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MsBliss:
I went to his house with my eyes wide open so I should /will accept whatever comes with it .

oo so we're aware?

dem don come again

koboko or money

Yes na why won't I. have had such experience not once. am always OK with the truth, my own be say no do am for my nose.

That why one must always talk about this things, before you jump in.so as to understand yourselves better.

roff roff wahtis roff .

Oyind17:
I need a female doc to do that

your case is not serious anyway so not to worry.

Oyind17:
Nooo

OK then will be running a check on you soon.

Oyind17:
A week after my flow, the pains will start again. I no fit wear bra for long

milk dey commot?

Oyind17:
My problem is it occurs every month , it was not like this before

after that month abi e no dey go?

Oyind17:
What's the solution? I need help seriously

please ma don't go about taking drugs, it will subside on it on when it time.
but if the pains persist make you go see your docta oo

adeh39:
Nawa ooo......Finger pass finger sha

Pressing charges doesn't mean that the cherry pop will be superglued back nah

Let her forgive nd forget jare

she will hear

mhn na so I for tk loose my life oo.

Oyind17:
Its my monthly flow, I suffer pains for like 2 weeks before it will come out. I'm not preg

you know the problem already

let me cc some guys daht could also be honest with their view.

cc mizmycoli ronald4lif

adeh39:
Pained.....when I was d one leading him on

Abegi forget that thing joor......Even if I'm not happy about it, I will forgive nd forget

If she's behaving like that now....what if she was ganged raped by 4 guys....she go kill herself bah?

What about those young teenagers that are being raped by people dey don't even know

Though I'm still wondering how her cherry pop was broken by mere fingers

Or is there something she's not telling us

Lilyomi pls I need you here

Kwencypresh?

lol you go fear figeri..ng na.
am sure the young man chuk chuk am wella.
you know somboys d vex.
so I guess he was watering the ground for a proper
putting when next she visit.

Sinnzu:
if it wasnt fun to you, then u shud have just quietly unfollowed the thread. You didnt have to summon the mods to close it.

Hello sir,
why did they close it?

dharay99:

see, atymz we need to loosen up.
No matter h0w hard we fight here on NL, it still wunt affect any of our real world.

Meeeehn, why can't u ppl jez b free.! As in Stop beinq so serious abt everything here.

just like in your first mention you took time to abuse me.
it takes maturity for me not to respond or even take such to heart.

my bro I see beyond words. and am sure a few of us do too.
let not hide under the word 'faceless forum',and so therefore
do what we feel like, after all we will all come up with.
'my life on Nairaland is not a reflection of who I am'.
if I hear.


we all think differently, in as much as we want to have 'fun'
let not pass a wrung message to people.
please let be honest to ourself, and call a spade a spade.
for that thread to be locked that should tell you it was not cool.

dharay99:

buh why are sumppl jez dumb, annoyinq daft fun killers.
Now dey summoned daht policewoman to daht thread & it got locked wen d real fun waz jez strtinq.

Like seriously I'm disappointed in dz two.

—peeparty
—daft loveren(d usual)

I know say that kind tin u dey like.

dharay99

•that was too early

•Not cool when you start adding fuel to an already burning fire.

•that was not fun to me.

•I don't enjoy see my friends at loggerhead when we are suppose to actually connect and learn .

•we can't continue like this forever.

ishilove good morning oo

ishilove do something about this... before it get out of hand.....

midolian:
Lool. The thing still dey do am like film trick.

Thank God uncle Jona didn't win the election. If uncle Jona had won, it would be easy for him to jiggle and wriggle his way out of this mess succesfully.

I don't know why they didn't send them(Lamido & sons) to ekwulobia prison sef.

Which court decleard them guilty?
or your point is base on TV rubbishing

MsBliss:
Lol raped ko rapped ni. Nobi she carry her own leg wakabele go ein room ? and they were touching and kissing expecting nothing to happen ?

I laugh in Greek

lol I couldn't laff at her like you just did.

if it happen to you ,and he was your first boyfriend.
what will you do.

tpiander:
Bro or sis, is your anger because of the broken hymen or the sex act you forced on him?

If the alledged hymen had remained "intact" somewhat ( maybe more stretchy), would you have been ok with that?


Lord have mercy.

her anger is on her broken hymen.sir

adeh39:
What rubbish

Manipulated? Raped?......this is funny and annoying at d same time

She wasn't manipulated or raped.....Come on.....she's not a baby....24yrs old

Why would she press a charge cos of that?.....even if it's not her boyfriend....she went to the guy's room willingly.... they kissed, romanced and she was enjoying it.....then something led to d other and she wanna press charges.......it didn't even result into sex....and she called it rape

First of all.....she's still a virgin, except if the guy's fingers are as big as cucumber......

Secondly.....it will be very annoying if she breaks up with the guy....because shits like that happens sometimes, or is that the first time she would go to the guy's house? Yeah....she's a virgin....blah blah....why did she indulge in the kissing and romancing in the first place?....she should have just abstain from it.....the guy won't lose anything.... being a virgin doesn't mean that she's the most precious lady in the world.....so I believe very well that the guy will definitely get a better lady. Let her move on and see how easy it is to find a guy that would be ready to wait till their wedding night

Lastly.....Pressing charges on the guy shows how wicked and heartless the lady is......because it's her word against his own.....she might just lie that the guy raped her and that's all, the guy can only escape if he has a good lawyer.


Oooops......Did I just type all this....

Peeparty i hope she gets to read this post

ya she will.
if it was you,
and he got your precious cherry pop
with his fin..gers,guess you won't be pained?

Gurgle:
"bros" you no dey bold anytin

its complicated sha

he is ultimately to blame because he took advantage of her, they had already discussed it beforehand so he cant say he didn't know what she wanted, even though he made her forget it for a minute he should have controlled himself.

she shouldn't have put herself in such a position because she knew he wanted to do it.

both of them didn't really respect themselves or each other, which is what led to this

she was teasing him and he didn't honour her wish

to be honest if this happened to me I would be angry but I would eventually forgive the guy if all other things were in place since its partly my fault and I do like him. and she did enjoy it. im sure things like this have happened to a lot of girls but they just leave it and act smarter next time. they don't just throw away the whole relationship

on the other hand something mildly similar has happened to me before but not on this scale and I still hate the guy although it was partly my fault soooo yeah as I said its complicated

what do you think, as a guy?

Goodnornning sorry I slept off.

well me I will blame the both of them,
yes they did not honour the gentle man agreement.

but the girl has more to blame on this issue, she's got ample time to reject and not succumbed to his advances.
or even be with the guy all alone.
No matter how much trust and love she as for the guy.
joystick doesn't understand english ni oo.


cases like this do not even hold weight sef.

Gurgle:
yeah that's it- who is going to take it seriously when she willingly entered bedroom with the fellow

the best revenge would be to quietly move on and find somebody who will respect her more. then he will realize what he has lost

because if she does this she will only embarrass herself

if its like that please encourage her to seek counselling

but what do you mean he "manipulated" her?

you mean he sweet-talked her?

I believe her healing will be a gradual thing .

on the bolded yea.

wait oo who should really be blame on this?

Gurgle:
I didn't understand you

she shouldnt report the guy, she should just leave him and move on with her life

right now she doesn't want to listen to that, her mind is made up on
revenge..

I told her no one will listen to her sef.
meanwhile she was enjoying It oo lol


nobi like say I dey laff am oo

[quote author=Gurgle post=35684076]Ok so what does she want? what advice does she want[/quote

I did my best but you Knw some of ur kind na.

Gurgle:
What do you mean "she was manipulated by him"? manipulated how?

no shes not a virgin

she my have been raped. if she said "no" at any time during the encounter and he ignored her, than its rape

I would advise her to take some time out to calm down

then talk to the guy about what happened, maybe they will be able to work it out

She dosnt want. this dude again.

Precious91:
Manipulated?That's somehow.She is also dating him which is so obvious,so pressing charges is out of it.I also want to believe since there was no penetration,she is still a virgin.

yea that was my first tot.... I was like shebi u say ur dating him?
and am like wat is she really thinking sef

Precious91:
that was the first thing I noticed.Not picking your mistake though

ya I get.
now read slowly and see if der is a word.

Tallesty1:
Yea.......

She raped the guy

How? I don't geh