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RomanceRe: Who Else Had This Cup In Their Family Growing Up (pix) by otipoju(m): 12:00pm On Sep 02, 2024
Our Moi moi cup.
SportsRe: Victor Osimhen: From Hot 'n' Snazzy To Antidiluvian Commodity by otipoju(m): 1:33pm On Sep 01, 2024
hstar:
Finidi curse osimhen?
Please 🙏 can I get access to the link?

And what for?
Na today player and coach don dey get issues ?
Oshimen had a video where he greatly disrespected Funidi gorgeous saying g he has lost all respect for him and was cursing and wishing death on all fans and adminiatrators who were blaming him for the loss.

His words were very vulgar and uncouth .and very unnecessary. Any coach will be very reluctant to have such a player in his team no matter how skillfully.

Now this is Africa, where humility is celebrated and pride is seriously frowned upon. Even if Finidi no dey interested in humbling Oshimen, there are many with evil eyes and powers who will gladly do so.

This transfer is a bad omen and I won't be suprises if he gets an injury that will either finish his career at once or small small injury that will make him a shadow of his former self.

Wicked people wey get time and momey to harm you dey this Nigeria.

I wish him the best of luck
CelebritiesRe: New Video Of Singer Zinoleesky Raises Concern by otipoju(m): 10:18am On Aug 31, 2024
Needs to stop taking drugs and start eating food.

Plus one single peace of mind no dey for am based on the settings wey him dey.

So so nightmares
SportsRe: Victor Osimhen: From Hot 'n' Snazzy To Antidiluvian Commodity by otipoju(m): 11:33am On Aug 30, 2024
That finidi cursing video is scary for any self respecting coach.

No coach wants a player that will openly disrespect him and disrupt the teams harmony .


Your football skills are not enough unless they are in a very desperate situation.

If dem want to useless am, they will pay him and let him rot on the bench... Oshimen is asking for unrealistic wages. 500k a week is ot affordable for many teams.
TravelRe: Plane Crash Prevention: Would This Idea Help? (photo) by otipoju(m): 11:23am On Aug 30, 2024
GanagiBitrus:
The momentum (weight & velocity) at which the detached cabin will be cruising will require extremely gigantic balloons to break that momentum & gently lower the cabin to the ground.

Infact it will be practically impossible to successfully launch the balloons at such cruising speed & momentum.
I totally agree.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m): 11:18am On Aug 29, 2024
mbaise1000:
You are funny, did you even read the story? The woman said yhet the man is back in the village, to their family house, she is going to tell him to leave his father's house for her? I will repeat again, if the woman is going to consider advices like yours, she wouldn't be here in the first place, I still maintain that her best option is to forgive her husband and make up, or as you say divorce her and go find people like who is a saint, possibly a man who is also divorced like her, or again, leave a house and family she has suffered all these years for? And you believe her grown up children are going to go with her?
She must forgive her husband for her to ever have peace again, your advice is very wrong
She must forgive her husband to ever have peace!!! As in the useless husband na Prince of Peace.

He needs to stay the f**k out of their lives like he had for 20 years.
FamilyRe: Woman On Vacation During Husband's Funeral Apologizes For Her Absence(photos) by otipoju(m): 10:57am On Aug 27, 2024
Person wey no go reach house.
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya: Lagos Women Are Runs Girls, Ashawo Kobo Kobo (Video) by otipoju(m): 1:30am On Aug 27, 2024
Magnoliaa:
Where did he say somebody was asking him for money? Shebi na person wey fess talk to woman dem go bill. 😂

No woman talked to the nigga or gave two shit about him. Y'all should stop coping.
Na millionaire in dollars and one of the most famous fighters on planet earth na him you dey take play so.

Israel net worth 2024, is about 9 billion naira.

How much you want chop. He is talking about basic decency...which Nigerian girls no get. Most of you are shameless and have been conditioned to beg for money for sexual favours.
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya: Lagos Women Are Runs Girls, Ashawo Kobo Kobo (Video) by otipoju(m): 1:28am On Aug 27, 2024
folake4u:
And the US that he's coming from, the ladies there don't ask for money upfront for sex?

Na Nigerian women start OnlyFans?
He does not live in US. He lives in New Zealand.
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya: Lagos Women Are Runs Girls, Ashawo Kobo Kobo (Video) by otipoju(m): 1:23am On Aug 27, 2024
folake4u:
And the US that he's coming from, the ladies there don't ask for money upfront for sex?

Na Nigerian women start OnlyFans?
He does not live in US. He lives in New Zealand.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m): 1:21am On Aug 27, 2024
mbaise1000:
There is no one here that said the man did well. The woman is thinking of leaving or staying, and allbo am saying is that she should stay and I gave my reasons, you want her to divorce the husband now that the man maybe has realized his mistakes, what exactly are you suggesting to the woman to do, if she leaves as you are saying? To go marry another man not being sure of what the new husband will turn to or to stay without a man? If she will even consider your advice, she wouldn't be here complaining or seeking for advice to do that. It's not just leaving, suggest to her what she will do after
The man did not realize any mistake. He is older and is left with very little economic options. You don't leave abandon a woman for over 20 years and expect her to have any feelings for you. He is a selfish man and has no modicum of self respect. He needs to stay away from them.

She needs to tell him to leave the house and go get his own place to live in instead of leeching on her.
SportsRe: Israel Adesanya: Lagos Women Are Runs Girls, Ashawo Kobo Kobo (Video) by otipoju(m):
Puss360:
This one just gets fame but brainless stupid small black diik heavy weight champion...

If they are into runs, who are their customers?
Obviously not females...

Mad boxer...
Why the thing dey pain you like this.

Dude is prolly not used to regular looking females asking money upfront for sex and its disgusting to him based on the kind of society he grew up in.

Money for sex has become prevalent in our society and the socio political culture enhances it.

Musicians, Politicians and even Pastors are regulat customers of online runs- girls
PropertiesRe: Adeniyi Ajayi Demolishes Olaitan Ogunseye's Property In Ikorodu by otipoju(m): 3:13pm On Aug 26, 2024
Person wey try this kain thing with me , I no go fight am but he definitely will loose everything he has ever worked for.


Unless me sef no know where him properties dey.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m): 3:09pm On Aug 26, 2024
mbaise1000:
So your own advice to her and any other person that might find themselves in such situation is to divorce their spouse?
That is your way and choice, and I will repeat that the laws and ways of God and commandments of Jesus Christ is not for everyone, it's for the children of God only and they will happily follow it.
BTW, youvsid that marriage is about duties and obligations, and not love, I can now understand why you insist that she should divorce her husband.
But I will tell you that marriage should be about Love alone, duties and obligations will be easily and happily be taken care of when marriage is based on Love.
That your statement is even against your position on this fortunately for you, you are still not married and that is why I will wish for you to consider what I said before getting married, for your peace of mind
An absolute Yes. I've been married for about 10 years now. Your first duty is as a husband to take care if your wife's material and emotional needs by providing for shelter, food and utilities and taking care of her sexual needs. As a father you are responsible for feeding, sheltering, clothing and teaching those children to become responsible adults that can fit into society and be useful to themselves.

If you did not fo any of these, then you have no reason to ask that they be with you after twenty years.

The woman should move out and continue her life. I am with her 100%.

Do you know how many fantastic offers that I have had to let go just because my priority is to raise emotionally and intellectually healthy kids because my precense is more important than my presents.

If this man was even visting regularly and providing for their needs, the case will be different. You abandoned your family and are demanding they accept you after many years.

You were never a husband and you were never their father. You are a stranger to them and you should have no place in their future.

He was a mere sperm donor. Nothing more nothing less.
RomanceRe: Is My Brother Having Sex With My Girlfriend? Am Confused. by otipoju(m): 10:23pm On Aug 24, 2024
LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?
My cousin wey we dey sleep the same bed when wey dey young did my new catch when I traveled for three weeks.

Your brother na snake. Bo follow dem shout just ignore but fence your brother and ex your girlfriend.
Foreign AffairsRe: Pictures From Donald Trump's Presidential Campaign In Arizona State by otipoju(m):
press9jatv:
No doubt Trump will win November 11th presidential election 🗳 in America 🇺🇸. Congratulations 🎉 in advance
I laugh you.

He will loose by a landslide.

He has die hard followers that travel with him from state to state but they are not more than the majority of Americans.

All women concerned about loosing thier reproductive rights, Latinos who do not want their brothers treated badly at the border, Father's who have daughters, Rust beltans that Tim Walz speaks their language, Black, Indians, and other minority groups. Younger folks that believe Trump is way too old, Africans in America, All LGBTQ, and a lot of other demographics will vote for Kamala.

The DNC is pumped for action.

From history, Republicans win only when Democrats do not turn out to vote. When Democrats are inspired to vote, they always win the presidency.

This time Democrats and Independents will choose Kamala.

Her campaign has seen 500 million in donations in one month...most are first time donors.

Are you kidding me. History is about to be made. She has my vote for sure.

I want to be able to tell my kids that anything is possible.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m):
mbaise1000:
Read the story again.
What you are saying was when the man was staying in Lagos. I still insist that if the man is ready to be a husband now and accept his mistakes, the woman should forgive and accept her husband back, this is better than every other option available to her
No!!! You don't abscond from your duties and responsibilities as a husband to your wife and a father to your children for over 20 years and then demand forgiveness or to be involved in their lives in any way. That is not how life works.

Forget about love. Marriage is about duties and obligations.
CrimeRe: Verydarkman Vows To Send Boy To Prison After Swindling His Ex Girlfriend by otipoju(m): 2:37pm On Aug 23, 2024
ATEAMS:
Maybe it's true that people get bored of you when you show them too much love
Gravel and Diamonds are both stones...it is the scarcity of diamond that makes it way more expensive.

One you can pick on the surface, one you have to dig really deep and in specific locations.
Foreign AffairsRe: Democratic Candidate Kamala Harris Historical Acceptance Speech by otipoju(m): 11:59am On Aug 23, 2024
Salewa97:
Harris did well with her speech.

The combination of Harris and Walz is a good one.

Trump should be careful with his utterances, his bad mouthing could backfire on him.

The Republicans are divided, the Democrats are united, the independents are leaning towards the Democrats.

Trump is not a saint, but the Republicans would rather have the Democrats in power than Harris
Trump is not a saint, but the Republicans would rather have the Democrats in power than Harris

Something is not right with these statement.


Republicans will rather have a Trump in power than Harris or Republicans will rather have another Democrat in power than Harris ?
RomanceRe: Epic Wedding Kiss: Groom’s Dramatic Build-up Before The Big Moment (video) by otipoju(m): 2:49pm On Aug 22, 2024
wealthyprince:
She go laugh tire. you tell her before the day or you take her unaware? Because some of them may feel shy and some say na embarrassment.
Me aef no plan am before. But it was the most memorable part of the whole ceremonies for me though.
RomanceRe: Epic Wedding Kiss: Groom’s Dramatic Build-up Before The Big Moment (video) by otipoju(m): 4:42am On Aug 22, 2024
Na so I do my madame that day.
RomanceRe: Remedy: I Have Started Dating A Prostitute by otipoju(m): 3:25am On Aug 22, 2024
May you find your way back to a future that is more beautiful .

You are eating from a cup dump.
PoliticsRe: Remember When Obi Donated Patrol Vehicles To The Army by otipoju(m): 8:09am On Aug 21, 2024
Good role model
Car TalkRe: What Your Car Color Says About You by otipoju(m): 9:55pm On Aug 20, 2024
ArmadaHQ001:
If you're thinking about getting a new car, you might want to think twice about the color you pick, as it can tell a lot about your personality. While black is said to represent power and control, take a look at the list below to see which color best suits your personality.

Black:

This is one ultimate power that spells power, class, and elegance in one, and people who choose this as a color for their car are usually this way in almost everything else they choose. Aside from its stereotypical affiliation with evil, especially for Naija here, and a few other negativities, stepping out of a black car will not only elevate your style, but there's a certain level of confidence and poise that it provokes within you.

White:

White car owners are often affiliated with purity, and in a way, are seen as people who are hard to please. On the other hand, pulling up in a white Mercedes to pick up a potential love interest for a date might make your babe begin to see you as husband material, 350 yards. Also, as much as there's plenty of stress in maintaining a white-colored car, it goes a long way to show a person's way of life generally.

Yellow:

Expect the owner of a yellow car to be young at heart, bright, and full of joy. This color particularly implies a sunny personality, reflecting someone who enjoys adventure and trying new things. Oftentimes, people with yellow cars tend to expel plenty of positivity and enjoy the smallest of things, making them approachable and friendly.

Blue – Calm:

Own a blue car, and you are typically seen as a calm, collected, and level-headed person. There's this serenity that comes with the color blue that makes people tend to be more reliable in their decision-making. And yes, blue oftentimes spells intelligence and thoughtfulness too. Do you love the color of the sky? Then you'd definitely love a blue-colored car.

Silver/Gray:

According to research, if your car choice is gray or silver, then you're a reliable person who conforms to societal rules. These people like to be received as fun, but not like extroverts though. They just like to enjoy that elegant and sleek look without having to draw attention to themselves.

Green – Well-Balanced, Trustworthy, and Traditional:

Given our country's flag color, if you pull up in a green car, you're perceived as a patriotic citizen. Lol. But generally, someone seated in a green ride most times leads a well-balanced life, is more trustworthy, and also pretty traditional. They have a way of doing things in an unconventional way but still yield the best results.

Gold – Intelligent and Glamorous:

Gold is considered the most precious and expensive of all materials. I mean, how do you drive a gold-plated car and not be considered an elite? No way. Don't even get me started on the kind of intelligence attached to people of this sort. Also, you'll find that those who fancy gold-colored cars tend to love comfort and will not mind paying a fortune for it. It's one hell of an attention-getter, but in a pretty glamorous way.

There you have it. While the connection between car color and personality is of the essence, we might need to keep in mind that personal preferences vary widely and one’s choice in car color may not always reflect their true personality. While it is undeniably true that the color of your car can greatly impact your mood, physiological associations with colors can also be virtually influenced and subjective too.
You no put my favorite. "Burgundy" all my SUV' have been this colour.


Hard to describe to someone who does not k ow the name of the colour.

Before they figure it out...I don drive pass.
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo, Obi, Others Attend 2024 Democratic National Convention In US by otipoju(m):
Two relatively decent men...compared to the unscrupulous devourers currently at the helm of affairs.
PoliticsRe: Beware Of Scam, Don’t Negotiate With Chinese Firm, Amosun Tells FG by otipoju(m): 2:07am On Aug 18, 2024
This makes more sense now.
SportsRe: “I Almost Killed Myself When My Wife Left” – Idah Peterside by otipoju(m): 11:54am On Aug 16, 2024
Namaster:
Society has DAMAGED a lot of men.

When men get married, society FORCES them to make their wives the Alpha and Omega of their lives. They CAJOLE men to make their wives the CENTRE OF GRAVITY in their lives.

Men put their wives FIRST. Think of their wives FIRST. And make endless SACRIFICES to make them happy.

On the other hand, wives ALSO put themselves first. Think of THEMSELVES first. And DEMAND endless sacrifices from their husbands to make them happy.

Men need to understand:

Your life is like a BUILDING.

A woman, even your wife, must NEVER be the pillar of your life. Otherwise, get ready for the inevitable COLLAPSE.

Instead, a woman should be like a lightbulb. Makes the building nice and bright BUT if it goes out or gets spoilt or explodes, you just go out and REPLACE it.

Chikena.
I like your analogy. And let her know early that she is not irreplaceable. You do not need to tell her, but show her in your actions.

As a man, never stop growing. Be gentle to your wife in public but be naughty with her in the house.

Women love naughty stuff.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m): 2:49pm On Aug 15, 2024
mbaise1000:
That is the way you see it, but the man is back to his house, now for whatever he is thinking, are you telling the woman to leave his house for him or that the man should not come back to his roots as he wishes according to the woman or are you saying that the woman should continue to be in this unhappiness since there is a possibility that she can find happiness again with her husband?
BTW I never said I am in support of the way the man treated his family in the first place.
What advice will you give the woman? Remember I am not the one needing the advice here
The house rent is being paid by the woman. The man refused to pay rent saying he can't be paying for rent in lagos and paying another rent for his family back home
PoliticsRe: soon no one can embarrass the government a pastor/religious leader. Is this true by otipoju(m): 4:46am On Aug 14, 2024
It was expected
PoliticsRe: House Of Reps Seeks 10-year Prison Sentence, N5million Fine For Nigerians by otipoju(m): 4:40am On Aug 14, 2024
Na this kain bill dey pass quickly.


If na bill to alleviate the suffering of the people dey claim to represent now, they will give you a thousand reasons why it is not feasible.
RomanceRe: I Wish I Never Married My Husband by otipoju(m): 4:36am On Aug 14, 2024
mbaise1000:
What exactly dies the poster want us to tell her? To congratulate her and insult her husband? She will be happy to hear people that are certainly going to insult her husband in this thread, she can now enjoy, you have being able to carry on for all of 25 years and your children are adults now and the burden is less and it's now that you want us to advice or encourage you to leave your husband? People like me will not do that, we can only tell you y9u are still alife and a living dog is better than a dead lion, we will tell you that it's never too late to be happy with your husband, as a matter of fact, if you can overcome your self pity and accept that all THINGS work out together for good to them that love God, that are created according to the will of God, or do you think that God makes mistakes? If God had wanted, he shouldn't have allowed you to marry him in the first place.
We advice you to cleanse your mind start enjoying your marriage, and don't allow the devil to tell you what to do, if you continue in the way you are thinking now, you will never be happy in your life, if you leave Him, now for you know the type you are going to run to? He is your Cross and you have carried it successfuly, relax and enjoy your life. This is the advice if a Christian and 9nly a Christian will take a Christian advice
Thr man is a bad man. No one want to live with a bad person. He was not involved in their lives for 24 years financially, emotionally physically and any other other ally

He rejected his family and should stay away for good.

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