₦airaland Forum

MorningGlori:
And then comes the name. Despite the media gymnastics she’s been subjected to, Adaobi still clings to the Ayeni name. Why? If the marriage was a lie and an embarrassment as she now claims, why not sever the association completely? Why the insistence on retaining a title that, by her own logic, she was “deceived” into earning? Could it be that, in spite of the mess, the Ayeni surname still holds currency in certain circles she’s unwilling to forfeit?

Yes, that name still holds currency for her. That is the double standard for most women after leaving a partner. One of the reasons why one shouldn't take them really serious.

MorningGlori:
And if he was the puppet master, why did he keep returning? Begging, appeasing, showering gifts, and ensuring comfort for a woman he now disowns?

When you see a man returning to his mistress after fall out between the duo can be stemmed from two things, maybe the man has low self-esteem and felt he can not do without his mistress; secondly, this one is always true, most men with mistress always find it hard to lose them because of the money, investments spent on those mistress...it is always hard for them to leave those mistress at the same time seeing the mistress in the hand of another man. Men like this see woman as an investment. You should know better. That is why in most marriage where there is no love-lost, it is the women that always move for divorce not the man. Men stay in abusive marriage so as not to lose their resources spent on their wives, while women stay for many reasons: because of their children; marital status; means of livelihood, etc


P. S: By the way, what is the latest about the estranged couple? Since person no dey Nija like this, we no know wetin dey sup. Na Nairaland dey update us for here.

Ọmọ, this matter too tie gele with wrapper.

Anyways, I no trust this chicca.

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/07/fg-urges-apc-states-to-amplify-renewed-hope-agenda-at-grassroots/

Every empire, dynasty, kingdom burns from within before it falls from without.

Presently, what is happening to APC as a party. Watch as events unfold. Now they are jittery over what is coming for them. That foundation can never be built to last.

Bobloco:
https://punchng.com/mark-others-assure-adc-state-chairmen-of-role-in-anti-tinubu-coalition/#google_vignette

Every empire, dynasty, kingdom burns from within before it falls from without.

Presently, what is happening to APC as a party. Watch as events unfold.

2Ways:
I know he may maneuver the constitution before the 2027 election, if he feels he may not win the election.

Probably Nnamdi Kanu may be released some months before the 2027 election to cause confusion in the South East.

You are right. I reason along this line, more reason they are keeping him till then. Bookmark this.

brightleave:
Did they feel that come 2027, election will be held and they will just win tinubu just like that?

Who is he? A god, or your god? A mere mortal that six feet is waiting for.

dayveed1:
I thought as much. Because even though she's still young. She is very big for her age and her claws are very long. I would have Loved to cater for her but she's been trying to attack me at every opportunity she gets.

UPDATE : I released it after many failed attempts to feed it. She flew away gracefully. It was a precious experience to share with my kids.

Damn it! Why will you allow that treasure to fly away?

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

You don't need to bother about this. Be thankful it's even her sister. You're lucky unlike others that will tell their friends, or even exes. Bro look away, pretend as if you are not bothered. Later in time, you can easily form a story of something related like this and tell her to know her reactions. It is how she responds or react will determine her maturity. But always know that women will always be women.

Double0h7:
The breakup was heavenly! He is the devil 🤨(abcdefg)

He is the devil, but you are the angel, a saint?

Women and blaming game😅

Nemere2020:
https://guardian.ng/politics/akume-rules-self-out-of-apc-chairmanship-bid/

All these positions are just clumsy, Secretary to the Government of the Federation. Position wey be say na you go still appoint secretaries and errand boys in form of PAs, media aides to do the work you're entrusted to do. Nigeria and wastage of tax payer money.

Crucialgem:
papilo I know say one day you go make us proud

And yes he did ( the guy with the artificial plastic heart) who else bought that story when they were young

Lol🤣🤣🤣
Ọmọ those days sha. When dem talk say Kanu is now with artificial plastic heart say na the reason why dem come dey nmbench am for match come later substitute am🤣🤣🤣

G0odharddick:
Obi of course, who else?

He is the best and most trust worthy among them

If Obi decamp from ADC like he did from PDP to LP because Atiku clinch the presidential ticket, then he will confirm my allegation as Tinubu mole planted to weaken Atiku's chance.

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/07/were-all-one-shettima-tells-apc-pdp-adc-nnpp/

Malami is walking freely despite series of corruption allegations labelled against him. APC and double standard.

iwaeda:
https://dailytrust.com/el-rufai-why-everyone-told-me-i-made-a-mistake/

Ijaya! Bọbọ Chicago nightmare.

Anything to send that Bourdillon owner parking is welcome.

stuffs2002:
Obi really disgraced himself with that nonsense he was doing by serving food to people at an event.

Obi is the weapon fashioned against Atiku and he is ensuring that Atiku will not enter Asso Rock

His ignoble role in ADC this time around will sell him out. We are watching. Many are already having the opinion that he is Tinubu mole planted by Tinubu to weaken the chance of Atiku. I said this back then that Tinubu used Obi and Kwankwaso in the last election to weaken Atiku.

Softmirror:
Tinubu will serve his 8 years complete. Tinubu is not a mere mortal he is very much favored by God Almighty. No matter what anybody place as a hurdle Tinubu will scale over it. He scaled over them last time he will scale over them again and again.

People like you are the reasons why fake pastors thrive in Nigeria and politicians continue stealing from Nigeria. You can imagine saying Tinubu is not a mere mortal, lol. You should have called him a superman, yeye somebody. Take away all Tinubu's illicit wealth from him, and you will see he's nothing without his ill-gotten wealth. Tinubu my foot.

G0odharddick:
This book will definitely create war between Shettima and tinubu.

Meanwhile, obi is busy clout chasing doing eye service in the name of serving food to people in an event. What a joker!

Atiku won't see aso rock, did he forget his placenta in aso rock? Meanwhile tinubu is a disaster to Nigeria and he must be voted out

In your mind, who should be voted in among all the candidate?

MrHandsome2013:
But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

Ọ̀yọ́ l'owà bọbọ yìí🤣🤣🤣


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MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

Lol🤣🤣🤣
Judge her by her past. Anyways, dem no deytelli person🤣 Na you get your wife


🎶Tojo ife bati ro le e lori🎶

Kelebe kelebe lomama se bi tanwinji

Ife a gba okan e so bi eni to-sinwin

Kosi ohun ti obi re ma so to ma wo e leti

You can ask Fadekemi as in which level, bo se ri

Akanke mi ko

She can′t stop calling me

Wakati wakati loma fi n pemi

Ke ma ba binu oooo

🎶Omo mi ni omo yen🎶

IgOga:
When Atiku is done selling everything. You will be a debtor to foreigners. "Our resources" will be gone you will beg foreigners for some rights to what was your former resources.

All the dollars Atiku has spent since 1992 he will realise.

So all the money Tinubu is spending where is he getting them? Stop being sanctimonious here. I repeat Atiku is better than Tinubu by far. When Atiku said he will sell Nigeria redundant sectors to private individuals, through privatisation. APC blamed him. Didn't APC swallowed their spits later? You are talking because you don't know Tinubu sha😂 If you know Tinubu very well, you will know he doesn't mean well for Nigeria.

Jaylord12:
Why can't Atiku support a southerner......must he be president...That was how Tinubu just wanted been called president and he has messed the country's economy in the guise if reform

Atiku is different from Tinubu in its entirety. Atiku can not rubbish Nigeria the way Tinubu bastardise Nigeria like this. This is not about Northerner orSoutherner, this is about Tinubu leaving Aso Rock come 2027.

Jaylord12:
If Atiku will not respect other region then let Tinubu a southern continue

This is not about Atiku, this is about removing Tinubu from power. Nigerians mean business this time around, and it’s not business as usual. The chicks have come home to roost.

BlessedGift:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pc6dxAWF14


The ADC has said it has no preferred or favourite presidential aspirant but has set out to first put out a platform that would be attractive and acceptable to majority of Nigerians.

“We are doing this because we do not want this great ship called Nigeria to sink because if we do not rise up, and now, they will sink all of us.

“I don’t own this party more than any of our members and I urge all members to prepare to show Nigerians that ADC is a different party," the interim Chairman, David Mark has said.

Make Obi stay for ADC if he wan stay. Where e wan go? No wonder why we keep saying that Obi may eventually be sponsored by Tinubu, who knows. Trust politicians at your perils.

Negroid001:
My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.


I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.

As a man, don't tell her that if she can foot the bill or sponsor the wedding. You "no" is "NO". Tell her it is a simple wedding you want and let her see reason with you. If she can't then you have a long way to go. You guys need to agree together. The same issue related to this will eventually surface when you guys are married (little thing matters). This is why you are called "man of the house." If she's bent on having her way despite what you table down to her, that is a red flag my brother...use your discretion.

PastorKosi:
"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

This is true. I remember when my uncle told me somwthing related to this more than 20 years ago, he said: "Not everyone that comes to a wedding comes to wish the couple well, some are wishing to make the wedding crash, some want to come and see what is going on in the wedding..." That statement of his resonates deep into my mind.

SIRAO:
Yes they re doing it, the governors and local governments re having more funds to develop their regions while FG is doing much in infrastructures etc.

Go and tell that to the marines and baby comrades or political jobbers who just begin life in the political terrain in Nigeria. Pinpoint how the largesse from the subsidy has affected Nigeria citizens in a positive way?

SIRAO:
Yes they re doing it, the governors and local governments re having more funds to develop their regions while FG is doing much in infrastructures etc.

Go and tell that to the marines and baby comrades or political jobbers who just begin life in the political terrain in Nigeria. Pinpoint how the largesse from the subsidy has affected Nigeria citizens in a positive way?

eepeepook:
How did he make the money? I don’t believe everything on social media. Too many lies.

Dey play. Go Ekiti, you go see secondary children doing yahoo and feeding their parents from their "sweat"😂😂😂 I used the word "sweat" because they will tell you that they do not sleep a wink in the night too, lol😂😂😂

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyxH_vr7ptc?si=JWR8LQjR523rrytc

This reminds me of the popular story of Rehoboam in the bible, lol...

Yet, some elders counsel may be manipulative in nature. The best is to sieve them and apply the ones useful among them.

This boy is de-ad while walking alive aswear.

Objectivist04:
this man makes me angry . The same you that were telling Nigerias that Buhari is fixing Nigeria, so Tinubu is admitting that Buhari didn't do anything in his 8 years rule, ? Isn't this an indictment on Tinubu by telling Nigerias that Buhari is on the right track to reposition the country ? So Tinubu knew that Buhari is a failure and still promised to continue from where Buhari stoped ?

I expect Tinubu to say that 10 years is not enough instead of 2 years or is he indirectly telling us that Buhari's 8 years was a waste ?

Tinubu is the most insincere and dubious politician Nigeria ever had

Na now you just dey know or what? Among all Presidents who have ruled Nigeria since 1999 here they are as follow, from the worst to the best.

Tinubu: F9 in failure raise to power 99 times 9
Buhari: F9 in failure raise to power 10
GEJ: D7
Obasanjo: C6
Yar'adua: C4

treesun:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/07/08/tinubu-government-replies-imf-its-unrealistic-fix-nigerian-problems-two-years

Bàbá n Jẹ'wọ́ bọ̀ díẹ̀ díẹ̀, lol

Funny somebody. No be you wan be president wey dey fight GEJ left and right, sponsor protest everywhere and then.

Múra si