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OnlyChris:
People from that part lives differently, I know one that makes roughly 300k+ monthly but still sleeps inside his shop..

Wao! I don't envy them........................................

OnlyChris:
If you can take care of her financially, why not..
If not, send her back and maybe send her some money if you feel guilty abt it.

Did I hear you say "if he is ok financially"?
A financially capable man cannot be living in one room with 7 children

When the bad boys kill, we see pictures. How come we never see the ones neutralized by the troops?

I keep things to myself and pray to God about it.
Then recently, chatGPT is my ever present friend. You need to see where we are chatting

LUAN1:
Please, I need a permanent solution for my sleeplessness. I hardly sleep more than 3 hours a night, and on some nights, I don’t sleep at all. It all started when I was young. Back then, I could sleep, but I would have to lie in bed for about two hours before falling asleep.

Now, I can go an entire night without sleeping, and it's really affecting me. I no longer have early morning erections, I’m becoming very lean, my eyes are always red, and I constantly feel a burning sensation in my chest—almost like I'm having heart problems.

I don't even know how to fully describe how I feel, but I’m deeply depressed. Please, I need help.

Please see a doctor. The best approach to your sleeplessness is to find the underlying cause.
I pray you get help real quick

bazoodo:
pay a business consultant and let him or her give you proper advice. Not coming online looking for free advice

You never can tell, I might read an advice that works perfectly from here. Nairaland is a pool of different personalities

May their love last a lifetime.

Please I am asking for a friend
How do you cope with this situation?
You love someone badly and wants him but this is someone you can never ever have because it's morally wrong .What are the practical steps you can take to kill/ suppress the feeling?

RevenuesBoost:
Yesterday, I spent almost half my Day trying to organize the house and do house chores, after the cleaning exercise, I got so tired 😩

It got me wondering, what if I wasn't a Mum that works from home!?
The cleaning, cooking, washing, taking care of Baby Light and organizing stuffs is very tiring.

Most times my husband will say, "why not use the services of a house help"
I'll jokingly say, "I need a male person not a female and he will immediately disagree to it".
I'll just laugh 😂, shey na me won use my hands carry second wife come give am😄😂



Here are ten(10) jobs Stay-at-home Mums can do:

1. Social Media Management

2. Data Entry Clerk

3. Blogger

4. Tutor

5. Transcriptionist

6. Freelance writer

7. Virtual Assistant

8. Graphic Designing

9. Online survey

10. Web Designer

Nice piece. Where can one source these online jobs? Any link?

This is so sad.

Reminds me of my primary school classmate. He lives with his Aunty close to my house while the rest if his family (dad, mom and 4 siblings) live somewhere else.
One faithful day, his family went to bed and all died before morning...food poisoning.
Till date, I feel terrible when I remember him.
Nnanyelu, wherever you are today, I'm sure that God has not forsaken you.

Macphenson:
Igbo men with doings, we dey show workings

Not all. I can tell you that from experience

Tjra:
No let your brothers see this

Nothing dey happen

Kobicove:
Some staff get coconut head, they can frustrate you to the extent that you will loose your temper

Real men are in control of their temper, they don't loose it

OlaOfLagos:
Personally things l’d look out for in a woman to make her qualify to be a wife material.

• A woman who isn’t a toxic feminist
• Loyalty and honesty. These two go a long way in making you a quality wife
• A good cook, neat, smart (someone who can think outside the box) and also respectful
• A woman who is not selfish but supportive
• A woman who can represent you.
• Finally, (A multitasker) someone who can effectively perform multiple tasks or responsibilities simultaneously. They are able to switch between different activities and manage their time efficiently to complete all tasks.

Now where is the woman

Look no further....I am here

I only read of such men from books and watch them in Nollywood movies.

Abeg where can I see this kind of a man?

He is what the Bible calls Destiny Helper

illicit:
I just like ibo girls

Awwww! We love you too

When you think you have seen it all
The husband's brother should have stood in for him naa

Ok. I don hear.
But how come tall people are always rich?
All the rich men on my street are all tall.
The probability that a tall man will be rich is very high..

Factcheck0001:
Good evening everyone, hope you are good? I just saw a video online and it brought back good memories.

I can't help but smile and appreciate God for everything, the man in the video was asking car owners the first song they played when they bought their car.

There were many answers and I remember mine that i play "Don't matter by Akon" and I can't believe I smiled throughout the duration of play.

So my question to y'all, which song was the first song you played when you bought your car?

Na turn by turn. E never reach my turn but when I eventually buy ( I will certainly buy it) I will play THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT THIS GOD THAT MAKES ME TO LOVE HIM

No wonder there was heavy security yesterday on Lekki - Epe expressway. Thankfully, there was no traffic congestion.
Tinubu well done, we are Oliver Twist, we want some more.
Barika de Sallah to the good Muslims on Nairaland

Great100000:
Source: https://leadership.ng/10-nollywood-youtube-millionaires-making-waves/

This list is not complete without our fine boi MAURICE SAM. I like him

Interesting15:
Wisdom For Destiny Daily Devotional *(1st June, 2025)*

by *Sunday Akanni*

TOPIC: Why Was King David Called A Man After God's Own Heart?

Acts 13:22 NKJV
[22] And when He had removed him, He raised up for them David as king, to whom also He gave testimony and said, ‘I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after My own heart, who will do all My will.’

*Message*

As Christians today, we have a lot to learn from the man David, a common sherpherd who rose to become Israel's greatest king.

In the Bible, God repeatedly refers to David as a man after His own Heart. We are going to see some of the things he did that earned him that honourable divine title, alongside how Christians today can become brothers and sisters after God's own heart, too. I pray God opens our understanding. Amen.

1. First of all, David won God's heart by keeping God's commandments 1 Kings 14: 8. David was a lover of God's law and he made God's law his close companion. When the children of Israel were yet to enter the promised land; years before David was born; God knew the children of Israel would demand for a king someday, and He gave them certain principles for kingship (Deuteronomy 17:14-20).

One of the principles is that: 'it (the book of the law) shall be with him (the king), and he shall read it all the days of his life, that he may learn to fear the LORD his God and be careful to observe all the words of this law and these statutes.' vs 19. This was something that contributed to David's success as a king, as well as his relationship with God.

As Christians today, we must realise that for us to have a special place in God's heart, we must be committed to obeying God's commandments. You need to keep His instructions passionately, both the ones in scripture and those He tells you individually. Imitating King David's footsteps, you need to be a lover of God's word (the Bible). Study the bible regularly, ask the Holy Spirit to help you understand and live by it, and you will reside perpetually in God's heart.

2. David followed God wholeheartedly. David put God's will above his own will. He was always interested in the things of God (he even said he prefered to be in the house of God than any other place). He is always interested in knowing God's will before he takes any step (reference: 1 Samuel 30).

To win God's heart, you need to give God your all (put your will under God's will). Anything God wants is what you want; anything God doesn't want you don't want it. It means, if you have an interest in pursuing a career, and God said,'I don't like this', you need to drop it. If you don't have interest in something and God said,'I want you to go after this', you need to go after it. That is what David did that made him a man after God's heart

3. David feared God. When Saul sinned against God, God removed him afterwards. When David sinned against God, God embraced him afterwards. Why? Because David acknowledged his sins due to the fear of God in him, and he sought repentance. David feared God and ruled with the fear of God- which pleased God.

To be a Christian after God's own heart, inculcate the fear of God and let the fear of God shape the way you think, act, and behave. Then, God can boast of you to satan that 'This is one of my children whom I so much love'.

God bless you all.


*Prayers*

Father in the Name of Jesus, I'm committed to pleasing You all through this new month. Amen

*Further Reading*

I Samuel 13:14 NKJV
[14] But now your kingdom shall not continue. The Lord has sought for Himself a man after His own heart, and the Lord has commanded him to be commander over His people, because you have not kept what the Lord commanded you.”

Do you also notice that any sin he committed, he never repeated the same sin again? It could also be the reason why God called him the man after his heart

Evolutionism:
Lol I thought as much🤣

Thanks my day was fine. Yes the rain reach my side ooo and everywhere is cool and calm.

How was your day and I hope the rain reach your side too?

My day was great. It rained cat and dog here today.

Evolutionism:
Hehehe lol😂

Never seen you come out hard like this. Seems you have a strong detest for the guy🤣

That Black Dirty Armpit really got me🤣

Hahahaha. I dey para that morning when I saw the post. It's a case of transferred aggression.
I don't have any issue against VDM.

How was your day? This rain reach your side?

papiilo:
your email or your WhatsApp number

Send me email. My account here is linked to my mail

columbus007:
one day that guy fit buy house from you oo😁

Abi oo
This life is unpredictable

columbus007:
papilo we know say one day you go make us proud. 😁

For where
This one na confam fake papilo.

papiilo:
I know the way

Show me

Cleanthes:
I am tired of living in uncertainty and lack, I want to start living in prosperity and abundance. I am 29 years old but very poor and struggling, my net worth is 7k despite the fact that I am not lazy.
I do a lots of hard labours to survive but I always don't have money. All my money is for food and data, if I spend two days without working I starve. I am tired of this life style. It hurts me seeing my mates/friends living in abundance, eating and drinking what they want, buying nice clothes and going out with beautiful girls, while I always work hard, eat and sleep. I can't afford any good life.
All my friends I grew up with are doing better than me, it got me thinking that I am under a,spell or what? Or my village people are after me, why all my efforts are in vain? For 29 years on earth I still have nothing and feed myself with difficulty.

I want to change my life. Maybe I am following a,wrong path or maybe there is something that I dont know about money.
I create this thread, to seek for ideas and solutions about my situation, truly I want to enjoy life before I kpai, and to enjoy life I need to be successful with money.
Anybody that has an idea that will change my life and make money flow to my side please share with me for that I truly need it. I am tired of toiling inside a blazing sun everyday and earn a meagre amount that won't solve my issues. I want to start earning smart for that I realized its how people get rich not by working hard, hard works give waist pain and backache.
My DM is open

If you finally see the way abeg show me. I want hammer too.

Rubbish!
Who exactly is this one influencing?
This man is a nuisance, cornrows, tattoos, jewelries, black dirty arm pit,.....tueh

Chilipepper:
Awka lady finds out her husband was once mentally unstable and lived on the streets for 2 years — now she wants out of the marriage.

Growing up, I knew someone that was mad for 2 years after which he became so rich. He is married today with kids. It was called ARA OGWU EGO

[quote author=Racoon post=135542852][/quote]The most handsome of them all is my pick