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Family / Re: What Is The Common Regret People Have As They Get Older? by Patiks: 12:05pm On Oct 08, 2023
Zonefree:
As a young man coming up, don't waste your youthful age loving a Nigerian girl or even try to force her to love you. They are not created to LOVE.

Quite sad that you were raised by a sadistic opportunist mother who didn't love anyone in your family because she and all your female folks were not created to love.

But bros, that's not an information to share on a public forum because there are lots of people here who were raised by loving and dedicated females

On behalf of them and myself, accept our sympathy. It definitely sucks to be a product of such homes

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Nairaland / General / Re: It's My Birthday. I'm 41. by Patiks: 9:29pm On Jul 31, 2023
Seun:
It's been a pleasure serving all of you since 2005!

Belated Happy Birthday 🎂🎉 🎁🎈Seun.

More wins, sir.

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Religion / Re: Which Of These Temptations Is Hard For You To Resist? by Patiks: 11:36am On Jul 31, 2023
frankblinkz:
I want to ask again,how many people will make this heaven.
I have never in my life since I was born,seen a righteous man, keeps to God's commandments 100%.


Many thing's no clear ooo

Anybody who wants you to keep the commandments 100% or even 80% is a hypocrite and a baby Christian.

In my opinion, Christianity is not about keeping the commandments, but about accepting that you are weak, imperfect, etc. then believing and confessing your sins to God and accepting His forgiveness and help.

The help here is that you are going to be mindful of the things that displease God and always ask for His strength to keep you from sinning. Even after this, we still fall several times, but we keep going back to confess and accept His grace and strength all over again.

Proverbs 24:16-For a righteous man falls seven times and rises again, but the wicked are overthrown by calamity.


Certainly, one day, you will realize that your frequency of falling has greatly reduced, because you are being transformed as you continue to read (gaze at the Word of God) the Bible, and also fellowshipping with the Loving and Forgiving One through prayers, praise/worship, etc.

If you think these are my opinions, checkout these scriptures:


Ecclesiastes 7:20 - Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins.

Romans 2:1-4 - Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things. We know that the judgment of God rightly falls on those who practice such things. Do you suppose, O man—you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself—that you will escape the judgment of God? Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance.


Rom 12:2- Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect

2 Cor 3:18-So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image.

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Religion / Re: Which Of These Temptations Is Hard For You To Resist? by Patiks: 11:35am On Jul 31, 2023
Romance / Re: Why Many Young Nigerians Are Not In Relationships by Patiks: 10:46pm On Jul 22, 2023
Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

I hope you realize that you just said you are the offspring of a who're for a mother as well as a relative of very lazy and useless who'res for sisters and other females in your family.

Just because the females in your family are the epitome of poverty and whoredom does not make a whole nation to be so.

Receive sense and stop disgracing your lineage up and down.
Politics / Re: Nigeria: Is This The Hell They Are Talking About? by Patiks: 1:30pm On Jul 15, 2023
Benny90:
Emeka if Nigeria tire you, go to Cameroon stop moaning.

Telling him to run to Cameroon means you believe Cameroon is much better than your country.

You should also know that any country that it's citizens have to run from is not a good one. So, you should be ashamed!

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Patiks: 9:12pm On Jun 21, 2023
talented321:
Fish brain, you can go to court if my write up is disturbing your peace, because i canot be replying an irrelevant being like you.

Demented, self-delusional, half baked fools like you are social menace; and once in a blue moon, someone should be courageous enough to tell them!

Please, feel free to report me to the mods.

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Patiks: 9:09pm On Jun 21, 2023
[quote author=slawomir post=123941967]Damnnn niggar

Isoright

Like I will always say

Before I marry any woman I must ensure my mom and her live together for nine months in a rented apartment
Totally different from my own apartment

If they can cope together

Then boom I wll go ahead and do the marriage thing [/quote

Abeg, where una dey get all these una two for 1j women dey marry? No wonder, people when don ment full Nairaland.

So, a well bred, well to do, God-fearing lady will live with your mother in a rented apartment just to marry an insecure, self delusional broke ass?

Una don ment for this zoo. Abeg, time to quit Nairaland before I Jon una de kolo too.

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Patiks: 9:00pm On Jun 21, 2023
talented321:
Madam belike the 'stranger' aspect come pain you, he gats to pain you. As far as i am concern you a stranger and why we are giving your gender side benefit sef is because of the children. You that will pack your things one night and run away when it went sour. You are a stranger.

Dude, grow up or leave mature topics for mature minds.

Did anyone come to your house with a gun, to drag you to marry her? So, your Moma who was once a STRANGER to your father has now become relevant to you?

Your poor and childish reasoning makes one think that your mother did a very poor job of raising a son. I pity the woman that will end up with your type.

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Patiks: 8:54pm On Jun 21, 2023
Mindlog:


Then stick to your mama and don't go entangle yourself with "one stranger".

The guy's post shocked me too. No wonder we have countless divorces today.

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Patiks: 8:52pm On Jun 21, 2023
talented321:
If i never had problem with her parents why will she have problem with my parents.
Beside if my mother is the one worrying her, then my wife has to tell me because i know how to handle the issue, the one reason she will have the guts to retaliate back is when i am not playing my role as a husband to maintain peace. I don't think any woman born by a woman will stress my own mother in my own house, mama comes first not one stranger.

When your wife is a STRANGER to you, you're a gonner!

This is serious! Look at the kind of human beings calling themselves married or aspiring to be married.

God abeg, may my generations never end up with these confused beings as life partners. AMEN!

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Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed To Protect My Mum From Depression. by Patiks: 10:18pm On Jun 09, 2023
Fuckingmallam45:



Avoid cliches, please. Telling someone in the depth of despair that “everything happens for a reason” or “it will pass” isn’t helpful. Nor will lies like “lots of people care about you”, or “you have lots of friends”.

Ultimately there is nothing to “always” say to someone in depression. Words won’t help.

What you can do is show you care and are there for them, with your actions.

Visit them, help get the dishes done, help clean the bathroom, take out their garbage, offer to make them a bubble bath. Take them a nice soft blanket to snuggle up in. A new set of pillows can make someone’s whole month. They won’t ask for help, even when they need it. But know that in the depth of a severe depression, doing anything at all takes herculean effort.

Depression causes a lot of physical pain. Helping someone be more comfortable is one of the best things you can do. They don’t have the strength, energy or motivation to clean, tidy or cook a decent meal. Take them for dinner or make them something they like to eat. Don’t ask them how they are. Instead, talk about things that you did, a bird you saw that day, a funny conversation with someone. If they want to talk, they will, but don’t push.

Often just spending time sitting beside someone watching tv can be enough. They may not respond but that kind of gesture means the world. My friends all vanished within a couple of years of me getting sick. Just one person caring enough to keep in touch and come visit even once every week or two would have meant the world. I have one friend who comes by for about 1/2 hour once a year. Even that, I appreciate, because it means I still exist to them.

This is very deep! I learnt a lot. Thanks for sharing this.
Health / Re: How Do I Boost My Immune System? by Patiks: 5:13pm On Apr 23, 2023
Mrwhite09:
AA

AA and malaria fever are like 5 & 6. It may sound like a cliche, but it is also one of the things that messed up my health. I now sleep (by fire by force) under a mosquito treated net. My monthly malaria treatment syndrome has greatly reduced.

Some Nairalanders have also advised you on drawing closer to God. Have a daily Bible reading, meditation and prayers. As the words you read slowly start making meaning to you, it will start changing you spiritually and physically. Take this from someone who has gone through (or possibly worse than ) what you are going through now.

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Health / Re: How Do I Boost My Immune System? by Patiks: 4:43pm On Apr 23, 2023
Please, discuss the possibility of thyroid malfunctioning with your doctor: hyperthyroidism mimic a lot of other health issues. Constant fever is one of them. It could even be an autoimmune disorder.

I have been there. It is one of those life distabilising things. I thought I was cursed. No be say I even get money.

Thank God that I'm better because I'm careful about my diet and environment. Old houses with molds in the wall and ceiling will wreck havoc on your health too.

All the best.

Mrwhite09:
I am living like i dont have a working immune system, i fall sick regularly like every week. last week i was on malaria drugs and antibiotic, i havent finished it then again yesterday i fall sick again nd they inject me with another malaria drug and give me another antibiotic.

i am tired of taking these poisons i feel like they hv started affecting my liver, i am very vulnerable to viruses and bacterias whenever a person cough to my face the following day i will fall sick.

i dont have hiv as i did the test several times all negative, but i suspect i have cancer cux of the presence of a swollen lymph node on my neck. guys im truly tired and depressed i cant hustle normally because of my condition please if you know anything that can boost my immunity tell me. because of my condition i know a lots of antibiotics like cipro,amoxyl,doxycline,clarithromycin,azithromycin e.t.c i dont know why these doctors never get tired of prescribing these drugs to me. i live constanly with a stomach discomfort, fever, flu, colds nd catarh there is no any known ulcer meds that i hvnt take in my life but i am still thesame. its depressing me nd making me suicidal. i dont need money from anyone i just need help from people that went through thesame situation or people that know of a solution.

There was a time someone cough on me i spent complete 2weeks sick.

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Crime / Re: Brother And Sister Banished From Imo Community For Allegedly Committing Incest by Patiks: 8:46pm On Jan 29, 2023
Nolevel666:


Shutup religious bigot

How did your god repopulate the earth after he supposedly destroyed all living things

Why don't you go ye therefore and repopulate the earth with you mom or dad?

Bloody ignoramus claiming woke. Next time you pick the Bible, ask for sense and discernment. Perhaps, you will be intelligent enough to discern that: it is not a literature book; it details the humble beginnings, deeds as well as shortcomings of men.
Food / Re: See The ₦‎1,200 Titus Fish I Bought In Lagos by Patiks: 3:42pm On Nov 21, 2022
Hopez456:
It seems you were ripped off. 1200 ordinarily ought to get you two pieces of fish. i.e #600 per 1.

No way. I was even begging for that of N800 on Saturday. Everybody said N1,000 last last. It wasn't even big sef.
Religion / Re: Does God Answer The Prayers Of Yahoo Boys And Call Girls? by Patiks: 12:07pm On Feb 20, 2022
Akharmony:
God is God. He answers amd he also punishes. . The same lord is rich to all. (Same rain, sun ,moon shines on both the wicked and the good. .)

Please, don't quote God's Word out of context. He does not contradict himself. Because He makes the sun to shine on good and evil or because He is merciful doesn't mean He condones sin.

The Bible clearly has numerous answers to this question:

1Peter 3:12 The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil.”

John 9:31 We know that God doesn’t listen to sinners, but he is ready to hear those who worship him and do his will.

Proverbs 28:9 God detests the prayers of a person who ignores the law.

You can google the rest.

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Religion / Re: Does God Answer The Prayers Of Yahoo Boys And Call Girls? by Patiks: 12:02pm On Feb 20, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Very nice points you put down. But what about victims of yahoo boys who will be counting dier losses later? Aren't these reasons some peeps get angry and dump religion for good?

The Bible clearly has numerous answers to this question:

1Peter 3:12 The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil.”

John 9:31 We know that God doesn’t listen to sinners, but he is ready to hear those who worship him and do his will.

Proverbs 28:9 God detests the prayers of a person who ignores the law.

You can google the rest.

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Travel / Re: Man Thanks God As He Emerges Unhurt From Ghastly Accident by Patiks: 11:43pm On Feb 02, 2022
McGg:
Where was God before the accident occurred.. You were just lucky

Where was luck before the accident occurred?

It is only God. Ask the physicists to explain how this can only be God.
Celebrities / Re: Linda Ikeji Shows Off Jacuzzi, 'My View Is Better Than Anything I Ever Imagined' by Patiks: 11:43am On Apr 05, 2021
Jealousy at it's peak.

How many of the married people in your family are better than her? Besides, you are not God.

Some of you better keep quiet if you have nothing meaningful to contribute.

Anigreat:
shocked





If you like have the whole world, but without a husband, your influence and wealth are useless.

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Crime / Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Patiks: 10:17pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Nobody/nothing is worth ending your life for.

Channel that anger, fear and disappointment into making the bastard pay for his action. You will save another girl from suffering what you are suffering now.

May God heal your heart and protect you from evil souls in Jesus name.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by Patiks: 8:06am On Feb 03, 2021
marychy:
I need a home teacher that is very good in maths and English to teach basic 1 and 5. Location Iyana ipaja, Lagos

I teach English Language.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 12:48pm On Jan 14, 2021
StacyO:



https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

I checked out the thread. Never knew you had addressed the same issue.

If only these boys (or are they men?) know how confused, myopic, hypocritical and foolish they sound when they come up with those sickening generalisations, they will shut up and sit up for real.

I feel really scared knowing such are the majority out there. I am really praying that God gives me a mentally and morally sound man. That's all I ask for.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 12:35pm On Jan 14, 2021
StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.




But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys undecided)

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "wink



What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "wink







Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

I completely agree with you. Most don't know what they want; yet, they keep blaming the ladies for what they are responsible for.

They want to eat their cake and have it. Karma is giving them a dose of their bitter pill.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 10:14pm On Jan 13, 2021
Kaimaonyeana:


Better don't listen to that. Most if not all men love beautiful and flashy ladies but not fake. Too much of everything is bad obviously. Minimal makeup that fits, eyelashes not unecessary long, nice dress for the body type, nice skin all contributes to a woman's beauty and men love it when done in moderation. What every high value man i. e a man with money really wants is a woman is her youth( you must be young) and beauty. This is the reality i'm used to. 95% of the men looking for independent women(it's so funny how independence is known as only financial independence in Nigeria) most times, have nothing really going on for them. This makes them settle for the not-so-beautiful independent woman and when the money eventually comes, they dump their wives for these flashy girls. It happens and it's still happening. So, my dear, invest in looking good, from your skin down to what you wear and u will never have to deal with boys again but men. wink

Makes sense. But why do most Nigerian men complain bitterly when they are asked to support that lifestyle? They even go as far as stereotyping all Nigeian women with all sorts of derogatory names.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 9:26pm On Jan 13, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


I mean if you want to use it as your WhatsApp dp, crop out the wrong mention of Cicero stated on it.

Crystal clear. I was thanking you for the advice.

PS: The question marks were supposed to be the picture of two hands joined together in supplication/thanks.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 8:29pm On Jan 13, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


Crop the erroneous attribution if you are.

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Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 6:13pm On Jan 13, 2021
allandutch:


Loyalty. Trust. Love. Respect.?

Your post here is just too sentimental. You're blaming men for everything because they desire flashy women? You are missing the point.

There's nothing wrong with desiring flashy women. But as a matter of fact, in this country, you will pay for desiring any woman at all, flashy or not. The none-flashy women that you are suggesting as a better alternative, these days, they will make you pay for just asking them out.

I am blaming them for wanting women to be all and all, yet feigning ignorance as to what it takes to keep up the appearances.

I never suggested that 'non-flashy women are better alternatives'. I only stated that if you are bothered by the constant demands of some flashy women, simply go for the ones that won't bother you because they are modest, thrifty and hardworking, (even if this group is also flashy like their leeching counterparts). The keywords are modesty, prudence and hardworking.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 5:59pm On Jan 13, 2021
OGWILLS123:
what is this mugu even saying undecided

Now, I think someone should be flogged for raising such an abusive child like you.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 5:58pm On Jan 13, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


Thank you, glad you liked it. But much as I would love to take the credit, the thought was actually that of the black nationalist; Marcus Garvey (though the picture on my dp wrongly attributed the quote to Cicero, another orator and nationalist I strongly admire.).

Thanks for the lecture. I was going to use it as my Whatsapp dp. wink
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 8:47pm On Jan 12, 2021
@RisenPhoenix1

Your dp is quite motivational.
Romance / Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 8:42pm On Jan 12, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:


Like I said in the second part of my comment, trophy conquests don't seem so trophy like any more; and the jealousy factor that they excite in your fellow man has largely disappeared. Underneath all that paint, fake lashes, fake nails etc, the most local farmer's daughter has as much to offer than any flashy woman. Also, what a woman conceives to be pretty is not the same as what a man conceives to be pretty. Women think fake and flashy is pretty. Men think simple and honest to be pretty. Men only flock around the fake and flashily because the perception is that she's the cheaper lay.

Wow! I really don't know what to say now.

I am learning, I guess.

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