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m6tem:
Thomas this is no nollywood story, it happened

Alright then that means the girl and all her boys are confused and lack sense of direction.

m6tem:
Hello I would like to post this on behalf of a friend she needs help making the right decision here.

She has 3 guys in her life
Boyfriend A - Her ex from a 6 years+ relationship which she still clearly have feelings for, we call him Frank
Boyfriend B - A guy she meet 4 months ago we call him John
Boyfriend C - A friend from her school days who has been chasing her, we call him Uche

She broke up with Frank after 6 years of dating him because he beats her up if they have disagreement and 3 months later she meet John and they started dating and her ex (Frank) keeps coming around trying to get her back but she made it clear she's dating John and the ex should leave her alone. 3 months into her relationship with John she had sex with John for the first time and two days later went back to her ex (Frank) and had sex with him too. Fast forward 14-20 days later she forged a pregnancy test result that she was pregnant, then she told her ex-Frank, Frank denied it said it is not his, that he gave her Postinor after they had sex that it is John's she should go and sort things with John.

She came to John's place did the test and it was positive, John denied it (knowing fully that she had sex with her ex same week they had sex), claiming that he didn't cum inside when they had sex but he's willing to stick around and take care of her till she gives birth and if the baby is his, he will take full responsibility else she should go and look for the owner.

At John's place she contacted Uche her friend from back then in school and Uche accepted that he'll take responsibility for the baby and tell the family that he is responsible even though Uche was in another state and haven't had sex with her recently.

Now She knows fully well that she doesn't love Uche as much as she loves her ex-Frank or John but he was willing to take responsibility even though the false pregnancy wasn't his. She wished Frank or John took responsibility and not Uche.

Do you think that her false pregnancy test was the right approach to test for true love?
She is asking if she should just say yes to Uche maybe love will follow later?
Who do you think truly loves her?
Guys what do you think is the right thing to do here?

Another talentless nollywood scripts writer on the loose

freesoul12:
Sure,that's their nature.. Girls normally find it difficult to move on ..If you want the girl ..move on.Don't be hard on her..Her ex understand d game. .Just focus on something that can add value. The best way to win girls is by not being emotional. They are attracted to guys with that nature .Up your game

True, am not really emotional cos am a kind of guy that has trained his mind to accept anything at anytime so trust me I moved already though silently.

fairfora:
I disagree with you. I married from a poor home and I hail from a poor background too but the poverty ended in my generation. My wife is as contended as ever. She was even a virgin when I married her at 28.

Am happy for you bro count urself as one of the lucky few......

freesoul12:
lolll dem don do my guy strong thing. Calm down u go dey okay last last. That's normal for a typical naija grl.

Guy I swear I haven't been myself 4 days now.....what pains me more is that when he broke up with her I battled with her for five months to help her overcome it and now what do I get?......

tidalstorm:
You can't do anything now, it will all depend on the girl.
Okafor's law comes to mind here. Expect the worst, hope for the best.

Exactly

Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

Guy am in 100% the same issue as you are and mine is even a three years old relationship and d ex in question is married with kids bt wants to divorce his wife so he is asking her back and promising her same heaven on earth........ See all this guy's I have only one advice for all of you "never date a girl from a poor home because little things move them alot" if you don't have money as a guy pls channel all those energy into making money and when the money is made date a girl from a rich or well to do home pls.....ii never thought I'd be writing this but I have to.....I have learnt the hard way.

They are all confused set of cone heads....u don't need to open a thread.

UnaToto:
Good one.
After voting Buhari, they want enjoy oil money and serene environment.

All hands must be on deck to pursue all of them out of Rivers State.



UnaToto

And out of the entire south..... Let them all move back to thier north..... That's not how southerners cause nuisance in thier north.....every southerner in the North has a legitimate business he/she is doing...... Gandollar and all the Aboki governors pls we are sending back all your nuisance to you pls wait and collect them at your state borders as soon as possible.... Thank you

uwuana:
honestly we are just three tenants occupying the compound and the way she also assisted with some house chores made me to have interest in her.

Guy that idea of dating your neighbors is a no no cos u will automatically have a monitoring spirit and u no go fit bring another girl come house.

uwuana:
Please naira landers, I seriously need advice from you guys. There's this girl I have been trying to date for the past one month,she keeps giving me a No for an answer, though we live in the same compound and she shared so much secret about herself to me,even if other guys asked her out she turned them down, she seems not to hide anything from me and became so close. But I let her know that the feelings am having for her is beyond been just a mere friend. I told her I love her and I can't just pretend to be playing this game of just a friend when others are already seeing it that am the one banging her, I persuaded her so much to me where I stand with her and she promised to give me an answer yesterday been Saturday. So yesterday came and I called her for the answer and she told me her words are final and is a big No. Though I got angry and upset inside me but I didn't let it out, I just told her to go that I won't be getting any closer to her anymore so that I can get her out of my head, she took some time to ask me to explain to her what did I mean by those comments I made, I told her that with or without her I can still live my life and nothing change so I don't need her close to me again and she walked out of my house silently. Three hours later she came knocking on my door when I opened the door it was her with tears on her eyes and she was sweating heavily and she asked me why am I doing that to her and I asked her what? At this point I was confused I don't know what to say again, I just ask her to go that I will get back to her, please that's why I write this article, please I need you guys advice.

Op well giving her the distance was good cos you already told her how you felt and she said no to you at that point there's no need been close to her.....but since she came back with tears in her eyes try and talk things over and see if she's back to say yes to your request. But I will strongly advise you to guard your emotions so she doesn't rob you off it, if she says yes to your request accept her but if she still insist on a NO then I will advise you to move ahead maybe with another girl around your neighborhood. OP u strong sha wanting to date a girl in your compound I can't try that shit.

So just one thing you discovered you don turn am into e-book? Op fear God small na.

Mikano generators just laid off 600 of thier staff.......it's not funny. That's y you need to take that leap and invest in agriculture cos that's the future, even crude oil sef won't have much value in 5 to 10 years time.

Even skeletons too go dey form hard to get, I pity guys dt even make them feel important, that was how I broke my d*ck didn't know it was all bones in there and I attacked with full force.

I feel your pain brother and I must say that it's not easy having a family and not having a job so as to feed your family. I've also been searching for jobs both online or offline but to no avail.

But I want to urge u to never give up one day heaven will pick our call.

La click La bend

Yes u are......

paix:
What do you have to say?

Let the will of the sky man be done, that's all I have got to say.

liverpool72:
wike to win odd :1.01 odd, Bubu to win:35.01

Home win and over 3.5

unscripted:
please just shut up , and make useful comment that we can learn from ..

D idddiot has been banned

My governor 1:0 the dullard

JustPerpetual:
Happy for you

Thanks dear

ChoCho54:
All men have sensitive nipples. Some are just too proud to allow a girl suck it.

That sh*t feels good baby

Guys you people should help me thank God for delivering me from gambling and opening my eyes to a skill I never knew I had (article writing), indeed covid-19 is a blessing in disguise.