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algorithm:
These H*es ain't loyal

at all at all

Was at home... Then went to the market to buy some foodstuffs... Feb. 14th was just like any other normal day to me

Yes... That's their mentality... The "caring" that they are always looking for in a guy, what do you think it means?.

ITbomb:
Virgins think that the greatest favour they are doing the guy is that bloody trap and they forget to learn what sustain a relationship or marriage after the bloody wall have been pulled down.

Simple

khiaa:
Whenever a man is cheating on his wife and the wife finds out, you men always tell her not to end the marriage and to take it to God in prayer. Well I would like to ask you male hypocrites a question. If you found out your wife was cheating on you would you

1. Throw her out of the house or

2. Take it to God in prayer, be honest

Option 2.

sweetbaby22:
lols, you have a good sense of humour. But you have serious insecurities
No matter your situation you are still better than some people.
I can tell you are very passionate just as your name goes.

Mummy's boys --------- Some might find it cute
Broke guy -------------- If you are a graduate or about to round up, you have future prospects
Ugly and short guy --------- Haven't you heard of beauty and the beast . Well beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can go on and on about beauty. Its not all in the outward looks dear, you are even fair and that's a nice complexion as long as you take good care of it. But for a mummy's boy your skin will glow as she will really pamper you . Some might find your shyness romantic, trust me its true.

Everyone needs love and wants to be loved back in return. Do not deprive yourself of it and stay unhappy. Yes, you probably might have been hurt several times. You have to keep trying, its like a filter process. You must meet people, some will break your heart, you also will break someone's heart,nits like a revolving process until you find the right one and settle with.

So don't give up on love. Put aside your insecurities and start acting like the handsome, smart, lovable person you are.

Happy Valentine's day dearie

Girl... You go sabi wash person die o... Jisos, see as your words/writtings been dey inspire me, untill I wan go brush my teeth go look for babe toast... Then my eyes looked at the mirror on the wall... Damn, I even look worse in an unbroken mirror

gmacnoms:
reading dis @ a point, I almost dropped a tear. My gf for 4yrs ( thru university and nysc ) left me october . Says I ain't carin. I loved and wanted to spend d rest of my life wit her. But smwhr along d line, I cldnt meet her immediate emotional, material and so many other needs. Its not been easy copin, but wetin man go do. I so much loved her and she was part of my plans for life. I just dey church here with my saxophone doin some personal rehearsals. I wish u all a flexfull val. I hope someday I'll have d courage and strenght to love again

Becareful brother, since the mid 90's, Nigerian babes has been the same that time, now and I'm afraid it might be forever... These 'hoes' ain't LOYAL

folabayo1:
lol...may God enriches ur pocket

AMEN

vfactor:
I dnt support the notion that a woman's benefit to a man is sex. Cos i knw woman enjoy sex as much as men. In fact, if a man doesnt satisfy a woman, no matter how satisfied the man is, the woman may go outside to satisfy her self. So both enjoy sex, and it is no way a gift frm a woman to a man.

That said, what if she doesnt cook, wash, or clean a man's house. (maybe due to distance, work, etc) i'll like you to tell us what a man benefits from a woman in a relationship? This is question is important for ladies to answer. Cos the more u impact positively on a man's life the more he'll respect you and want to be with you. Any maid can cook, wash, and clean...even guys do dis for themselves. So we need something more tangible, something significant, something motivational.

Simple.. I can cook, wash my cloths, clean my apartment (student lodge), etc. So if a girl does those things for a guy then she should be appreciated and praised?

realdee44:
Its a general advice to all men both married & single but its obvious u couldn't comprehend it.

Why such a statement? And here I was thinking you are different... Can't you just explain it to him, must you be saucy?.

Anybody that says Most Nigerian girls don't offer anything in a relationship is wrong... They offer their bodies as a living sacrifice... Few offer their mouths to suck the "lollipop" till it throws up that white substance and fewer swallows whilr the rest spit it out..

Yet they want a GOD fearing man... Buncha confused entities

smartshadow:
I don't know about everyone on nairaland, I just know things about those I want to know about.

Well I can tell you a thing or two about you though. You created this account because you were really interested in computers and game. You also love to play games a lot
You don't have another nairaland account and you are a huge fan of mortal kombat.

What about I?

ireneony:
Hmmm nice one..
No matter how a lady please a guy, he end up dumping her

You sure?

skywalker888:
Tosyne2much again... Thank God no guy has ever gotten under my skirt

Thank God no girl has "ever" gotten inside my trouser

These girls ain't loyal

folabayo1:
u go stingy o

You funny o... As I read this your post, na so I begin laugh... I no laugh out loud o, more like a chuckle... You try sha... I no stingy, I just broke.. There is a difference

Buy her NOTHING

folabayo1:
The best gift a man can give a woman for val is d latest range rover sport in town nor be all dis essay writings and boring poems

And she will only present toto... Tufiakwa

0rex:
Abeg where Bible talk this one?
+ why are you looking only at the relationships/marriages that didn't work?

Seek and ye shall find

Justfollowit:
What you are saying in essence is that we do not have men who cheat days after their marriages or maltreat their good wives.

What I am saying is that I can't do those things and I don't want someone to do it to me..

Teenage girls between 2 and 4 years old... Teenage na 2?... See big lie

KiidaACE:
ogaa the tongue is powerful oo*or should i say fingers?*
have that in mind before you indirectly lay curse on thyself.

It's not a curse... Honestly with what I see, read and hear daily, I wish never to get married... It's frightening.. Is it not here that we read about that Alamayeisegha son's wife that cheated on him?. Bros, I fear women die... Even the Bible said it sef "the heart of the WOMAN is exceedingly wicked

ireneonyy:
Only bini guys are known to be liars always deceiving ladies.
I will never date a bini/esan guy, other tribe are welcome.
Btw, I have never been deceived.
I know a scam when I see one.

Pls don't conclude not all ladies sleep around e.g me

They always use themselves as a "GOOD" example... But they don't know that we know

ronald4lif:
OP, most of what you wrote are true but our society frowns at women who engages in certain jobs. I think women who are mechanics, bus drivers etc may likely be look down upon and it ll scare potential suitors away. The argument is not if there are women who engages in these jobs you listed but how many are they? I see such argument as baseless really. They are very rare to find and having lived in Lagos I am not sure if I ever saw one myself.

@bolded, can't she (woman) just do something for the joy of it?, must she think about suitors?.

Op, those guys that patronise brothels, they are not "unsuspecting" young men, they what the hell they want and they went for it

Dear future "bae" (wetin bae mean sef?), wherever you are, stay there, don't bother looking for me, I don't want to know you, I don't subscribe to the definition of love that the average Nigerian girl is looking for.. Don't come into my life and mess it up, don't come into my life and twist my mind.. Nigerian girls don't love mommy's boy, I am a mommy's boy, they don't want to date a broke guy, I am broke.. They don't want to date an ugly and short guy, I am both.. You can throw in fair and shy... I pray you stick to the guy that will/might be pounding you on the 14th of Feb. 2015, don't leave him, try to love him and I will fast for you so that he will also return the love you have for him... I will truely 'love' you if you can do these things for me.. Thanks... Passionate88

kallmemrB:
Wow....God please make my wife look this beautiful at 60....

Where my passport?, China, here I cometh