Its the trend.

Plus you're kinda paying for what you gonna get.

98%? Leave? Whats this?

Get ur Facts straight.

To answer your question. . . When you're young, too many variables are uncertain. you make decisions that you can't see the result even within the foreseeable future. I actually thot twas the other way round.

Sh** Happens my dear get over it.

There is more in this life than meets the eye. Juju works abi?
Why wouldn't faith in God have an effect. Its just as important as every other aspect of the relationship
Don't expect to misbehave and believe that faith alone matters tho

but why the ladies like they come here form one community like mallams, to bash and trash the male folks everytime, each person go just come here pour her anger and frustration wey her BF curse ontop gentlemen for the land. haba, abeg, u all stop am jare. and be real. men are bad, men are bad, but the same una, after posting go run go una BF house go hang legs for ceiling. shior.

I tire o.

No marry na. shey dat 1 go be solution for una

^{Not constructive}

Just enjoying myself with whoeva feels like been with me at any point in time 't' till such a time I choose to change the equation.

Having a boyfriend is a plus; don't have to bother myself with any1 been attached.

Both were.

If you're asking so you'd know who's to apologize then guy. YOU SHOULD. Its the 1 of oldest tricks in the book.

Slap(can't do anything about that now, can we?) has sent the message, apology(with all the sweetness) will bring her back to her supposed position. You're still in control.

An attractive gal who can understand/decipher me. And ready to put just enough effort in making the relationship work.

@ Kokoye: I'd rather not engage u.

What I'd like to know is ur reasons for saying what u said.

My reason for stating that I ain't qualified to reply this post. I don't have a girl <Not Searching>

Have a very few friends wit benefits who would like to graduate to the GF status and I it doesn't bother me (what their friends think).

While recognizing the naivety in this post I'l do it anyway.

Yeah (An Ex). First and only time. very Heated quarel. had Parried quite a view then she hit me in the eye (My brain shut down) One Hit . Punched the Door and walked out. Worst quarel I've ever had with a lady (Now whoever the person is won't see me to exchange words with talkless it degenerating into a fight). Apologized for a whole month. I think she 4got the issue way longer b4 I did.

We're became tighter (then). She actually was the one given excuses for me, Ladies y do u do that?

Don't think I'm qualified ti reply on this post but I will anyways

NO WE DON"T!!!. They always think I'm stuck up. I hate ppl getting in my bizness

If we're going to get along then I'd only feed from the interest they show in me yet there r still boundaries.

U no come reply again. You don ask am or you still dey Jones.

Well. Thats 1 Option.

U could keep doing what u do. As long as u don't feel like an A** and u know wots up

U shouldn't feel like u're being used cos then U chose to do it for ur own reasons while being aware of her own reasons.

WTF, go with the saga's post. For wetin now?

If its normal 4 them to be doing this then step up and do your thing: Put 1 for 0. U know every

<Sighs>

Chief Host. This is rather embarassing. WTF!!!!
This is suspicious

Ask Her already. She wants to know y? tell her She's seems kind like a cancerian, sexy like scorpio. 5millions ways mein.

Hmmm Guy. . . No laff oh. cos I must tell u that u're the 1 being laffed @.

U're just 1 of the many(guys) doing favors (thats how they roll). U fit don turn to evening food [provider].

@Post: The Usual Trend. at least where am at

Lemme "TRY" and replay so it'll be more understandable

He's 25 She 19

Apparently He loved her (but not the case anymore)

Is Familiar with Her Family (met 'em a couple of times)

She does what she wants especially when in company of others (Prefers their company rather than his)?
According to him: She plays around and makes him feels like he's the only one (or rather on top of the list) and still benefits from him (recharge cards and money)

He has seen thru her game but is playing along. and needs ur advice

Baba God is Merciful. Thats Why

Jus goes to show u dat most don't have it complete.

even in men

check this out


Men dat can yarn better (make u laff/ trip u wiv yarns)
Men dat can perform in bed (Men wein sabi do well well)
Men dat have plenty dough to spend (So much Money/Generous)

Do u ever find there three qualities in 1 man

Yea it has its glory (respect) but that doesn't say errthing about the package.

Better you have it than not. . . but then again why??

Well Said. . . but then I'm afraid it only occurs when it comes naturally or the person is introspective and feels the need the be a better person does that occur

Don't wanna mess with this one. or then again maybe? . A strong character tho

definitely not one of the usual suspects.

Wot I meant was its hardly possible that you'd know me but mos def I know u. U can say I'm a Fan

Nag + Nag!!! I don't even want to imagine it. Thats a self-imposed nightmare

@ last 2 posters: I think that follows the general trend; Males would prefer an outspoken female.

The outspoken gal has countless secrets she'd rather not tell. What about the quiet ones.

The quiet male can be read with a number of smooches and nice gestures (Out darn wickness). Except ofcourse he's a beast (In which case Run, or not even the fiercest can be calmed)

Oh yes they do. . . The activities you as females see is the sifting exercise.

When they see it. The world can stop for all they care (Infact, the world WILL stop).

thinking who you used to be  

Definitely not 1 of the Usual suspects; Was a rare visitor who was awed by your sage-like posts and your ability to stay in the grey areas( Like u put it)  

quiet-quiet. Well it certainly occurs. Especially when both parties are not mute(as in don't talk at all)  

Nice point. But then what happens to all the naggers. Maybe they're all the single 1's at the late age.

outspoken and blunt yes! but definitely not nagging nor silence.

True story:
Guy: You're acting like a b$tch
Gal: You just called me a b&tch
Guy: No I didn't said you just acted like one
Gal: Same thing, you just Insulted me
Guy: No I didn't, I said it so you check ur character and apparently its workin
Gal: You're such an a**
Guy: Your reason
Gal: Coz u're one.
Guy: Now you're insultin me; its obvious you have no reason for saying wot u just did.
Gal: See how it feels

Thats outsopken, Can you handle that.
Suggest a better way of telling the gal she was misbehaving

Being Subjective, then thats ur line.
Might this be the case of Classy in the streets, noisy (or less reserved) in the privacy of whereva (not necessarily the home). Then Ovbiously its usually the ideal especially for women (who like to show their men off at every given opportunity)


There's really no excuse for nagging but I feel silence is a tard bit sinister(I'm Quiet most times I know) except you know how to extract the required information which makes me say opposites attract . I don't see how a quiet person will make much impact on another quiet person.

Original (seemingly) and Innovative.

Touche:

Still a sucker punch. It is what it is

@Negro: That was a sucker punch; couldn't have said it better

@Gamine: You need that spelled out?

Ever seen the analogy male = 1, female 0.

All electrical engeers would understand this. High, low. All Nothing

Its even in the anatomy (1 & 0)