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jomile long time oo

Who be those other men wey dey marry prostitute

Dem don come oo

tosyne2much:
Baba, na pry 3 me don dey fall in enter Ashawo joint ooooo

But God don finally take control sha

hahahhahaha omo toh bad gan...kingtom

MizMyColi:
Tosyn, where there is a will, there is a way.
Are you inadvertently saying that all guys are randy and that it is okay for guys and everyone else not to aspire towards exercising reasonable control over their emotions?


You wan do, she say she no want.
You no go find way re-arrange your brain ni?Abi na entitlement?

sis it really hard for us oo ni.

like I said it takes enough discipline plus God's grace to kill daht desire..only few noble men can actually do that...
That why you read a lot about rape everyday.. buh some people own pass be carefull ooo ...

tosyne2much:
Btw, she u don patronize ashawo b4 ?

I hope you dont mind my asking ?

Recently I come see thread wey redben..son create I come dey go der to go read pple sexcape..

tosyne2much:
Btw, she u don patronize ashawo b4 ?

I hope you dont mind my asking ?

hahhahaha bra yea that was like when I was in jss2 #just twice oo.since den my brother I got matured,can't be going der again when them yakpa for my face...

LadyJul:
Op your ex g.f outsmarted you....she knew u only called her for sex and she's not that stupid...dats the same thing my ex wanted to do...telling me to sleep over in his house..i refused to sleep over because he had tried kissing me and all dat...he became angry with me...he later told me dat it's either i sleep in his room or don't bother coming to his room.,.,.it was den i realized he just wanted to sleep with me...and i proved to him dat am not a cheap slut..,,i still like him sha...even if we didn't date for long....but i can't cheapen myself for him....Nonsense!

you we're not @when you we're sleeping with him bfo?

tosyne2much:
I have done that countless times

That one just d abuse the op anyhow...

tosyne2much:
The only reason why i put the blame on the OP, is that he should have dressed up and head straight to the brotel (Papapata e no go spend pass N500 ) rather than sending her out of his house, or what do you think ?

Yea that true only if he is a fan of them night nurse oo.

Whichever way both we're wrong bra...

Hell awaits any girl who can't cook but stil wants a happy married life#NAPROVERBS O.
@op I belong to known of this category....na mumu dem belong lol.

evegran:
Lol. Okay.
Maybe you should mail me.

Dont fink that will be possible because you ain't following me.

maybe you should follow me..to enable the mail go thru.

tosyne2much:
The both of them are to be blamed

The guy should be blamed for not respecting her decision, even to the point of sending her away. Thats bizzare !!! If u no get sex, you no go kuku die

The lady on the other hand should be blamed for passing the night at a guy's house for 2days and deprived of the entering into the paradise.. Haba !!! E no easy now.. Even pastor gan no fit find am easy to hold body

Even me wey be pastor gan no fit sleep with babe for two days without reaching the promise land

oh oh abi you get wound for thiar ni?

it not easy oo my brother...
although personally I have friend who stayed like that with mua back den in school for months and nothing happen..that was base on:

1: our understanding.

2:we understood our kind of friendship.

3:what we discussed when we are together.

4:we set our principle right
and a couple of other things.

But this op case was totally a different case.them be ex and dem don bleep like 4times,him come invite d geh come house and she carry her two left leg waka go.Omg wah we're you expecting ni?

mtcheeee so annoying

MizMyColi:
Look my dear.
There is no black and white here.

I am a lady.
If I happen to be with a guy I like and he gives me the impression that he is fvcking attracted to me but wouldn't wanna do anything that goes against my prerogative, and I, in my usual intuitive self feel he's being sincere....you can be sure that I will give that relationship my all...spirit, soul, and body.

Babes are wiser nowadays too.
Most of us who play dumb do so because we want to hitch a man by fire by force.

Her body is her property and just like he has confessed on this thread, it was clear, even to the girl that he didn't love her....that she allowed pre-intimacy was because she wanted to test/punish him.

So yes, it is his fault, or should I say, the fault of his third leg

Sis I totally Dont agree the fault should be accorded to this op alone.

girl f.up:

1:Never visit an ex alone in his home to avoid stories like this,no matter the mind set you got..weda your ex is now born again never try it my pple.


2:She come even visit come still allow pre-intimacy* whoops* abi nobi damage be that ni?no matter the pressure from the guy omo mhn she gave in to it..she self no get self control ni?hehehheheheh*kidding*

3:she left in angry mood,plus enof curses to the guy na geh wey correct be daht?

Guys F..Up

1:why will he be inviting his ex-bae to his house abi no open place?That inviting might have come with a wrong motive if you ask me,like we saw it unfolding...

2:Finally she came,@op went as far as manipulating the geh.that did not still satisfy him,him come the fyn the real thing chai.

3:konji worry am soteh him come the beg the girl add anoder f.up.


4:The girl left am sure he did not even pay her tf or say thanks for coming.
hahhahah.
abeg I don taya to type.

tosyne2much:
Yeah that's true.. She's one of the ladies i respect so much

Very brilliant and insightful

my brother she modified oo....

SeverusSnape:
You shouldn't have sent her away, Bros, Don't you have self control??...Can't you spend the night with a lady without having sex?...

Hmmmm my brother that control thingy nobi here ooo.

It really takes a lot of discipline and the grace of God to actually over come this..

The best one can do is just avoiding such situation.. befwor you talk of self control..

MizMyColi:

I modified my post.
Well, I'm much calmer now, it's just there were certain statements he made which def qualifies him as a perv...But I will not delve into that.

I prefer that he sent her away than leaving her in his house and then something worse happens....seeing as he can't control his hard on. Smh.

The lady on her own shouldn't have cursed him. She should have just left silently.
Afterall, she came to visit, and he, the host, wasn't enjoying her company anymore.


Were it not for the general selfish nature of humans who are always thinking of what they stand to gain, it's very easy to get a babe laid...especially those who put up so much resistance.
I won't be speaking more on that though.

Manipulators and Perverts Everywhere

So who do we blame on this issue.....the op or the lady?

@ op yea she is your ex...yea she came visiting @your home.

I see no reason for her to take such risk,having to come visit you alone plus even spending the night that was totally wrong in the first place..truth be told you can't go visiting your ex in his house alone and then expect nuffin will happen, even if he later turned a pastor,abi pastor no get hormones ni?

She come dey form born again oo but she still had pre-intimacy haba haba who does that?


@op you too I will blame you,I know it not easy to discipline yourself when konji comes knocking, so you negociating that act was also wrong.and then for telling her to go was cool by me to avoid rape,but the way an manner you did that also matter....

tosyne2much:
Wooooow !!!


Who would ever thought Mizmycoli would make such a comment

Even me self I was expecting her to call him a pervert like othas..but I sure know she finks through issue and weigh them before making her point known...

I guess the op did his best to avoid the rape scenerio..

Vinshu:
@Op, you are really shameless.
You cannot see a lady unclad without having a hard-on ?

nna mhn nobi by might oo.

Getting sick...omg wahris dis world turning into?

evegran:
Oh okay. So, do you wanna remind me or you're just saying hello?

Both.....
your secondary school mate....

But why on earth would a woman cry on such issue?. The man was trying to use brain on her ni.....

evegran:
I'm fine. Sorry I don't recognise the person on your profile.

yea you won't ....that not mua# my job.