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bukatyne: And for this supposed success, a husband doesn't need to be patient and understanding? A man cannot detect the state of fall out and fix it?

I am not narrating a fantasy but an ideal thing. What is fantasy in husband and wife should make their home work? Am I missing something?

Anyways, successful marriage mean different things to different people

U are trying to make me deviate from the topic. Women have influencial emotional powers that men can't build through out their whole life. Powers that emanate from their mind. Once a woman gets hold of this potential, u hardly notice a fall out btw her and her man hence a successful union. I'm not saying men do not have their roles to play but i think 80% of the burden falls on women

bukatyne: Dear,

I think this is where we are missing it.

The OP is not talking of providing finances. Don't you see men who provide for their families and still sleep around or beat their wives? He was talking of connecting with one's woman esp. wife emotionally. He was talking of cherishing, respecting and loving one's wife which can be achieved with little or no finances. He was talking about listening to her and not just telling her what to do.

He was also talking about women esp. wives helping husbands become better by cherishing, loving and respecting them too.


Men should learn to increase their value proposition: a man that has only finance to offer his wife has failed as women are now earning equal or more, financially independent and contributing financially to the household. He should learn to love her, respect her, be her greatest fan, cherish her, be her pillar and support and be her best friend. He should also be a loyal, trustworthy and faithful friend. He must not CHEAT on her. These things have nothing to do with financial muscle

Women should learn to increase their value proposition: a woman that has only house chores to offer her husband has failed. In this age where men are now as domestic or more domestic than women. she should learn to love him, respect him, be his greatest fan, cherish him, be his pillar and support and be his best friend. She should also be a loyal, trustworthy and faithful friend. She must not CHEAT on him. These things have nothing to do with domestic skills

My dear, i guess i shud say u just narrated a fantasy rather than an ideal thing. Watch every successful family, u'll always see a patient and understanding wife. There must be times of fall outs in marriage,a woman detects its state(mild or rage). Do i xplain further ? Not saying cos i'm a man but saying out of xperience

@Lorreta


When u write apology letters u don't make suggestions. U acknowledge ur guilt totally. I'm not against men writing apologies to women but Mam. This is more than an apology,more like venerating,worship,obeisance,adoration. Mam, Women no deserve dis type i beg

pekelepekele: Most women no longer act like 1 anymore and that is the main reason we men have changed . Imagine a married woman wooing bachelors , how do you think those bachelors will ever take getting married serious ?

Someone said nothing pleases a woman in marriage more than when she discovers that a guy out there wishes she is not married. With such mentality and their present pattern of rushing into marriage prematurely(under age and lacking knowledge of what life is all about), they barely remain faithful. For me sweet sixteen all the way ooo but i will cage her tight through all possible means.

@OP I NO COME REMEMBER WHEN nATURE PUT US IN SUCH POSITION TO BEG FOR THEIR MERCY. Dem de even deal with us now as TIME dey give us advantage. Wetin u wan make dem come do if we come dey beg dem ? We fit bcome ROBOT for dem. So don't speak for the men. Speak for urself. Even if say women dey without a bit of blame, i no go write such letter to them come to think of it now that i know d spoilt the world, still spoiling it and will continue to

SMH @ all these small children sef. [/quote]Ur type self go get k leg. Must u see urself superior to others ? Even if u are,y don't u say something reasonable and relax ?

I just pray i'll meet some here on camp. C13

Pls help me beg Absu to hasten up with ours so dat we won't miss November. One will graduate and spend almost a year at home for no just reason. Dem want make i go carry gun b4 dem go do like pple wey i pay huge tuition fee ? I don stay for house tire

Celestyn8213: The boko haram people no dey finish?

i tire ooooo. I no come know who i go say dey sponsor them. Dem don confuse me. I been dey say na pple wey dey against GEJ. But Gej don capture many with no result of stopping their menace rather we go hear their members go free them. Our forces no de interrogate abi dem hear say intelligence agency work na to capture dem and relax ? Torture them make truth force him way out of their mouths

The arrested sect members were
immediately handed over to the
various local sector commanders of JTF
for further interrogation and
investigation.



I just can't tell d essence and effect of all interrogations and investigations done so far by our military men. It seems they apprehend them and keep'em comfortable. They shud seek and apply the enhanced interrogetion techniques (EIT) from the USA. With EIT, boko boys will say their sponsors and their mode of operation.

b4 we no de perform,now we de perform we come de miss chances. Olamide go soon call Naija "miss"

gbigbega: Why is Keshi still keeping ideye

Maybe him want make him play him last as him no go come int game again

LastApostle: DANA air pilot just ignited his Roll Royce powered engine now I can confirm!

Nigerian officials already boarding waiting for final whistle of the refree

Can't stop laughing. Una no go kill person for dis forum. All of una for nairaland get bad mouth both male and female

sheyie2007: I'm not watching again... My heart is not beating correctly anymore

Hahahaha. I don die.

brownlord: ABEG THEM SCORE THE GOAL BEFORE THE MARTCH START? ABI WE GIVE THEM AHEAD

I can't help but laugh. Just don't know if it's a bet match and moreover Spain shud b d one to give us 4 goals and bet winning

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Try focus on what is important to you and you shouldn't be intimate until after marriage.

We got enough unwedded baby mommas!!![/quote]Tell dem ooo.

i just detest Orji with passion. If na one woman for Naija film, she go say i never see wicked like him b4. An educated elite but advised by illiterates

Scun: Girls own fake too much o! Fake lips (lipstick), fake eyelashes, fake eyebrow, fake eyelids, fake hair, fake height (high heels), fake brèast, fake nails, etc. Add more please...

Fake shoulder (shoulder pad), fake smile( wey fit make u go advance ad she go finish u), fake eyes(na glittering one dem de put now), fake nails( u go see nails wey b say on a normal day go make u vomit and u no go even like make she touch u with am go turn to sthing u go even dey dream when she go touch u),fake cheek. I hear say dez days dem don de fake steps( cat walk,snake walk, name dem). Na where dem dey fake demselves dem make dem waste time for stomach b4 coming out

was it an illegal business b4 now ? Make dem come take my girl cos na when i give her money i dey hear i love u so much for her mouth. When i don't give her, she will face off and tell me she is dealing with those dat will provide what i refused to. Is dat not prostitution ? Unless legalising it would mean girls leaving their primary homes to a prostitution trade center

Burger01: Ok guys I can't take this anymore. My heart dey do gbigbim gbigbim... Goodnight. Goodluck SE and fvck NEPA, fvck Uruguay..

Lwkmd. Ur heart no like en position again ?

Rooneyboy: Chei !

This aboki is starting again .

- 1 as far as I'm concerned.

na dat musa fit save us today

Naija 5 :: 2 Uruguay

Sunny Obaomo: I hope and pray it will be a goal feast for the Nigerians. Suarez the vampire and his colleagues will be defeated by God's grace.

Big AMEN to dat !!!!

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]When the Midfield Is crowded, expect Less goals -- Simple Theory [/color]

my man dat match shud record more than two goals.

spenca: The goal was never acknowledged as pedro's

Abobi check well.

bin gbagbo: IF YOU BELIEVE NIGERIA WILL DISGRACE AFRICA AS USUAL, LIKE THIS POST

Where dis one from ? Na ogogoro dey work on u ?

My Suarez don receive too much here ooo. And na my player oo but God make him and dem no score us, AMEN. LFC NWA

brownlord: you won mak i give you upper cut abi

Pls give am, add jara on top.

But how person go take dey awake watch match from 11pm to 1am ? Make i go buy kola drink am with coffee, drop bucket of water beside to fight dat thing

HNosegbe: Going by your warped logic, why don't we arrest Tinubu, IBB and every other Nigerian politician who hasn't condemned Boko Haram?

The way you're sounding, one would think that Buhari's condemnation of those blood-sucking demons would automatically make the bombings stop.

Why would any sensible fellow keep mute to such atrocities ? Is there no blood running in their veins or are they advanced robots ?

HNosegbe: Some people have been so blinded by hate and PDP propaganda that they will NEVER refrain from calling Buhari a Boko Haram sponsor, despite their inability to provide any shred of tangible evidence to support their claims.

To all of you that keep insisting that Buhari is BH's sponsor (despite the glaring lack of evidence) I have a couple of questions:

1. If Jonathan's government had the slightest evidence that Buhari was a BH sponsor, do you think they'll let him remain a free man?

2. Can you explain why General Andrew Owoye Azazi, a retired army general and National Security Adviser, came out to publicly tell the world that PDP=Boko Haram and Boko Haram=PDP? More importantly, can you explain why he died in a mysterious plane crash weeks later?

3. Can you explain why the only top politicians indicted so far as BH financiers (such as Mohammed Ali Ndume) are PDP members? Or are you saying Buhari has moles in the PDP, the self-acclaimed largest party in Africa?

4. Why hasn't Vice President Namadi Sambo come out to debunk the claims being made that he has been in contact with BH? Surely if he had/has been in contact, he'd know who these people are, no?

Nigerians should open their eyes and stop being deceived. The truth is, as we speak there is no iota of evidence linking Buhari to Boko Haram.

Open your eyes, else prove Hitler's statement true, when he said "When you repeat a lie often enough, it begins to sound like truth". Open your eyes, Nigerians.

Mr A said there won't b peace shud he lose his contest with Mr B. Eventually,Mr A lost the contest and there started killings,bombings etc. Who would u lay ur accusing finger on ? My dear, use ur head. What was their initial aim ? Was it not for GEJ to step down from his Office or convert totally to an Islam. Guy, use ur head oooo. Buhari might not have been apprehended yet cos he is not the only one in the league of boko sponsors and moreover some mad animals in d north are looking for opportunities to say GEJ wants to kill their political figures and hence drag us to war . Don't worry, he won't be arrested and charged on any account but will soon receive a gift of rat poison either by air,food,water,spiritually, any possible means for him to taste the anguish of those he burnt alive.

Miles78: He used to call me Obidiya and I used to call him sthandwa sam. Least did I know that those were just empty sweet words ...Lyf nerh!

Him change car abi him go leave of no return ? Lol, y him no go leave u ? See d kind name him dey call u Obidiya ad u ma dey call him name wey i no fit pronounce moreorless know wetin en mean. Sthandwa sam. And him blike say him never marry u and u relaxed dey answer Obi Diya