WrittyWritter:


But it is not fair..u suffer with a man and when he makes it..he goes outside and spend on other ladies leaving u to suffer..it happened to my mom..so I know what I'm saying..u think it does not pain d woman..and if not 4 d children it will be like she suffered in vain.

Dat is y my mom also suffered 4 us. .so dat we won't suffer 4 any man

Well your generation has it better than your mom's, society supports equality and all that to a larger extent than when your mom was young...only a lazy woman in today's world can totally blame a man for her failures, I get the part of companionship in relationship, the chances of women going through what your mom went through back down is lesser

OdefaGirl:
If you try me with this kind of test... you will completely fail, because if I love you, I love you and nothing can stop that.
And if you must act broke with me, you won't act lazy..... being broke doesn't make one lazy.

Nice one! So we still have people who can differentiate between being broke and being lazy, lemme dm you, I want to check something

donwily:

Your English sha! I doubt if you are actually a graduate. I move

You forgot that phone keyboards these days can be clunky....don't just judge bro, it was a mistake

Chii59:

My lil sis is a fan of Harry Potter movies and books. I'm not. Since I have a short attention span, I prefer something more fighting and less words.
I am also a huge fan of movies depicting centuries gone by and Sci fi.

Sha watch it first

Chii59:

Haven't watched it though a couple of people say it's not worth the hype. I hope to watch it regardless. Temi is so pretty.

Watched it...twas nice

Nice review

I have been hearing a lot about BMC zombies, BMC e-idiots, BMC e-rats?

All these are all conspiracies?
Do we really have people collecting 20K-30K to distort the truth, create propaganda movements and defend the government aggressively?

I am yet to believe this, recently i saw a screenshot of a WhatsApp group tagged "Buhari Media Center? Was it fake? Do we really have Nairaland users who are members of that group, it's hard to believe ,maybe someone should knock some sense into my head oo, or maybe people who have a clue about it can tell us more about it.

Guys is it real Sha? If it is, then those members must be government spies on Nairaland

#helinues
#omenka
#slawormir
#candycrushy
#lefulefu
#ilovedemmanna

pozehnani:
It's not as if there are no men to marry them but the thing is the ones that are coming for them are not up to standard but the ones that tick all the boxes are not forthcoming. This life is just somehow.

Baby girl, don't kill yourself. Maximize your singlehood because even the marriage itself is not an easy task. It's a lifetime load of responsibilities and duties that only the fittest can survive.

My twin is married and I see how she stresses to keep the homefront in order and still manage her business. Even with hubbys support, the stress is something else.

With marriage, you lose yourself, your time, your leisure and "freedom" only to regain it in old age when you're too frail and weak to do anything or have fun again. So enjoy your singlehood while it lasts.

Not totally true though the stress part is a normal side of it...both of them just need to find a balance, Nigeria also plays a role in this , the country's bad bad bad and bad,it's rubs off on our day to day lives, marriages, finance and life expectations, nigerians in general just need to be extra extra patient with one another in this country, I hope she doesn't get depressed cos of the stress ,it's not her fault or her husband's, it's just the country, let them find a way to make themselves happy at least until the calamity called Buhari dies or leaves

humilitypays:
whatever I am today, owe more tribute to my friends (guys).


Among us, we have raised a lot of money to support some of our course mates who couldn't secure good jobs for them to start a business to stand.


I have gotten contracts, no interest loans from my male friends.


A course mate of mine once left $50,000 with me for 10 months. I know how much I made with that his money.


Some of the guys in my click have given their house projects to some of our guys just to assist them come up.


All the guys in my click building one building project or another, na one of our guys must execute the project from foundation to roofing.


One of my guys got job with Dangote Refinery through another of our guy who is close to Dangote Brother's PA!


That's why I cherish the guys I know..only few useless ones, and we have already disconnected from such fools anyway

I have friends like that too..we are all pulling ourselves up one by one, good one bro, I have always been a "guys first " person nah

pocohantas:


Lol. Even guys dey break babes heart na. One of my colleagues wey be virtuous woman, if you see the kind table tennis wey her guy dey use her heart play ehn, you go find one of your brothers for her.

Eeya... that's life...the girl too go turn bad girl soon, circle of life

pocohantas:


Thank you!! The guy himself is a user!! If that was a boy-child he trained, will he expect marriage and sex in return? There are young guys that need help, men will not help them because they can’t give them anything in return. He thinks if her parents have money to train her in school, they will allow one advanced bachelor to be doing rough play with their daughter because of school fees? Toor!!

Made 100 percent sense

sageb:
Go for it bro, be nice and humble, someone there may like your personality.

Thanks bro

I applied for a content officer job in Tunde Bakare's Church as a Content Officer, i saw the job application online and applied and was selected for the online interview, was told to come tommorow...I'm just wondering ,do churches employ graduates too...pls help me understand, because my friends are telling me to go for it

MISSCONGENIALITY:
If you like graduate with 1.1,2.2,3.3 or even 9.9, if you can't help yourself, if you don't have someone to help you, and most importantly, if your have not discovered yourself, you are inderp shit.

Actually discovering yourselves is only 1/3 of actualizing your plans in a place like Nigeria, but having skills, digital skills is extremely important in a country like this

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Lol my brother wetin woman pikin go do nah. My own na to dey do wetin I saby do small small. Better that carrying beauty for head like plantain chips.

Nah small small...if you're a student (in University)...learn something no matter how small, it'll definitely come in handy, most men too survive this way, also... making money and being financially buoyant isn't primarily for anyone other than you, it's your Plan B or maybe Plan A, cos the Plan A for small minded women is :

1.Try to Look to Good
2.Try to Look Flashy
3 keeping trying to continue looking good..
4.Be on the prowl for decent men ,attach to them and push for a marriage at all cost..

Smart thinking women look good for themselves first ,love themselves first, develop themselves and most importantly, are industrious...

doggedfighter:
All these kinds of over thinking where ladies think he's after sex and guys think she's after money prevent people from enjoying their relationships with open minds.


If you like someone and they tick some of your boxes give them the benefit of the doubt and hope for the best.


His talking about his woman's body maybe his own way of appreciating his woman and she may be enjoying the talks

His touching and flirting in public may even be the spark and spice of a particular relationship.


He doesn't talk about marriage? Must he talk about marriage?? Sometimes it's about comfort and companionship


Let's stop making relationships too hard.

Relax ,enjoy and explore with whoever you are comfortable with. !!

You only live ONCE !!

That's one way to look at it

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Who beauty help? Have your very seen a beautiful poor person? Money makes even the most ugliest chimp beautiful or handsome.

...hope you sha get the message and you're hustling your hustle in the little way you can...you are fine nah..saw your pic on Facebook

MISSCONGENIALITY:
What of us the women? We also need to know what we can do to ran far away from.poorverty. riches weren't meant for men alone nah

It's simple, don't rely on your beauty, hustle like you're ugly and your life counts on it :

CalabarPikin:


They is no time in life as sweet and enjoyable compared to being single....I swear down....my married sis will always tell me...bro enjoy ur single hood.... I'll like whaaaa..??
My gf left me to marry cuz of pressure from family and friends....a 23yr old babe at that...no issues...d problem now..she keep calling nd texting me seeking for us to see.....my sister I don't do married women

That's the fact bro, though my own didn't leave cos of marriage,I doubt I'll be open to any relationship anytime soon, I see the freedom as an opportunity to set up myself, cos relationships and love for Nigeria isn't spontaneous, it's a means to an end...why not just channel the freedom into something worthwhile

capricornlady:
Same here.. Everyone's asking when i'll get married, but sincerely i wanna get married but it seems there's no love again, all the MEN are taken

It is well

It really is well

specialmati:
Proverbs 31 Virtuous Woman: Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.until our society Begin to breed this kind of a virtuous women without entitled reasoning.we are in for a long thing.

I just opened that portion of the Bible, truly the Bible is complete, I just opened my Bible in a long time...women should should Proverbs 31 to the end... there's a whole lot for men and women to understand in there

pocohantas:


This is Nigeria, everyone would never earn 100k, let alone 400k. I remember making my hair somewhere and one lady there said the only way she can work in corporate Nigeria is if they pay her like 150k. I was shocked at her target, but it reminded me of the reality in Nigeria.

The most important thing is to get a supportive partner and cut down on unnecessary things. We should also watch the number of kids we have. Nigerians too born abeg!

Wedding has never been compulsory. Especially when the couple cannot afford one.

On point, I know a friend who's just 32 , basic salary is 130K at this primary, works multiple jobs , totalling up to like 250-300K monthly salary, he's a graphic designer, video animator, already has a land, married, his wife has her own Cake making /eateries kitchen....they intend to buy their first car, thinking of using for Uber and driving by himself,both of them are hustlers,I just look at them and I wish ,women can open their eyes and see that, everything that is need for any marriage to work is the will to make it work, support each other,kill all expectations and get to work in the marriage, the basic issue every Nigerian woman and most women have is the believe that they're princesses, eggs to be treated the best whether or not they've earned it, sometimes when this my friend wants to blow money on something unnecessary, she's sit him down and even analyze the best possible way and projects they should spend,I think the two of them were made for each other, it's hard to find such sha,but women need to drop the "I'm a princess" attitude, whoever is lying to them need to stop

Mineisgrace:
It's true partial but what about people who are married and it is only the wife that has a job but the husband doesn't.

Well...that happens... that's the whole point of the discussion for me, how both partners react to financial issues

hidhrhis:
im giving out 1000$ worth of btc if trump wins

he'll win certainly ,but it wont be easy

nigmarelli:
STILL AVAILABLE.

What's up , can I add a complete desktop set core i5,with monitor, a clean infinix Hot 5 ,I have a drone too,newly shipped, but one of the blades got broken, but broken, everything else works, I'll add 15K with the drone, without the drone ,I'll add 20K

Guys I want to relocate to another state for my NYSC and would like to know the states that pays States Alawee and how do they pay, is it every month or do they pay every two or three months together or at the end of the year, guys helps me

Coldie:

This is what I have been saying that was what was responsible for feeding the crowd in Lagos.


To many I repeat too many jobless people full Lagos whose job is to stand on the road collect money or if they see celeb they block the road and demand for money.

Let them do a sweep of Lagos its not hard to catch those responsible for this anarchy, since its civic19 palliatives and its branded let them storm the area and arrest everyone found with one

Who are the rightful owners of the palliative foods, you, the government or the people,think again Buhari dumbo...

Rejoice28:
The enemy is not the east
The enemy is not the west
The enemy is not the north
The enemy is not the middle belt
The enemies are our evil and corrupt politicians that has succeeded all this years in tormenting and making us suffer untold hardship Lack of employment opportunities, insecurities,poverty etc we should look beyond tribe,the fight is for the future not about tribe...we cannot succeed if we are disorganized that's what they want and many ignoramus are not seeing the handwriting on the wall.
#Endsars#
#Endbadgovernment#
#Endcorruption#
We are 1 Nigeria

Tell them ooo...let the young forge ahead to create a new better Nigeria, we need a factory reset in the country, I'd gladly take up a bazooka and make sure all the current Senate leaders , president and key leaders in this current regime are all killed...their children won't pay for their mistakes, but would lose everything they have and be made to start over ,all the politicians properties would be confiscated

QueenNemesis:
I'm off to Ghana tomorrow God willing. I don't want to be raped!

Evil gets to everyone, if we dont stop it, no one is safe, I saw your post supporting Buhari, whatever your wish others is what I'll happen to you

lekbel09:
Dude I have never insulted anyone online before but you are so fucking annoying , can you just listen to yourself for God's sake.

What the hell is wrong with you mehn , you keep provoking people on this forum with your useless support for evil......I hate you with perfect hatred....

I dunno what to say

Is that manna bbq grills, he should be killed

MISSCONGENIALITY:
No one owes you any explanation as to why the protest should continue.
Now bang your head against the wall or you climb the mountain, throw yourself down and die. Since you are so dumb that with all the issues in Nigeria, you can't find any reason why people's protest should continue.
I pity the womb that bore. I also pity your children.

The guy's a fool jare, just leave him be