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IamTOBBY:
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Joyrich:
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yungchop:
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cayorday89:
You are not deviating, it's all part of the factors that either enhance or mar the longevity of a marriage, this point of yours is why I sometimes ask myself if those shouting foreign wife are really prepared for what is to come in the marriage..

EMEKUSBOY9:
By road , not air

Mizzyliz:
If men starts to become very calculative in relationship like women in terms of finance,there will be no any family unit.....Gender equality is certainly freedom for men

Joyrich:
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Pelxmiye:
Oh, okay I understand, it's increasingly looking like women's expectations are too much ...I believe people should focus on the basis, compatibility, maturity and interdependence on one another in all areas of the marriage, but no, the superficial is the major on the major , me I have given my peace, I don't like stress for myself,I'd prefer a woman who won't overstress me, though I'm not totally a traditional guy,a mix of both, I expect my woman to be a mix of both too, we try a lot to arm wrestle men into being traditional ,when a lot of you women are not traditional anymore, it's only fair for both parties to accept this reality and thrive to be a mix of both

Klass99:
To you yes, but not for me. Thoughts become things.

The problem with majority of people when it comes to marriage is a stereotypical mindset of what and how a marriage should be.

But, bold and courageous people who don't have a herd mentality, are comfortable in their skin, can think for themselves and are not afraid to be divergent, know that they can create their own world and decide for themselves exactly what they want.

Know this and know freedom and peace - Your life is yours to build, it is not for others to steer.

Klass99:
Your post had me smiling from ear to ear. I like your outlook on life but what do you mean by public commitment?

I needed that self awareness and to discover myself before getting married. Marrying @ 22 just didn't feel right to me, thankfully I had (and still have) enlightened parents who didn't push or force the issue of marriage on any of their kids.

Now that I'm older, more self aware and I think independently (I've always had a mind of own and was a non-conformist as far back as secondary school & university anyway ) I know that;

1. I want to love and be loved.

2. I'm not crazy about having kids of my own. The thought of it exhausts me, more than it excites me.

3. I want a man who understands that even though we may be married, we do not lose ourselves or individuality. On point 3, the lyrics from one of Neyo's says songs comes to mind - I'm a movement by myself but we are a force when we are together.

4. I want and love companionship, good and authentic companionship with lots of quality time with my man, like just cuddling him in front of the TV, while we watch our favourite programs and me running my hands over his bare chest, occasionally massaging his neck and shoulders. I don't think you love love more than me o especially when the feeling is mutual.

5. I want a married life experience where he'll be my baby and I'll be his. We will be two adults just taking care of each other and doing the good we can in our community and to the people in our lives and space (whether we know them personally or not)

Younger me may have gotten married simply because;

1. My suitor was good looking, he wanted it and was mounting the pressure like kilode?

2. The so called society expected it of me as a woman and......

3. Who knows I may have been one of your case studies today if not divorced sef

Older me has the presence of mind to make well thought out decisions on the basis of my self awareness. Decisions that help rather than hurt me, in the short or long run.

I'm good. I hope you are too.

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harmargedon:
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syva16447:
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He told me about business in Rwanda
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yungchop:
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nizelgirl:
It seems this country is better than Nigeria. Please what kind of business strives most there.

AsherAmari:
You just keep saying follow him follow him.. I once follow an ex to a viewing center but he couldn't concentrate because his whole focus and attention was on me while I devour my plate of pepper soup. I'm sure if I had asked him what was scores, he wouldn't have been able to tell me... hahahahaaa so what's the point following him when he won't concentrate and I'm a kind a person that likes my man's attention 100%.

Anyways, I'll kukuma settle for an introvert like me. I can shout.

Aconomist:
Dangote's profit margin of 60% disproves any argument that his costs are higher in Nigeria. His selling price is higher -- that's the only difference. Why do I have to share a nationality with such subhuman people who will be stolen from yet defend the thief?

DemonInvoker:
Surely,I followed one Kenyan Babe to Nairobi and I was impressed...After She followed me down to Lagos she broke up with me.
Same thing with my Ghanaian Ex, She insisted on following me down to 9ja,After staying in Lag for two weeks she went back and broke up with me.
This country is cursed believe me.
Imagine Some Babes abroad still believe if they just land at Murtala International Airport they will steal them.

AsherAmari:
We girls should learn to give our bodies some respect. Only then will the men value and respect us.

Chioma brought this upon herself. I hope the others will learn.

FrLukas:


You be proper comedian.

Many of you guys talking here are really just kids after all.

The Fulanis in the North of Nigeria regard the Fulanis outside Nigeria as their brothers and not you lots down south.