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steph7: I meant heated online debates and e-fights for your views

Haha...no b dis land...
Not to generate a debate though
To answer that there is a lot of 'mainstreamism' around this here parts...

steph7: family section posters like JK and CC have discussed how they had issues in the early years of their marriages. for instance JK discussed her temper and how her husband helped her work through it. there is no such thing as a perfect partner or marriage. but there are great relationships out there and it takes two. you for instance, how many times have u been on the receiving end for you views on NL?
why don't the females attack posters like bellong or nashville , are they not men... I always thought bellong was female till recently?
Treat women like your equals and life will be a whole lot easier.

Not sure i get this...receiving end of wat

Ewuro707: I doubt it, not this crane.

Nice one.. .

My head will break the crane.

Go and sleep

byvan: Every body in Nl earns more than a million per month,works with foreign companies, has more than 20 certificates before the age of 20...its the internet!what do you expect ? ? no doubt there are real people though.

Now you talking!

By the way. What's the sudden fascination with calotti...she seems to have many fanbabes.

steph7: fake posters? oh! the ones that are opening new accounts to fight on NL,I believe they have their reasons and until you are in their shoes or you know their reason then you shouldn't judge. perhaps they are just bored

I'm not a moniker hunter...
If u believe everything u read here... You on a long thing

On nl all the posters have perfect marriages, perfect children, perfect fathers and husbands yet they bastardise all the men around

Lol....

Tosyn007: Doesn't mean its has concealed has the shadow clone..

Don't get

steph7: Women are better at multitasking than men,so when you factor that in, it isn't so mind boggling.

That women are adept at multi tasking is not in doubt

Its the fake aze posters I'm referring to

If you don't like the message... Kill the messenger


First Beyonce now m Obama....

^^^^The more appropriate question is how many of these posters really exist/are in marriages/have a career Or even had kids....

The amount of time spent is mind boggling

dayokanu: Question: WHat happens when a Feminist gives birth to a boy? Would she kill him

She emasculates him...

Supa save

Dantedasz: I heard Miley Cyrus claims to be a feminist too.
My point is you can't debase your woman hood by making yourself a sex object or sex plaything and expect men to take you serious as the face of feminism because of one song or one album.
Beyonce has been debasing woman hood with her rump shaking, crotch grabbing, raunchy videos for years.
The fact that she is now touted as the face of feminism shows that the word feminism has totally lost its original meaning and the feminists are desperate for a poster girl for a movement that is losing relevance in a modern world.

C'est fini

Tough game...


Finally grod scores....


Hope his confidence grows

Tosyn007: Hashirama's clones are wood clones, but it seems shadow clones can't be easily deciphered like elemental clones.

Wood clones are tougher than shadow cloned

I still dont get u though
Wats ur take then....the current situation is ok?

Tosyn007: Do you remember the exact manga issue?

Ep 577 page 11

Happy anniversary ypp..

Many more bliss filled years

andy24: Please explain how gaining Shukaku's chakra would make naruro become like Rikudo Sennin.

Because that the only bijuu that had no jinchuriki ET'ed by pain so he could not speak to him on the bijuu realm

Aggrippa: some humans are lower than lower animals...just imagine what will happen if the above individual mistakenly become president of naija. some people seriously deseerved to be executed five times over

Bro I tire...

greggng: I can't blame you for anything cos no one is above mistake. When I was ready for my nysc my girl friend got pregnant and I told her I wasn't ready cos am yet to get a job and I don't want the child suffer. She refused to abort the baby and her reasons was that she has done it several times since she started dating me. I was mad at her cos I felt betrayed cos I only got to know the last incident. She has given birth to a baby boy but I cannot marry her cos I felt she had killed must of my babies. If you ve aborted the baby pls go on ur knees and pray for forgiveness and dedicate ur life to christ. You will see a decent man that will come for u and both of u will leave happily.don't even try to kill him cos it will increase the number of people u ve already wasted. If he loves u he will come back begging

You are a low life scum and a hypocrite

She has been pregnqnt for you multiple times, you wanted her to abort yet she refused and she finally kept one n yet you cant forgive her for in your words she is a killer

Yet you enabled her


The gall telling her to dedicate herself to christ!

So if I get your post correctly

If a man in the family has financial challenges;
He should send his wife home to his inlaws until the situation improves or else he should bear the consequences

He is a socker for not having the money to back up his religious claims of household head

Interesting..

Also is there a bible that can help the menfolk with the attitude that will guarantee their wive's non-abuse in times of financial difficulties

PS are you a feminist also..
If you are then is this in line or contrary to the tenets of equality where a man or woman can equally provide for the family

theLORDreigns: It is understandable that a man may lose his job while in a relationship or married. In such cases, his attitude or approach to getting another job will be a determining factor to how he will be treated by his wife (& possibly children).

I will never justify abuse but we can't categorically say this man is void of blame. So he lost his job & then what? Does his life come to an end? Couldn't he source for other means to provide for his family? What would it have been like if his wife wasn't working? He would probably have asked her to stay at her mom's pending when he was stable financially. I have seen it happen severally, where a married man who cannot provide for his family financially sends them to stay with a relative or an in-law for sometime. There is nothing wrong with this.

I want to believe that if this man had broken it down this way to his wife & probably even let her have the final say as to whether to stay & struggle with him or to go live elsewhere & come back when he is stable, she (his wife) would not have any grievances against him.

But for the man to just keep eating her food & sexng her while still claiming religion on top of it all is just wrong.
What would I do if I was in this woman's shoes, I would just leave cuz its too one-sided.



Money Financial Security is very important to a lady in a relationship/marriage. Its not just about the raw cash but the fact that you, as a man, are capable of taking care of me, a lady .

texanomaly: I agree that there should be. It is just a tough subject. Especially where I come from.

In Switzerland which shares similar sentiments to The states there is a measure of control.

It's not perfect

http://world.time.com/2012/12/20/the-swiss-difference-a-gun-culture-that-works/



http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-21379912

Ypp... We all need to calm down...
No one has any intention..

I do have resolutions n goals for the new year

[quote author=Somorin#1]I see.

I agree with that sentiment. If not gun, a crazed person can also find a stick, knife, screwdriver, etc to further his bent ambition.[/quote]However I don't
There needs be some form of gun control...
It will only get worse

[quote author=Somorin#1]Sorry I am not sure what you mean.[/quote]My post was.....
As they say people not guns kill people...

theLORDreigns: Thank GOD for this man's conclusion above. I thought he wouldn't come to terms with reality.
That woman needs some serious psychological help.

I know I want my future husband to provide for our family's financial needs even if I am working but if he can't do it for one reason or the other, it should never call for abuse. If I can't take it, I think I'll just leave.

Being a lazy married man is an abuse in itself. I mean 1Timothy 5:8 did say 'But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.'

I endorse this
Marriage is not compulsory but justifying violence because it is perpetrated by a female is wrong

I'm sure kuly is still recovering from the shayo hence her initial post

When she reads it she will write a proper post

So a banker woman who has earnings can abuse her hubby n its justified because he did not give her Xmas money..

Is that wat u really believe..kulyie

So the proverb on the widow thread is dredged up again....

New year is coming oooo

Old things are passed away

Tosyn007: Those clones were made in Madara's presence, they were to stall him and not for surprise attacks...shadow clones split the chakras among the clones equally so you can't tell which is which..

Read the battle of madara vs the gokage

I
Madara said deciphering hashi's clones was supposed to be a big deal