If she asks, its unlikely I'll tell, where's the fun there. Gals like to think far. Remove the necessary variables from the equation and keep her guessing. Thats y the thread came about "why do guys lie". Cos whateva equation they're making up has to be favourable (but then theres no honor. FU,CK honor,, I want that)

I'd rather keep mute and keep her distracted. tho, the less she knows the better

Definitely there such a thing as loving too much, but from experience, it usually adjust itself because the side effects from the other party show and every1 has their pride.

The probblem is when the negative effects of showing emotions start and the show of endless love continues like there's no problem. thats disastrous as the other party will take you for granted (there's no worse thing than this situation BELIEVE ME)

Hiding emotions is usually from the experience of being burned previously. This can be good esp. when you want to establish your position in the other party's world but it can get old and rather annoying esp when Patience is not a strong virtue.

Showing love is definitely a must but "forming" sometimes can have its benefits. Always keepp the other party guessing, make yourself a bit of a mystery but overall let the other party know you're there for them

At the risk of being persona non grata, I can Identify with the poster,

My female friends refer to me as a 'control freak', a few bottles never hurt nobody plus 1st nighters are a usual

Always: NO
Mostly: YES

Generally It has to be in the picture somewhere