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Car Talk / Re: Snake In AC Vent: Car Owners, What’s Your Next Move? by otunbateejay(m): 8:29am On May 10, 2022
money121:
Car owners, what’s your next move? undecided

For me i will pick Race ooo grin grin

dnt u have insecticide use 1 believe the snake will come out

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Agriculture / Re: What Kind Of Sickness Is This On My Chicken? (Disturbing Photo) by otunbateejay(m): 2:44pm On May 09, 2022
Makschinchin:
Good evening all, as seen in the picture, what kind of ailment is this?... It has affected some of my birds for many days now despite the fact that I have given them med. And it is hindering the birds from eating well and also affected their sight... Any help or med that will be very effective please??
Guy buy antibiotic for them is normal na weather cause it
Education / Re: I Am Too Old To Still Be In The University by otunbateejay(m): 2:40pm On May 09, 2022
NasCarter:
I am a 28yo medical student still in 400L and i am feeling like i am too old..

...e so peee e fe fo fence
Romance / Re: Women Narrate How They Discovered Their Boyfriends Are Gay by otunbateejay(m): 2:32pm On May 09, 2022
Bahamas95:
Lol, the comments from those ladies are very funny.


Some guys are mad walai! Sucking a fellow guys d!ck? That's witchcraft.

Baba was even inviting the lady over for 3some.
... girls own make sense nah to buy intimacy gadget to Bleep there but this man dey yanch fellow man yanch God forbid
Romance / Re: Guy’s I’m Getting Married by otunbateejay(m): 2:28pm On May 09, 2022
Themainboy22:
Exactly! even if she manage reach finals, she should wait till after 90 mins.
... dnt forget say den fit play draw and penalty at last 1club go loss
Romance / Re: Help My Boyfriend Is A Weed Addict by otunbateejay(m): 2:24pm On May 09, 2022
Abetterperson:
I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well.
His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.

he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens.
The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.

Please how can I stop him
He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.
... As he ever been react to u whenever he smoke oh sorry during the sex abi ok let me tell u one thing about men is that u can never see 100% pure men u take urs as ur cross since the weed dnt control him

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Family / Re: At What Age Did You Leave Your Parents House And Why? by otunbateejay(m): 11:56am On May 02, 2022
squash47:


17 after secondary school... almost all my class mates and friends left their parents that same year...
We all independent modafuckers now.
... Guy after 17schools or 17weac ??
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by otunbateejay(m): 11:51am On May 02, 2022
wumi2017:



Hahaha, maybe na only you dey view yourself for her status...you never heard of """who can view her status""
...Guy u be correct guy for this comment

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Family / Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by otunbateejay(m): 5:13am On May 01, 2022
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened

She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.

I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony

I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.

Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.

I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody.
I can see say na stoborness kie u wen ur mama dey worn u na still d syoborn go still kie u now...they were asking u her tribe u said u can’t say it and they u should go ahead u said u can’t do it . Then go and die nah
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Help Me Choose Which Job Is Better by otunbateejay(m): 5:04pm On Apr 12, 2022
Bro do am for me too God will continue to bless u more

*Modified*
He has chat me, I will have to remove my number. I am getting too many messages[/quote]
Family / Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by otunbateejay(m): 4:50am On Apr 05, 2022
Good morning everyone Ramadan Kareem to you all.... u see our fire father use to say then we will revenge father or mother sins from there children so do good so that ur children can see good in life.. Omode bu Iroko ijokan ko ni Oluwere Mawo paa I rest my case #It's very embarrassing for any law abiding parent to have a wayward child out of fear that their good name would be dragged in the mud by their actions. Back in Nigeria, the adult son of a high ranking church official was suspected of breaking into my alma mata's chapel and looting items, much to the consternation of my relatives, who wondered breathlessly, "What of his parents"? I simply brushed his involvement aside because of his notorious reputation on campus. It got so worse that according to one of my school mates, his father had threatened to disown him, much to his wife's chagrin (the guy's mom) who cried. Not long ago, a prominent man's daughter recently got a divorce and one of my friends said something to the effect that since her father holds a prominent position in the Church, then perhaps, he ought to have done something (I have forgotten exactly how he paraphrased it, but he sort of held her father accountable particularly since the girl gave birth while she was still a teenager. I disagreed with him.

And my question is this: Should parents be held accountable for the bad actions of their adult children?[/quote]
Health / Re: What Can He Use For This Skin Problem? (Photo) by otunbateejay(m): 1:03am On Mar 06, 2022
Guy na too burn this leg abeg
Mercychen:
What do you recommend for this skin blemish? grin.

Advice, please.

Business / Re: I Just Got My Inheritance; I Need Your Advice by otunbateejay(m): 10:18am On Jan 24, 2022
Help ur brother to fix his own u will calculate his duration in school then put it up for fix
Boogiebee:
Hello Nairalanders,

So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.

1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.

2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.

May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen
Crime / Re: Lagos Domestic Worker Flees With N13.9m Cash, Jewelry One Week After Resumption by otunbateejay(m): 7:40am On Jan 20, 2022
I don't blame the d lady there is no bank in Nigeria again cash of 13m ha no talk of jewelry even the jewelry is much to keep in a open place ...
donbachi:
By the tme hand touch her and she chop slaps.dat her jaw or abi na cheek go enter inside.

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Career / Re: COVID-19: MTN To Staff 'Get Vaccinated Or Lose Your Job' by otunbateejay(m): 10:20pm On Dec 06, 2021
Bro if u knw u knw and if u don't knw u are seating on a long thing.
HappyPagan:


Yeah, MTN is the employee's private home. What right does MTN have to enforce rules on an employee's home?
Career / Re: Should I Bet On Myself?; I Need Your Advice. by otunbateejay(m): 10:31pm On Nov 14, 2021
Na village people dey disturb u u won leave ur barbing and education do blockcahin hope say no bi chain den go take chain u.. So u wan tell say u no fit learn am if u go school still dey do ur barbing village people get hand for ur mater



[1quote author=Lorex6 post=107606539]Hi
Thank you for opening this post. Your contributions will be greatly appreciated!

I am barber, just turned 19 few weeks ago and I am supposed to start my uni education tomorrow but that is not the problem.

I earned upwards of 40... Maybe 60k most of which I aid my siblings with. But it's too demanding, like 14 or 15 hours a day everyday. And I have some skill trading forex but I don't do it now.

Right now I want to drop barbing and possibly school to learn blockchain development. My mom will prolly take me for deliverance. Lol.
I am buying a laptop tomorrow. Already dropped social media, right now its just Reddit and NL.

I am greatly worried about my future and tired of living inna trap.

I remember learning about Bitcoin like 7 years ago but couldn't get in till this year.

My parents can give moral advice but I need you on this one. Thanks

Cc. Tensazangetsu20
Airsaylongcome
Lindner
Ezechidera
Ypeace
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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by otunbateejay(m): 4:40pm On Oct 29, 2021
Why telling us when u know that u wanna continue the relationship..
Career / Re: Contract Telecoms Or Full Time Elsewhere? by otunbateejay(m): 4:37pm On Oct 29, 2021
Don't be greedy give us the connection let another person work there the 2 job are d same thing and it depend on how u do it
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 70k Operation Executive Job In Edu-training Or 140k Store Manager Hotel Job. by otunbateejay(m): 10:36am On Oct 10, 2021
Give us same link u dey send ur CV to or job site
VitalRock:


Sincerely...I think it's grace. I have stopped sending my CV for a month now. May this kind of grace locate you b4 d year runs out bruh... grin
Family / Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by otunbateejay(m): 8:25am On Sep 16, 2021
Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Sir she is d Borden of ur life let her go what else do u want than to take Care of ur children

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Career / Re: Please Come Suggest For Me by otunbateejay(m): 4:20pm On Sep 15, 2021
uchechefaith:
Please what handwork is advisable for someone planning to relocate abroad to learn, that will be useful both home and abroad.
Are u a graduate or not
Properties / Re: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by otunbateejay(m): 8:22am On Sep 14, 2021
DuduParaPara:
Hey! Guys.

I want to know how fast can a 5 or bedroom duplex be built? I mean in how many weeks?

Let's assume whatever money that will be needed is readily available, dry land is also available and cleared of trees and bushes.

Drawings and render also available.

Building is a contemporary design.

I'll appreciate it if anyone with idea gives a breakdown.

If you also have a rough estimate of the cost please let us know.
Bro since u said everything about the house is ready it can take more 24 days or 1month
Car Talk / Re: My Lexus Car Vibrates When I Turn It On by otunbateejay(m): 10:56am On Sep 11, 2021
Ayoslimzy:
I bought a fairly used lexus ES350 2007 almost a year ago and it’s been running fine except from some few electrical issues which are easily fix
But day before yesterday my friend ask for my battery to start his car
I gave him the battery and he use it to start his car
And since then when I fix the battery back and start my car I noticed my car vibrates a lot
From the steering to the seats when it’s moving or not
Pls car guru what should I do
Is it an urgent matter I should solve cause I’m currently out of funds
Just managing

Thanks In advance
bro na u spoil ur car by ur self u see those car they don't remove there while the ignition is on or off they are electric car they work with battery..take it to Lexus company or mechanic that fix only Lexus
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NYSC Or A N80,000 Monthly Job Offer, Which Should I Go For? by otunbateejay(m): 9:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
11Anonymous:
Just got a job offer of about 80k per month and I planned on going for NYSC before the year ends.

Which should I go for, knowing that I may no longer be interested in serving after getting a job?
bros u can work and serve as well all u need to do gost ur Nysc u go dey collect ur salary while using ur allowance to Sault urLI
Health / Re: What Do You Do With The Placenta After Baby Delivery? by otunbateejay(m): 3:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
expert1:
Hello Nairalanders and Guests.

I am just curious to know what to do with the placenta after birth, and I am sure many young men as first timers feels the same if handed the placenta after his wife delivers a child.

Especially to young guys that are just raising a family. I know that culture varies but in Yoruba tribe for example, placenta are meant to be buried. Buried where? On your land or you have to encroach another man's land to bury that? grin

As a father or grandfather kindly share your experience on how to dispense placenta after delivery.

Many thanks.
cook it and eat nah
Family / Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by otunbateejay(m): 2:10pm On Sep 10, 2021
Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.
Pastor ur wife is circumcised no mater how u do it for her she will not feel the urge ...
Career / Re: What Profitable Skill Can I Learn Now Before The End Of The Year by otunbateejay(m): 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2021
Pls oo how can I reply to member comment here
Islam for Muslims / Re: Misconceptions About Allah (part 1 Of 3): Is Allah God? by otunbateejay(m): 3:06pm On Oct 06, 2017
I think can share more light to all this story

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