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CuteNbad:
Good day y'all,


I need y'all input on this.

So there's the girl I'm seeing currently. I'm yet to ask her out since these days no one does that again. I didn't wanna put a label on it or apply pressure. I just wanted it to keep flowing the way it was. I said was because there's the new guy she's seeing now.

She told me about it the last time we spoke. She said she gat her virginity to him. Something she promised me.

I feel hurt really. I do love this girl but she's slipping away from my grasp and I can't seems to accept that.

When I asked her why she slept with him when she knew we both had planned I'll be her first. She said it wasn't intentional and that it just happened.

Now she they've had sex thrice and she keeps calling him her bf to my face.

She came to my crib last week Monday and I was to have sex with her but she was on her period so we only smoothed and all... No sex.

Since she left my crib she's yet to call back or reply my text

She keeps saying I never asked her out each Time I asked why she's with the other guy.


I truly love this girl fr.
I have like three other girls in my life but I don't love them the way I love this girl.

I even stop talking to two of those girls because I thought she was getting serious with me.

Also she's never billed me before so it's not like she's after money

Anything I can do to save this?.


Ps: we're all undergraduate students.

Young man.

Thank God you’re literate.

Ignore the girl and actually read this thread from page 1 to 1000. After which you’d have the most suitable answer on how to proceed.

I understand you’re a kid. Calm down you’d be fine.

Three categories of people who will realize that men are the prize.
- Married women
- Single moms
- Single 30+ ladies

Eventually every woman must belong to one of these categories.

You better maximize your youthful years towards marrying a top prize or you will lurrn.

Just dey play. Wake up call my foot! You don’t understand men one bit.

You move out and he’s happy that the nagging and burden is lifted. He gets a good job, accuse you of abandonment and start carrying other women. Who lose? Just dey play.

olabrinks:
sometimes separation is needed. It’s the wake up call that some men need. Doing the same thing and expecting different results is madness. Men react more to actions than nagging.

Op please try to separate and go back to your parents. It doesn’t mean you’re divorcing but you need space.

Mrs. Virgin

Life is not a dichotomy of Good and Evil, it’s a between the Powerful and the Weak. In the Powerful category there are both good and evil people. In the Weak category, there are both good and evil people.

Unfortunately, you’re a good person who has fallen into the Weak category, due to your naivety and clueless.

Where on earth is virginity the exchange rate for wealth, happiness or success?

Virginity is for self preservation, religious beliefs and prevention of stds, hiv and unwanted pregnancy/abortion. It’s not a ticket to the good life, if you fail to play the game of life correctly.

This is the problem with religion, they teach you half truths and you’re mesmerized emotionally, thinking you’re on the right track. If only you thought outside the box of your virginity you’d have known how to vet men properly, so as to get best deal. Heck you’d have used it even as a Unique Selling Proposition to get a high value man. But you allow religion to deceive you to believe that when you marry as a Virgin, all other good things shall be added unto you.

I’m sorry about your predicament, but keep praying and keep encouraging your Angel, because leaving the marriage with three kids already is a huge burden. You might end up as a prostittute - or you think those into prostitutionn planned it that way? Na condition wey make crayfish bend.

Any embarrassment relating to Christendom, RCCG must be there.

DaddyFreeze2020:
The wedding is for Oloshos, Agberos and Area Boys. Na dem go full the wedding.

Its unfortunate the RCCG Church Pastor and management also disgraced themselves by allowing the use of their Church for such an IV sent out to the General public.

Ballzproblem2:
THE GREAT GATSBY Is a must read.


nothing bad pass rich simp,I wish I can summarize the book here.

I HAVE A QUESTION TO YOU AND EVERYONE HERE:

At what point of footing bills does one qualify as a simp? Does it mean one shouldn’t bear any bill at all? Not even paying for the date?

Be careful.

Redpill is not same as being an alph male.

There are redpillers who aren’t alpha males and there are alpha males who are simps.

The goal is to be an alpha male with a healthy dosage of the redpill.

We need to understand that a good number of people are is relationships not for genuine reasons of love and companionship but to experience the fantasies they’ve heard about. They just want to use you to relieve their fantasies but will camouflage it carefully as love.

- Sexual fantasies
- Cuckholding fantasies
- Cheating/deceit fantasies
- Billing/financial fantasies
- Domestic abuse fantasies
- etc

So not every relationship is for the right reasons. The fact she agrees to date/marry you may not really mean your game was the smoothest. Some just wanna relish their fantasies.

A relationship is an ongoing game/battle, with a lot of plot twists. Ensure you’re steadily informed so as to play the game accordingly, not everyone is a serious person.

It’s when she’s ready to branch-swing you’ll discover that creative excuses is a natural female talent.

If you don’t spend on her, she’d say you don’t love her enough. If you spend a lot on her, she’d say you don’t love yourself enough.

Guess what? Both are valid excuses.

When you start hearing such, start preparing your heart for detachment because a new man is likely in the picture already.

A man must be comfortable with the fact the the possibility of his loyal soulmate getting tempted away from him, isn’t zero.

I no wan hear say anything do my GOAT o. World war 4

Men are the prize. After all said and done, we remain the prize. Take a look at this post, single ladies apply faith to pray, using wedding gowns as “point of contact”.

Ex slay queens, baddies, feminists, runs girls, bad attitudes, how did you get my number?, you’re not my spec, I have 2 degrees, I earn very well, can you afford me? Etc.

Na here dem dey.

https://www.nairaland.com/7828687/how-far-too-far-single

Once you apply logic to study and understand women, you’d realize that it’s easy to hate them.

We need to understand some default settings found in the female, which serves as a software to operate their feminine physiology.

1. Hypergamy: It’s natural, no need to fight about this. AWALT.

2. Emotions over logic: Can’t be fixed, you must tolerate and regulate it for your relationship to stand. That’s why they need men to achieve stability in life and it’s also the reason why our forefathers prevented women from speaking on crucial issues and decisions making matters.

Now, due to evolution, these 2 points above brought about 2 other points that men need to challenge to a standstill, since the above 2 are purely natural.

The two toxic fruits are:

1. Covetousness.

- Female privilege vs male privilege:

A woman can never give a first hand account of the challenges and privileges men face in life, since they have never been one. This is also vice versa. The issue here is that women are fully aware of all the things they enjoy and the protocols shoved and allowances granted them just for existing. Men may also be aware of them, but you’d never hear a man groan that such should be granted to him, why? Simply because he knows that there’s an equivalent privilege for him - not necessarily exactly same type, but a suitable type, a win is a win.

Women typically enjoy their own privileges in silence or may even flaunt them. however, they will also complain and fight tooth and nail to acquire male privileges the moment they sense a male enjoying his. This is just covetousness.

The most annoying aspect of this is that for everyone benefit, there’s a responsibility attached, but these women are completely blind to the responsibility men face and covet their benefits, that’s why feminism will continue to be a facade.

Here, they’re coveting your privileges.

- Entitlement mentality:

Do you know that deep down, some women think that once you say “hello” to them, she automatically deserves to be compensated by your money, utility and your attention? Why? Simply because she exists and owns a pusssy, regardless of her beauty on a scale of 10.

Here, they’re coveting your resources and attention.

- To eat her cake and have it:

She wants to enjoy her hoe phase, end up damaged and demands a high value man to wife her without asking any questions.

Her dual mating strategy also falls under this point.

She wants to trash talk her age mates, date older men, but when she approaches the wall, expects her age mates to fancy her.

Here, she’s coveting your commitment.

2. Lack of accountability

- Gaslighting/Manipulation:

This is the female strategy of blaming men for every single thing that happens on the surface of this earth. This is tantamount to infantilization.

“If the man cheats, it’s the fault of the man. If the woman cheats, it’s the fault of the man.”

She prefers to create unrealistic scenarios, illogical assumptions, just to explain away why a woman cannot be wrong.

She’s rather die than admit her obvious faults. They resort to shedding their cheap, artificial and easy crocodile tears to foool a naive man, who’s unfamiliar with game.

- Deceit:

Women are naturally and brutally redpilled, so adequate information and heartlessness makes deceit as easy as ABC for them, why? Due to their physical fragility, men make the biggest mistake to see ALL women as angels, hence the scope works seamlessly.

- Hypocrisy:

They harshly condemn men for doing exactly what they do, in a way that make them appear as Saint Mother Theresa. Pretense and virtue signaling is a tool that they’ve applied to dodge accountability for decades.

So guys, see why you need education and experience about these women? Many men die young or are frustrated simply because of ignorance.

Learn or perish.

PstDapo:
I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbs.

You’re very smart and correct.

I’m currently holidaying somewhere in the south, a sub urban area. In this locality, the beautiful ones have migrated to the towns to get better guys, while the guys here are left with the average looking and bottom barrels.

I observed everything you wrote up there play out literally. A typical fine or curvy 19 year old girl has more game than a typical 29 year old guy. This is because she’s been retroactively studying men from 14-15 and has discovered the length they’re willing to go for her, so she unconsciously develops a coping mechanism. If she has a twisted mentality, men easily become canon fodder to her.

It’s far easier for women to develop and master game, because unlike men, game brings itself to them. While her male age mates are playing PlayStation, she’s in the Playboy mansion.

This page is not about men “crying” about women, this is real life tutorials for men to level up and learn what a girl 10 year younger than you already knows.

She’s announcing her singlehood for the next simp to wife her up.

Sadly, no commitment at all, these women are only for the fair weather. They are with you just for a good time, not a long time.

chukshobayo:
Please I need your advice. How can one handle this issue of a lady giving you green light in the office and she is married. I ask this question because ordinary I may not look her way but since it is office one need to be careful because na were food dey come from considering this economy, and to avoid creating unnecessary enemies at work, I feel I am simping.

Stop! Discipline/boundaries is a key aspect of being redpilled.

Two red flags 🚩:

1. Office: Focus on your job and treat your source of income as sacred, avoid silly risks with your money. Imagine getting fired for something silly as office romance (company policies may defer).

2. Married woman: Your life is most important. Avoid people’s wives! There are a million unmarried women to play your redpill game with, if you don’t respect a fellow man, be aware that some men can harm due to this.

All or non of the above may happen but think again, is the risk worth it?

Nathaniel Bassey - Adonai

Bonnie and Clyde 2023 😂

Your lust is her gain.

Druggism

Bad screen Samsung S5 for sale

Marry who you want, e no concern me.

Good evening guys.

I have a complete Wedding Gown set, size 6 for sale. It has been used just once (in May).
Going for 30,000 Naira.

. I’m in Abuja.

I always tell myself: as long as I could successfully learn how to roll a joint, manual driving and any technical skill at all can never be a problem for me.

dhiqson:
Ah daddy!!!
If we need lubricant?
Wah if she's got some psychological ish
Ah na wa o
Wah if you're not even doing the female "definition of a real man"
What if what if... This one is new oh

I’m so sorry to say. If you meet a fat girl with smelly pucci, you dicc will naturally be flaccid, except you take viagra.

Once a woman uses lubricant for you, just know that there’s zero attraction. If there was, she’s be dripping even from something as simple as texting or hugging you. Another thing to watch out for is her nipples: if it’s doesn’t get errect, my bro just fashi that girl.

I’m speaking from experience.