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RomanceRe: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by otunbadan(m): 3:59pm On Dec 09, 2020
Run from that relationship to save your sanity ...
No ever consider paying bride price for that hoe

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
NYSCRe: Is NYSC Certificate Required For NDA Professional Course? (foreign Students) by otunbadan(m): 12:13pm On Nov 27, 2020
Yes
NYSCRe: Do Military Men Go For NYSC? by otunbadan(m): 10:46am On Nov 18, 2020
tutudesz:
It's left for you to believe it or not
its not a believe something >>> it is what it is ....no too much talking, if you don't knOw SOMETHING, BE QUIET
NYSCRe: Do Military Men Go For NYSC? by otunbadan(m): 10:45am On Nov 18, 2020
duduade:
That guy confidently saying rubbish about NMS graduates being a soldier abi wetin he talk.. Be hyping nonsense


NMS I knew back then was a Secondary school... Just the same like other command, Navy and airforce secondary schools..
he is correct
NYSCRe: Do Military Men Go For NYSC? by otunbadan(m): 10:41am On Nov 18, 2020
tutudesz:
Finishing from NMS gives you an add advantage over others trying to be soldiers or going to NDA. NMS students who wish to become soldiers will still report to deport for further training to know which corps they belong
at the moment...this is not true... there are posted to straight
NYSCRe: Do Military Men Go For NYSC? by otunbadan(m): 10:39am On Nov 18, 2020
Systrom:
Do soldiers and military men go for service. Let’s say they went back to school while still a soldier. After school, will they go for service?

Also, can an NDA graduate go for service

Thanks
NO>>>
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 2013 3.8m *** Negotiable **** by otunbadan(op): 10:24pm On Oct 15, 2020
SA bumping
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 2013 3.8m *** Negotiable **** by otunbadan(op): 10:09am On Oct 15, 2020
SA
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 2013 3.8m *** Negotiable **** by otunbadan(op): 3:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
Bump
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 2013 3.8m *** Negotiable **** by otunbadan(op): 12:26pm On Oct 14, 2020
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AutosRe: Sold sold sold ....Reg.toyota Corolla Sport ......Late... 2010/2011 Model by otunbadan(m): 8:44am On Sep 29, 2020
Is it a clean title?... no flood or salvage titles
Jobs/VacanciesRe: State Civil Service Job Or Multinational Company Job? Which One Is Advisable? by otunbadan(m): 12:56pm On Sep 24, 2020
I for like yap you o .... but make I leave that one ... if it was me, I would go for the multinational. Reason being that you would be exposed and build a whole new network and forget the fear of being laid off because you fit dey jump ship with experience and networks built there.

This is my humble opinion sir/ma’am.

Civil service has something to offer but “caging” and locking you view on life is a “no no” for me.
RomanceRe: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by otunbadan(m): 10:55pm On Sep 11, 2020
Most unlikely
ZINIBANKS:
And the day he will beat you to stupor
You will come and complain here again cool
PetsRe: Diary Of My Boarboel X Rottweiler Cross Cesar by otunbadan(m): 5:07am On Aug 03, 2020
I remember all the trash talk when you open this trend ... you boy turned out perfect

Gabrokpara001:
Hey fam. Been a while since i last updated due to work...
Ceaser is 22 weeks old now ( 5mnths+)
He is growing into a top notch guard dog, his bark is way thicker than most dogs older than him. His growth was disturbed due to the illness he suffered earlier ( lyme disease) caused by tick.
Some weeks ago he developed symptoms again after previously recovering, he began limping. I had to follow up with antibiotics since then he is doing well.
Below is his pics with his 6 mnths old CO friend
ProgrammingRe: Thread For Database Administration by otunbadan(m): 1:15pm On Aug 01, 2020
They are still two very distinct fields. Farmer and hunters use Cutlass, that doesn't mean hunting has been Incorporated into farming.
Dahyormine:
You can make your points without being abusive, what I know is that most Data analysts also use sql for database, reason why I said that.
PoliticsRe: Enugu State Constructing Bypass From Neke To Eha-amufu by otunbadan(m): 7:32am On Jul 13, 2020
Lemme share so rare photos of our man facilitating the contractors obtaining their certificates

Simplyleo:
So in the present age, a state govt contracted road construction to bricklayers using shovels for mixing concrete? And this is an achievement worth showing the world. angry

I'm even sighting a pick-up van, is that the van used for transporting the concrete and sand?

And these people no go let us hear word about Ganduje who is constructing bridges and fly overs all over Kano state using certified Construction Firms like Julius Berger.

Nawao. undecided

EducationRe: Is There A Course You Will Advise A Jambite Not To Study? by otunbadan(m): 2:58pm On Jun 26, 2020
Yes ...

Pre Graduate Diploma in STAYING AT HOME

Makavelli25:
As it is almost time for jamb to give admission this year, the portal for change of institution and course is still open for those who wish to have a change in their course.

Well let me put it this way, this thread is for you to comment the course you think is a bad idea for anyone to study.

Consider job opportunities and the future, will the course still be relevant in 20,10 years time.

Mine - Zoology (especially if you want to base in NIGERIA) just change it before its too late. You can change to ANY OTHER AGRIC COURSE
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by otunbadan(m): 6:18am On May 26, 2020
quit the relationship... I know it’s easier said than don but do it


Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point.

The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.

Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.

The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.

Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.

Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day.
RomanceRe: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by otunbadan(m): 7:56am On May 01, 2020
Correct guy
Help me give m this

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

ProgrammingRe: As A Data Scientists In Nigeria Were Would You Get Dataset About Nigeria. by otunbadan(m): 1:30pm On Apr 18, 2020
Mrquote:
Thanks man
Also try data.un.org ... it’s united nations data collections for different countries including Nigeria.

Other organizations like WHO,IMF, OPEC , AU, USAID, IFAD will have some of what you need on their sites
ProgrammingRe: As A Data Scientists In Nigeria Were Would You Get Dataset About Nigeria. by otunbadan(m): 9:35am On Apr 18, 2020

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