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Politics / Re: Seriake Dickson Inaugurates 41-Member Transition Committee by Pennyways: 6:00am On Nov 20, 2019
Dick-son is a fool

One thing in life that bring successful men down is pride

How I wish EFCC will invite him for a talk

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Politics / Re: Senate Moves To Approve E-Voting For Future Polls by Pennyways: 5:59am On Nov 20, 2019
shocked
And how sure they are will not still manipulates this e-voting in their own favour and interests

Abeg anything Nigeria Na tire I dey
Politics / Re: Femi Falana Speaks On Kogi, Bayelsa Elections by Pennyways: 5:45am On Nov 20, 2019
Nothing good about PMB

His government

His INEC

His DSS

His security forces

His electoral rigging



Well, PMB is a penalty was must suffer for criticizing and blackmailing once a God giving president.


Swore is still in DSS custody, it is a penalty he so much deserves

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Romance / Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Pennyways: 8:52pm On Oct 30, 2019
frankyskyboi:
I started a relationship with a lady in March this year and it's been going on well though she works in Lagos while I'm in the eastern part of the country.

When we were at the introductory part of the relationship, I asked about her family and she told me they are separated. I asked what's the reason for the separation and she said its due to irreconcilable differences and they separated when she was a toddler that it's her dad that raised her up tho she keeps contact occasionally with her mum.

She stays with her aunts in Lagos. I asked if she asked both parents to know why and she said she only asked her dad and he said he doesn't want her mum to be working class and she insisted to be One that he wants her to be a stay at home wife. I asked if she heard from her mum and she said no. She also said her aunts said same thing her dad said.

The reason really didn't go down well with me as it's too flimsy and I've told her to ask her mum and she keeps procrastinating or giving one excuse or the other. It beats my imagination how a grown up adult can't know with conviction why her parents separated or I guess the truth is being hidden.

I'm bringing this up here because my brother married from a separated home and it was war before my parents gave consent. If she can't give me concrete reason why the parents broke up which I'll present before my parents, I really don't know how the relationship can move forward because we detest divorce in our family.

Please I need your advice if I should continue or quit.
my friend you are stupid go and find urself a good life

Mamas boy

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Health / Re: My Cousin Is Growing Grey Hair At 25, Please Help by Pennyways: 8:30pm On Oct 30, 2019
I don't consider this as an issue that affects life, what matters in life is the success we make not young or how old we are.

A boy with grey hair at 25 can look older like a man with grey hair at 50

Face important issues in life

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by Pennyways: 10:05pm On Oct 22, 2019
lollybizzu:


Bro can we talk?
I want to cross over to IT too

Please quote me to give me your number I will call you.
my contact below
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by Pennyways: 6:26am On Oct 22, 2019
Heineken:
Am seriously suffering. At 31 am still squatting. Am through with my service since 2014 but still no job. Am more than depressed... Am perplexed and am not thinking well. At my age I don't have even 1000 in my account. To eat, I have to visit friends...most times is just only breakfast and water at night. I don't want to die this way.. Am not happy. I applied civil defense. Don't know if anyone can help me.. Or any job.
omoh na computer we d use survive, become a IT genius and federal government jobs will become a trash to u

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Travel / Re: Cost Of Road Trip To Ghana by Pennyways: 7:46pm On Oct 21, 2019
cheesy
Politics / Re: Photos Of Saraki's Property In Ikoyi That Court Orders Him To Forfeit by Pennyways: 6:59pm On Oct 21, 2019
Buhari damn good in fighting opposition.

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Travel / Re: Things To Run Away From When You Are In Uyo, Akwa Ibom State (pictures) by Pennyways: 12:52pm On Oct 21, 2019
JamesBond008:



Eyen Eka....Can I be online student of yours? Hacking could be a sweet thing to do just for fun
nothing serious is done for fun seeks, it's done when it is necessary needed
Whenever you you are ready let me know

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Family / Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Pennyways: 11:21pm On Oct 20, 2019
computergeek:
So I’ve never actually brought a personal issue to this forum, but this one is beyond me and I don’t know the best course of action to take here. I believe that there are people here who may have had a similar experience or might know what best to do. This may be a bit long.

So there’s this neighbor of mine whom I have an after-school agreement with. She’s a stay-at-home mum with two kids (a nursing baby and a four-year-old) while I have one child (also four). I usually leave my office at 4:00pm, so the agreement is, after-school at 12:30pm, I’ll go pick up the kids (they go to the same school) and return to work while she watches my son for me. I get my son his lunch and snacks before he goes there, even though she’s begged me to stop doing that, but I can’t saddle her with feeding a child that’s not hers.

The issue now is, a lot of violent things have happened in that house and as of this week, my son won’t be returning there. But I fear for the woman. Our homes are separated by a wall, but we often hear the arguing and crying sometimes. I knew she was having marital issues but I didn’t know the extent.

About two weeks ago, I went to get my son from the house and I noticed he wasn’t talking as usual. My son is the very boisterous type who likes to bounce as he walks, and he’ll usually try to take the key from my hand so he’ll open the door himself. That day, he wasn’t talking as usual. He seemed scared and shaken up. I knew the woman would sometimes punish the kids by asking them to kneel down when they fought, but she wouldn’t hit them. I asked him what the issue was, if anyone at school or home had been looking for his trouble, the guy said no.
He’s very close to his father (they are best friends), so when my husband came home I asked him to talk to the boy because he couldn’t choke his food down. After about a while, my son opened up. Apparently, he’d witnessed a very violent beating that he was struggling to find the right words to explain. He said that David’s father had been punching his mother in the passage with two hands at a time, and when she’d tried to run, he brought her back and beat her more. He said that he and David had to hide under the table because they were scared of getting hurt. He then said the mother raised a flower vase and hit him on his head, but the man continued beating her and shouting at her.

I didn’t know what to say. My son had witnessed a violent beating and it traumatized him. We soothed the boy and told him to forget about it. I then knew why the woman didn’t come out to hand him over as she usually did when I went to get him. He just came to me by himself.
The next day, I was skeptical about taking my son back there but he said he doesn’t want to stop playing with David and Sandra (the one-year-old baby). After school, I picked the boys up and drove them home. David’s mom came to the door and her face was badly bruised. I had to ask her what was wrong, but she hurriedly said she fell down and then took the kids from me.

On Friday last week, two days ago, the worst happened. It was around 3:00 or 3:30 when the woman called me at work. I picked the phone up and it was my son. He said that David’s mummy was lying on the floor and wasn’t opening her eyes. He said she was still moving but she couldn’t open her eyes. That blood was coming out her nose and mouth and their daddy had driven away. My heart literally flew out of my chest.

I called my husband as I was driving home and told him to meet us at the hospital. Long story cut short, she was badly battered and torn apart, almost about to give up life. I took her and all the kids to the hospital. While they were cleaning her wounds and hooking her up to the IV, I sorted out the bills. My husband tried to reach out to hers but he was rejecting the calls, so he went to make a statement at the area police command. They told us to contact them once she wakes up to give her statement. The police doesn’t usually like to dabble into marital issues but the woman was disfigured beyond imagination.

Sadly, you won’t believe what she said when she came to after a few hours. She started begging us to not report to anybody and not even call her family. That she’ll refund us the hospital bills and we should just call her friend that lives in New Haven to come and look after her. She was trying to protect the beast that had beaten her and left her for dead. We tried to reason with her because the man would certainly kill her sooner or later. She said he’s her husband and the father of her kids, bla bla bla. She told us that she’d been confronting him about a girl he’d been gallivanting openly with him, and that’s been the cause of all their issues.

She told me to use my number and call her husband because he doesn’t have me as a contact. I called him and told him the wife he tried to kill was in the hospital. He told me that she had better remain there because he’ll kill her if she ever comes near his house again. He hung up on me. She’s still insisting that he doesn’t mean it and she must go back once she’s discharged.

The issue now is, should we withdraw the police report or take the case up? The woman’s life is in danger and she doesn’t seem to understand the seriousness of her situation, writing it off as momentary anger. I don’t know why women choose to remain in these violent situations even when they have children to live for. She’s not even thinking about her one-year-old who has been with me all weekend.

Mature advice is needed here. Pease push to front page. I don’t know if we’ll be overstepping our boundaries by trying to help her.

definitely she is a house wife probably the uneducated one, such fellow sucks in love even at the face of death. People may accuse you of breaking a home the woman may become ur enemy after u succeed helping her soul from her terror husband, but what do I know? But I know that husband and wife matter get as e dey be. I will advise you report this matter to appropriate authorities, human rights agencies and others women against violence organizations or groups dem plenty for every state. The dumb woman needs help. Help her biko, God go bless you

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Travel / Re: Things To Run Away From When You Are In Uyo, Akwa Ibom State (pictures) by Pennyways: 10:34pm On Oct 20, 2019
chuksnielson:
Things And Places To Avoid In Uyo, Akwa Ibom State

As written by Osam

If you're planning to visit or already living in Uyo, in Akwa Ibom State, please written below are things and places you need to avoid for your own good, while you are in Uyo.

1. The Phone Repairers Around Plaza: Should your phone get spoilt, while in Uyo, pls don't make the mistake of taking your phone to any of the so called phone repairers around the popular plaza, cos majority of them are scammers. They don't know how to repair phones.They are just there looking for unsuspecting customers to swindle.
Most of them are agents who pose and pretend to be genuine phone repairers. They are just there to seek and collect phones from customers, which are later taken to the real (but not so good) phone repairer somewhere for repairs. The outrageous fee collected from customers are usually shared between them. And most times, they are unable to repair the phones after collecting money from the owners of the phones. Their main aim is to 'chop' your money. They are swindlers. They don't take their time to learn the work well before setting up shop as phone repairers.

Don't take your phone for repairs to any of those guys at plaza. Simply look for an authorized and well established phone repair company to take your bad phone to in uyo.


2. Shoe Sellers At Plaza: Avoid buying shoes or any footwear on display from any of the sellers around plaza. Majority of them sell substandard footwears that won't last more than 3 months before they start getting spoilt. Avoid them!

They may be cheap, but they are substandard footwears. Save enough money and go to any good boutique in Uyo to get quality shoes that you can wear and enjoy for a long time.


3. And avoid dating Uyo girls. According to some guys I spoke with, most of the girls in Uyo are scammers. Many of them work hand in hand with their main boo to deceive and scam unsuspecting toaster or lover boy. They told me, most of these girls are usually sent and used by their main uyo boyfriend (that can't take care of them very well), to deceive and scam any guy that might want to date her. The girls will give the new loverboy sex, just to make him feel happy and convinced, while they (together with their main boo) feed on his money and resources...

In order not to be scammed, they are advising guys to face their work/business, and avoid Uyo girls. Cos the girls are not in Uyo to count flyovers. They are there to make money off guys.
God will punish you at last, that's is my state though I don't base there but I know that my people and my city are much better people. You put this to condemn thier images, their businesses and daily life hustle, God will punish you.


Seun and lalastica dis Una forum gradually become a trash bin and this may warrant me to hack this trash site of yours, I'm a deadly hacker if I hack this site you won't recover even a pin from it. I will prove to you that I spent several years in Nigerian Institute of Information Technology (NIIT) where I did several IT courses, don't dares me regularize every trash before it make front page. I won't say more this is a faceless forum next time you will hear from me
Travel / Re: Things To Run Away From When You Are In Uyo, Akwa Ibom State (pictures) by Pennyways: 10:24pm On Oct 20, 2019
subtlemee:
I am proudly from Akwa Ibom State and I live in Uyo and I can boldly say OP you are talking rubbish ,your list is lame as I was expecting you to say something serious as any normal city you find people hustling everyday to make ends meet for the phone repairers can you compare it to computer village experience? Not to talk of the shoes don't you know what is called "aba made" you expect someone to go buy expensive shoes and display on the roadside on the floor?for the girls please don't use your beer parlor gossip to classify all Uyo girls because you are not stupid
nooooooooo babe the OP is so stupid don't say he is not stupid, in fact the OP has mental problem. He should thank is God that Nairaland is a faceless forum I would have Sue him in a judiciary court for that nonsense he posted there. I feel so bad with that idiot posted that rubbish

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Agriculture / Re: Meet Reston Tedheke Ex-Militant, Who Is Ga'ate Farmer In Nasarawa by Pennyways: 4:36pm On Oct 18, 2019

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Politics / Re: Mass Resignation Hits PDP Bayelsa State Government. "Everybody" Is Resigning. by Pennyways: 7:52pm On Oct 17, 2019
netpro:
Bayelsa State must rise in unity and defeat Dickson's 3rd term agenda.

Things has to be better.

My friend shut up and go to bed, its bedtime already and stop hanging around NL to make useless comments on any topic that surfaces on front page

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Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Bullion Vans: Between EFCC And Segalink On Twitter by Pennyways: 5:40am On Oct 17, 2019
NGpatriot:
Is renting Bullion van a criminal offence in Nigeria? Or you saw what was inside the van?

Too many illiterates in Nigeria.

Really!

Stark illiterate you are
grin grin

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Politics / Re: Lawan: Nigeria Needs To Pray More To Overcome Challenges by Pennyways: 5:18am On Oct 17, 2019
grin


Lawan d real deal
Politics / Re: FG To Review Wages, Allowances For Governors, Others by Pennyways: 5:17am On Oct 17, 2019
smiley
Politics / Re: Monica Ugwuanyi Advises Children On Proper Hygiene by Pennyways: 5:17am On Oct 17, 2019
smiley

Ok that's nice move


But there are thousands of children there in the rural communities that haven't known the city

Thousands hustling out their lives through hawking on the street from sun rise to dusk without having a bath.

Please madam first lady help them
Crime / Re: 'I Used Ransom From My Victims To Sponsor My Wife’s Education – Kidnap Suspect by Pennyways: 11:02pm On Oct 16, 2019
NwaNimo1:
Traditional ruler of Osogbo!'
Osogbo, is that brown roof western part of expired Nigeria.
Politics / Re: Nigeria’s Debt Hits N25.7trn, Rises By N3.3trn In One Year by Pennyways: 8:31pm On Oct 15, 2019
Tphal12:


Change we voted for.

*For nysc posting or redeployment to any state of your choice....hit me up*


Fraud

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Politics / Re: Nigeria’s Debt Hits N25.7trn, Rises By N3.3trn In One Year by Pennyways: 8:24pm On Oct 15, 2019
Who case don't care to read the write up there
Hit like

I don't care to read the full details, just the topic am satisfied.

Before 2023 Nigerians will be surprise how much debt Nigeria will owe

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Customs Hands Over 6 Mine-resistant Military Vehicles To US Govt (Pic) by Pennyways: 10:24pm On Oct 14, 2019
Chukwurah003:
God bless President Buhari. PDP is a party of criminals.
amadioha strike ur head

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Customs Hands Over 6 Mine-resistant Military Vehicles To US Govt (Pic) by Pennyways: 10:23pm On Oct 14, 2019
Ok
Family / Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Pennyways: 7:34pm On Oct 12, 2019
Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.
dear friend, I don't think family planing is necessary for people of intellectual minded people, ur wife should learn the days of obligations and abstains her herself from dinning with you in such days

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Politics / Re: NNPC Discovers Crude Oil, Gas in Bauchi State. VIDEO by Pennyways: 8:17am On Oct 12, 2019
careytommy37:
Wow! By God's grace, I pray more are discovered in commercial quantity across many northern states. Kano, Kaduna, Jigawa, Nasarawa, Benue and Adamawa are next in line.
I also pray, the quantity they produce will be greater than that being produced in the South.
Earlier in the week, I read OPEC (a majorly Muslim organisation) has granted Nigeria more quota in oil production. Perhaps, it was in anticipation of this.
Hopefully the North will do the needful once they realise the South are actually the parasites
I pray u do the needful now cos we are tired of sharing a country with those animals from the northerner region
Beast and terrorist put together
Celebrities / Re: Asa Drops New Album 'Lucid' by Pennyways: 6:25am On Oct 11, 2019
id4sho:
see palms like Granny


You don't mean it osho

Your life is wreck and you don't care about that, all u care about is looking at a successful God-blessed lady to criticize her Palms.

But sad news for u, what you saw there is just photography work.

Though you may be so illiterate to understand

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Family / Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Pennyways: 5:10am On Oct 11, 2019
2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.
you are still a child, still watching pornography, and you wanna quit masturbation at the same time. Irresponsibility have had been part of your life
Romance / Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Pennyways: 5:40am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!
one thing that is very difficult for some of you girls to understand is someone who truly love you. And another thing I know about you ladies are always victims and prey for fake lovers

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