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Kimoni..... I take God beg u.... E don do.....

tpia6:
Face your issues and leave nl out of it.


Wetin concern others nah?

and why are u commenting on the thread. E dey pain you that you're one of the hypocrites

why are u ranting. If it does not concern you, why are you here?

I opened the thread for advice.... Not for arrogant, "i am always right", stone hearted sheepopotamus to be wagging their long opelenge mouths about like cow tail.

If u have no sensible advice to offer, if u dont know what to do, let me tell...

Unfollow the thread, delete your comments and waka...

Shioor....!!...

all these guys with their "holy pass" attitude

a guy who i know to be a serial womanizer called me aside and asked y i let my uncle come to my place with d gal.... Imagine....!!...

the same guys condemming my uncle were the same guys hailing him when he was with d gal on saturday and sunday.

And dats how some guys hia are too.... Forming holy pass.... As if they dont shack diff gals or "lend" out their one room apartment to friends

Kimoni: you're right about holding him responsible.

As for whether i knew d gal is an olosho or not.... Olosho is not written on all women's forehead.... Plus he told me she's his "wife".... U kno wat "wife" means in naija parlance...

Whats if the thief is a guy and not a gal? What will you say? I gave them a room in d house fully knowing he's a ga¥?

People just like to find fault anyhow...

Well, as suggested, am not discussing about my efforts to recover d lappy anymore.

Let me state categorically that i neither support nor disapprove jungle justice.

We all know that crime.... Whether it is stealing, armed robbery, r@pe, murder.... Are all bad and if caught, one will be severelly dealth with.

If someone knows the consequences of stealing and still goes ahead to steal..... Whatever happens to the person..... Whether he/she is handed over to the police, jailed, beaten, stripped or paraded...... is his/her own wahala.

pickabeau1:
see e-lynching by the ladies of NL


oweniwe do what u have to do and get your laptop and dont come online to discuss

WHen u have it, let us know you have it.. simple


this girl is a criminal and lashed out of wickedness punishing an innocent party when she did not perform her service?

even if u have the money,wasting the money on this chic is not an option

I wonder why the issue is nowto make fun of the guy for not having 30k

Does 1 Naira grow on trees

my dear.... Its pathetic.... Rather than condemming d gal, it is me that they are abusing....

They dont even see anything wrong with d gal stealing the laptop and asking for 30k.... They're hailing her for "smart. "

the same people saying the man who was caught for rape should have been well beaten and have his balls hanged on this thread on d front page www.nairaland.com/1970643/man-beaten-molesting-oau-ife-student ... Are the same people screaming blue murder that am advocating jungle justice.

If male armed robbers are beaten and Stripped, it serves them right, they should be castrated, balls cut off, he should be hanged with his prieck..........

If its female armed robbers that are stripped, na jungle justice, the people are primitive, they're peverts, africa is backward, bla bla bla.

Someone doing a project had his laptop stolen by a gal..... They blame and abuse the person who is doing his bits to help..... And praise the thief.

Thats nigerians for you.

And thats why i stopped commenting on the thread.

Thanks very much for your support. I do appreciate

EfemenaXY:
I really think you need to calm down before you do something you might regret.

N30k in the grand scheme of things is nothing. Not by a long shot.

i know dear.... Dis is akin to a rat longing to eat cheese.... There're many ways to kill the rat using the cheese as bait...

Abi how do police arrest kidnappers?

tpia6:
what will certainly not happen tomorrow is me giving an aunt's thesis which i pretended i was helping her work on, as well as my friend's laptop, to some random stranger picked up for a booty call?

sounds like you just want to block your so called aunt from turning in her thesis.

does being nice entail spilling all your secrets or privacy knowingly to strangers you pick up on the street?

like i said, ask your aunt for the money if she has it. After all, she's the one who asked you for help, not so?

for ur info, i had already finished the thesis and mailed it to her at 11.40pm on sunday.

Also, i didnt pick her from anywia..... If ur elder bro or sis called u and asked u to accomondate a friend,.... Would u say to ur aunt/uncle.... "nooo, i cannot accomondate ur friend cos ur friend is a stranger to me?"

is "thief" written on people'e head? This's not d first time people will stay in d house. People coming for events stay hia and nothing happened. This is the first time since d house was completed 2011 that something would be stolen dia. Can u recognize a thief by lookin @ d person?

Its not a crime to help/accomondate strangers.... Especially someone referred to u by a relation. Is it?

tpia6: experience is d best teacher.... No one knows what will happen tomorrow.... If i had been unfriendly to her or i had refused her stay, they will say am a bad person.... I showed her hospitality and yet she still "do me evil"....

Someone came to u for help, u help d person... At d end of the day, d person stole ur property..... Would it be right to blame u for being a nice person?

tpia6:
Since you intentionally gave out laptop knowing fully well your aunts phd thesis related work was on it, then gave the same laptop to the girl your uncle brought home, i'd say you all know what you're doing.

Ask your aunt or friend for the money so they can at least have the laptop back but with the thesis in the hands of lord knows who .

Nice set up and lots of planning but btw this was on that brendan fraser movie from the 80s, the one with the madonna song.

am sure u know what betrayal of trust means. She clearly had intention to steal.... She got d chance wen i went to d bathroom to ease, picked d laptop and bolted away. Not that i gave it to her.

Efemenaxy; uncle is very much involved... U need to see how red his eyes are. We're exploring another angle. Its no longer somthin dat can b handled quietly... D gals greed will be used against her.

Three7Ty9: dont mind dat useless goat called kandiikane

EfemenaXY
she say she's not in warri.... She's in ozoro. See her text "Cum ozoro wit d 30k or 4get it nd if u try do anytin stupid u ar finished.d guyz ar nt an ordinary guys."

fish brain.... Even if she's in sambisa, she will meet her waterloo.

Pls advise me o. Should i tell my friend about it now or not? Its very hard for me to tell him.

EfemenaXY:
If push comes to shove, can you prove that the laptop is your friend's? Can you prove that it doesn't belong to her? Most importantly, can you prove that she stole it?

This is why it's very important for you to go to your nearest police station and make a statement to that effect, by reporting the theft of this laptop. Do that at Asaba. Then tell them you want to go Warri and ask them how to proceed with the matter over there, even if it will require you filing another report against her. The important thing is that you have some sort of proof, so that if you do manage to trace her, you'll be able to let the people she surrounds herself with know that you've come to collect what she stole from you, so that they don't lynch you incase she decides to shout "Ole" on your head.

But bros, you've got to do your sums sha. T-fare from Asaba to Warri, + police "handshake"... all those ones nor go pass the 30K so? And how d'you know that she wouldn't have deleted yours and your aunt's stuff on it by the time you get to her - assuming you're even able to trace her?

i havent told my friend about it.... Its very hard for me.... He can prove the ownership....

E go pass 30k o. E go pass am....

She sent a text to my uncle that "he invited her to my place instead of his place... Is a disgrace to her... is it because she refused to let him sleep with her, thats why he left early and and leave her stranded......."

so they were lovers and not pr@ostitute as some silly posters here are ranting.

He said his friends know her place. So she's traceable....

The main reason why i dont want to involve the police is cos if i do, it will become a family matter.... His fiancee will hear,.. I nor wan dat kind wahala...
Beta settle it quietly.

It was late to take off today ... So hopefully, it'll be settled tomorro. Wil keep u posted.

Other yeye posters..... I dont have anything to say to u all other than... "it is the same people you meet on ur way up that you will meet when you are coming down."

kandiikane:
Negro, shattap! How can you raise 35k when you can't even raise money to go report the incident to the police. Stop talking shyt mehn.

At least I watch po.rn rather than
contemplating on how to set up a thief
so i can finger her

you are very very maadd......!!..

Ilovenigeria:
Which uncle?
Don't mind op, he carry ashawo go his uncle house,as him do finish him no pay, the ashawo carry his uncle laptop runaway thats why op dey sweat for nairaland.

u are very stoopid.

Even if i were the one who "carried" the pr@stitute, , i would have known the kind of person she is and watch her every move?

My uncle said she's a galfriend...... If he had told me she's a pr@stitute, it wouldnt have happened.

Why would i carry a pr@stitute to my uncle's house? U know Nigerian culture, for me to do that.... For a younger one to pick a pr@stitute and sleep with her in older uncle's house..... I hop u can see how stoopid ur statement is now.

EfemenaXY.... Long time....

He's not married..... The aunt doing ph.d is her late 50s o..... She nor get hand for d mata.

As for being careless.... U kno as delta peeps dey do.... A galfriend is called "wife".... When i asked him who she is to him, he said she is his "wife"... Thats why i tried to make her stay as comfortable as i could..... And it never crossed my mind she could do what she did cos she seems nice too.

I went to the bathroom to ease up when she absconded.... So how was i careless? Should i have locked her in the house?

One can be careful, ok.... But for one to be too careful always, thats not possible.

i wonder why u are all assuming that she's a pr@stitute...... Or he didnt pay her

what if he actually paid her (if she's a prostitute) and she still stole the laptop

or its a blind date..... They were just meeting for he first time.....

Even people in distant relationship ...... It could have happened anyhow.

Even she were his galfriend.

Three7Ty9: nor mind am.

Odilafta: am trying not to think about that.... Just concentrating on getting the laptop back.

kandiikane:
he wants to set her up so he can insert a finger in her va.gina since he didn't get the chance to after being all nice and warm to her.

corrupt......!!

Stop watching porrn. Too much porrn shrinks the brain.

No wonder you have been talking radarada

smh... Some people....

In real life, 1+1 is not always equal to 2.

I could raise 35k and head to warri... But if something else come up.... I have to be careful.

Lets see what happens by 5p.m

freecocoa, she doesnt live in my are.

Am in asaba, she's in warri..... You kno how far ikeja is from abeokuta? Or onitsha from enugu? That's d distance am talking about.

Assuming she lives in my area, ok....!!..

freecocoa: have you been to a police
station before?

Am sure most of the folks advicing
police have never stood before a typical Nigerian Police force station counter. I should take her to the polce? You think its as easy as grabbing her hand and dragging her to a police station?

SMH

Nigerians's mentality is the problem
with the country. We encourage and
celebrate bad things instead of good If a fraudster dupe someone, we hail
the fraudster for being smart/encourage him to enjoy his loot and abuse the victim by calling him "maga".

Pathetic people, pathetic country

kandiikane:
Why are you arguing na. You yourself wrote that you were broke. Are you denying being broke?

ok... Let me educate you, everyone have different levels..... For some, if they go below 1m, they're broke...... For some, if they have less than 100k cash at hand, they're broke...... For some, anything less than 50k.....

For me right now, i dont have 30k to settle a thief who stole something from me. Its wrong. That doesnt mean i dont have 25k or 20k.... Plus i have to go all d way to warri? Do you know how far warri is from asaba?

U gerrit?

kandiikane:
Lol what the hell? You said you were broke or were you drunk when you opened this thread?

stop drinking

even if i said so..... ?

You talk as if money grow on trees.... I should go and pluck 30,000 from the backyard.

Is 30k what you use to buy tissue paper?

Do you kno how much the police will ask for to get the laptop back if i go report the theft?

Dont let make me insult you pls

kandiikane:
if you understand it what stops you from doing it? Get your laptop and stop justifying jungle justice.

@crackhaus, he doesn't need to write it down clearly for one to know his mind. He cannot afford police, he understands why jungle justice is done, he is broke, he is going to set her up, he talks of how policemen easily have sex with criminals meaning police station is definitely out of the question even if he had the money then. Is he just going to collect the laptop and walk away? Abeg joor! Broke people will be the first to want to insert a finger in her va.gina in the pretense of wanting to shame her.

kandiikane, i've lost my respect for you.

I am now a "broke guy" cos i dont have 30k cash at hand to settle someone who stole a laptop i borrowed to do a project?

And i have to go all d way to warri from asaba to get it back? What if i go with the money and something else comes up?

And u still have the guts to call me broke?

Pls Stop commenting on my thread.

Thank you.

beeevan.....!!...

Its not just a laptop.

Its belongs to a friend.... Lotta important docs inside.

Women eh..... See hypocrisy. If the thief were a guy, i know what they will be saying..... But cos na gal.... Make i leave am.

The world has turned upside down

kandiikane:
Have you met any woman that has phucked her way out?

Abeg are you a Nigerian?

Sexy and shapely babe for that matter. all she need to do is just to wink at the DPO or quietly tell him she willing to do "anything" for him.

the DPO might even go extra lenght and throw me into jail after tasting her honey pot.

BTW.... I dont have any intention of stripping or rap£ her. I only said i now understand why some aggrieved guys do it.

I just need d laptop back .... Nothing more..... Anything else is between her and my uncle.

kandiikane & breadplanets:

you two are women nau.... Its ok for a woman to hit and slap guys.... But if the guy retaliate..... He's an animal.

Its ok for gals to ask men for money..... But if a guy to ask a gal for N100, he's a broke ass nigger... As if all gals a millionaire.

If it were my laptop, ok.... But the laptop belongs to a friend. Wetin i go tell am?

So because she's a gal, i should just collect the laptop she stole back (i pray i get it back o) and walk away?

Do you know what it takes to involve police in nigeria? like crackhaus said, she could just Bleep her way out..... I dont want anything to do with police biko. That will involve the whole family, my friend's family too.... Aha... I nor wan wahala abegi.......!!...

breadplanets:
So because one girl kidnaped your laptop u now dont see anything wrong with girls being rap ed abi. May God have mercy on you.

U see, there are sometimes when you cant just help feeling bitter. Its not my laptop... It belongs to a friend.... My aunt's revised ph.d project is inside... I dont know if she has a deadline to meet....

If you were in my shoes, u borrowed a laptop from a friend to do a project.... Ur bro brought a gal home..... The gal stole the laptop.... If you think extremely of the gal, i wont blame you.

I just need that laptop back....!!..

My uncle can do whatever he likes with her. Its not my business.

cupidora: is their anything perculair about warri gals? What if she's calabar, bini, of fulani?

What difference does it make?

A thief who has made up his or her mind to steal something will do it. Its not a matter of where d person comes from.

^^ am sure u are not ok

I got a call fro my aunt to help with her with her ph.d project so i went to pick a friend's laptop, bought fuel for gen..... To cut long story short i finished midnight and intended to return the laptop this morning.

On saturday, an uncle brought a gal home.... They took a room... The gal seems nice so i warmed up to her... If she wanted to use the laptop to watch film, i let her have it when i'm tired out.

My uncle went out early this morning leaving the gal behind... I was still asleep at the time... It was d gal that woke me up... Say she's hungry and want to go buy something to eat. She told me she wanted to check something on the laptop and i should unlock it for her.... I was tired from last night work... Still in bed, i unlocked the laptop and went to the bathroom.

When i came out, the gal was no longer in my room. I went upstairs to check her but alas, everywhere is empty.... She has quietly packed her things and left.... With my friend's laptop.

I went to see my uncle.... He called her... The gal is asking for 30,000 before she will release the laptop... My uncle say she came from warri so we dont know her place.

I can't involve police cos am broke.... I havent told my friend about it yet..... How can i explain this to him?

Now i undrestand the reason why some gals are stripped n.ude and rap£d by aggrieved guys...

I just need the laptop back and neither me nor my uncle have 30k presently. Am thinking of setting her up...

But i dont want to do something i will regret later.

Kanyol:
At times, google doesn't provide all the information u need about a particular thing. U for no go school na...just sit down for house dey google questions and answers

there is something called keyword sir

Arch1:
Are you okay at all?
Why should a local Government to fix an inter-state road?

Going by the system of government we operate in Nigeria, the construction/maintainance/repair of inter-state roads is an item on the exclusive list which contians duties of the federal governments

so if a drainage gets blocked at abule egba, it is the duty of the fed govt to come all the way from abuja to clear the drainage?

If a drainage gets blocked somewhere in rumukoro (P.H), Enherhen (warri), ukwoji (awka), lafenwa (abeokuta) and water floods the federal roads there, it is the duty of the fed govt to go clear the drainage?

The senator, house of rep, state assembly rep, local govt chairman, all those environmental task forces... What is their job? To sit down and be eating and drinking their allocations?

Even you, what are your civc duties and obligations as a citizen of Nigeria? If the power substation tranformer cable in your area is vandalized, it is the duty of the fed govt to replace it? Na the fed govt vandalize the cable?

The fed govt builds a road... If a small pothole opens on the road, the fed govt should come all the way from abuja to cover it.... Is it the federal govt that is using that road?

"Who" is the federal govt? Is the federal govt one person? Are there not other roads and infrastructures that are in critical need of attention all over the country? Na one blocked drainage make fed govt come dey mobilize to clear.... If some people throw refuse into and block a canal when lawma comes around every two days to collect refuse, is it the duty of the fed govt to clear the canal??

There are lots of irresponsible people in this country. If a goat poo poo in front of your house, the fed govt should come and clear it.

Am sorry, i think you need to see a doctor.