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onomeglo:
Pls am aving dis problem wit people around me,most people thinks am proud and I dnt dink iam cos am a nice gurl, the reasons is dat am a very reserved person nd quite ,I dnt talk anyhow or play wit peole even at home,cos dats my nature,I dnt really knw wat to do becos whereever am going people point at me and even talk to to d extent dat I could hear wat dey ar saying,different names calling like ogbanje,snub,and all dat,plz I needed to correct dis,how can I go abt dat so as to be free frm dem tanks

Donzlt change who you are because of anybody... Yes you are an introvert and you like keeping to yourself, I am also like you... In my lodge at school the girls tag me as a snub and too proud because I don't mingle with them... Whenever my roomie tell me what they say about me, I just smile and keep quiet... Too much familiarities with girls breeds disrespect..

Points 7 8 & 9 are so damn correct

I just don't know what single parent's is still looking for in a Nigerian woman?, they will surely maltreat your kids, if it's a male child, they might probably kill him to make way for theirs to be the first son... If you are a single parent with kid(s), don't remarry a Nigerian girl... Most are just damn heartless

A female friend once told me that she wouldn't like to marry a guy like me, her number 1 reason is that she can't use food as a means of protest when they quarrel

missjenna:
Op nice list.
I agree with you on every point except point 3

A man who is a mama's boy definitely won't be a wife beater.
Because of the closeness towards his mum, he must have already developed respect for her which would subconsciously have created a respect and regard for women in general.

Thank you

3.If he's a mama's boy
He might beat because his mum comes first & he'll see you as trying to break that bond.

LadyX, u no well... Why would someone that truely love his mom beat another woman?, I am a 0ommy's boy and I'll never think of beating a woman, I'd rather send her packing, then if she's remourseful I'll accept her back

bid4rich:
She is 29years old, she has a 3 year old daughter by mistake but madly in love with me and she want us to get married this year. Though she is a good and loving person and I dnt see her giving me problem but im afraid of going into this affair with her.

Please, advise accordingly from the abundant of talent and experience God has given to you cos I dont want problem I cannot see.

Thanks

She had a child by 'mistake?', which kind yeye mistake be that?, say she no know say d guy no use CD or wetin?. Use your head o. Investigate wella, don't just take her word, find out for yourself... Ask her to show you the baby daddy, make enquires, know who it is you are marrying, don't be blinded by 'love'..

nnamdiduruji:
Week32:information reaching me this morning from my london compiler states that brenford vs bounemouth xx12xx is a fixed draw and they key controls 4/4.only 10 serious people willing to appreciate will get this game.opportunity come but once.07039868455

Dead game

Brb

missjenna:
Sorry if I sounded rude. I know guys hate to see any woman that threatens their supremacy.

Once again, accept my apologies

Supremacy over what?

missjenna:
Yes it works for cheap and purposeless ladies
This stuff can't work on me. I am an independent and purpose driven woman. I ride the vehicle of my life. I can never take the back sit.

If I dont want to pick your call,I won't.
Nothing will make me

Praise the LORD!

I don't make friends with girls in my compound... Too much familiarity brings disrespect... When a guy gets closer to girls living in his environment, they tend to disrespect him as time goes on

No matter how old you are, as long as you are financially 'loaded', Nigerian girls are bound to find you 'sexy' #fact

datguru:
ISLAM!



A religion of ATROCITIES

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Redoil:
after ladies and people like you might have taken advantage of men in ur younger days forgeting the world is round and it is now pay back time. What goes arround comes arround.

Chai, you should have given her hope na, tell her how the girls should wait for the right man, how he will come and sweep her off her feet.

chillian:
Why do guys take advantage of advanced ladies especially the desperate ones promising them marriage and after taking advantage of them they dump them. Giving excuses of how rude or arrogant the lady is or better still avoiding her at all cost.I have witnessed two different cases from my friends and I can't help but wonder why men indulge in such wicked practices.

Cos the ladies are really arrogant and wicked... #make hay while the sun shine

lofty900:
of course, step mothers hardly get the desired respect frm their step children and most times they are desperate, that's why they agree to go into marriage believing they can cope. Also couples lie alot and pretend during courtship only to show their real selves after marriage. Long term courtship devoid of deceit will lead to a much better marriage. My 1 cent

I am happy you said "couples" lie a lot and pretend during courtship.. You didn't lay the blame on a single gender... Lady, thou arth blessed

Raymondenyi:
ur response seem too rude and disrespectful for someone looking for friends; Nobody wants to have friends that are not lady-like; and happens to be rude; anyway let's just see dat s a discretionary joke..

I have added u; ...

And she has deactivated her account

nnamdiduruji:
Week32:information reaching me this morning from my london compiler states that brenford vs bounemouth xx12xx is a fixed draw and they key controls 4/4.only 10 serious people willing to appreciate will get this game.opportunity come but once.07039868455

hmmmm

GboyegaD:
This is a luxurious bus and not some trailer you know. No company and sane passengers will ever allow that as that means ay least 2 people per seat.

You have probably never travelled with a luxurious bus before... Some people do "attachment"

Where my name?

Hmmmm

lordthree:
a girl that watches football matches = wifey material

Better one o... Thrown in the one that play Playstation too

safarigirl:
far from it, this is not my personal philosophy, so don't get it twisted.

Whenever I post, I do so solely from feelers. Of course, with everything in life, there are exceptions so not every female lives by these rules, just a majority.

Personally, I've never been one to prioritize wealth in any relationship, sure it's something we wouldd all like as an incentive, but I've always insisted that something like trust, intellect and attraction should be more important than things like money and yes, love.

A lot of people may not like this write-up or agree with it, but if you took a survey, more women would get with the rich guy who isn't emotionally attached than the not-so-rich guy who is.

That is the sad fact of our world at present

@bolded, what about you?