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ChigozieVictor:
WHAT I CAN'T STAND TO SEE A MAN DO TO A WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP

Can you imagine a world without women 😢

It is totally incomplete

Every woman is a blessing and gift to our world

Learn to celebrate every woman in your life even if she's your staff or you are working under her.



Value them
Appreciate them

They are not intimacy gadget
Give them opportunity to become better

Every woman multiply whatever you give her privilege to have or be part.

When you empower a woman, you have empowered two men in One

They are the gift of God to us as Men

Treat them well

I can't stand it when I see a man abuse a woman.

They are treasure that should be protected

I can't stand it to see man who can't celebrate a woman

I can't stand to see a man who can't empower a woman to succeed

Every woman must be valued, appreciated and celebrated too

YOUR FRIEND
Chigozie Victor Uwalaka

Ynix:
He must have had a traumatic background as a child, give him peace. Don't argue with him, try honouring him and rubbing his ego for 1 month and see how things will change

advanceDNA:
Yawn!!!

donbrowser:
To even understand what you wrote sef na war

gaby:
Why not go to the nearest immigration service location to you for more enquiries. I'd advice your partner be the one to show his face while seeking these information so as not to set yourself up for fleecing.

You could extend your visa and get married urgently to secure a marriage certificate and with that you are all set.

Sirmwill:
Contrary to the opinion of the person above me
If I don't have a big mansion

I'm not marrying yet

The person I would marry deserves to be treated as a queen...



















Dhurr, I will never go for a girl who is big orrrr sees herself as being big.
She would be the most looked down upon by other girls.
Then, I'd bring her up above them ✌️

Back to the room above

It's not good for marriage

Ashleyadams:
Hi guys,

I'll be traveling to an African country on a tourist/visit visa.
Usually, airlines and immigration require a return ticket for visitors/tourists to make sure that you'll be leaving their country after your stay.

However, I have no intention of returning (I'll secure a resident permit) so I plan to book a
'Dummy Ticket' in place of a Return ticket in order to reduce my travel cost.


Hi I know this thread is old, but how did it go? Did they ask for proof? I cannot afford a ticket home as it is $5000 from Australia and I am intending to live there. My trip takes two days total, so over the refund limit for Expedia. I need help!

Has anyone tried this before? I'd like to know your experience/thoughts. Thanks!

GloriousGbola:
The first question is what colour are you? If you are black, do you look like a westerner?

Wearing camouflage will get you harassed by soldiers, but security operatives are usually careful around foreigners because messing with them can get you in trouble.

Double0h7:
I’m with you! Ops sister is on here with peace something as a moniker, she too is from Australia and has an Igbo husband. That first one has been opening thread after thread about her Igbo husband for years and now this one has started her own wailing 😂😂😂

alphaNomega:
una no dey tire for fake stories?

it's funny that people can not tell a story is fake and will waste their time trying to make a "meaningful" contribution.

MrBrownJay1:
- so 8 months ago, you guys got engaged and started a r/ship the same day?!
- if you guys got engaged 8months ago and thats when he started cheating, when did he actually STOP cheating?
- if thats what this man is putting you through in just 8months of dating, then let me send my condolences for your future married life.

here the IMPORTANT question: why do you want to get married, if you/it sound so miserable and you have so much doubts?

MrBrownJay1:
i dont know if its your story who makes very little sense, or you have difficulties telling your story:

ok so below you said:



so what you are saying above is that for roughly 2yrs of knowing this man he was "cheating" on you AND YOU GUYS GOT ENGAGED while you fully well knew he was cheating (and thereafter asked him to stop)... correct?

then you wrote:



have you confirmed that he actually stopped messaging these women?



at least you now know the type of deceitful/untrustworthy person this man is. shouldnt you first make sure he aint doing this deceit gain before getting married? or better yet, ask yourself this simple question: what was it about you or your r/ship (In the 1st 2yrs of dating) that was lacking that he had to go seek validation from other women online?



...and you have the right to be, but you sound like someone who is like has to "settle for less" or accept something that you aint down with? why the rush? cant you wait until this man does right by you before you marry him?



YES you should stay with him but you definitely should wait until he shows you that he is the PERFECT MAN for you to marry, and not some 2nd/3rd best option. the fact that you even write that:"he hasnt cheated for a while", as if this is an achievement. NEWSFLASH: he shouldnt do that to begin with! here is a clue: you shouldnt even have to tell him to stop... if he really wanted you like that (aka as the woman he wants to spend his life with) then you wouldnt have to tell him to stop trying to get with other women online or whatever, because he wouldnt even think of other women like that.

if you believe that a man ho had no respect for you nor your r/ship will suddenly stop (because thats what YOU want) then you have a lot to learn about men. so far we know, he could just be more careful now. remember: you cant change a man, no woman on earth has ever succeeded.