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PoliticsRe: Bokoharam Bombing Kill 4 Many Wounded by PHAYOL81: 6:09pm On Nov 08, 2015
I wonder when the entire nation would only see the issue of BOKO HARAM as a thing of the past particularly with these bombings coming off like a heavy rain in the cloudy month of April, so sad. And reason why it's paramount to the Northern part of the country wouldn't but baffled me greatly.. .. perhaps somebody somewhere wants the northerners extincted from the face of Nigeria. undecided
Rip to the lost ones.. . so sad. embarassed cry
RomanceRe: Having Sex For The First Time....things No Body Will Tell You by PHAYOL81: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2015
Now that’s another post for the kids. Whether it finally help /hurt somebody depend largely on how /when the reader get the news N his digestion of its famous content. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: The Horrible Truth About Religion by PHAYOL81: 11:31pm On Jul 26, 2015
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That's actually classic but could you please sit still for a while and reflect on this following things:
1)By God I swear, l was once on a football pitch when it started drizzling and then came a shower but can you believe it divided the field in half-1 having a wet surface and the other nothing all along..... not even a drizzle. Of course things like this is normal but yet very rare 'cos av never gotten such close view ever since even though I accept sombdy else might' be gottn similar xperience . Now the logic here is if things like this come natural without a divine being up there governing over everything then we should av seen another individual emerging without sexual production/varginal delivery after all in your almighty believe the first man/couple must've come around by chance.
2)In the daily sun around three to four years ago, there was a bizarre news of a couple of school boys who murdered a female class mate for being arrogant and intended to kill her best friend whom they captured together too, shooting her in the head @ close range and then dumped in a foliage a little away from the road but as GOD would have it she came out of her coma and got a Miraculous rescue from a straying stranger. Now could science define why she escaped such death after a very clean job by the boys. That's bizarre, sure?
3)The barriers separating two seas, the subsequent darkness in depth of these seas, the comment about the sun and moon on different orbits even while there had been an eclipse, the foetal development, the comment about water being the core element of life, and many more of which I don't remember now are some of the things our dearest science has come to accept and discoverd as truth about the books you condemned and this books had had this messages centuries before science take root let alone having the required resources to acquire this facts.
*****If the people behind this written claimed they got such messages from somewhere, then that THING had to be revered if not feared 'cos HE'S known much more than what we know already. And if there's anything you don't understand yet about any explanation given therein in the books , I implore you to wait until our discovery get us thus far. *****
CareerRe: Green Snake Chases New Magistrate Out Of Court Chamber In Lagos by PHAYOL81: 6:04pm On Jul 07, 2015
Strange but a meaningless fad. I believe there is somebody somewhere who think it's unnatural.. .. .. Superstition.
PoliticsRe: 48 Bodies Buried After Jos Bombing by PHAYOL81: 5:50pm On Jul 07, 2015
So sad a news particularly when the nation is calling for a change of attitude, improve loyalty N commitment to national development. So sad... .
FamilyRe: Photos: Who Would You Save In This Situation? by PHAYOL81: 4:50pm On Jul 06, 2015
Loads of factors to consider :if mom is aging already, like she's around the 80, then I don't think she's worth the trouble. So the pendulum kinda swing onto the side of my wifey but only if she's humble, obedient and Soothing otherwise the luck shines on my son although he has to be fantastic, if not absolutely.
Now that's how I see it.
Jokes EtcRe: When You Need Help ... They Will Be Busy Taking Pictures ..... Nigeria Today by PHAYOL81: 4:53pm On Jul 03, 2015
Hope we all wake up to the actual need of humanity rather than the trend of social networks. That way we gotta care more where we go nonchalant.
Jokes EtcRe: Photo When You Have A Room Mate From Mbaise(lol) by PHAYOL81: 4:46pm On Jul 03, 2015
prince2blinks:
Everybody is different when in love.
Even the Gods. That's why someone survives in a similar condition others have failed using similar treatment. In a nutshell, God gives some peeps preference over others.
Jokes EtcRe: Where Do Flies Sleep At Night? by PHAYOL81: 4:23pm On Jul 03, 2015
They pick out dark spot for their rest at night but most of them, like our infamous mosquitoes, die in three days.
WebmastersRe: List Of The World's Top 10 Biggest Forums On The Internet And What They Earn. by PHAYOL81: 3:36pm On Jul 03, 2015
So this forum is that big? huh Then I 'd better start calling Mr Seun the pride of Africa nay Nigeria alone.
Jokes EtcRe: I know you can't answer all this funny question, just answer the one you know by PHAYOL81:
BobUg28:
**sweating profusly** Op extra sheet abeg.
### trying to giraffe ###
Pls, egbon, no bros.. . Pls make i copy the answer to no 2a small.. . grin wink pls I promise to take you go one joint 2nite for suya and a ice-chilled orijin wink cool
Jokes EtcRe: If Noah's Ark Were A Facebook Newsfeed (Pictures) by PHAYOL81: 10:47am On Jul 03, 2015
Lol.... ....... .. ...... Next.
RomanceRe: TEN Types Of Men Who Will Cheat On You No Matter What [must Read For Ladies] by PHAYOL81: 10:15pm On Jun 08, 2015
omo see list oooo grin.lets hear me niggas defend themselves.Watching the film in modern hd grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: If You Thought Love Like This No Longer Exists In This World by PHAYOL81: 9:36pm On Jun 08, 2015
yes she could be real but i kinda sense a rotten fish here. u know the thing they say abo.ut women and money. undecided
CrimeRe: Inmate Escapes In Benin by PHAYOL81: 3:40pm On May 04, 2015
2 things to consider here :d relationship of d warder and d inmate and d condition of d warder in relation with good standard of living. if dz 2 conditions ar closely considered, we know how n why d inmate escaped.
#MY Opinion #
CelebritiesRe: Why I Am Still A Virgin -adokiye by PHAYOL81: 4:06pm On May 02, 2015
Don't trust her. Perhaps she meant secondary virgin
Science/TechnologyRe: Mtn Latest Cheat Still Blazzing by PHAYOL81: 4:03pm On May 02, 2015
Fvck off doing trash
CelebritiesRe: Mind-blowing Photos Of David Beckam's 40th Birthday Hotel Venue by PHAYOL81: 4:00pm On May 02, 2015
Morocco? huhNigeria where art thou? huh
RomanceRe: Why Did Girls Claims That They Are Virgin When They Are Searchning? by PHAYOL81: 3:55pm On May 02, 2015
Simple, dats because dey want a responsible new mate.
CelebritiesRe: If you have a chance to bring back a dead celebrity who would it be *Pic* by PHAYOL81: 12:42pm On May 01, 2015
I luv MJ. I understand d world beyond deserve dat same treat we enjoyed while he lived.
#JUX KIDDING #
CrimeRe: Some Criminals On Nairaland by PHAYOL81: 12:30pm On May 01, 2015
Take heart bro u don fall mugu bt tanks 4 exposing d mo*herfvcker all d same.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Venezuelan TV Presenter Took Off Her Clothes During A News Report On Cristiano by PHAYOL81: 12:25pm On May 01, 2015
Dats incredible shocked
BusinessRe: Are You Aged 30+, And Are Still Running Office Errands…this Will Provoke You. by PHAYOL81: 9:11pm On Apr 08, 2015
Chiderad:
GET ANGRY!

I mean it... Get *REALLY, REALLY* angry in your spirit, but do not sin!

Get ANGRY anytime you have to do something that you don't really want to do but because of constraints you are crippled and are forced against your will (like going to work FOR SOMEBODY ELSE early in the morning)...

Get ANGRY when you have to report to your superior who is 5, 7, 10 years younger but because of better academic qualifications & experience, you’ve no choice but to report to him…

Get ANGRY for all the times you've always wanted to buy something nice and cool for yourself such as a tokunboh or new car, going on a vacation, take the day off, or whatever it is but couldn't afford it...

Get ANGRY if you've ever worried when the Nigerian stock market plummets... and you’re constantly losing money…

Get ANGRY if there has ever been an opportunity to improve your life or the life of people around you, but you couldn't take advantage of it because of financial limitations or time...

Get ANGRY if what you *REALLY* wish you could do in this life isn't happening YET...
..and you know what? Time isn’t anyone’s slave. It’s fast running.

Why are my shouting it to you to get ANGRY? But of course, there are obvious reasons. “Don't all the self-help materials tell us to keep a positive attitude... that things will "work out"huh

Guess what? 99% of the time... THEY'RE WRONG!

You need to be red-hot, boiling ANGRY about the way things are RIGHT NOW... It's only when you GET ANGRY, get fed up and get really pissed off with the way things have been or the way things are now that you will take the ACTION necessary to change your current situation and make it into something better.

Naturally as humans, two desires drive us:

1) The desire to gain pleasure.

2) The desire to avoid pain.

And the latter is stronger than the former. We are much more motivated to *avoid pain* than to gain pleasure.

Yes, we are all driven by the carrot and the stick, but fear of the stick will get the average Nigerian moving a lot faster than a salad at the end of a hard days work...

Why do you *really* go to work every day?

Is it because you’re pursuing your passion and some wonderful goals? I truly hope so!
But most people just get up and go to work because they FEAR losing their job. Even now so getting another one can be likened to a cow squeezing itself through the eye of a needle. And, really, no one in his/her right senses like begging for alms to get them through the night... The desire to avoid this horrific pain is EXTREMELY motivational, isn't it?! USE IT!

That’s all that is required.

If you know that pain motivates you, MAKE YOURSELF FEEL PAIN so that you will TAKE ACTION and change your current circumstances. It's OK to use your imagination here.

Think about what would happen if you got fired and couldn't find another job for the next 6, 9, 12 months... How freaked out would you get then? Envision and feel that.

Think about what would happen if you simply did nothing different for the rest of your life and continued to live the "status quo", do-what's-expected-of-you lifestyle that's got you this far, and left many of your most sacred dreams and ambitions on the table.

No wonder a sage once said, ‘it is madness expecting a separate result while doing the same thing over and over again’.

How painful will it be when you look back after so many years and then you come to the knowing that you never even tried to do what your heart was telling you that you *really* wanted to do in this life? Feel that.

Think about what not having enough time or money is NOT ALLOWING you to do that you really wish you could do... Feel that.


THEN GET ANGRY!

..... and then RIGHT NOW, before the feeling fades away or is numbed out of existence by your favourite television show or alcoholic beverage, MAKE A DECISION to change. That's all it takes.

As soon as you decide that you've HAD ENOUGH with the mediocrity you've accepted up to this point, the world shifts on its axis and will present you with new ways to think, new ways to act, new ways to LIVE.

Come to think of it. Your colleagues that are doing well for themselves don’t have two heads. If it entails that you go for a deliverance to sort spiritual issues, please do.(MFM is there to help you) Whatever ethical and legitimate action that needs to be taken for you to move forward, PLEASE DO!

Big doors swing on small hinges and the hinges that open the doors of opportunity are always the DECISIONS we make about what we will and what we won't settle for in our life. If you allow yourself to get ANGRY ENOUGH, the "settling point" for what you can and will receive in your life will be raised and you will experience a better future... a future more closely aligned with WHAT YOU WERE BORN TO DO here on Earth.

So GET ANGRY, TAKE ACTION, and GET PREPARED to *be happy* as you start creating your life on your terms the way you always hoped it would be... and it can my friend - it really, truly can!

When I *GOT ANGRY*, I decided to find better ways to make my living contrary to what my parents, friends and society dictated impliedly, expressly, consciously and unconsciously to me ... I'm so glad I did because now I'm living my life as ordained of God and helping others along the line.

I’ve made up my mind to serve mankind – service to humanity.

To Your Breaking Through & Happiness!

Chidera
PS
Mind you, there are times you can be financially broke but that doesn’t mean you are poor.

Feel free to share this piece. Someone might just benefit from it.
Thanks. Think I learned something from this. Hope it helps others too
CelebritiesRe: Do You Know Akon Real Name? by PHAYOL81: 9:09pm On Apr 08, 2015
Better I go along with the AKON I already know. Trying to remember all this will surely do no one no good. grin
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Photography/photoshop Concept: Me, Myself And I by PHAYOL81: 9:04pm On Apr 08, 2015
Great work but it'd av come off a lot better if you had taken the pain of applying the shade of shadows for the three images. Sublime art notwithstanding.

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