realdee44:
Amseriously begging for marriage am not dating any of them thou but what keep bodering me is what were these men doing all this while Men! Men!! Men!!! Ehammmm

Blackett:


Making money.

realdee44:
Not money at all from our conversation 2 already graduated & got good jobs at the age of 27 & 28 other 3 got their job in their early 30s it is only one that got his job late.

Blackett:
Hmm. Choices I guess. And maybe they have also been disappointed before. I have a 39 year old friend that's single today because his wife divorced him when she saw his business crashed at the moment. Now he's worth millions but is very scared of commitment. So whenever he gets over his fear, he'll be begging to get married as well.

It happens.

You should marry for love anyway, and not age.

realdee44:
your friends case is different he has been married this guys am talking about have never been married.

I don't care about their age but am just not attracted to them & an't date or marry someone am not attracted to.

vfactor:
I dnt support the notion that a woman's benefit to a man is sex. Cos i knw woman enjoy sex as much as men. In fact, if a man doesnt satisfy a woman, no matter how satisfied the man is, the woman may go outside to satisfy her self. So both enjoy sex, and it is no way a gift frm a woman to a man.

That said, what if she doesnt cook, wash, or clean a man's house. (maybe due to distance, work, etc) i'll like you to tell us what a man benefits from a woman in a relationship? This is question is important for ladies to answer. Cos the more u impact positively on a man's life the more he'll respect you and want to be with you. Any maid can cook, wash, and clean...even guys do dis for themselves. So we need something more tangible, something significant, something motivational.

Blackett:
Why then did you make it sound as if their age was responsible for your lack of interest?

realdee44:
There are so many things ladies have to offer only if some men will appreciate them. You may not appreciate it but there are other men who will. Besides what do u think men have to offer a lady outside sex? Money am sure. Is that all u have have to offer? If money is all u have to offer a lady as a man then you thinking is very low because is that u wake up to the reality that many ladies 2day are working very hard to make there own money which I am one. If what a man has to offer me as a lady today is just money then he has nothing to offer because am already ok the way I am but if what he has to offer is sincere love, faithfulness & understanding,great future & happy home with lovely kids then he truly has something to offer of which I can also offer him dose things I just mentioned.

So of you men think money is everything. A sincere love & faithfulness alone is better than any amount of money & gift. Just listening to someone problem is even something. Have you not heard of ppl who commit sucide just because they are going through pains & they have no one they really trust to share there problems with.

So I throw the question back to you. What else can u offer a woman outside money. Bear it in mind that outside money anything else a man can offer, a woman can also offer & this days there are women who can also offer her man money.

vfactor:


What u jst did is reverse psychology. I asked u a question, instead of providing the answer, u make an attempt to attack the object, instead of the subject. Throwing the same question back to me. It's a even a falacy. (ad hominem, i guess). The truth is u want my answer, so u can formulate urs.

Aside from money, Men provide protection and support (be it physical, emotional, etc) for women. There are many more. But i choose this one which is more gender specific, so that u can tell all of us here, what you as a working class woman would bring to the table in a relationship, (sex aside).

realdee44:
you mean reading through my last post u couldn't even understand or you just didn't read it. I answered your question perfectly b4 asking you about men. If u didn't get that in my last post then it mean your thinking is very low. If u read all my post in this topic you will find out that I have listed not less that 10 things a lady can offer outside sex but if u still can't get it then the problem is from you & not ladies. Its very obvious that you fall among the kind of men who can't appreciate the effort of ladies & truly don't have anything to say to you so buy & enjoy the rest of your evening am done talking to you.

realdee44:
Its a general advice to all men both married & single but its obvious u couldn't comprehend it.

vfactor:
I dnt support the notion that a woman's benefit to a man is sex. Cos i knw woman enjoy sex as much as men. In fact, if a man doesnt satisfy a woman, no matter how satisfied the man is, the woman may go outside to satisfy her self. So both enjoy sex, and it is no way a gift frm a woman to a man.

That said, what if she doesnt cook, wash, or clean a man's house. (maybe due to distance, work, etc) i'll like you to tell us what a man benefits from a woman in a relationship? This is question is important for ladies to answer. Cos the more u impact positively on a man's life the more he'll respect you and want to be with you. Any maid can cook, wash, and clean...even guys do dis for themselves. So we need something more tangible, something significant, something motivational.

realdee44:
your friends case is different he has been married this guys am talking about have never been married.

I don't care about their age but am just not attracted to them & an't date or marry someone am not attracted to.

ngozianu:


you go soon reach 35yrs as you are still selecting .....Go to banks and see big babes of 35 to 45yrs unmarried who where selecting who to marry.

Once a lady reaches 25yrs and she is not married it becomes issue of prayers and fastings...

realdee44:
Am posting this because of a post I saw that Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer her man beside sex.

That is a very wrong statement we ladies are lovely, caring & very tender. We love easily & sincerely.

Men its time you learn that a lady should be appreciated no matter how little what she may have done for u. If a lady should cook for u & help u in keeping your home clean plz appreciate her, if a lady washes your clothes & put water in the bathroom for u to take ur bath its something plz appreciate her & if she buys u a gift no matter how little it is plz appreciate her. If you have something to do but you don't have the chance to do it u can call her and say plz babe help me to do so & so & she will be glad to help.

Now, I don't no who gave you Nigerian men the stupid idea that when a lady dose all that for you its because she is desperate this is one very stupid idea that u men must erase from ur head & mind. Not all ladies who do all that are desperate so many of us do it because we sinerely love & care for our men.

You men should learn to appreciate us ladies. For those men who see ladies as being desperate & that there are lots of ladies all over, just wait until u are 45 & still single as I type this now I have 6 different men of 38 & 42 seriously begging for marriage am not dating any of them thou but what keep bodering me is what were these men doing all this while.Men! Men!! Men!!! Ehammmm

realdee44:
Am posting this because of a post I saw that Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer her man beside sex.

That is a very wrong statement we ladies are lovely, caring & very tender. We love easily & sincerely.

Men its time you learn that a lady should be appreciated no matter how little what she may have done for u. If a lady should cook for u & help u in keeping your home clean plz appreciate her, if a lady washes your clothes & put water in the bathroom for u to take ur bath its something plz appreciate her & if she buys u a gift no matter how little it is plz appreciate her. If you have something to do but you don't have the chance to do it u can call her and say plz babe help me to do so & so & she will be glad to help.

Now, I don't no who gave you Nigerian men the stupid idea that when a lady dose all that for you its because she is desperate this is one very stupid idea that u men must erase from ur head & mind. Not all ladies who do all that are desperate so many of us do it because we sinerely love & care for our men.

You men should learn to appreciate us ladies. For those men who see ladies as being desperate & that there are lots of ladies all over, just wait until u are 45 & still single as I type this now I have 6 different men of 38 & 42 seriously begging for marriage am not dating any of them thou but what keep bodering me is what were these men doing all this while.Men! Men!! Men!!! Ehammmm

realdee44:
what is wrong with u, mind your words & I send back your words to you. Are u saying I should get married to someone am not attracted to just because I want to get married.

Are you now telling me that u are attracted to all the ladies you see. U better mind yourself oh.

diamondcrownltd:

You are already overripe for marriage by seeing your picture

diamondcrownltd:

You are already overripe for marriage by seeing your picture

realdee44:
what is wrong with u, mind your words & I send back your words to you. Are u saying I should get married to someone am not attracted to just because I want to get married.

Are you now telling me that u are attracted to all the ladies you see. U better mind yourself oh.

Olami90:


Ur response speaks volume abt who u are for real. Can't u make points intelligently? U av demonstrated dis saucy nd mayweather attitude to not less dan 3 members here. I av a very strong blief dat u are a cronic hypocrite, a wolf in sheep clothing whom is yet to get wot she wanted. I only feel for d myopic man dat wunt see d traces in u.

Guys, na so most of dem b(alwys smart to cover who dey are by being all over u). U av to b on ur toes nd b sensitive.

Dis lady is "F" material I swear.