₦airaland Forum

Charlentine:
So here's the problem, I do love this lady to a degree, but I ain't going for that marriage stuff. Not yet, and definitely not with her. I told her my plans from the day we officially started dating and she was totally cool with it. only to suddenly go mafia and change everything and become super possessive and pester me for marriage after some months, in a "If u won't marry me then ENEMY mode activated!" kind of way. That's unfair na! I've not dated much but my last gf wasn't unreasonable na, she even loved me for being straightforward with her and we dated exclusively until I had to travel. Then i adviced her to move on with her life (tho it was a very hard decision cos she's an awesome person, beautiful too) but we're friends till date.


Anyway, so Im letting this lady go so she can find a proper husband, but I don't want her beef (she gets very hostile and vengeful whenever she feels slighted even for the best of reasons, no matter how much u try to reason with her) cos I still have some unfinished business with her and don't want her to ruin it. Shes the type that, if something isn't going her way then it is BAD no matter how great it has been. She has potential husbands (ex'es) and has quickly resorted to hooking up with one for marriage. I wish her well, but don't need the hostility now.


How does one deal with this? Wud it have been better to give her false hope, and then bail once I get my stuff out? Won't that be unfair to her? Are the majority of ladies selfish like this cos I always hear ladies cry "he jilted me bla bla bla"? because guys have learnt to be dishonest with them? Is there another way? Like Ive confessed, I haven't dated much, but I want to believe we don't all have to be bad.

hungryboy:
you were been get sound education wan make "put some senses into you empty skull"
Bros no come here disgrace yourself nah
We know say Akpabio and his boy Udom Emmanuel get paid laptops full Internet


Stick to defending 'em and attacking their critics on Facebook abeg
Wetin Akpabio use 3 trillion allocation do for 8yrs you no fit talk, Na to throw insult around you sabi

hungryboy:
High thief Akpabio been loot my State sha
but many ediots in my State will tell you that at least he tried in using some of the funds in building roads and a Stadium and stealing some
My advice for Mr Inibehe Effiong is, no go die for people were no go acknowledge or appreciate your sacrifice ,
Akwaibomites and many Nigerians have normalised corruption

Aitee1:
Nairaland front page...smh

ahnie:
These actresses are the same.....

They have nothing sensible to offer than
Body,curves,bumbum,breast,bleached knuckles.

Intellectual discuss...Zero raised to power one.

Brain......4% literally dead!
Good character....voicemail
Bunch of xpired weavons.

rawgurl:
A gallant lady who is not physical displaced caught stealing ?

4 things are involved,

1. Spiritual problem
2. Greediness
3. Hunger
4. Financial crises.

obowunmi:
She appeared to me in a dream and threatened to kill me.

It is not her first time.

I was close to several Pastors for prayers but they keep asking me for money. So I stopped calling them.

She won't stop threating my life.

This is a woman who never married or bore children. She has given her womb to the witches society.

iwadobo:
Naira land can't help you. If you are sure she is the one, look for a way to eliminate her and live in peace for life . Is she in the village or city? If she is in the village, better . She can easily be taken care of . No child , no husband. Yea, she would probably be staying alone or goes to the farm alone most of the time
Plan it well , do the needful and live in peace . It works !

obowunmi:
She appeared to me in a dream and threatened to kill me.

It is not her first time.

I was close to several Pastors for prayers but they keep asking me for money. So I stopped calling them.

She won't stop threating my life. You need a doctor for your situation, not a pastor

This is a woman who never married or bore children. She has given her womb to the witches society.

MrTour:
You forgot to add United Kingdom -3 and half years in well ventilated prison, you are guaranteed 3 square meals, mosquitoes will never bite you.

You choose if you want to eat KFC or MacDonalds, you can be released earlier with good behaviour.

The best prisons in the world is UK Prisons full stop.

jtkoko9:
The drug peddlers are aware of these penalties but they sure sha try their luck.

solomonbrown64:
.... I love long legs, I can kill for those....

Wasky101:
Hating u typed? You don't see the truth in what I typed son? Or is it because I mentioned PEJ, would it be better if I mentioned Buhari or Fashola?

Wasky101:
No it won't be complete, how can it be complete giving recent happens. And we all know where the loyalty of the people from that region lies.
Coconut head

Wasky101:
Almost all if not all the people that beat up the man here, would now start fighting in support of PEJ. Who is the bigger thief

divineshare:
Too bad, we are the enemy of ourselves.

Let crucify as a person not as a community or tribe.

Say no to name checking, as long as we remain one lets condemn whatever that tarnishes our image as a country.