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Give to God the very first money you will spend this year.

It may not be to any church, it could just be to anyone around you that needs it today.

Cos, our Holy Book tells us that...........

The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

Now, this is a good way to start your year,
At least that was the way ALL of us @MANNABBQGRlLLS started our year.

This is gonna be the best year of your life.......so far! 🙏 🤲 🕍 🕌 ⛪️

I and my household did exactly that with no regrets

Well done Op.
Same with me, I went to my Father's house. Poured out my gratitude to Him for life and everything He blessed me with in 2024.

Sang and danced.

Then I prayed, casting all my burdens to Him.

By 12 am we shouted Happy New Year and embraced one another.

Greater 2025 I pray for us

Nnamdipapa:
Hahahahha! Don't pour sand in my garri na. 😁😁😁😁😁

Aka gum
Have you entered 2025 now?

Explorece:
Just pick the one you have passion for and that will be fine.. wishing you Best of luck 🤞

Honestly, I'm clueless when it comes to online skill. Do you mind suggesting any for me?
Kindly note that
1. I'm a woman
2. I'm currently employed
3. Not so rich to pay for very expensive online courses
4. My weekends are free except Sunday morning

Know God and serve Him more.

I have a HP laptop that I haven't been using maximally, I will learn an online skill( I don't really know the one that can fetch me BIG money as a woman)

I will build my social circle with some great women that have made progress in their various fields ( I almost turned an introvert in 2024)

I will be more intentional about my family, build a stronger family bond.

I will take care of MYSELF. I care a lot about others and most times neglect my own needs..

So help me God 🙏

Nnamdipapa:
OP, send me urgent 2k. Let me send my account

Why are you like this?
Op that has been awake waiting for give away should send you urgent 2k?
Repent, Nnamdipapa repent. This is a new year

Gerrard59:
These are the issues. We cannot complain about the lack of virgin, then close eyes to sexual molestation of teenage girls.

The tale was a terrible one. The man is a disgraceful person! No wonder many young ladies don't mind being single. I cannot blame them. Three infections within the last eight months?

Well said sir. You nailed it.
Happy New Year

Table can turn around suddenly for someone when he/she least expects it.

TechBaron:
1. Trust no one!

2. Hustle hard, hustle smart.

3. Nobody gets rich working for salary.

4. That risk that you're afraid of taking, can bring your breakthrough - Take it!

5. Earn, invest, then spend.. Not the other way round..

6. You could be that person to start your lineage's generational wealth.

7. Get rich or die trying!

Na me you give this blow directly.
2025, I will focus more on my side hustle

cn401:
As in.. I don't know how a full grown man will sit down and be making up stories. Tufia

The thing taya me oo.
I was hoping to see "copied" but the guy man was claiming the story is his

Sapasenator:
Calm down, I think I can still get her to come to her senses. We loved each other once.

Oga calm down. This your fictional story has nothing to do with you personally.
I have read similar story before

Sirchiboy:
Because no female on nairaland.
We either have men masquerading as women or

Really
No dearie. I'm a female

Goodmarlian:
Omo its just too bad how person wan save money like this?

I bought rice 3 portions = 900
Beans 1 portion =300
One meat 200
lacasera =300
Total = 1700

This evening
Bread = 650
Beans =400
One meat=200
Pepsi =500

I did data for Nairaland =600

Total = 4k

Omo Naija don spoil finish ajee,now how does the common man survive?

It's well. It's just only you oo,
Imagine people with kids what some of them are going through.
But why should you drink Lacasera in the morning and Pepsi in the evening. It's not healthy?

Sirchiboy:
Are you a male or female?

Female, why did you ask?

Sirchiboy:
No wonderwhat

No wonder some comments here are so childish

WetSmoke:
Nairaland men are so delusional. They go about ripping girls open and wanting to marry a virgin in the end. Virgin from where again? Dreamers.

There are still few sensible ones here but most are delusional as you rightly said

bukatyne:
Abi, let's leave the innocent girl out of her father's madness.

Exactly. His sin should befall him and him alone

Trophy12:
my brother no mind the idiot may such happen to his daughter in Jesus name .

I was tempted to say Amen but on second thought the daughter is innocent.
The doom should befall him directly not his daughter.

Where are the team "if your wife is not a virgin?
This innocent girls has lost her virginity in the most cruel way by a useless he goat.

He will definitely face the full wrath of the law .


And my fellow mothers, please be careful. A lot of sick men are out there to destroy your babies.

What will my young daughter be doing outside in the night?

Shameless people everywhere.
You rip her open at age 13.
You will still come to a forum like Nairaland to be shouting "if your wife is not a virgin.......bla bla bla.

May that useless man rot in jail.

Kudos to the DJ

Hmmm!
No wonder

My heart bleeds reading this kind of story.
May the little girl get justice.
May Ebuka and Jessica face the full wrath of the law.
Why is the world full of wickedness?

Just be a fine lady, get small sense, be neat, have good dress sense and be industrious, you go dey hear this kain talk on regular basis.
Me sef don taya

Nnamdipapa:
Patience is never a virtue and we were deceived. You have to rush your goals on life in other to achieve them.

That's my name and I hate the name with passion. When I'm ready to do change of name, I will yank it off

Nnamdipapa:
You are a lady and can never see things from the perspective of a man. You have to listen to him and understand him. The biggest mistake a woman will make in marriage is to think and assume to understand the thoughts process of the man.
Yes, I drink occasionally and once in a while take recreational weed(It is legal in my country)

That's all, I don't womanize, I don't party and keep friends. I was all for my family. I clean and cook for the family occasionally. I made sure everyone in my family had dual citizenship but I realize I get nothing for all my efforts as the sole provider of the family. Every year I pay for vacation for my wife and kids to different parts of the world, this year, wife and daughter were in the UK and Florida for vacation. She drives an almost brand new SUV without working.
I am not a bad man and not asking for too much. Now, I have just one side chick on the side who treats me like a king. I am still better than King David and Solomon in the Bible.

By the way, why are you up this ungodly hour, shouldn't you be sleeping?

Na man you be.....Odogwu 1 of Nnewi
A good man takes care of his family.


Couldn't sleep, so I was watching a movie and occasionally coming to Nairaland.

Nnamdipapa:
[b]Do you know why the life expectancies of men are lower? Men die first because of stress. [/b]If I tell you what I passed through in life to make others happy, you will open your mouth.

Sometimes, a man deserves a little happiness in this life.

Not just stress my dear, sometimes what you people download in your system all in the name of flexing is scary....the beer, gin, hot, whisky, weed, meth, loud, skunk ...the list is endless.

As for a man deserving happiness, all the happiness he needs is at home waiting for him.

Nnamdipapa:
My dear, I believe the young lad
should learn to mind his bidness.

It is between is ma and pa and the biggest mistake is to tell to the mother.

Once in a while, the dad has to enjoy himself and God knows what he is enduring at home.

I wasn't disappointed at all
Because men are polygamous in nature right?
Do you have an idea what some women endure at home too but won't cheat because we took a vow?

Nnamdipapa come in here.
What do you have to say sir?