): 3:26pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
KingMicky3286: When you give Naira Marley too much time, He will think He is Bob Marley . This one off me |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Star Eden Hazard Twerks In Wild Europa League Win Celebrations (Photos) by otijah(m): 9:58am On May 31, 2019 |
mysportdab: Chelsea Star Eden Hazard was seen twerking alongside his teammates in wild celebrations after the Europa League final victory, MySportDab reports.
The Belgium international led the thrashing of Arsenal, bagging twice to Stun the helpless Gunners 4-1.
Chelsea Stars hit the dance floor at the Four Seasons hotel in Baku, hours after claiming the Euro trophy.
And Hazard stole the show again - as he did at the Olympic Stadium in Azerbaijan - and was entertaining his team-mates by twerking around the place.
And his Chelsea team-mates joined in the post-game bash.
Gonzalo Higuain showed off boogie moves with his quick footwork - and a medal dangling around his neck.
Watch the video; See;https://www.mysportdab.com/2019/05/chelsea-star-eden-hazard-twerks-in-wild.html pls what's the Instagram handle where that video came from |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Arsenal: Europa Cup Final (4 - 1) On 29th May 2019 by otijah(m): 9:42pm On May 29, 2019 |
That willock is an amateur no R2 sense |
Crime › Re: Two Veterinary Students Of MOUAU Drown During Pool Party (Photos) by otijah(m): 4:58pm On May 26, 2019 |
Ordinary swimming pool oo Na wa |
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