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FamilyRe: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by otunbateejay(m): 8:25am On Sep 16, 2021
Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.
Sir she is d Borden of ur life let her go what else do u want than to take Care of ur children
CareerRe: Please Come Suggest For Me by otunbateejay(m): 4:20pm On Sep 15, 2021
uchechefaith:
Please what handwork is advisable for someone planning to relocate abroad to learn, that will be useful both home and abroad.
Are u a graduate or not
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by otunbateejay(m): 8:22am On Sep 14, 2021
DuduParaPara:
Hey! Guys.

I want to know how fast can a 5 or bedroom duplex be built? I mean in how many weeks?

Let's assume whatever money that will be needed is readily available, dry land is also available and cleared of trees and bushes.

Drawings and render also available.

Building is a contemporary design.

I'll appreciate it if anyone with idea gives a breakdown.

If you also have a rough estimate of the cost please let us know.
Bro since u said everything about the house is ready it can take more 24 days or 1month
Car TalkRe: My Lexus Car Vibrates When I Turn It On by otunbateejay(m): 10:56am On Sep 11, 2021
Ayoslimzy:
I bought a fairly used lexus ES350 2007 almost a year ago and it’s been running fine except from some few electrical issues which are easily fix
But day before yesterday my friend ask for my battery to start his car
I gave him the battery and he use it to start his car
And since then when I fix the battery back and start my car I noticed my car vibrates a lot
From the steering to the seats when it’s moving or not
Pls car guru what should I do
Is it an urgent matter I should solve cause I’m currently out of funds
Just managing

Thanks In advance
bro na u spoil ur car by ur self u see those car they don't remove there while the ignition is on or off they are electric car they work with battery..take it to Lexus company or mechanic that fix only Lexus
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NYSC Or A N80,000 Monthly Job Offer, Which Should I Go For? by otunbateejay(m): 9:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
11Anonymous:
Just got a job offer of about 80k per month and I planned on going for NYSC before the year ends.

Which should I go for, knowing that I may no longer be interested in serving after getting a job?
bros u can work and serve as well all u need to do gost ur Nysc u go dey collect ur salary while using ur allowance to Sault urLI
HealthRe: What Do You Do With The Placenta After Baby Delivery? by otunbateejay(m): 3:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
expert1:
Hello Nairalanders and Guests.

I am just curious to know what to do with the placenta after birth, and I am sure many young men as first timers feels the same if handed the placenta after his wife delivers a child.

Especially to young guys that are just raising a family. I know that culture varies but in Yoruba tribe for example, placenta are meant to be buried. Buried where? On your land or you have to encroach another man's land to bury that? grin

As a father or grandfather kindly share your experience on how to dispense placenta after delivery.

Many thanks.
cook it and eat nah
FamilyRe: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by otunbateejay(m): 2:10pm On Sep 10, 2021
Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.
Pastor ur wife is circumcised no mater how u do it for her she will not feel the urge ...
CareerRe: What Profitable Skill Can I Learn Now Before The End Of The Year by otunbateejay(m): 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2021
Pls oo how can I reply to member comment here
IslamRe: Misconceptions About Allah (part 1 Of 3): Is Allah God? by otunbateejay(m): 3:06pm On Oct 06, 2017
I think can share more light to all this story

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