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Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Cadillac15(m): 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
peacefull: Just read your diary now. You are a very good writer and have great articulation skills. Please keep it up |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:23am On Oct 25, 2020 |
Cadillac15: I'm glad to hear that! Thank you so much! I appreciate you!! 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Tellemall: 3:37pm On May 14, 2021 |
Long time no see. How did it go with your husband? Was there a reconcilation? |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:03am On May 15, 2021 |
Tellemall: Yes! We are good now. Very calm now! I'm a problem person. Not my husband. Sometimes I'm confusing, weak etc. I'm a trouble person. Very very confusing person. When I got calm down, I told him what I was thinking about. He listened my talk. He is a really good person! I'm always bothering him, disturbing him, annoying him etc. But he is a super man! He still allowing me like this. Super husband! I must always appreciate him. He is still with me. We are still laughing together! I still have chance to trying to be a good wife! Of course, I'm not perfect. Sometimes I'm still making mistake. Sometimes still making him feel bad, angry etc. But he still giving me a chance! I still have something worry about. Sometimes I'm still trying to tell him. About a week ago, maybe. We discussed about it on the phone. I could tell him my opinion and he also told me about his opinion. We were very calm. Not quarrel. I really want him to think about his life and happy is first and priority. Thank you so much for asking about us! I appreciate you!! I hope you are good and stay safe!! 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by jaszplus12(m): 1:11pm On May 15, 2021 |
peacefull:Hi I followed your situation up to a point but I will love to know if he's now willing to take you to visit his family in Nigeria. Then, is he now living with you and taking care of you as a husband should? Please you are at liberty not to answer....cheers and best wishes. |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:03pm On May 15, 2021 |
jaszplus12: Hi Sorry, I don't know if he is willing to take me to Nigeria or not. But I told him many many times about I wanna visit Nigeria one day. I really don't know if he wants me to see his family or not. I stopped to think about or expect about see his family anymore. That's always making me feel sad. So I stopped to think about it. Few months ago, he showed me some his family pictures. This is first time. I was really happy! But I know this is very strange. We are still not living together. He still working and living in another prefecture. He is paying house rent where I'm living. Here is our house! Most of times I'm living alone. But he is paying. I think this is his care for me and I really appreciate him. Sorry, I don't know what is meaning husband should? What is common in Nigeria? My husband paying our house rent, Is this strange? or common? Anyway, Thank you so much for asking! I appreciate you!! 2 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by jaszplus12(m): 4:10pm On May 15, 2021 |
peacefull:Thank you too for your response. I'm sure others may have told you that in Nigeria and most parts of Africa the husband usually pays the rent and provide money for the house needs like food and clothing and hospital needs etc. But of course if the wife is working she can also contribute... it's up to them both to decide that. Anyway, it's good he's warming up to you by showing you some pictures of his family... maybe as time goes on he will also bring you to visit his family in Nigeria. Cheers. |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:09pm On May 15, 2021 |
jaszplus12: Thank you so much! I learned again. I appreciate you!! I will visit Nigeria one day! I don't mind if I can't see his family. If he doesn't want me to see his family, it's ok. I just wanna visit Nigeria 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by womenareapess: 9:33pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
peacefull:konnichiwa gozaimasu! I have been following your diary quite some time, and I must say your diary really bring out that beauty of cultural diversity. For your writing skills, that it has improved drastically. Do hope you update your dairy more. Note: do heard about how Japanese are racist against black people. (Maybe you can clarify this speculation in your diary) 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 3:32am On Aug 23, 2021 |
womenareapess: Konnichiwa!! Thank you so much for reading my diary! I'm so glad! I appreciate you!! If I could make many peoples to have interesting about my country and peoples or if I could make many peoples to like my country and peoples, I'm so happy!! I really hope my English skill is improving! I appreciate your words!! I will keep trying. Yes!! I will continue to write my diary. I wanna write many many things! Sometimes I saw peoples talking about Japan is racist country and Japanese are racist peoples etc. I can't deny it. Because I can't say all Japanese are not racist. But I think I can say some Japanese are racist, doesn't mean all Japanese are racist. I think this is very delicate? sensitive? topics. I don't know if I can explain well in English. But I will try it! One thing I want you to know that someone who don't like foreigners is not because of skin color. They don't like foreigners especially no manner foreigners. I will try to write about that. Anyway, Thank you so much for writing Japanese to me! I really appreciate you!! 2 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by dontrulee: 11:49pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
peacefull:. Haaaa.... He is just using you to catch cruise. Sharp guy |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 1:17am On Sep 29, 2021 |
dontrulee: What is meaning catch cruise? Using me catch cruise? Please I wanna know what is meaning it? Sharp guy? Sorry, I also don't know what is meaning sharp guy. My husband is my super man! |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by dontrulee: 1:33am On Sep 29, 2021 |
peacefull:. That's good to hear. Catch cruise is more like having fun, enjoying life. We also call it flexing here. A sharp guy is one that is deemed to be wise and intelligent |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 1:56am On Sep 29, 2021 |
dontrulee: Thank you so much for teaching me! I appreciate you!! That mean is he has fun and enjoying his life. Very good! But flexing? Maybe not good meaning? At least if he is enjoying his life, that's very very good! Very happy for him! Oh! Sharp guy! Yes, my husband is very intelligent and wise man. Very very smart man! 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Nobody: 5:43pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
peacefull:I started reading this morning and I almost shed tears just seeing how you were confuse, scared and seeking answers some years ago. I'm glad that that everything worked out well and you're happy with your man there. I've never encoutet Japanese ladies. Only a few men, maybe three in total, when I was in China. We call them Ryuben Ren. Lol. Forgive me, but I've only really seen Jap ladies in porn (in the past, I no longer watch such) and in few films in TV. The ones in porn look surgically enhanced, compared to the ones on regular TV. And I know Jap ladies are known for having Fuller breasts than their asian counterparts in Korea, China, Indonesia, and so on. This too, made me curious to know why. I would hope I can find a Japanese girl who o as open minded and jovial as you are someday, either online or through my journeys through life. Maybe you can even be of help in introducing any to me, over the internet. A friendship for starters. Then see where the waves sail us to. Thanks ma'am. Nice reading your diaries , as well. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by babaalagbo11(m): 6:11pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
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Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:15am On Apr 14, 2022 |
PaulOtl: Thank you so much! I appreciate you!! Yes! I was very confused and I'm still confusing. I'm very very confusing person! Yes! I'm still happily with my husband! But We are not perfect. Sometimes We still have bad times, we made mistake, we misunderstood each other etc. But we are still together! Sharing bad times and good times together and getting old together Sorry, What is Ryuben Ren? Fuller breasts meaning big breast? I'm a very skinny Japanese. My body is very very flat. I have nothing on my body. I don't even know which is my front or back side! So, I think depend on person. Japanese porn is interesting? I didn't know Japanese Hentai and Japanese porn is kind of famous before joined this website. I want many peoples to know about more good side of Japan and Japanese peoples! Not Hentai or porn Wow! I like this word "jovial". Yeahhh! I'm jovial person!♪ヽ(´▽`)/ Thank you so much! I really appreciate you!! I'm sorry. I don't have anyone. Most of my friends are married. Very few are divorcee, but already have a boyfriend. And one my local friend is already grandma! I'm sorry for I can't help you. I wish you can find out good Japanese woman! Thank you so much! I will continue to write my diary. I appreciate you!! 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 2:32am On Apr 14, 2022 |
babaalagbo11: Sorry, this English is very very difficult to me. If I'm not misunderstood, you are talking about Impotence? You wanna help Impotence person? I'm a woman. I don't have penis 6 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Camelot65: 7:01am On Apr 14, 2022 |
peacefull:Lol, This is funny 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:00am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Camelot65: Oh! I maybe misunderstood?! I thought he is talking about impotence and he wanna try to help impotence person including me? Very kind person! But I'm a woman and I don't have penis. I'm a not impotence person. Misunderstanding?! Oh... No... I'm feel so embarrassed now. |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Camelot65: 11:05am On Apr 14, 2022 |
peacefull:It was an advertisement for those with the problems listed... Don't be embarrassed. The statement was just funny. Hope you're having a good time? 2 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:36am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Camelot65: Ohhhhh!! Advertisement? I'm more feel so embarrassed now! But I don't know why I'm laughing so much about this my embarrassed misunderstanding! I really hope I was not rude to him what I wrote. Yes! I'm off work today. Here is already night. I'm drinking coffee and just relax! Thank you so much for asking! I appreciate you!! I hope you are also having a good time! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 11:40am On Apr 14, 2022 |
babaalagbo11: I'm very sorry for I misunderstood your writing. If I was rude to you, I'm very sorry. I'm apologies you. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Camelot65: 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
peacefull:Oh, 8:44PM? Hope I got that right? Oh Yes, I'm having a good time. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by TheCongo2: 3:20pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
peacefull: I am afraid you are married to an akudaya |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 12:40am On Apr 15, 2022 |
Camelot65: I'm sorry for late reply. Here is in the morning now! 8:38AM. Good morning from Japan!(о´∀`о) I'm happy to hear that! Today will be more wonderful day to you than yesterday!! |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 12:44am On Apr 15, 2022 |
TheCongo2: Sorry, What is meaning akudaya? Please I wanna know what is akudaya? |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by cochtrane(m): 5:42am On Apr 15, 2022 |
peacefull:It looks like you are the only Japanese person on Nairaland I got a job offer in Japan. What do you think about working on Japan? Yokohama to be precise. I'm still thinking about the offer and I'm asking around what it's like over there. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 7:02am On Apr 15, 2022 |
cochtrane: Really?! Working and living in Japan? I recommend you to ask peoples on travel section! Because I think non Japanese living and working in Japan is maybe different view of Japanese living and working in Japan. What I know Yokohama is not so far from Tokyo. And from my experience with my husband, I think language is important. Because Japan is not English speaking country. Sometimes he still said, can't read and can't write is not good. At least if you can speak basic Japanese, it will help you or little bit easy for your life than someone who can't even speak basic Japanese. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by Camelot65: 7:44am On Apr 15, 2022 |
peacefull:Good morning from here. Yes, I hope. Same for you. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:10pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
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Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by peacefull(f): 4:35pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Please What is meaning akudaya? I checked it on internet. What I saw it is spiritual, myth or peoples name etc. But I still don't understand My name (my husband surname) is not Akudaya. I'm not Akudaya san. I married with spiritual? myth? What is this meaning it? |
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