soccerlite:


Ibadan jobs are 25k, 30k, 40k

Nawa O

Na serious matter o. I guess it's one of the reasons many of the employers are not proud to even publicize their own job oppurtunities.

ogashman:
This is deep...do u mind sharing what happened?

Yeah it is really deep.

It was inspired by a true life story. And it is the story of a man whose wife reached her limit in their darkest moments and chose to romance with another thereby becoming a thorn to the man. When he needed her encouragement the most, she became his most vicious critic, always complaining about his inadequacies and boldly alluded to finding solace in the arm of another man. The man tried to forgive and he believed he has. But now that things are good and he is pressed to commit some sensitive responsibilities to the wife, he realized he can't just bring himself to trust her. He would rather, commit to his mother(but for old age) than commit to the wife because she has proven her worth and it is disheartening.

I can relate with his pain.

Day169:
See how adversity can make one discover gems of talent hidden in the mind, all the while.
.. beautifully tragic!

😃😃😃😃

Adversity remains the true revealer of potentials and that is infact one of the points of the poet.
In the third stanza, the poet talks about how the wife choose to stab him in their darkest moments or moment of adversity. Which reveals the true nature of her love all the while.

ChybuzzDD:


A man shouldn't be lamenting over woman's lack of love or attention, unless he's abjectly poor.

There are more important and intriguing things to focus on as a man

You are right.

Regardless, it's no crime for a man to pour out his emotions, not moving on is the crime. Some heal by expressing their pains while most men die early because of bottled up emotions.

Even as a man, a man is still a man and human.

*Urgently needed for immediate employment*

PLEASE READ TO THE END

1. Hotel Supervisor #40k (Agbowo, Ibadan)

2. Office Assistant #30k (Bodija, Ibadan)

3. Fashion stylist 40k Yemetu, Ibadan

4. Laundry boy 25k | night shift only (Agbowo, Ibadan)

5. Office Secretary #30k (Yemetu, Ibadan)

6. Marketer, Eye Clinic #50k (Ring Road)

7. Marketer, Pharmacy and Healthcare Services 50k female only (Eleyele and Ring Road, Ibadan)

8. Full time Pharmacist 150k (Mokola, Ringroad, Eleyele and sasa, Ibadan)

9. Pharmarcist Technician 40k - 60k (Ringroad and Eleyele, Ibadan)

10. Professional Hairstylist (Akobo) Accommodation available

11. Eye lash and microbalding technician (Akobo) Accomodation available

12. Business Development Executive (Female preferred) 80/100k
Must be a graduate and have client management skills. (Aare, Bodija)

13. Nail Technician (Akobo) Accommodation available

14. Driver 100k (Lekki, Lagos)

15. Laundry collection staff 25k (Ashi)

16. Cashier 25k (Leadcity University)

17. Store keeper OND Accountancy 40/50k (Leadcity University)

18. Massue for the spa (Sango, Ibadan)

19. Pedicurist (Sango, Ibadan)

20. Stylist that can do frontal perfectly (Sango, Ibadan)

Candidates must be willing to resume immediately.

Chat with Dapo on 08026698109
Send only WhatsApp chat only (❌No calls please)
Indicate the exact position you are interested in.

Please note that T&C applies

Job title: Farm Officer

Method of Application

Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: jobszilt at gmail dot com using the Job Title as the subject of the email.

Job Type: Full-time

Pay: ₦80,000.00 - ₦100,000.00 per month

Source: Glassdoor

I am not pleased that many employers of labour in Ibadan rarely post Vacancy opportunities online.
Why?
Well, I can point to a number of reasons but that is not the goal of this thread.

If you are an employer or an agent or a worker in an organization that has vacancy, kindly do well to post available vacancies under this thread. But, only for jobs available in Ibadan.

Job seekers can also share their experiences here with job givers.

In the shadows of betrayal's sting,
My heart's lament begins to sing.
A tale of love, once bright and true,
Now tainted by a love askew.

Forgiveness sought, but hard to find,
As memories haunt my troubled mind.
The vows we spoke, now torn apart,
A dagger plunged into my heart.

For better or for worse we swore,
Yet love's fidelity she chose to ignore.
In darkest hour, when I needed her most,
She turned away, a ghostly ghost.

The pain runs deep, like rivers wide,
A constant ache, no place to hide.
Will time's gentle touch ever erase,
The scars of betrayal, the lines on my face?

I long for peace, for solace's embrace,
To heal the wounds, to find my grace.
But until that day, I'll carry the weight,
Of love betrayed, of trust, too late.

It is no more news that marriages have lows and high time and several events take place that makes couples feel so much pressure and feel choked in marriage. And of course, the usual line of action is to find 'solace' in some available shoulders.

However, gone are the days when these available shoulders understand boundaries and even though they may be 'providing succour' to the wife or husband, they still at least understand certain boundaries. For instance, for no reason will I keep a married woman on the phone at night(especially anything from 8.30pm) when she is under her husband's roof no matter how close we are. It is a brocode law for me.

But how come these days, you will find another married man, engaging another married woman under the roof of her husband on calls deep into the hours of the night?

Here is my thought, if a woman were to be having issues with her husband(aside from physical attack o) and she calls me at night when she should be on bed with the husband ,is it not reasonable for me to encourage the woman to put efforts into resolving the issue rather than cowardly running into my arms for solace at least for that night by simply postponing our calls till day time?


Or even if there were to be no issues, does it not look odd to be deeply engaged in cozzy calls with a married fellow in the deep of the night?

I am just wondering if I am overthinking this or perhaps it is just that people don't care anymore about these things?

There is no new experience in any marriage. You are only experiencing your Ina different way and at a different time.

Your biggest mistake will be to die in silence.

And it is a capital error to seek solace or advise from a single, an ex or a suitor if your intention is truly to make your marriage work.

How true is the saying that no third party should be allowed in a marriage? Is the saying figurative or literary? And how genuinely practical is it?

I have noticed that nobody cares about the wellbeing of married people but they are always quick to make fun of their woes when they err.

Most married persons are lonely just like myself. And for many they are just dying silently because they wouldn't want to be stigmatized while for others they result to secret affairs. it doesn't necessarily have to be that way.

There is no great marriage without its lows and to be candid, love alone is not enough in a marriage because human wants are insatiable.

Over familiarity and see finish coupled with lack of wisdom and understanding in ones spouse causes many couples to drift apart and Sometimes we just want to feel that spark; that ingenuity of love; we just want to feel naughty and not be judged. But where that is impossible with your spouse, only a genuine friend can feel some of those voids.

I have so many things to write but let me just nip it here.

I am looking for an intelligent and highly conversational chatmate, preferably someone who is also married. No hookups, just purely chatmates.

If you are interested, DM me.

meanwhile, this is also a thread strictly for married fellows who are looking for a conversational buddy. if you decide to take it beyond being chatmates, you are in your own o.

adventurer2018:
I'm a gentleman in his twenties, of Yoruba descent.

I'm an introvert, writer, resourceful individual, and a chat freak.
The last one year of my life had been all about myself, work, family and freelance projects, and I discovered I'm now very bored of the same routine.

I'm searching for a chat mate who might be from anywhere, but who surely love to interract with person of another world.

I will prefer someone in Ibadan or Southwest but I'm most interested in someone who love to have genuine conversation and that we can work on quite a number of projects together. Any interested person can send me a DM.

PS: I think a little bit about might tell you more about my type of person. I have great flair for writing and reading, love to talk about life and career majorly, love to be organized, love nature, and a virgo.

Is this open to same gender too?

amSTARboy:


Low cost of maintenance
Durable
Easy to fix

If you want to buy a Nigerian used vehicle, go to the North. It’s usually well maintained. Just do your due diligence and ensure the papers are genuine

Where in the north? Do you have a plug there?

Hardeywhumy:
Our weaners at pork.nwingsfarm are very affordable
It's ranges from 35k upward
Because we serves the best
And only deals with exotic breeds

Thank you. At least now, I know what to budget for.

tocin44:
I am planning to start a small poultry behind my house and would appreciate suggestions from people with experience here on the best breeds to go with.

What I'm looking for;

1. Easy to care for and not requiring too much attention.

2. Breed that is resilient.

3. Breed that can possibly produce small amounts of eggs for family consumption.

4. Can be fed with anything, leftovers, basically not requiring spending much on feed, even if I'll have to.

5. Can grow to a reasonable size for consumption (at least bigger than our regular local breeds)

Suggestions please.
Hoping I and others can learn from the experienced nairalanders. Thank you. 🙏 🙂

Then your answer is noiler or chickerite dual.

Can you just help us with the price of these things so that some of us won't waste precious credit wasting your time. Is that possible?

To effectively answer this, we need to first streamline the main areas that will be affected. And without doubt, TRANSPORTATION will be the first sector to take the hit, thereafter a chain reaction across all sector including the oppurtunistic nature of Nigerians.

One major venture that I believe will help anyone become rich as a result of d fuel subsidy removal, is urban farming. Or maybe I should say backyard farming in the cities. However, this must be well managed.

Transporting food from the rural areas will certainly influence d cost of buying them but with systemised backyard farmers in the cities who may not need to transport their produce before sales, the oppurtunity seems huge.

I am a very young driver of just 13years + and recently I encountered a supposed professional (who I would rather call a confused person) whose driving ethics leaves me wondering if we can really have such in Nigeria.

Pls understand that I am not in anyway disputing what is proper or that should be properly done. I am only saying that within the context of Nigerian road users, can we really apply these rules heartily?

For instance, as a driver can you afford to stay dogmatically behind another unpredictable road user, without violating lane maintenance? Without switching from lane to lane as often as may be required? Can you attempt to close gaps with other vehicles in traffic without some elements of craze? Inshort, can you drive as a normal person and achieve the results of a guerilla driver?

Maybe there is something I am missing...pls tutor me.

Meanwhile, here is my own view. It is important to understand road management and adhere strictly to traffic laws as a professional driver but here in Nigeria, balancing these knowledge with responding effectively to other unpredictable road users is more important.

What do you think?

No contact... can't send u a mail today again

Jimisenior:
I really don't know how to use this website but inbox me so we can talk

Wow, I am just seeing this. I have sent you a mail.

I need a shared apartment or just one room space around Oshodi/Iyana isolo/cele. Just a place to lay my head. Kindly dm if you have any lead.

seglabsy:
dried one available

Pls how much is the dried one or how do you sell it?

AutoManual:
I went to driving school today and meant with the guys there. I told them I want to learn manual. Even when some of them was telling me manual is fading out that majority of people are preferring to learn auto and they said some people who learn manual also came back to learn auto.

My reason was that if I can learn manual I can learn automatic, because I have heard that from people, I choose 5 days learning and they said 30minus & 1 hour has different prices, but I choose the 5 days 30 minutes, although I bargain the price. I filled the form and the driving session started.

Few minutes that we started I already giving up, I feel like not learning again. My concentration was not even there it was tidius to remember all this I need to do. Because I was forgetting all the things the guy told me before we started.

Here are my problem.
1. Understanding the pendel. Little press the car if jecking. When I applied brake it stop sudden and the vehicle will off abruptly.
2. Losing focus and what to do when I'm tens specially when I am approaching junction or a big car.
3. I am more concerned with the cars at my back or around me because I was moving slowly. The guy keep telling me to forget about them and focus on my side. Is document I filled said I will be the one to pay for damages incurred during the session.
3, knowing how and when to change the gear. I haven't mastered it and I feel it's too hard with the calculations. When I was filling the form there was some disclaimer on the document that I will be held responsible for any damages. I also learnt that the break is sometimes press. It was then I understand that the guy can press the brake from his own side of the car. Although I didn't tell him but I know.

Handling the wheel. To make a turn accurately on the road or control the wheel is really off.

Look like driving is really hard with manual


I was saving and planing to buy a Nigeria use car and I was focusing on manual because I heard people saying it easy to maintain but right now with the look of things I don't think I can buy manual again oh.

The two things I thought today while on the wheel is to buy auto and a small car.

Tomorrow I will go there again to learn and keep this thread updated.

The only person I can blame here is your instructor... He shouldn't have burgled you with too much info.

English teachers are not included

Communication is key in marriage. You and your spouse should be very comfortable to talk and talk about your sexual needs and fantasies. Whatever your conclusions or agreement is what is acceptable.

I do not mind the backlash, so, I tell this, no matter how good you are in bed before marriage, when you marry and as you grow in that marriage, the reality of sex changes. It is inevitable!

This is why I pity d sexually active gen z generation. Many of them will have difficulties keeping potential homes together.
I do not curse, it is what I have seen but I hope the divine intervenes.

Parents in Nigeria, especially those who have kids in Primary and Secondary schools, for how long will you continue to deceive yourselves that your children are 'angels'?!

It is time we faced the reality and protect the innocence of these beautiful souls by sex educating them ourselves.

Better don't wait for any leader to do something about that neither should you expect school managements to be thorough...fight for and protect your kids by equipping them yourself.

You already know how devious the world works, these young chaps don't know. They still live in fantasies.

Please don't leave your children vulnerable to other children from very toxic homes where anything goes.

Train them, teach them to know the difference and to be resistance of peer influence. Never underestimate the power of peer pressure because even many adults still fall victim.

Sex educate your children and present yourself accommodating enough so that they can share their curiousities with you.

I hope you will consider this in good conscience.

Gracias.

Not an expert in this field but it makes sense

It is one thing to seek opportunity
It is another to be opportuned
...
Don't sleep

kunle1004:
I used a Kia cerato bought brand new in 2014. It was a 1.6L engine and the fuel economy was great. Used the car for only 3 years though as it was only ok for intra city runs. The 1st time I took it from Lagos to Ibadan, almost had an accident while trying to overtake a trailer as it refused to gain speed when I floored the throttle. Just revved loudly as if the gear was in neutral and I had to humbly fall back behind the trailer to avoid an oncoming truck. Decided to just use it for office runs within Lagos and stuck with my older 2011 Jetta for my Ibadan trips. In 2017, i noticed the steering started vibrating seriously when braking. Apparently the steering rack was the cause and at the time replacing it was going to cost 350k. That was the final straw for me so sold it while making a silent promise never to buy a Kia until I get assurances their cars have improved. Still waiting…

Wow. This is so eye opening.
Thank you for your submission.

I have been doing some research on Kia vehicles and I realized from several threads on this platform that there are no recent reviews on the product.

Therefore, if you currently use or have used a Kia product, kindly help in dropping a review that could help somebody. While doing that, kindly indicate the model and year you have had experience with.

Is Kia still a substandard vehicle?
How about its fuel consumption?
Are the spare parts now easily available?
Cost of maintenance.

Thank you.