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Romance / Re: Help I Asked Her Out For Valentine And She Declined Without Any Cogent Reason!!! by phlamesG: 6:05pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Romeo3: Bro I ain't the cause of your frustration in life, why do have to take it out on me? Chill G, if money is your problem send me your acct details... |
Romance / Re: Help I Asked Her Out For Valentine And She Declined Without Any Cogent Reason!!! by phlamesG: 6:03pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Catalyst4real: Thanks man, you're a real G This is how to pass across a message, no insults, no slander. |
Romance / Re: Help I Asked Her Out For Valentine And She Declined Without Any Cogent Reason!!! by phlamesG: 5:57pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Romeo3: Baba eazy na, you can pass your message across without being rude. |
Romance / Help I Asked Her Out For Valentine And She Declined Without Any Cogent Reason!!! by phlamesG: 5:28pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Hey guys, moving straight to the point, there's this girl I really really like, we are coursemates in school and we just recently started talking in 300 level. I've noticed (even before we started talking) that she's the shy type. She barely talks to anyone in class and for that reason most people thinks she's a snub, including me, before we started talking but in all sincerity, she ain't, 'cause I asked her about and she said she's chronically shy, that she didn't have and make a lot of friends growing up. How we first got talking was through WhatsApp, she wished me a happy birthday and from there, we became friends, always teasing each other and all those normal banter. The thing there is overtime, I've grown to really like this girl alot, she's funny, smart and beautiful- very BEAUTIFUL in case I didn't mention that and I've sensed that she's grown fond of me too and during our recent holiday/vacation. We kept calling each other on phone and she "playfully" told me that she's in love with me and that I should do so that we can get married, when I asked her if she meant what she said, she asserted that she was just joking, so I let it slide. Fast forward to yesterday 13th, she called me 9 times and so I wasn't with my phone but when I got back I saw the missed calls and immediately called her back, she berated me for not picking her calls but I explained the situation and she understood, then while talking she asked me what I'm getting her for valentine, I wasn't expecting that but asked what she wanted but she somehow dodged the question. So initially, I had already planned with some of my guys and our individual girls, we intend to go to the beach today, I had already told a female friend of mine, that I'd like for us to go to the beach, she agreed and everything was set, so when this my other female friend(course mate) now mentioned valentine, I started thinking of how to ask her to go with me, 'cause initially I didn't ask her because I wasn't sure if she'd agree to go with me due to her anti social nature. I called her later in the evening (yesterday) and told her about it and asked if she could go with me, she instantly said no without giving it a seconds thought, I asked what's the reason for that, she gave a flimsy excuse, saying that she doesn't like the beach, that we can go somewhere else but the beach, I tried convincing her and in the process she gave another excuse that the place is far even though I already told her of how we've had everything planned and covered including transportation. I saw that she wasn't ready and I said goodbye and cut the call, now I'm soo distraught because all my guys and their girls are currently at the beach having fun and I'm here on my bed, telling my story to total strangers and to make matters I can't even ask the previous girl to go with me again, 'cause I already cancelled so I could go with that my course mate, now it's a lose lose for me. I've decided not to call or talk to her until further notice, 'cause she really let me down or what do you guys think? I mean who in their right senses don't like the beach Sorry for the long story. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Sports / Re: Juventus Fans Arrested With Knives In Ugly Scenes Before Ajax Match (Photos) by phlamesG: 11:16am On Apr 11, 2019 |
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Family / I'm 35 Years Old And I Already Feel Like A Failure In Life by phlamesG: 1:15pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
My name is Martin (not real name), I graduated from the university in the year 2009, that’s some 10 years ago. I’m an introvert, like the worst kind you can ever think of. I think this has also contributed to majority of my problems. At 35, one would think that I’d have a nice paying job, nice little house with wife and beautiful kids, but the rude awakening is that I still live with my parents, I have two younger siblings, the youngest just got a job with a multinational company, somewhere in VI, while the other one is a medical doctor based in the states. My parents, most especially my father don’t miss the opportunity to remind me of what a failure I am or I have become. He once threatened to send me out of his house, if I don’t sit up and lead by example. My mum at the initial stage used to encourage me and give me words of advice, but recently she told me that she has lost her patience, that I’m trying to sow the seed of stagnation and regression in our family. I know you all would be wondering how I got here, but from a very young age, I’ve always been known to be brilliant and academic inclined, the funny part is that I graduated with a first class(most people, especially my immediate family seems to have forgotten) from one of the top federal universities in the country, where I studied architecture. Like I said previously, I have poor social skills, I tend to bottle up my emotions instead of opening up to people, I’ve never had a girlfriend, not because I’m not good looking but because I can’t summon the courage to approach a lady. People say I’m timid and scared to face the world. I had a job once immediately after I finished school at a construction firm, I worked there for two good years and I saved every penny I earned, hoping to invest in real estate, but I was swindled by some persons who claimed the sold landed properties, that was close to N8 million. All my life’s savings gone, I took a huge amount of loan from my company, when I couldn’t pay back I was sacked and humiliated. Well ever since, all my efforts at getting another job has proven futile, it’s like there’s a spiritual force that is holding me back, infact I’ve lost all hope there is, my situation has deteriorated into extreme depression as I type this, suicide thoughts keep flooding into my head, I need help please, I’d be reading the comments below, please no negative comment, like I said I’m a very emotional person. Zubelu.com https://zubelu.com/blog/im-35-years-old-and-i-already-feel-like-a-failure-in-life/ 1 Share
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Jokes Etc / Re: What Funny April Fools Prank Did You Fall For, Share Your Experience by phlamesG: 10:02am On Apr 01, 2019 |
SirL0neWolf: Wow really? Football manager for life |
Celebrities / Re: All Asisat Oshoala Wants Is A Quickie by phlamesG: 2:34pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Nah I'll pass[code][/code] |
Politics / Re: Hope Uzodinma Reacts To Expulsion From APC, Attacks Okorocha by phlamesG: 4:36pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
Wow election for imo go bloody o. If I hear say I travel go my village this period 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: Gunmen Attack Woman, Her Driver And Kill Police Escort On Their Way To The Bank by phlamesG: 3:33pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Prayer for Nigeria in distress 8 Likes |
Crime / Re: Police Rescue Man From Jumping Into Lagoon On Third Mainland Bridge. Photos by phlamesG: 3:32pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Kingosytex: Coz you have it rosy doesn't mean it's the same for everyone 10 Likes |
Crime / Re: Police Rescue Man From Jumping Into Lagoon On Third Mainland Bridge. Photos by phlamesG: 3:30pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
The hardship is just getting too much 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Lionheart: Omotola Jalade Refuses To Congratulate Genevieve Nnaji by phlamesG: 5:22pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
festacman: U be real festac man 1 Like 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Nonso Muojeke Classmates To Stop His Deportation From Ireland To Nigeria (Photos by phlamesG: 8:05pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
omo see love o May God favor us wherever we go 109 Likes 6 Shares |
Sports / Re: Ighalo Joins Yekini, Uche In Ranks Of Nigeria's Hat Trick Heroes by phlamesG: 8:04pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Where are his critics on this forum? Una Don go hide Abi? Mumu dem 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Shay Meets Whoopi Goldberg (Picture) by phlamesG: 7:29am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Money can make you meet people you never imagined you'll meet. God bless our hustle... |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Is The Dumbest/craziest Thing You've Done Absent Minded? by phlamesG: 2:22pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
zinnyzee: Sorry I didn't pick Ur call |
Romance / Re: Man Arrested For Sucking Out The Uterus Of A Lady During pre-intimacy In US by phlamesG: 1:53pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Lalas247:Babe |
Religion / Re: Whats That Thing You Don't Like About Yourself?? by phlamesG: 1:52pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
sinaj:Baby |
Romance / Re: Guys, What's The First Thing You Check Before You Approach A Lady? by phlamesG: 1:51pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Berlyn1: Savage I've actually been crushing on you for a while now |
Religion / Re: Emmanuel And James Nwokeji, Identical Twins Ordained Catholic Priests In Imo by phlamesG: 6:00pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Igbo nwamaka 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Mourinho Rained Unbelievable Praise On Pogba In Post-match Conference by phlamesG: 1:23pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Watching man u play under mourinho should be added among 1000 ways to die 6 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: OFFICIAL: Chelsea Unveils Matteo Kovacic, New Signing From Real Madrid (Photos) by phlamesG: 1:28pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Chelsea just signed the most expensive kepa in the world. if he doesn't keep a clean sheet in every game then they'd be Sarri 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Crime / Re: Celestine Egbunuche Nigeria Oldest Prisoner Marks 100th Birthday In Enugu Prison by phlamesG: 1:14pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
They should just grant him freedom, ahn ahn at this age what crime can he commit again? Chai God will not let us live in desolation and pain in our old age 222 Likes 10 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Femi Otedola To Sponsor Rapper Megabyte Education by phlamesG: 9:51am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Oluwa Send my helper to me ooo Lord of mercy open my wayyy |
Food / Re: Slay Mama Struggling To Eat Burger With Cutlery In Lagos by phlamesG: 8:18pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
Broke ass bitches forming Porsche.... Mtcheew |
Celebrities / Re: Princess Vitarah Goes Topless In New Photo by phlamesG: 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
Damn! 1 Like
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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is Probably A Child Of Chango And Oshun - Azealia Banks by phlamesG: 10:47am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Who's azealia banks? 15 Likes
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Sports / Re: Why Puma Paid Pele To Tie His Shoelace Before World Cup Match In 1970. Photos by phlamesG: 4:13pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Omo puma don tey o since 1970 I doubt if d original owner is still alive. How I wish Pele played in d era of neymar, messi, Ronaldo he'll teach them how to play football. 15 Likes |
Sports / Re: Michael Obi: Mikel’s Father Kidnapped, Rescued In Enugu Forest (Photo) by phlamesG: 9:38pm On Jul 02, 2018 |
CANDYDADDY: You are mad u Fvcking lay about making noise, jobless non entity 1 Like |
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