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Moz22:
Pastor?? Lol... She goes to church but I can tell u that she doesn't behave like a Christian and if any pastor pass their boundary, I'm sure the pastor won't ever wanna come in contact ever again As for the respect, trust me when I say she's always right and never wrong in her eyes.. so full of herself and thus respects no one. She only pretends to respect and thats eye service as far as I'm concerned.. however I'll do as you've said

pls for people saying that his children will do same to him, does it mean his mum too hit her own mum too? sometimes we talk out of point seriously. some parents sha, I had a similar experience but mine I left the village without her knowing, the matter tire me, sometimes I hail my dad that he really tried marrying cos me I don't think I can pass through such experience, as for some that think that their mothers are different, I have assignment for u, meet your dad in a private place and sincerely ask him to tell u the truth about your mum, believe me u will be shocked by his reply.

Ahdunns:
una mumu well well o. Wetin the woman do to the guy mentally and psychologically they right? In my opinion, the thing wey the guy do, has created a boundary that should have been in existence ever since. If my father or mother go ever raise hand to me for this life again, after having this kind of childhood also, me personally go change am for them. God in heaven knows that, to maltreat a person just because you gave birth to them is not something he's in support of.

pls for people saying that his children will do same to him, does it mean his mum too hit her own mum too? sometimes we talk out of point seriously. some parents sha, I had a similar experience but mine I left the village without her knowing, the matter tire me, sometimes I hail my dad that he really tried marrying cos me I don't think I can pass through such experience, as for some that think that their mothers are different, I have assignment for u, meet your dad in a private place and sincerely ask him to tell u the truth about your mum, believe me u will be shocked by his reply.

pls for people saying that his children will do same to him, does it mean his mum too hit her own mum too? sometimes we talk out of point seriously. some parents sha, I had a similar experience but mine I left the village without her knowing, the matter tire me, sometimes I hail my dad that he really tried marrying cos me I don't think I can pass through such experience, as for some that think that their mothers are different, I have assignment for u, meet your dad in a private place and sincerely ask him to tell u the truth about your mum, believe me u will be shocked by his reply.

yungzed360:
O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

T3ndrils:
I wanted to ignore but nah

Now I see the reason why men suffer—almost everyone here is attacking the OP for having standards. As in e don reach where e dey certain say guys dey so f,ucking cheap with no boundaries—that's why you lots suffer and to a point you deserve the suffering you get in relationships.

Just cos she wrote she loves him, every one is siding her—how daft can most guys continue to be?

She obviously doesn't respect him and women love through respect so her typing that stuff means nothing—she's just butthurt that he cut her off. (Girls that don't love you will still be pained when you cut them off cos it under leverages their power over you)

The guy sef don already tell am say e no like the constant argument but due to lack of accountability on her part she shifts the goal post and calls it "teasing" WTF!

Una no Sabi say na so the disrespect they start? Na small small e dey start upto the point where e go don build up to a point of no recovery.

If she respected him truly she would have stopped the constant argument. Una suppose know say Dem like to argue for no reason and sabotage the peace.

Abeg make she geddifok.

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

Nonywendy:
I don't wish u to be in a relationship with a nagging and argumentator as a GF, life go tire u

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

Palema007:
Lol...nah.. I'm not deflecting just wondering the personal issue op got with his Mom. Reading your reference I still see no personal issues either. Op is just demonstrating an inherited hatred here. Yes he can be angry with her for her deeds but not this hatred he bears for her. No right thinking child would like his mom bringing men to her matrimonial home but Op has gone overboard with his apathy for his mother.

The right question any sane being who would want to help and not crucify will ask is, has she been that way before she lost her husband? Who knows like Op, she may be a person who doesn't handle loss or situations well. This is not to justify her act but to redeem her.

To me, Op is one of those people who expect so much from others that they feel so bitter when these people fail to reach their expectations. He expected his mom to just move on with life normally and uprightly after the loss of her husband failing to realize people differ and some need extra help.

Op expected her to be a MOTHER without realizing that MOTHERHOOD is far beyond naturally imbed attributes but deliberate effort through sacrifices, mistakes, experience, lessons and so on. Not that I blame him but he shouldn't have allowed her failure get so much to him.

Ahhhhhhhh I know there are deadbeat mothers, they are not common but they exist. But my point is Op can do better jare.

u said they are not common? hmmmmm it is just that people won't speak out, do u know the worst statement mothers use on children? comparing them with age mates that have been successful by only God knows what thry did. madam, if people go open up here u go shout I swear.

in as much as I might not totally agree with what op wrote but let me make some corrections for the gullible ones here, no woman on earth can either bless a man or curse someone. the only person that can bless u or curse u is only your FATHER and that is if he is doing his responsibilities well, now to the people quoting bible tell me a verse in the blible where a woman blessed or cursed someone. am waiting

tomakint:
somehow you are kinda right.......these useless yeyebrities are mostly occultic with lots of backing from the corrupt politicians

if the guy was my friend directly I swear I go take the risk for am, we will do it together but na my brother friend and course mate, he has video of him and wizkid doing the music in the studio uptil today

tomakint:
Since he has proofs of agreement binding them in this deal then he should drag that clown through the social media for justice.....tell him to get Twitter involved here and his tweets retweeted.....no time to check time somebody is about to be dragged.....pointing a gun at someone with an attempt to shoot is illegal and can attract one (the aggressor) being sued....

oga them fit kpai the guy, those musicians are mostly cultist and get boys everywhere, the guy no get the mind to do it, I encouraged him to sue the guy to court but hr fears Nigeria type of court, he don't want to bring problems to his parents and all that, he told me he has forgotten and leave the matter behind, I told him if he wins this case he will be a millionaire over night but dude fears for his life

tomakint:
Since he has proofs of agreement binding them in this deal then he should drag that clown through the social media for justice.....tell him to get Twitter involved here and his tweets retweeted.....no time to check time somebody is about to be dragged.....pointing a gun at someone with an attempt to shoot is illegal and can attract one (the aggressor) being sued....

oga them fit kpai the guy, those musicians are mostly cultist and get boys everywhere, the guy no get the mind to do it, I encouraged him to sue the guy to court but hr fears Nigeria type of court, he don't want to bring problems to his parents and all that, he told me he has forgotten and leave the matter behind, I told him if he wins this case he will be a millionaire over night but dude fears for his life

tomakint:
and the guy just kept quiet like that because one stupid miscreant singing thrash has some little money to throw around......do you know what it means to lose your intellectual contributions to a work like music? Wizkid is going down soon......pointing a gun at someone?

the guy is a music writer and also a producer, the agreement was that he will give whizkid that track for free then wiz kid will promote him, they was no monetary agreement, when the music became a hit, wizkid started avoiding the guy but through one of wizkid aides the guy was lucky to meet wizkid and the event of pointing a gun happened, he silent the guy, the truth is that I no blame the guy, he is the only child of his parent and truthfully wizkid then was connected to government officials, like Lagos state government and all that, the guy no get anybody, no get money to even carry a charge and bail lawyer sef but the guy has proofs of agreement between them and all that.

tomakint:
are you for real with this?

yes bro I know the guy well, he went to Lagos after the song became a hit, wizkid almost shot the guy, the guy had to make promise that he won't tell anybody about it before wizkid dropped the gun, some of these artist are wicked and can take advantage of someone who they know has no godfather

Ayofaks:
Ha!!!

yes bro I know the guy well, he went to Lagos after the song became a hit, wizkid almost shot the guy, the guy had to make promise that he won't tell anybody about it before wizkid dropped the gun, some of these artist are wicked and can take advantage of someone who they know has no godfather

Meninmen:
You can imagine! Who nor go nor know.

some of these artist are wicked and can take advantage of someone who they know has no godfather

Meninmen:
You can imagine! Who nor go nor know.

some of these artist are wicked and can take advantage of someone who they know has no godfather

Meninmen:
You must understand that both artistes are different. Davido is a social Media person. He has that ability to easily trend in the social media space which has a way of bringing him money, either by way of popularizing his songs or shows. If you want to look at the business side of music, Wizkid doesn't come close to Davido. Davido got it and one way he does it is through this social media stuff he does that some of you call "Chasing clout". If it brings him money and more money, damn your opinions.

That Wizkid can do that without the media show doesn't in any way diminish the achievements of Davido. Someone like Davido even needs the social media show. He is not a natural singer unlike Wizkid. So he needs to promote his songs, shows, artistes, philanthropy any way he dims fit.

It is one of the reasons people naturally love Davido. Ask any upcoming artiste who they would like to feature between Davido and Wizkid. Almost all will choose Davido. As an upcoming artiste, you can have a song with Wizkid and he wouldn't even bother to display your song on social media, unlike Davido. Davido can so much hype your song that you will become an instant hit.

Then, there is the issue of impact. Mayorkun, Peruzzi, Dremo all came to the spotlight through Davido. Even we as Nigerians got to know South African artistes like Nasty C and Focalistic because of Davido. Who has Wizkid brought out? Even those guys that sang Soco Soco (yeye song) with him, that we thought he would promote, where are they?

I did rather have Davido as a friend (one who is a jolly good fellow and always catching crusie) than have someone like Wizkid as a friend wey dey always form maturity. Na Dem dey act like snake pass.

I know the guy that owns and wrote that song soco soco for wizkid he was my brother course mate in the university, the day he went to meet wizkid to fulfill his agreement which is to sign him, wizkid pointed a gun at the guy that he will shoot him and nothing will happen.

uvie66:
Bunif you study civil engineering then start by mixing and carrying cement on building sites, from there you can create a bond with the foreman who may connect you with other contracts.

sir I do that sometimes but site work now na connection
o, anyway I will be looking out for sites

[quote author=uvie66 post=110826817] Bunif you study civil engineering then start by mixing and carrying cement on building sites, from there you can create a bond with the foreman who may connect you with other contracts.[/quotes
sir I do that sometimes but site work now na connection o, anyway I will be looking out for sites

since we are on thread about humanity, let me use this opportunity to solicit for help from people here to assist me with anything to keep body and soul going, I have been looking for job since last year, its not forthcoming, I swear with my life I only have 200 naira which I have to cut my food expenses to save a little for 2moro, anyone who has a heart to help me should please help me with any amount, thanks and God bless you

BafanaBafana:
Outside the south east, where else is Atiku popular?

go and check the last election result in lagos state, it was almost 50:50 between him and Buhari, facts are there

advanceDNA:
Go and cry at the men that did the knacking.

How will you spread legs for several men and now be lamenting at the man that wants to settle down with you for complaining of your ridiculously high body count... na him cause your waywardness??

Whether you are a man or woman, If your body count is ridiculously high, there’s no point settling down....
Theres technically no settling down in your dictionary with so many partners to compare...

How do you people even sleep with everyone you meet? cos I don’t understand how people have body counts as high as 15-20 in one life time....is it not irritating??

that one small na, I know of a guy that when he was less than 25 years, he has slept with more than 25 gals

Gnosis777:
First, let me say that I'm not here to write the typical spill about suicide being wrong, and you'll burn in hell and yada yada yada. Because, it is my belief that absolutely no one can verify 100% where any of us will go after death. And, I don't care how deeply ingrained "their" beliefs are regarding Christianity, it is still just that....."their" beliefs.

Back to your issues, I honestly cannot proffer a solution for you at the moment, but I can say that life is definitely unfair, cruel, and sometimes people are wrong when they tell you that it will "get better someday". Truthfully, they cannot definitively confirm that statement, but I will say this, if you feel that your life is worth fighting for, then try to sit quietly and brainstorm some ideas. If you have anyone around you that can perhaps come up with some solutions, that can help as well. There's an old saying, "two heads are better than one", and maybe someone else can suggest something that you haven't considered yet. I do hope that your situation turns around real soon. But again, do not let anyone tell "you" how to feel about your circumstances in life, or what "you" should ultimately do about your situation. After all, it is you that is living your life and no one else. Op, this is a new year and I hope your situation turns around and that 2022 begins to look favorable for you.

thank u bro I really appreciate u and the truth is that this saying that things will be better, to me its just a statement, I have been struggling since I was a child, started paying myself school fees since JSS3, yes u heard me right and tried my best to finish my HND and then nothing is working out n someone out there will be like 2moro will be better, the question is WHEN?

Mkingz:
Bro there’s always a way...never give in to life pressures.

Times are evolving and technology is taking over...get a digital skill and get paid for life.

sir, its not everybody that is good with this digital stuff of a thing, let me shock u that since I finish school I never get work wey pass 20k (teaching job), problem is that I have two younger ones in higher institution that am helping in school, to be honest life tire me I swear

sometimes I think that dying is the end of life but as things stands for me now, joblessness is worse than death sometimes, when u wake up and nothing to do after graduating from school, HND civil engineering from a federal polytechnic, I have never contemplated suicide but seriously I am not happy, I can't sleep and nothing gives me joy, its hell for me here, what I explained here is exactly the condition I am now. life is not fair, at 31 being first son and nothing to show.
sometimes I wished I never come to life, this life is not fair at all, though am not married yet but sleeping late and wake up early is making me lose my life, life is not fair at all

omoplaycool:
I've been thinking of the right thing to say to you and can't seem to come up with any. I guess I'll just be true to you .. Thank God for your two boys and I won't be fair if I don't tell you how much of a strong man you are May God's Mercy continue to speak for you from today henceforth.. Please drop your digit and bank name.. It might be small but I know other nairalnders will assist
Soon you'll look back and say ,"I remember when things were hard"

sometimes I think that dying is the end of life but as things stands for me now, joblessness is worse than death sometimes, when u wake up and nothing to do after graduating from school, HND civil engineering from a federal polytechnic, I have never contemplated suicide but seriously I am not happy, I can't sleep and nothing gives me joy, its hell for me here, what I explained here is exactly the condition I am now. life is not fair, at 31 bring first son and nothing to show.

Sirlancelot:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

sometimes I think that dying is the end of life but as things stands for me now, joblessness is worse than death sometimes, when u wake up and nothing to do after graduating from school, HND civil engineering from a federal polytechnic, I have never contemplated suicide but seriously I am not happy, I can't sleep and nothing gives me joy, its hell for me here, what I explained here is exactly the condition I am now. life is not fair, at 31 bring first son and nothing to show.

sometimes I think that dying is the end of life but as things stands for me now, joblessness is worse than death sometimes, when u wake up and nothing to do after graduating from school, HND civil engineering from a federal polytechnic, I have never contemplated suicide but seriously I am not happy, I can't sleep and nothing gives me joy, its hell for me here, what I explained here is exactly the condition I am now. life is not fair, at 31 bring first son and nothing to show.

Strongdickfresh:
I spent roughly 1.9m on my nuclear family, extended family, loves ones, friends and well-wishers in the week of Christmas. Did you show love to anyone this festive season and how much did you spend on your family, friends and well-wishers? How did you cope and manage your Christmas Expenses?

I will do giveaway of 2k to the first lucky people to drop their account details. Make sure you write your full bank details as shown below:

Bank name
Account name
Account number

You must be a Christian

I will upload screenshot of giveaway here for authenticity and confidence. Good luck to anyone who may be the lucky winner of the giveaway

GT bank 0601682255 Emmanuel Benjamin Ekpa

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samwash:
Am I the only one that is not botherd
All things are set including the drinks
Nothing is special to me anymore because everyday is always Christmas in my side.
Baba God I thank you.
Peace !!

pls bro u can help me too make I celebrate, I swear to God nothing gum me, I am a private school teacher, dey didn't pay us December salary, if only u can help me and I wish u can help me pls

Keziehenry:
Where are you traveling to for the Xmas and new year celebration and how much is your fare?

i want to travel to kogi state, I am in sch in bauchi state,
the money is 8000 naira, pls I need help