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Runnerzz:
U even sound feminine 😏
Anyway she ain't urs... Isn't it obvious? U are just the side nigga now. Quit and stop crying and begging her with gifts. U lost. Move tha fvck on already

I stopped buying her stuffs already... I only did that once sef
Giving her the space is what had been in my mind I just wanted to be sure if I'm making the right decision

donbachi:
End it.
Before she go turn you to alhaji bringi-bringi

I only bought her stuff just once after we had issues and when I noticed it doesn't even change anything. I stopped
I'm thinking of giving her the space I just wanted to be sure I'm in the right direction

Hi guy, so about 3 months ago I met this lady we got talking and enter relationship. She was all sweet and lovely until we had misunderstanding and I yelled at her (WhatsApp chats) tbvh I was at fault maybe I should've been more patient with her but i verbally abused her... I apologized over and over again although she accepted my apologies but it's been over a month now and she's never thesame sweet girl I used to know she's been salty and cold since then.
In desperation to bring back the good old times I bought her gifts and stuffs but nothing changed.
Every time I talked about us how to make us go back to the way we used to but she'll emotionally blackmail me, she's been very very manipulative since then, she doesn't even call, doesn't text
I felt like I'm loosing my self esteem and masculinity trying to get us back.
Everytime I apologize again she'll tag me insecured, obsessive and pretender and say all sorts of manipulative statements.
PS: this is the first time we ever had issues in our relationship
So I'm thinking about just giving her space, and focus on more important things I need to regain my pride and ego pls advise me

Hi Nairalanders I am civil servant but I've taken deep interest in switching career to Tech (cybersecurity) I had started taking lessons few weeks back after completing Python
I want to ask is this career really lucrative in Nigeria and what's the average pay in Nigeria
Is it better to stay back in Nigeria and work remotely or I should relocate after abroad after getting my certificate
Am just curious

Hi Nairalanders I am civil servant but I've taken deep interest in switching career to Tech (cybersecurity) I had started taking lessons few weeks back after completing Python
I want to ask is this career really lucrative in Nigeria and what's the average pay in Nigeria
Is it better to stay back in Nigeria and work remotely or I should relocate after abroad after getting my certificate
Am just curious

2elliot:
Lol. Friend zone things. She loves the way your company makes her feel good. But you are not good for her enough to smash that coochie. Don't allow a girl define what you two should be. Unless you chose to start a platonic relationship, don't allow a girl to decide one for you if your intention was an intimate one. Guy, leave that bitch. She will only drain your energy. Next you will see is another guy with her.

Thank you. Ending up in a friendzone is even more difficult. Tbh
I really loved her and I was thinking of stopping the attention sef and move on.

Ballzproblem2:
The way men easily profess love is appalling,this why they chop breakfast left and right ,guard your

Love doesn't have manual.

Connected1:
E don reach marriage now now now.
🤣
Una no go kill person for this Nairaland.

I date for a purpose. The purpose of this whole thing is to marry if the dating went well

Autobot05:
If she's cool as you claimed Be friends with her ... it's even better that way if a relationship comes up

Just don't engage your emotions 🙃

What if I get friendzoned in the process

fineboynl:
Stil the attention. You will begin to get sense thereafter. Trust me. The more you are putting forward the more you will start irritating her.

How do u mean bro.
U mean I should still the attention?

Bobchucky:
Friend zone her n move on like nothing happened
If she dred u na she go follow u up or give u green-light so u go on her again

Be like this Is the way to go

Kobicove:
You want to marry her?

Someone you barely even know

Wtf bruh!
Did u miss the part where I said we got closed?
After all do y'all go to the street to pick a random girl without getting to know her first?

anthonyuncle:
tilt the attention to the girl working with her, and you will see her

How bro

Hi Nairalanders, so I met this girl. Cool headed, homely, quiet and barely goes out.
She's a lab intern in the hospital I work. We go closed I approached her for a relationship she said she's not ready for a relationship since about 3 weeks now. But I noticed we talk and vibe a lot. If she misses my calls she'd call back when she sees it but she insists on not getting into relationship for now. Should I stop reaching out to her or just keep the friendship or kept asking her out? Am afraid of been friendzoned if I kept being friends with her. Please what's your advice I really want to marry this girl.

I disagree with this. Even the comments on thesame gsmarena says otherwise. Most users prefer the 4xl

DjAndroid:
But phones are almost the same. But the S 10plus is a little better.


https://www.gsmarena.com/compare.php3?idPhone1=9535&idPhone2=9895

Am a big fan of the pixel 4xl though thanks �

Ex0rrcist:
Pixel 4xl has 90hz screen, which is a big difference. The screen color accuracy is also better on the pixel. Go for the pixel s10 plus is outdated, you'll also enjoy the face unlock on the 4xl. I would personally recommend the s20 fe 5g, it's the best in the price category (170k below), better camera, latest software, only if you insist on QHD screen.

How much are you willing to sell? Am interested

marv97:
I've personally used both phones previously. My recommendation without doubt goes to the Pixel 4XL. Performance is nearly identical on both but in terms of camera the Pixel has the upper hand and I personally like Pixel UI over One UI.

Currently want to sell my Pixel 6 Pro by December to get the new 7 Pro, just in case anyone is interested

They are very similar thou
Thanks

Taofiq2005:
Both phones uses the same processor. The differences is that pixel 4xl offers night mode photography while the s10 plus does not, better picture quality (which rivals the iphone 11 pro max) than the s10 plus, does not have ultrawide camera while s10 plus have it. The s10 plus was released on february/march 2019 with android 9 one ui 1 and can be updated to android 12 one ui 4, while the pixel 4xl was released on august 2019 with android 10 and can be updated to android 13. The Pixel 4xl is a better choice.

Thanks boss. I will reach out

Athina1982:
call 08037111012 he is a security operative he should be able to track the jiji man and recover ur money from him

Hi guys am about upgrading my samsung note 9 but am stucked between pixel 4xl and s10 plus
I'm in love with Google pixel camera software cus am a photo freak and its a deal breaker for me and as well I love to do some gaming especially CoDM
Am aware of the strong processor snapdragon 865 in Samsung S10 plus which means great performance. But a confused which I should better for camera performance, software and overall processor ability especially for gaming and display

IDENNAA:
You are correct. Obi Cubana does not worth more than 20 billion naira.

Are u okay? Obi Cubana according to Forbes worth is about $500m

HeavenlyBang:
A C300 for 8.5m almost definitely doesn't have duty paid. Even if it does, I would never recommend a C300. Crappy engine.

An ML for 7.5m is fine if it's in absolute tip-top shape.

C300 engine is a crappy engine?
But the ML 350 2013 is Nigerian used and In great condition I have Mercedes expert checked it and they said its fine

Billiebaba:
More wins in advance boss, I'll advice you go for the ML350, it's a V6 engine that is reliable, I've not seen this engine fail in my experience as a tech.
C300 uses an inline 4 turbocharged, which was somewhat a disaster. The engine is a renowned faliure.

So the ML is more reliable right? Thanks

Guys am about to get my first car I saw a good price foreign used C300 2016 for 8.5 and ML 350 2013 for Nigerian used for 7.5m
Which do you guys advice based on the maintenance culture, performance and the condition of the Nigerian road.
I love the interior of the c300 thou ��

Asianjollof007:
Nigerians ain't getting wise, i wonder how someone would pay such amount for phone you won't inspect and scrutinize yourself before paying. Physical stores sef dey scam person if you no smart talk less of online transaction, you fvccked up bro

You forgot the part I said I sent a dispatch to inspect and check before paying?

SirbobbyDgreat:
Same thing happened to me also very long story but I got the bastard sha still collect extra cash join

How did u run it bro? Please give me update

Scamupdates:
jesus this one woste pass clone drop his details that you have let fish him out

I only have his phone number and the number is still going up till last week.

MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Also, if you have the money, go get a police report and head to Mtn office or any network that he is using, they can help you pick him up.
It depends on the gravity of the crime sha, they did it to a guy around my hood.. His network providers together with the police tracked him down, busted the hell outta him right inside his apartment.

That's why yahoo guys always damage their sim cards after fraud, so the only location you will look for them, is the one they filled while registering the sim, which is likely to be false.

This is a worthy option but wouldn't this be expensive?

MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Yes nah.. Only if he added the number to his profile when setting it..
Also if he is tech_wise, he can disable Facebook search to find his number, there is an option for that.

I will try and do that thanks

MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Nawa oo.. Check if he's on Facebook or other social media, and track him.. Use a female picture as in form of hookup and nab him. That's if only he's number is registered on Facebook.

Can I use his number to find him on facebook?

Sometimes around February this year I striked a deal with a Jiji seller (ikeja lagos) for iPhone 12 for 260k fairly used.. He sent me pictures and I was convinced to go ahead I sent a dispatch rider who I knew so well the money to pay him upon meeting point and told the dispatch rider to check and inspect the item very well before paying cash. On getting there I think the dispatch rider was in a hurry cus he has many deliveries to do thereby couldn't check all thats necessary. The seller ended delivering a cloned gabbaged dead iPhone 11 pro max when the item gets to my hand. I was so upset at the dispatcher for his ineptitudes and the Jiji scammer that defrauded me I tried reaching the Jiji guy he didn't pick, he later blocked me on call and whatsapp.
Please guys is there a Way I can get a hold of him and get my money back