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Romeo3:
Thats not rudeness... I called you what you are.... A fool.

Bro I ain't the cause of your frustration in life, why do have to take it out on me?

Chill G, if money is your problem send me your acct details...

Catalyst4real:
The answer is there in your message. She's the shy type and cant handle being amidst all those coming along.

Your alternative would have been to fix an appointment that involves just you and her. Dont lose this girl due to your obvious lack of sharpness.

Today is not the best time to ask questions like this on nairaland. we have many frustrated single peeps

And get her that valentine gift.

Thanks man, you're a real G
This is how to pass across a message, no insults, no slander.

Romeo3:
Brother, I'll be straight with you because I'm not used to making people feel good....

You're a fool

You have a girl who likes you and all, and you know she's extremely shy to the extent people call her a snob, and then you invite her to the beach and she says no. Note that she didn't say no to you, she said no to the beach outing and even told you anywhere else but the beach. Which shows that she wants to spend time with you.

But sadly, you put friends above her and now you're crying about how lonely you are? Pathetic.

Baba eazy na, you can pass your message across without being rude.

Hey guys, moving straight to the point, there's this girl I really really like, we are coursemates in school and we just recently started talking in 300 level. I've noticed (even before we started talking) that she's the shy type.

She barely talks to anyone in class and for that reason most people thinks she's a snub, including me, before we started talking but in all sincerity, she ain't, 'cause I asked her about and she said she's chronically shy, that she didn't have and make a lot of friends growing up.

How we first got talking was through WhatsApp, she wished me a happy birthday and from there, we became friends, always teasing each other and all those normal banter. The thing there is overtime, I've grown to really like this girl alot, she's funny, smart and beautiful- very BEAUTIFUL in case I didn't mention that and I've sensed that she's grown fond of me too and during our recent holiday/vacation. We kept calling each other on phone and she "playfully" told me that she's in love with me and that I should do so that we can get married, when I asked her if she meant what she said, she asserted that she was just joking, so I let it slide.

Fast forward to yesterday 13th, she called me 9 times and so I wasn't with my phone but when I got back I saw the missed calls and immediately called her back, she berated me for not picking her calls but I explained the situation and she understood, then while talking she asked me what I'm getting her for valentine, I wasn't expecting that but asked what she wanted but she somehow dodged the question.

So initially, I had already planned with some of my guys and our individual girls, we intend to go to the beach today, I had already told a female friend of mine, that I'd like for us to go to the beach, she agreed and everything was set, so when this my other female friend(course mate) now mentioned valentine, I started thinking of how to ask her to go with me, 'cause initially I didn't ask her because I wasn't sure if she'd agree to go with me due to her anti social nature.

I called her later in the evening (yesterday) and told her about it and asked if she could go with me, she instantly said no without giving it a seconds thought, I asked what's the reason for that, she gave a flimsy excuse, saying that she doesn't like the beach, that we can go somewhere else but the beach, I tried convincing her and in the process she gave another excuse that the place is far even though I already told her of how we've had everything planned and covered including transportation.

I saw that she wasn't ready and I said goodbye and cut the call, now I'm soo distraught because all my guys and their girls are currently at the beach having fun and I'm here on my bed, telling my story to total strangers and to make matters I can't even ask the previous girl to go with me again, 'cause I already cancelled so I could go with that my course mate, now it's a lose lose for me.

I've decided not to call or talk to her until further notice, 'cause she really let me down or what do you guys think? I mean who in their right senses don't like the beach

Sorry for the long story.

Italian mafians

My name is Martin (not real name), I graduated from the university in the year 2009, that’s some 10 years ago. I’m an introvert, like the worst kind you can ever think of. I think this has also contributed to majority of my problems.

At 35, one would think that I’d have a nice paying job, nice little house with wife and beautiful kids, but the rude awakening is that I still live with my parents, I have two younger siblings, the youngest just got a job with a multinational company, somewhere in VI, while the other one is a medical doctor based in the states.

My parents, most especially my father don’t miss the opportunity to remind me of what a failure I am or I have become. He once threatened to send me out of his house, if I don’t sit up and lead by example. My mum at the initial stage used to encourage me and give me words of advice, but recently she told me that she has lost her patience, that I’m trying to sow the seed of stagnation and regression in our family.

I know you all would be wondering how I got here, but from a very young age, I’ve always been known to be brilliant and academic inclined, the funny part is that I graduated with a first class(most people, especially my immediate family seems to have forgotten) from one of the top federal universities in the country, where I studied architecture.

Like I said previously, I have poor social skills, I tend to bottle up my emotions instead of opening up to people, I’ve never had a girlfriend, not because I’m not good looking but because I can’t summon the courage to approach a lady. People say I’m timid and scared to face the world.

I had a job once immediately after I finished school at a construction firm, I worked there for two good years and I saved every penny I earned, hoping to invest in real estate, but I was swindled by some persons who claimed the sold landed properties, that was close to N8 million. All my life’s savings gone, I took a huge amount of loan from my company, when I couldn’t pay back I was sacked and humiliated.

Well ever since, all my efforts at getting another job has proven futile, it’s like there’s a spiritual force that is holding me back, infact I’ve lost all hope there is, my situation has deteriorated into extreme depression as I type this, suicide thoughts keep flooding into my head, I need help please, I’d be reading the comments below, please no negative comment, like I said I’m a very emotional person.

Zubelu.com
https://zubelu.com/blog/im-35-years-old-and-i-already-feel-like-a-failure-in-life/

SirL0neWolf:
Playing football manager that year and I got a message from the board.


The board is pleased with the progress you've made so far and wants to reward you with £500m for the new transfer window. Click to accept


I couldn't believe my eyes and quickly clicked on the icon only to see

April fool. You didn't think we'd make it that easy did you?

I went round the hostel showing everybody my laptop. Till today remains the best April fool prank I ever received.

Wow really?
Football manager for life

Nah I'll pass[code][/code]

Wow election for imo go bloody o.
If I hear say I travel go my village this period

Prayer for Nigeria in distress

Kingosytex:
they for leave am make him jump enter the lagoon

why must anybody even contemplate on taking one's own life


mtchewwww

Coz you have it rosy doesn't mean it's the same for everyone

The hardship is just getting too much

festacman:
I am not against competition. However, it is important for Omotala to note that those things she listed are trash compared to human to human relations.

When late Dora Akunyili was down with an ailment, the several award plaques on show in her office were useless to her. She desired and got comfort from family, friends, associates and fans - human beings. It is totally wrong to place "a piece of polished wood with a scrap of shiny metal" on higher pedestal than a relationship with a fellow human being.

It is alright to disagree. You can't be friends with everyone. However, when you disagree or quarrel, it is important to make effort for forgiveness and reconciliation than sitting on a high horse.

U be real festac man

omo see love o
May God favor us wherever we go

Where are his critics on this forum?

Una Don go hide Abi?
Mumu dem

Money can make you meet people you never imagined you'll meet.

God bless our hustle...

zinnyzee:
Spending my last 1k to subscribe just to wish my crush a happy birthday.... Meanwhile, hunger nearly kee me that night.

Sorry I didn't pick Ur call

Lalas247:
I'm so weak right now
lefulefu carry me away from here pls ... it's worst than Kenyan news

Babe

sinaj:
Unforgiving

Baby

Berlyn1:
I don't love urs so we cannot connect

Savage
I've actually been crushing on you for a while now

Igbo nwamaka

Watching man u play under mourinho should be added among 1000 ways to die

Chelsea just signed the most expensive kepa in the world.
if he doesn't keep a clean sheet in every game then they'd be Sarri

They should just grant him freedom, ahn ahn at this age what crime can he commit again?

Chai God will not let us live in desolation and pain in our old age

Oluwa Send my helper to me ooo
Lord of mercy open my wayyy

Broke ass bitches forming Porsche....
Mtcheew

Damn!

Who's azealia banks?

Omo puma don tey o since 1970 I doubt if d original owner is still alive.

How I wish Pele played in d era of neymar, messi, Ronaldo he'll teach them how to play football.

CANDYDADDY:





what wrong with these police, a boy that don't pay tax, he doesn't add to nation economy in any way, all his spending are only emerge in foreign country.


now leave those struggling and hustling boys alone

You are mad u Fvcking lay about making noise, jobless non entity