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DailyNews: I really cherish people who write with high level of reasoning and respect.

I also like the way u used urself as a case study, keep it up if ur real, that's impressive.

But then, I know I am generalising and of course the world is always based on generalisation of what majority does.

Your contribution and that of any other girl u know is infinitesimal, and in fact negligible when carrying out research on this topic. Most researches are based on majority, even in science and technology, u can't have an ideal state...there must be error in every research, but the lesser the redundancy, the better.

You can pour a bucket of salt into atlantic ocean and expect it to increase the salinity of the ocean, that's kidding...

God in heaven knows I don't hate women, I don't have any reason to, but I really want to see things change, I hear, read and see a lot to of what many naija women do for me to come here to pretend or to paint words to suit anyone.

And saying that I haven't met good ladies even sound more like a joke, who haven't But like I said, I want to see majority of women practice what u ladies keep claiming here. Actions speaks louder than voice.

Women are their own enemies. While few of u are here claiming to be different, majority of women are out there in real life causing havoc and tarnishing your images and u still want people to believe that all naija women are angels

See, when guys are together, they fight each other on things like this. You will see guys condemning their fellow guys for mistreating a certain girl or for running around with girls...but most often, girls encourage each other and even justify their actions with one excuse or another.

U ladies shud start scolding urselves, start cautioning and advising ur friends and sisters for good...one iroko tree can't make a forest...we want majority of women to start acting what we read from women on nairaland.

Theory can only convince our eyes for d moment we read it, but what's happening in real life is what we base our judgment on.

And a man don't need to be an ex-convict to become a human right activist! So I don't need to be heartbroken to be advocating for people to act right in relationships and marriages. Other ppls experiences that I see, read or hear are enough for me to.

Tell'em make dem hear. I know u must have touched many girls in one way or the other with ur sermon even those that somehow criticized u. When next they see themselves in real life situations i guess ur sermon will bang on their ears and they will weigh their actions. Gold diggers ain't just a phrase and it's quite unfortunate it's been practised highly here in Naija and i guess that's the whole issue of men complaining and some girls defending. Though some girls do love unconditionally but mainly when such love emenates from'em for a particular guy.

[quote author=biker-boy]Even civilians wey miss road go follow boko haram die. All join for number.[/quote]See'em. Amnesty International,na una wey no wan progress for this country

chidindufrank: Good work by JTf so far. Is like the number of Boko Haram members are multitudes?. They. kept popping out from nowhere everyday. Dem be ants?

I just wonder oooo

sexkillz: [color=#000030]You should trust your partner, not your best friend. . . No matter what a best friend does or says to your partner, if he or she is not swayed, nothing happens. The fault always comes from the partner. The final choice rests on them.

So, do you trust your partner? If no, why on earth are you still with someone you cannot bring yourself to trust? Don't you think something is wrong with you, if you fall in this category?[/color]

No b matter of trust oo. One thing can lead to many sthings(not even to sthing)

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braine: This is crazy! So one can marry anyone even without their consent? Cool.

U no wan marry am and u find wetin en de reserve for person wey go marry am go. Ur own no good.

Some pple get fowl mouths here and these moderators no go see dem ban. Make i no counter any as moderators no de take eye see wetin i post.

alutacontinua: Guys on here really need to hook up with real ladies, nit the hungry ones. But again, I wonder how that is possible if y'all are hungry urself. I'll leave (i don't lyk the word dump, he's nt trash) any guy irrespective of his bank account if something isn't right about him.

@DN, i now see your posts and feel sorry for you. Whoever did this to you did not just try...but remember, der's nothing that makes you better than a woman. The fact that yours is long and hers is not doesn't make you a higher or better being. We're all equal and fellow guys can also hurt you just as much as dt woman/lady/girl did. If dt happens, would you then stop existing among humans? At this stage, i'll recommend therapy for you cos u need to let it out. The anger and hurt is eating you up, u need to let it go. I was seeing this from the surface before, maybe dt's why I was mad at you but I now realise I'm supposed to be sorry for you, not angry.

Pls oooo, what is his,that is long and what is the girl's that is short ? U mean ..... just confused,get me cleared.

When her life is at stake.

Run for ur dear life

Gasp !! Nice one. Centered on abstaining from premarital sex

u made an open invitation to talk about ur topic and u are sounding anti men.

lemme go and practise it. Will be back to tell the outcome

fredopayee: Christian whc u proclaim, can you swearr with your life you are a virgin??
2) That same luv u don't want to fall into is what Beyonce, Kim Kard and co d get Jayz and Kanye West..
3)U said u don't want to fall in love till marriage?? Sorry! Na ghost go marrrry u?? Better hook up and stop decg yourself. Nne ndo!

My guy, it's all about choice. Mind u,i'm not a lady. My man u go don play games wella. AIDS is real no b for movie

No if it means sleeping with a third party but yes if kissing a third party is cheating. Get that ?

Buhari wants to repeat a class he failed not knowing nature gave him condition of fail and fail out or pass and .........

Good but what about those syphoning public funds

already sleeping

norahvivi: WOW, ITS REALLY AMAZING HOW PEOPLE WILL CONDEMN THEIR FELLOW HUMAN SO EASILY FORGETTING THE SINS WHICH THEY HAVE COMMITTED IN ONE WAY OR DE OTHER, WELL I HAVE HEARD YOU THE INSULTS AND BAD NAMES, BUT LET ME TELL YOU ALL ONE THING THIS PLACE IS NOT FOR ADVICE BUT FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO DO BUT TO LOOK FOR WHOM TO CONDEMN, EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU HERE IS A SINNER B4 GOD AND AS SUCH NOT BETTER DAN A PROSTITUTE, ARM ROBBER OR EVEN A RITUALIST WELL I KNOW MY SELF AND ALL I WANT TO HAVE HERE IS FUN!! AND NOW I HV SEEN ALL UR SPITTING OUT SO DIS PLACE IS NOTHING BUT A FUN HOUSE, NOTHING SERIOUS HAPPENING.
U ALL HAVE A NICE DAY HUH

Ijust termed dis a fake story and decide to read pple's comment only for me to see realize u faked d story and still had d spinal to open ur mouth against pple. Since ur brain can only think of this story as a way to have fun i guess ur character is not far from it.

please advice and not insult.[/quote]The above statement makes dis a fake story. I better go and slap a soldier than give advice on this.

cumpaddre: Yea, I agree sex helps strengthen relationships. Anybody saying the contrary is just being blind to the truth!

Just want to back ur comment. I guess all these stories of being in a relationship is all about falling in love. Go and check anywhere, to fall in love simply means to have a romantic and sexual relationship with someone. But as a christian, we are urged to flee from fornication simply not to fall in love but can engage in mere relationships. My problem here is dat,our African christian ladies would want to change the meaning of being in love hence u will hear them say " U can be in love without having sex" " I'm in love with him but he never touched me " while their Western folks will let u know they have a sexual relationship with someone once they accept that they are in love cos they know the meaning of being in love. I just watch and laugh at some who would want to be in love without sex. Simply stay single till u are ready for marriage

Abu Mikey: Am Happy being SINGLE!!!

Will u remain single ?

She just wanted an ipad like every other girl just that she got more than she wanted. But truth no dey dat man mouth. U smacked with a mop and it got her unclad. I bet my man planned this act right from when she uttered ipad.

collynzo2: Are you trying to say Yorubas are Räpists? No be me talk o!

Amibo, na wetin ?

Abu Mikey: I caught You too!!! Reserving Space for what I don't Know!!

Lwkmd. Dis Abu, dem employ u here to dey catch space reservers ? Take am easy nah. Infact, u don decide to monitor the thread. Police Abu

[quote author=Okija_juju]ARM THESE CIVILIAN JTF!!!

Give them license to bare semi-automatics..







https://static.fjcdn.com/gifs/Bieber_2ea711_1687085.gif[/quote]Guy u take Ganja ? We never survive the one wey we dey and u dey say arm dem. Unless dem go recruit dem. No careless calculation again ooo

omowolewa: This is not a news.

The real News is that, nations are now discovering Crude oil in commercial quantity. Demands for our oil will soon reduce in a way that will affect our economy.

Ghana, Benin, Togo, CIV, Niger, Cameroon, America, India and most potential buyers have discovered oil, so whatz the hype?!

The only nation that is yet to discover oil in a way that will affect our Economy greatly is China(I stand be corrected) but they are working seriously on alternative energy.

Okay, if everything remains equal, with maximum repatriation of profit by multinational companies and gross embezzlement by the Ogas@d top, HOW DOES THE DISCOVERY TRANSLATE TO A BETTER LIFE FOR THE NIGERIAN MASSES?

wanted to ask u d same question b4 seeing it at the end of ur comment. I would even pray dat everybody gets oil at his doorstep so dat NAija will drink theirs. Can't figure out the economic advantage of that oil in Nigeria when we still don't have good roads, access to clean water, factories,sophisticated hospitals,sense of security, and even usage of our oil. More or less beautifying cities. I think Naija sees their own economy in figures alone,not really practical

Nice one

However, Ibrahim has vowed that the troops of the JTF would not relent in its offensive until the remnants of the Boko Haram insurgents were routed out with peace and stability restored.


source : thisdaylive[/quote]I only support the above statement. Is there any gain in celebrating an event amidst insecurity ?

lorretta u: baby are u a visitor here?
A successful marriage by them standards means a wife who can endure cheating,nonchalance,maybe some battery(like three or four slaps a week),works like horse to keep the home(this one's good anyway) contributes equally financially(good too).and understands his philandering as his nature and still loves him with her Whole heart(dream on guys)

That is it. With such notion, u can't last long in a union cos u'll read disgusting meanings into every of his actions. But shud u decide that u are going there to tolerate some characters, u may end up not having much to bother about in ur marriage. All u listed above make it seem like men invented everything bad. Lol