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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 7:36pm On Jul 12, 2017
Niyyah:
Goodmorning Mamas, thanks for the best wishes and congratulations to those that have given birth, may God bless your Los and answer all our prayers too. I am very sorry for the late bs, it hasn't bin easy, taking care of an hyperactive toddler and a newborn with little help.

Bs.

On the 6th of July, been my dhs birthday, I decided to give him an early birthday present with jigijigi with his preferred style (reversed cow girl-i am never going to try that
during pregnancy eva again),fast forward to 30mins later after the jigijigi, I started having contractions, frequent but painless so I thought it was bh contractions and I ignored it since I was only 38wks+ and I actually had my first at exactly 40wks. That same day been my antenatal, the doctor decided to check me Cus I told him I was contracting, Lo and behold, he said I was at 4cm and I should send for my hospital bag that he was going to admit me(that was around 11am),I told him okay and left the hospital with Dh,i dropped my dd at home with her nanny and my sister, so Dh and I started walking, we trekked for almost 2hrs and I also did my squats too, around 5pm, we decided to go bk to the hospital, I was at 6cm when I was checked but the contractions were really irregular with mild pain, and the sack was still intact too, I was admitted and was told to lie on my left for faster delivery, then I was given the almighty oxytocin but I wasn't really feeling much pain(God really answered my prayers) as I was gisting with Dh and the nurse, fast-forward to something around 8/to 9pm,the doc came and said I was at 7cm and my membrane was ruptured, that was when the contractions with pains started coming in waves but it was really bearable probably because Dh was with me encouraging me and massaging my back when the contractions came, around 10pm I started having the urge to pee and poo at the same time, I jumped off from the bed and I peed on the floor, then I refused to go back to the bed, the matron was begging me to please lie on the bed and not push while standing and that I might have plenty tear if I push anyhow, I told her to get her hands off me that is it her bombom that will tear? Dh too was begging me, and I answered him with a stare of life, then he left(he actually told him he has never cin that deadly stare before that he got scared and had to leave).
I was forced to the bed,then asked to push when the contractions comes, after like 4pushes with poo of life, my princess came out crying her lungs out, I was stitched because she gave me a little tear. I want you all to please help me bless and thank God on my behalf as the whole pregnancy and labour was hitch free, no Ms, no complaints ,fasted through out Ramadaan, And healing has been great too. The only thing left now is how I can control my dd, cus she thinks her sister is a teddy that she can touch and poke anyhow.

All thanks to the amazing Mamas on this thread especially the ones that keeps the thread very active and alive,may Almighty God bless and reward you all abundantly. I have and will continue to gain a lot on this thread even though I belong to the peepers association.
Supernatural delivery to the remaining pushing Mamas and may Almighty Allah in his infinite mercies grant all the heart desires of our atc sisters too.
Cc capo phlakkeys, God bless you sis.
Amen
Thanks for the BS ma.
Am happy I didn't miss baby's lovely smile, what joy.....
Pls, don't just peep but always come around to answer other mamas with your experience.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 7:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
customised87:
Birth Story.
So my baby has been breech since 30 weeks and has refused to change position(I am a STM and my first child was also breech which resulted in an emergency CS then too after my water broke). At my 36th week appointment(last Thursday), the Dr told me to do some exercise to make baby flip down but that he will try and do an External Cephalic Procedure to turn the baby if she is still breech and that I would have a scheduled CS by July 25 if the procedure isn't successful. My next appointment was to be today(37 weeks) but I started having pain on the right side of my abdomen since Sunday. I slept through it on Sunday night but it got worse on Monday morning and I just felt it must be labour pain so I went to the hospital at about 3pm. I was checked and monitored for about 2 HRS but the midwife said I wasn't having any contractions and I was only dilated about 1-2cm so I should go back home. She also said my baby is still breech and that I am scheduled for a CS on the 25th. I asked her about the pain and she said its probably the baby pulling or something. I went back home and ate at about 10pm,then I went to bed. The pain was still there and it even intensified to some form of menstrual cramps that was coming and going every 10mins or less. In my mind, I was like,if this is not the real labour pain,then I don't ever want to experience what the real labour pain feels like. By 12:30am,I started throwing up then my water broke. I woke up my mum,told her what has been
happening,I took my bath and we headed to the hospital. The hospital is about an hour from the house and I was having very serious contractions in the car. We got to the hospital at about 2am and I couldn't seat nor stand I was just shivering. I was checked immediately and they said I was 8-9cm dilated and baby was frank breech,I was already having the urge to push and the medical practitioners all started pacifying me not to push. Some were even asking why I stayed home this long before coming,the only answer I gave was an evil eye telling him he needs to check their record and see that I was in the hospital earlier in the day but they sent me back. I was wheeled into the theatre immediately and my baby was brought out at 2:18am on Tuesday,11th July,weighing 3.3KG. I am still angry that I dilated fully and still had to have a CS but God's ways are not our ways and his ways are always perfect. I am recovering well and baby is doing well too.
I wish our remaining mamas very swift delivery and plenty baby dust to our GTC mamas.

#ProudlyTeamJuly#
Amen.
Thanks for the BS ma.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
eksbabe:
Hello mamas, happy sunny day oo. How are we and los? God keep them for us.
So I WANT TO RANT

I should have just stuck with my HMO hospital but dh doesnt like the hospital shey i would just be paying shikini money now
Mamas plss someone should just tell me sorry cuz i need it now.
In all i thank God that we are fine.
Let me first tell you SORRY angry and at the same time, its good to be sure everything is fine. God will refill your pocket.

On a lighter note, so you just dash out 15k shocked just like that undecided
grin grin ;DYou and that mama using torchlight to find MS are the same.
Am in my house come and catch me tongue

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:03pm On Jul 11, 2017
customised87:
BA! BA! BA

Our princess is here! Glory to God. She was delivered through Emergency CS after my water broke because she was lying breech. #EveryMemberOfTheFamilyDoingWell# BS later

#TeamJuly# Safe Delivery to everyone
God be praised.
Congrats ma. Welcome our princess
She shall be a source of joy to you and the family at large.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:14pm On Jul 09, 2017
Bbglory:
B.S

I want to first of all return all the glory to God Almighty for mercies, grace, protection, provisions throughout the period of pregnancy, labour and delivery, of a truth if it were not the lord who gave me victory, maybe by now I wouldn't be alive..
There was this particular man my hubby had misunderstanding with, he sent several threats via SMS to my hubby that I will suffer severe bleeding and my husband will spend a lot trying to save me which Will be in vain, this was happening a week before I put to bed. So we started praying more fervently and doing midnight prayers.
on the 6th hubby and I went for our routine walk, we usually walk morning and evening so we left by 5.22pm, walking around our neighborhood. at around 7.10pm, I noticed I was having regular contractions that were strong, so I told my hubby and we started heading home. got home at about 7.30pm and a warm bath and started monitoring the contractions, it was coming 3 times in 10 minutes lasting 45 seconds, so I told hubby that we should go to the hospital cause our house is a bit far from the hospital, I was thinking I will sleep over and give birth around 3/4 am.
We got to the hospital at around 10.40 pm. the nurse that saw me said I should go and take a bed and sleep because she saw me gisting and laughing with hubby, I insisted she checked me so I can know how far gone I am. so she did V.E and shouted 7cm. she quickly told my hubby to bring my hospital bag , she told me not to get down from the bed again, that I should lie by my side.
My sisters that was when I started feeling the real pain, before then when contraction hit me I Would walk around and it helped me in bearing the pain. Anytime the contractions came, all I did was to call Jesus, and sincerely he came and was with me, at around 11.47pm, the contraction s became unbearable as though my waist wanted to break, I called out to the nurse that I felt like poking, she just told me to relax that when next the contraction comes and I still feel that way that I should tell her, so immediately the contraction came my membranes ruptured spontaneously, and the urge to push was irresistible, so the nurses placed the delivery mat and told me that the head of my baby was visible that I shouldn't waste the contraction and that I should push with it
I pushed 3times and my prince came out with a very loud cry that they said there was no need suctioning at about 12.03am, placenta was delivered and I was cleaned up
just want to return all glory to God who did it for me, baba ndewo, imeela. I also want to appreciate my hubby for the care and support throughout this period and to everyone on this thread, really learnt a lot.
To my remaining teamies, may the God that did it for me make it easy for you. and to other waddling mamas it Will surely end in praise, to the TTC mamas, this is your month of divine visitation only believe.
cc cappo phlakkeys.
What a lovely Prince. kiss kiss kiss to him.
Congrats ma. The testimony shall be permanent.
It's well with you, LO and family at large.
Thanks for the BS and pix.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 12:34pm On Jul 08, 2017
hernyhorla:
BA
To the glory of God , I welcome my Prince Charming at 40 +1 weeks on Thursday 6th July @about 10.35pm through VD with small perineum episiotomy (about 2 stitches) weighing 5.04kg as against estimated weight of 3.7kg from scan as at last Friday.
I bless the name of God for this beautiful testimony and this shall go round for the remaining waddling mothers in Jesus name .
BS coming soon.
#cc cappo phlakkeys
# alljulymothers
#swiftdeliveryisours
Hmmmm 5.04kg shocked shocked shocked with little tear just like that? God is marvellous.
Congrats ma and a very BIG welcome to our #TeamJuly biggest Prince Charming.
How I long to see your bump before delivery and LO's pics after delivery.
I pray that God will keep him for you. Amen.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 10:49pm On Jul 07, 2017
No Permission Required grin. Just Because Its Our Month, We Are Free To Flood The Thread As Many Times As We Want.

Update
TEAM JULY ROLL CALL
1. oyinmama ---- EDD 26/7, Port to 9/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. It's high time you graduated to NewBornThread (NBT) ma
2. maureensylvia - EDD 3/7, Port to 12/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. If you aren't already, we're sending you forth to NBT ma
3. mojeco ----- EDD 5/7, Port to 21/6, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Thanks for been there ma, NBT is waiting for you.
4. nneejima -- EDD 9/7, Port to 26/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. We appreciate your stay ma, kindly consider NBT.
5. clinik --------- EDD 4/7, Port to 27/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. It's nice to be Teamies but NBT will be of more help now ma
6. lululuv ------- EDD 9/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Sendforth things on my mind. Kindly consider NBT ma
7. missmalachi - EDD 1/7, Delivered 2/7, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. We appreciate you ma. NBT should be considered now
8. 1sttimeangie - EDD 12/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Hello ma. Hope LO is fine. We await your BS
9. nggie ------ EDD 13/7, Delivered 4/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Congrats. Pls come and supply your BS ma.
10. Bbglory--------- EDD 14/7, Delivered 7/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Congrats ma. Welcome our little prince.
11. Niyyah --------- EDD 15/7, Delivered 6/7, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Double congratulations to you & Dh.
12. spiceeamie -- EDD 29/7, Delivered 6/7, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA seen. Waiting for BS. I was just thinking you are next number while editing, then going back to thread,I saw your BA. Congratulations ma.
13. hernyhorla --- EDD 5/7, Delivered 6/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Big welcome to our biggest Prince Charming
14. eksbabe ------------ Team XY, EDD 19/7. Seriously very active mama. So you are next now oooooo. Hope you are set ma?
15. chocome ---------- Team XX, EDD 17/7 It's been a while we've heard from u. Pls ma, do come online & let's know if LO has arrived.
16. phlakkeys ------- Team XX, EDD 31/7 Olowogbogboro is involved
17. nana228 --------- Team XX, EDD 20/7. Hope the ministry is progressing well ma, just checking on you.
18. Enkaylala2 ------ Team XY, EDD 30/7. Hello ma, I beg come online and show face. Just wanna know how you are doing ma.
19. niphmmy -------- Team XX, EDD 20/7. You are always on my mind and in my prayer. LO is coming with lots of blessings.
20. suremum -------- Team XY, EDD 30/7. We haven't seen your break light of recent ma, pls come in and let's know how you are doing
21. forzarush -------- Team XY, EDD 31/7. This your shopping under rain go be cool shopping o. Enjoy yourself ma, nothing do you.
22. Burntcoal -------- Team X? EDD 29/7. We #TeamJuly join your family to pray for the miracle too.
23. lotannad ---------- Team X? EDD 30/7. Hope the ministry is going fine ma, just checking on you.
24. olu21ola ---------- Team XY, EDD 18/7. How are you ma, just checking on you.
25. bukunfunmi ---- Team XX, EDD 3/7. You must have given birth by now ma. Kindly come online and share your BA ma.
26. divie ---------------- Team XY, EDD 20/7. Thanks for always answering roll calls ma. Just to check on you.
27. Graciouscharis -- Team XY, EDD 8/7. Mama d mama. Always there to answer questions. Thanks Ma.
28. keeki --------------- Team XY, EDD 28/7. Today, am joining those using phone to disturb you to ask if you've dropped grin grin grin
29. Haryanphe ------ Team XX, EDD 16/7. Am sorry its coming late ma. Here is the link to download it https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6KSIQud6yqwSU5iQnZTQW4yckk/view?pref=2&pli=1
30. customised87 --- Team XX, EDD 23/7. Hope the ministry is progressing well ma, just checking on you.
31. temmytayur ---- Team XX, EDD 20/7. Hello ma, how is the pelvic pain now. God is your strength.
32. Mzbee ------------- Team XX, EDD 29/7. Thanks for the July 1st prayer ma. It is ending in praise already.
33. Damisinto ------- Team XY, EDD 26/7. Hows LO's movement now ma? It shall end in praise
34. queenhecate --- Team X?, EDD 8/7. I hope you've gotten the bag now. Tomorrow is your day. Hope you are set ma.
35. luckygirl02 ------- Team XY, EDD 17/7. You've never missed any roll call since you joined. Thanks for the encouragement.
36. edithodg ---------- Team X?, EDD 18/7. Some sabi mamas don torchlight your running noise issue. Hope it helps.

We pray that according to this month, our delivery shall be perfected IJN.
Pls Teamies, let's endeavour to drop both BA and BS as soon as we can. God will strengthen us through the vigilante period.
We shall not suffer postpartum depression and there shall be no loss of any kind.

Teamies, If you've submitted BA and BS and you are not already in New Born Thread, I think its high time you joined because of lots of experiences being shared there. Also, don't stop coming here to help other preggy mamas that may need your preggy experience at any point in time.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 9:09pm On Jul 07, 2017
spiceeamiee:
BA!!!! To the glory of God, I welcomed my princess yesterday by 10:10pm at 37weeks, weighing 3.2kg via emergency CS. Mom and baby are doing so well. B.S. later.
This day 7/7/17 is one of the day I won't forget so easily in my life and this same day, we've got plenty BS.
God be praised.
Congratulations ma. You will not have any reason to mourn over her. Welcome Princess
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 8:46pm On Jul 07, 2017
Niyyah:
BA smiley

Alhamdulillah robil ahlamin,my princess came yesterday(also dhs birthday) at 10:27pm weighing 3.5kg via vd with little tears. Bs later.

Cc capo phlakkeys
That's double congratulations. Welcome to our princess and happy birthday to Dh.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 8:38pm On Jul 07, 2017
Bbglory:
B.A

To the glory of God I welcomed my prince @ 12.03 am weighing 3.8kg via vd, without tear mum and baby doing great. Bs later let me rest.

cc phlakkeys
Congratulations to you ma. God is faithful. 3.8kg without tear. Welcome to our perfect 7/7/17 Prince.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 9:07pm On Jul 06, 2017
clinik:
BIRTH STORY
Apology for the delay... its has been stressful but all thanks to God for giving us strength to carry on..... I wasnt home,i went to greet my uncle in law on Monday (26) cos i lost my brother in law,me and d wife went to Goza market (some abuja mamas can relate) in d market i felt a slight back pain but i packaged myself,wen we got home we started cooking, my legs were aching i tot is d market stress. After cooking i couldn't eat much so i took my bath and go straight to d bed,after 2hrs i strated feeling stomach pain very bad pain ooo,i ve never experienced that kind of stomach pain before in my life,hubby was still with his other relative in d living room,had to call him on fone so he rushed in i told abt the pain,he said we should start going home,i told him its last dat i will manage till morning,but d pain is much going and coming,couldnt pick my watch to tym it. my sister in law entered d room and saw me in pain she ran out to call their uncle,and d wife said this is labour pain,i was den i remember i was actually pregnant. we drove out of their estate around past eleven. .. Got to my hospital around 15mins to 12 with no bag no nothing, come and see yarbing from nurses we explain tire,no be myhouse i dry come from,them no gree, Thank God for one of doc on call,i was vomiting seriously too,he checked me in his office he said i didnt keep body well,i started screaming at d doc leave alone, na so d guy match me to delivery room say make i lie down,d pain was much i couldn't lie down,he encouraged me too so i managed,lo and behold he checked me and i was 8cm,i was screaming please help me,d doc said d contraction is strong dat he will have to rupture d memberne and d nurse should bring drip and oxtoxin,Omo... ! dat drip na die,e never reach 3mins for my hand,i started shouting i want to push after three pushes my princess Peniel EwaOluwa made her grand entrance at 12.03am on 27th June weighing 3.3kg,had little tear cos dat drip no make me keep body. Our God is ever faithful before my hubby could bring my bag i already gave birth cos i only spend 17 mins in d hospital before i gave birth. Wishing the remaining mamas safe delivery. Vigilante is very very real.

cc: cappo phlakkeys.. Thanks alot for ur care mama.. much love from us.. heart u so much!
Congrats ma for the Sharp delivery.
Thanks for the BS.
God be with you and LO
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 1:56pm On Jul 06, 2017
Update
TEAM JULY ROLL CALL
1. oyinmama -------- EDD 26/7, Port to 9/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. #TeamJuly first mummy, how is vigilante going ma?
2. maureensylvia - EDD 3/7, Port to 12/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. Hello ma! How are you and LO? Just checking on you.
3. mojeco ------------- EDD 5/7, Port to 21/6, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. How are u&LO ma? Hope the CS pain is relieving now.
4. nneejima ---------- EDD 9/7, Port to 26/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. Our 1st #TeamJuly Queen. How is she doing ma?
5. clinik ------------ EDD 4/7, Port to 27/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA seen. Waiting for BS. How is d vigilante going ma? We await your BS
6. lululuv ----------- EDD 9/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Our #TeamJuly 1st baby. How is him and you ma?
7. missmalachi - EDD 1/7, Delivered 2/7, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. Hello ma. How are u and your LOs? Just checking on u.
8. 1sttimeangie - EDD 12/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Hello ma. Hope LO is fine. We await your BS
9. nggie ------ EDD 13/7, Delivered 4/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Congrats ma. Welcome to Prince Choco choco
10. spiceeamie ------- Team XX, EDD 29/7
11. eksbabe ------------ Team XY, EDD 19/7
12. Bbglory-------------- Team XY, EDD 14/7
13. chocome ---------- Team XX, EDD 17/7
14. phlakkeys ------- Team XX, EDD 31/7
15. nana228 --------- Team XX, EDD 20/7
16. Niyyah ------------ Team X? EDD 15/7
17. Enkaylala2 ------ Team XY, EDD 30/7
18. niphmmy -------- Team XX, EDD 20/7
19. suremum -------- Team XY, EDD 30/7
20. forzarush -------- Team XY, EDD 31/7
21. Burntcoal -------- Team X? EDD 29/7
22. lotannad ---------- Team X? EDD 30/7
23. olu21ola ---------- Team XY, EDD 18/7
24. bukunfunmi ---- Team XX, EDD 3/7
25. divie ---------------- Team XY, EDD 20/7
26. hernyhorla ------ Team XY, EDD 5/7
27. Graciouscharis -- Team XY, EDD 8/7
28. keeki --------------- Team XY, EDD 28/7
29. Haryanphe ------ Team XX, EDD 16/7
30. customised87 --- Team XX, EDD 23/7
31. temmytayur ---- Team XX, EDD 20/7
32. Mzbee ------------- Team XX, EDD 29/7
33. Damisinto ------- Team XY, EDD 26/7
34. queenhecate --- Team X?, EDD 8/7
35. luckygirl02 ------- Team XY, EDD 17/7
36. edithodg ---------- Team X?, EDD 18/7

We pray that according to this month, our delivery shall be perfected IJN.

Pls Teamies, let's endeavour to drop both BA and BS as soon as we can. God will strengthen us through the vigilante period.
We shall not suffer postpartum depression and there shall be no loss of any kind.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 1:37pm On Jul 06, 2017
nggie:
Good morning mamas... B. A my prince choco choco arrived on the 4th of july via emergency cs. Mummy n baby doing great.
Congrats ma. We thank God for safe delivery. kiss kiss kiss To Prince Choco choco.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by phlakkeys(f): 10:19pm On Jul 05, 2017
EgunMogaji:


What does your bricklayer/builder recommend?

The 7 is for the septic and the 5 for soakaway and we're a family of three not counting very occasional guests.

I would truly recommend that you engage locals with experiecne in your area.
Thank you sir.
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by phlakkeys(f): 9:24pm On Jul 05, 2017
EgunMogaji:

Glad that you found my post useful.
Trust me, many on here do in fact use that method but they don't have the confidence to post it.
My builder wanted to use one hole but I opted to mimic the 2 hole system and that is what I did.
I think that the BQ has 7 and 5 rings and the gateman house has 3 and 2 rings. I added one ring more than recommended.
No water, except rain water (a lot of which will be collected by rain gutters into storage tanks) goes to the street. I collect all my kitchen and bath water as I'm told that village people might collect it and use it for voodoo grin

Am really grateful for your quick response.
Sir, should I conclude that 2 hole system (7rings & 5rings) will be enough for a family of 5?
If yes, is it the 7 rings that will be for septic and 5 rings for soakaway?
Also, should I dig a rectangle and put the 2 rings side by side or I should dig the 2 holes differently with about 1m space?
I won't mind if pictures can be attached sir.

Am sorry I don't have anyone to ask for details and we plan to start digging this weekend.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 7:37pm On Jul 05, 2017
Chijiuche:
My fellow pregnant women,
I have been a silent follower in this forum. I have lost 3 pregnancies but none has progressed more than 6 weeks and no heart beat ever seen.
I am pregnant and currently 13weeks 5 days gone with heart beat and everything progressing well.
Went to hospital yesterday and the Gynecologist on duty ran a scan and everything is progressing well. He now said i will do cervical cerclage next week - that nothing is wrong with me but is just to ensure the baby stays intact till delivery time.
I ave been reading so many write ups online and cervical cerclage is mainly for those that have had 2nd trimester miscarriage but mine is not the case.
So pls my sister, Is the cerclage now a preventive measure because i am seriously getting worried on the implication on this miracle God has given to me after waiting for years?
Please, who knows should please help me. God bless
God that has taken you this far will not leave you.
Firstly, no matter your religion, don't under estimate the power of prayer. It doesn't matter if you are prayer warrior or not.
Secondly, is there any drug you've used or currently using that has taken you this far(progesterone)?
If yes, then keep using it until you are at least 27weeks.
Since the cause of early miscarriage isn't known, then i will advise you to take one day at a time i.e don't stress yourself in anyway.
To the cerclage issue, for each of the miscarriages, did you do D&C?
If yes, then D&C could have weaken the cervix thereby making it easy for it to open and dilate when you are in mid second trimester because of baby's weight resting on it.
How long since the last miscarriage did you get pregnant now?
If its not up to a year and 6 months, it will be advisable to do cerclage because of the stress your cervix has already gone through.
The truth is cerclage cannot stop one from having 2nd trimester miscarriage if the uterus is seriously contracting so the need to always try not to stress the uterus, i.e always trying to keep the uterus calm.
Another thing to consider is level of progesterone. If by the virtue of what one take in, the progesterone level drops, miscarriage is inevitable which is why some take progesterone drugs even with cerclage input.
Your pregnancy should be taken as high risk pregnancy and should be monitored.
Lastly, always try to go for scan at least once in a month just to be sure your cervix is closed and baby is fine.
There shall be no more loss.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by phlakkeys(f): 6:39pm On Jul 05, 2017
EgunMogaji:

Oh no the well is a poor mans septic/soakaway for the padlock garage. Kobokobo build you know grin
I'm doing a bore hole later but I have to save up since my survey indicates 100 meters angry

I've tried all I could to get information on using ring concrete for soakaway and only your post came out useful.
Due to small space left, we've decided to go for ring concrete soakaway.
Pls sir, 1) how many rings did you use(depth)?
2) Did you dig in 2places i.e. one for septic tank and the other for soakaway? If not
3) Does it mean you make street gutter to drain kitchen and bath water?

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2017
nneejima:
Phase 2.......
Thank God dh went into the theatre with me and it wasn't VB where 2 or more people can be in labour at same time cos I for say that they swapped my baby... Yes cos the 3 scan i did outside hospital wrote xy. Even the hospital own xy too so I didn't bother again.it was a blessing in to me, i was the only daughter of my parents while dh don't have a sister at all. I woke up to see the most beautiful creature behind me, as yellow as pawpaw... She is so cute, i called my rainbow, she was indeed my shelter from the rain.

Thank you all for all the advices and sisterly love we shared here.
@ Imoge2 aka mum Zoe, heaven knows how i wish to have a female child 1st cos of ur baby, I must admit that I was jealous but let's roll it sweetie,I learnt a lot from you and zoe and God answered my prayers.
Cc cappo phlakkeys, am loyal, I love you so much dear thanks for bn a mother to al ur team members, i wish you safe delivery too.
To all my fellow teamies u all shall go into the favour room and come out rejoicing, safe delivery to you all
Team July for Supernatural delivery, team July of no loss, team July of beautiful prince and princess

Thank God for the success story. He said there shall be no loss and He was true to His word so we return all the praise to Him alone.
A big amen to the prayers. Thanks for the BS ma.
Your testimomy shall be permanent. God will continue to show your plesant surprises.

mojeco:
But i was feeling the tear the doctor was given me but with no pain.immediately my baby was out i was told its a boy,i said no no it's can't be am excepting a girl,i was arguing with the doctors,i said all my scan is XX but i was very happy because the long wait of having a baby was over.my husband was outside the theater when my baby was handled over to him,he said no,am excepting a girl and he kept arguing with the nurse and the nurse said should we take him back i guess at that point he came back to his senses and he said give me my baby.The pain after the cs is something else but i thank God it ended in praise for me

What a marvellous God we serve. We thank God the 7 years ended in praise and we pray that devil will not cut short your testimony. He shall be a bundle of testimony all through his days. Thanks for the BS. The testimony shall be permanent.

@eksbabe, thanks for always showing up for bumping Tuesday. I think you should collect the most portable bump for #TeamJuly.
@ Graciouscharis, shocked shocked shocked that bump looks very lovely and very big. I think you will go for the most lovely and big bump for #TeamJuly.
@the remaining #TeamJuly mamas still waddling, God will see us through and give us sweet delivery testimonies.
@Our already offloaded mamas, how is the vigilante ministry going? It's well with our LOs and us. (Amen)

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 7:22pm On Jul 03, 2017
forzarush:

1ST Prayer Monday in the month of JULY
Our Lord and Master,everlasting King of glory, Creator of the heavens,earth and all that dwell in them we give you thanks,Alhamdulillah! For ushering us into this month alone we praise your name, for witnessing today we appreciate YOU and for faith that YOU will see us through this month and more to come, we say a big THANK YOU!
Ya Rabb,on behalf of mamas that ported from #Teamjuly we thank you for swift and joyful deliveries, bless their families Lord. We give you glory for those that opened the floor with their July 1st deliveries. We ask that you bless their families.
We thank YOU,Allah in anticipation of other #Julybundlesofjoy. We ask o Lord that you make our deliveries supernatural,miraculous,swift and full of praises. Ya Rabb,we ask that You overpower any spirit of fear,danger or mishap that may threaten our favour and deliveries. We ask that you guide our bodies through the different stages of favour,that you take charge of the minds and thoughts of our birth assistants,midwives, nurses and doctors. It is You who have created these little one in us through different stages,we pray that when it's time for them to slide out you will guide them through.
Ar Raheem,It is you who knew us even before we came into being,we ask that you please let our pleas and prayers be more than enough to change any unfortunate decree for our lives.
For our sisters who have suffered losses of varying kinds we ask that you bless them in threefolds. we ask that you see the remaining August to 2018 mamas through their journeys. We ask that you visit our ttc sisters this month,that as we share our BA/BS they'll share their BFPs.
Dear Lord,Dhul Jalal Wal Ikram,please let our delivery not be a sort of bargain,no life should be lost in any family as these LOs come forth and let our DHs rejoice on the birth of their LOs with plllleeeennntyyyyy money. Above all Lord,guide and protect every member of every family represented here. Ameen thuma ameen.
Cc Phlakkeys and all adorable mothers.
Amin.
Thanks Ma for the powerful prayer.
God bless you and be with you and yours.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 4:53pm On Jul 03, 2017
1sttimeangie:
Birth Alert!!!!!
By the special Grace of God, my King has arrived, he came into the world 9:15 AM July 1 2017 through C-Section

Thank you all for the prayers, will be back with BS
Another July 1st baby. Congrats ma. He will always be a source of joy to the family.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 8:37pm On Jul 02, 2017
missmalachi:
B.A
My princess came in this morning 2nd july.

My due date according to scan was june 26 while lmp was july 1st.i was hoping for a june baby but at the same time scared of passing my due date since it happened with my first.
I went for lecture july 1st towards d end of the class i just remembered that i haven't felt kick at all.i left immediately and quickly drove home then took my bath and pack my hospital things in d car since hubby is not around n my mumc can't drive shld incase.on getting to hospital, doc examine d heartbeat and it was ok but that he will have to admit me since am due and movement has reduced.on getting to labor ward,the doc der checked me and said i was already 3cm.i  was given a room and i and my mumc started gisting.an hour later doc came in again and checked that i was 4cm and that he will allow labor to progress on its own till morning. By 1.30am a nurse came to wake me, an Enema was done and after 5min i went to download poo of life.an injection was given to me in other to make contraction stronger but contraction refuse to be strong (note i was busy praying that i will contract without pain and declaring the prayers in d e-copy of supernatural birth book i have).

By 5am d nurse came to check me and i was 6cm and that d cervix ws thick and baby head was still far and that she will have to gv me d almighty hot drip.around 6am she brought d drip and administer it,Immediately the pain came from no where and i just reminded myself that i can't feel pain cos i wanted supernatural delivery.when ever d pain comes i hold my mum tight and start speaking in tongues and praying.15min later i told my mum i want to poo that she shld press d bell for the nurses to come.she did but non was coming so she had to go and call them.i told them baby was coming and she said its is not possible that i shld calm down let her check me....b4 she could bend i already push d head out and d next contraction d body came out.
Glory to God...no tear no episotomy


This is how we do it way back 2015.....b.a comes with pix
Thanks Ma for showing us the right way to send BA and BS.
Your BS is really answered prayer. Big congrats to you and DH.
A big welcome to our lovely princess. I like the plenty hair.
God will keep her for you.

@ mama mojeco, nneejima and clinik, how is vigilante going ma? Please try to come and provide Birth Story.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 8:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
lululuv:
B.S.
it was like a surprise. Went to my normal ante-natal on Friday, after seeing d doc he said I was due oo. Hope am ready. They sent me for scan, me I carry my bag they go house said by Monday or Tuesday I will do d scan against my next ante-natal being Friday. But as God would have it, i started having mild cramps, Braxton hicks I guess. I went to bed, woke up serverslly to wee-wee. Around 3:20am Sat i woke up with a sharp pain like somtin was screwing nd piercing my Vjay, i rushed To d toilet to wee only to stand up to see blood, i called DH, asked him to boil water so I bath, then the real tin started. it became so unbearable, i started timing d contractions nd it was coming 2mins apart, lasting for about 35secs I would dance, pray, chaiI.
I have always known contractions come 10mins apart, so i felt i would be sent bak if i go to d hospital, i decided to wait it out till morning but men I couldn't take it oo. Told Oga to pls take me to the hospital. We got Der some mins past 4am. Wen they asked if i Was a FTM, nd i said yes one of d nurses said De should take me to d ward nd give me bed, that FTM Mums can disturb for africa over notin, but the other was like I shoukd get pad so she check me. The woman did VE, she didn't even tell me how many Cm I was, rather asked me to go bring my hospital tins. Was asked to UnCloth nd climb up oo, God i was like already? Was asked to push in d next contraction, Pushing was anoda one, I pushed all I could nd d Woman said I was playing, i started crying, the next contraction i pushed again noting. Then the 3rd time I pushed, my first fruit came forth with a cut, around 4:45 weighing 3.8kg. I was sutureD nd cleaned up. MY journey of 9 months ENDED IN PRAISE. God blessed me with a Son, he answered my prayers nd fulfilled his promise to me. I praise him nd I call him miracle working God. Yahwe
Thanks for the quick BS ma. The testimony shall be permanent. Congrats once again.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 4:41pm On Jul 01, 2017
Yippee! Its our month of PERFECTION.

If it had not been the Lord who was on our side, now may #TeamJuly say;
If it had not been the Lord who was on our side, when men rose up against us:
Blessed be the Lord, who hath not given us as a prey to their teeth.

TEAM JULY ROLL CALL
1. oyinmama -------- EDD 26/7, Port to 9/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. Hello our #TeamJuly first mummy! How are you &LO?
2. maureensylvia - EDD 3/7, Port to 12/6, Bouncing Baby Boy, BA&BS seen. Hello ma! Hope you and LO are fine.
3. mojeco ------------- EDD 5/7, Port to 21/6, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Congrats ma. How is vigilante going?
4. nneejima ---------- EDD 9/7, Port to 26/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. A big welcome to 1st #TeamJuly Queen.
5. clinik -------------- EDD 4/7, Port to 27/6, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA seen. Waiting for BS. Welcome our 1st Princess. Congrats ma.
6. lululuv ----------- EDD 9/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA&BS seen. Thanks for opening the month ma. Congrats
7. missmalachi - EDD 1/7, Delivered 2/7, Beautiful Baby Girl. BA&BS seen. Congrats ma. Thanks for the quick BS & the lovely pix
8. 1sttimeangie - EDD 12/7, Delivered 1/7, Bouncing Baby Boy. BA seen. Waiting for BS. A big welcome to his royal highness.
9. spiceeamie ------- Team XX, EDD 29/7
10. eksbabe ------------ Team XY, EDD 19/7
11. Bbglory-------------- Team XY, EDD 14/7
12. chocome ---------- Team XX, EDD 17/7
13. phlakkeys ------- Team XX, EDD 31/7
14. nana228 --------- Team XX, EDD 20/7
15. Niyyah ------------ Team X? EDD 15/7
16. Enkaylala2 ------ Team XY, EDD 30/7
17. niphmmy -------- Team XX, EDD 20/7
18. suremum -------- Team XY, EDD 30/7
19. forzarush -------- Team XY, EDD 31/7
20. Burntcoal -------- Team X? EDD 29/7
21. lotannad ---------- Team X? EDD 30/7
22. olu21ola ---------- Team XY, EDD 18/7
23. bukunfunmi ---- Team XX, EDD 3/7
24. divie ---------------- Team XY, EDD 20/7
25. hernyhorla ------ Team XY, EDD 5/7
26. Graciouscharis -- Team XY, EDD 8/7
27. keeki --------------- Team XY, EDD 28/7
28. Haryanphe ------ Team XX, EDD 16/7
29. customised87 --- Team XX, EDD 23/7
30. temmytayur ---- Team XX, EDD 20/7
31. Mzbee ------------- Team XX, EDD 29/7
32. Damisinto ------- Team XY, EDD 26/7
33. nggie --------------- Team XY, EDD 13/7
34. queenhecate --- Team X?, EDD 8/7
35. luckygirl02 ------- Team XY, EDD 17/7
36. edithodg ---------- Team X?, EDD 18/7

We pray that according to this month, our delivery shall be perfected IJN.

Pls Teamies, let's endeavour to drop both BA and BS as soon as we can. God will strengthen us through the vigilante period.
We shall not suffer postpartum depression and there shall be no loss of any kind.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 4:18pm On Jul 01, 2017
lululuv:
B.A! B.A!! B.A!!!
TO THE GLORY OF GOD, MY BOY MASTER LIGHT, WALKED IN, IN GRAND STYLE OO. V. B
B.S LETA. WE RE FINE
What a lovely entrance to a new month.
Thank God for safety. LO shall be a source of joy to you and family at large.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 9:20pm On Jun 29, 2017
Haryanphe:

Thanks for the mention ma. I feel loved. I did another scan last week, only to be told that my baby now weighs 3.5kg can you imagine? After I was told like 3 or 4 weeks ago that she is small for her GA. Now am scared cos she seems to be on the big side now. Please, anyone with a copy of supernatural childbirth should send to culesthergal@yahoo.com. Thanks
Don't answer all these sonographers. Will look for it and forward to you.

Bbglory:
congrats nneejima, wish u speedy recovery
Hmmmm, this is the 2nd person In our team that gave birth to the opposite of scan report. just pray that mine doesn't change cause I have positioned my mind and have already bought stuffs
team July, hope we are ready to receive the Barton, its less than 48hrs smiley
We are more than ready. Most of these sonographers need better glasses or scanner.
It's even better if girl turn to boy, but boy changing to girl can be disastrous for a family seriously waiting for boy.

@lotannad1, New Id noted.
@spiceeamiee, & Graciouscharis i beg na only one day remain. Try and hold on. We are already there.
@nneejima, congrats ma. She sha be a source of joy to you.
@all #TeamJuly, hope we are already set.
It will end in praise.
#TeamJulyfornoloss
#TeamJulyforstrength
#TeamJulyforstressfreedelivery
#TeamJulyforbigboldandblessedchildren
#TeamJulyforbeautifulandhandsomebabies
#TeamJulyforpraiseandrejoicingwillendourstory
#TeamJulyforsupernaturalhebrewwomendelivery

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:08pm On Jun 28, 2017
curvilicious:
Nnejima, don born o
Yay!!!!!!!!!!
The reality is now dawning on me.
So we are there already. We give all the thanks to the Lord.
Congrats mama nneejima

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 4:47pm On Jun 28, 2017
clinik:
BIRTH ALERT
Thank God our cappo said porting is allowed,i bless God for d grand entrance of my princess at 12.03am....mum and baby are doing well,just a bit tired.
Thank God for safe delivery.
Big congrats to you and a big welcome to our first Princess in #TeamJulyforlovelyandcutebabies.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 1:06am On Jun 25, 2017
missmalachi:

My baby ws breech 3wks ago n i was worried sick.i watched diff videos on youtube but couldn't follow any.hubby ask we shld just trust God for change n he fasted on my behave.i did scan last monday and yday n baby is now cephalic.
#ibelieveinmiracles
Cc
Spiceeamiee
Indeed there is nothing impossible for God to do.
Teamies, lets hold on to God tightly, He will see us through it all.
#TeamJulytrustingGodformiracles
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:49pm On Jun 24, 2017
Let me use this song to encourage mamas that needs strength from above to carry through.
"His Strength Is Perfect" by Cece Winans

His strength is perfect, So perfect

I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength
But sometimes I wonder what he can do for me
No great success to show, No glory of my own
Yet in my weakness he is there to let me know

His strength is perfect when our strength is gone
He'll carry us when we can't carry on
Raised in his power the weak becomes strong
His strength is perfect, His strenght is perfect

We can only know the power that he holds
When we truly see how deep our weakness goes
His strength it must begin, When ours comes to an end
He hears our humble cry and proves again

His strength is perfect when our strength is gone
He'll carry us when we can't carry on
Raised in his power the weak becomes strong
His strength is perfect, His strenght is perfect

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:39pm On Jun 24, 2017
Damisinto:
Thanks wonderful cappo, earnestly looking forward, back pain and leg pain is intense, weeing na per seconds. Weakness/heaviness no b here. It is well with us all. Congrats to those that have their LOs already. It will end in praise
#teamJulyforStrength#
It is well even in the well. We'll soon get there.
God's strength which is perfect will carry us through.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:37pm On Jun 24, 2017
clinik:


present cappo.... sincerely it has not been easy,plenty pains coupled with the fact dat i lost my brother in law day before yesterday.. May God continually watch over us. #teamjuly
God is your strength ma. Pls, keep holding on. It will soon end in praise.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phlakkeys(f): 6:31pm On Jun 24, 2017
spiceeamiee:
Present maami. Just finished packing hospital bag and arranging the nursery. We are good to go.

Please house,what is the remedy for itchy skin? I havent had a good night sleep in days from constant itching. The thing is all over my body. I was given Loratadine at the hospital but it only offers temporary relief. I tried Mr Google but it was saying something that i know is not my portion. I Will still go to the hospital again on Monday but I just want to know if anyone has experienced it and the remedy.

In order news, scan revealed baby is lying transverse. See this pikin wey don dey cephalic from day one na now e come know say e go enter transverse. We have been ordered to do the polar bear position 15mins twice a day for the next two week's to see if she will turn. Any other methods that will help me get this baby to turn will be highly appreciated. Thank you

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