₦airaland Forum

Haha! This life

We await another propaganda as soon as people begin to loose interest in this one. Meanwhile, time is passing and still no positive economic plan whatsoever

Vince77:
I really need to meet d efiks and ibibios. They got so many endorsement here.

Go to Calabar, you will understand.

Stop killing unarmed citizens. I am not advocating Biafra though.

We do not need a military regime, Nigerians have been scammed!

How did this post make FP?

asha01:
There is a friend of mine who confided in me because of a lady who has been married for past nine years without a child. Recently, due to pressure from her husband who even gave her ultimatum to become pregnant before April or leave his house, she has made up her mind to do anything in order to keep her marriage.
She called my friend who was her course mate back in school and requested to see him. In the course of their discussion, she narrated all she has been through for lack of a child of her own.
At a point her younger sister became pregnant and offered to give the child to her due to what she is going through. But God intervened, as they were planning on how to bring the sister to their home and take care of her till she put to birth, a man proposed and accepted the sister’s pregnancy.
They then went for plan B by adopting a boy who is growing up as their child now. Thank God for His intervened because the sister or someone might come in future to claim the child had they accepted the sister’s child, my thought though.
However, the husband is still not contented, he wants his own child. Meanwhile whenever treatment or checkup is recommended, the wife will go but the husband will refuse to go for the checkup saying he is ok that if the wife is in doubt she should recommend a woman for him to try, though the wife has been pregnant severally including last year but had miscarriages.
Obviously, her discussions with my friend suggested that she wants him to sleep with and get her pregnant for her husband also to save her marriage.
Please, what solution can save her marriage and also my friend from this act of adultery since both are married to different people? Please help with suggestions.

Those who wait upon the Lord shall mount on wings like Eagels. I think she should wait, it does not matter how long it takes.

Nubian113:
If your husband after 2 children wants more children and you say no to his wishes then what is he to do especially if you're against a polygamous relationship.

I know a man in this predicament. I think the wife is wrong to play God with his destiny because it's his right to have as many children has he wants. Why won't she accept a polygamous relationship at least. She wants him to leave his home for another man to raise his kids. Women we can be so bad minded I swear... This man loves you can't you give him more kids or another wife? Come on now you gotta take one for the team IMHO



*man in question is capable of supporting a large family*

** No complications at both pregnancy
**10+ years marriage
** 2 girls but husband wants to try for a son
** he loves her & the children
** no agreement as such before marriage but he has made it clear he'd like a big family

In my opinion the wife is being a little harsh. Maybe I think like this because I've not had children yet. They really really love each other and he'd do anything for her so why deny him a son? I dont understand all these rights...

What is your business? Don't worry, one day people will discuss your issue on social media the same way you are discussing theirs.

poiZon:
apc scatter, die, scatter, die, die die die by fire, die by force.

Lmao

I am not surprised, i knew it would be another Nothingner

Yes o..

PDP, party of the common man/woman

APC and thugery

This is why they do not want western education, so that they can continue marrying babies, tufiakua!

May they continue to be in disarray

OnankpaBa:
and you think bayelsa poll has given them edge? wake up. PDP is dead only waiting for its final burial. and the same PDP members will use their hand to bury the party.

Lmao, they will still win more elections. S/S will not vote for APC.

OsusuMustFlow:
i will keep on saying it for people to knw..PDP is already dead.

Which party won the recently concluded election in Baylesa?

What do you know about politics in the first place? Receive sense!

I still wonder why Motorcycle riders act fearlessly while driving beside Trailers .

RIP

It is all about greed!

Efiks, they are contented with what they have

dachez20:
Dear Mr. President.
As a loyal citizen of Nigeria, I wish to send this urgent appeal to your office with regards to the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission’s (EFCC) on-going battle with former Nigeria Delta militant leader, Government Ekpemupolo, also known as Tompolo.
I just want to say that some of the point-proving tactics deployed by your government and your security agencies are not necessary.
When you have a possibly volatile suspect like Tompolo, it would make sense to also review the possible backlash of going all out and creating a stand-off. The government looks bad. EFCC looks bad. Tompolo looks bad, and I don’t think he cares.
The excessive confrontational approach of the EFCC has caused a militant who has been ‘domesticated’ to be forced back into his natural habitat. I am sure that you are aware that some strategic oil pipelines have been blown up by militants in the last two days. Tompolo has disassociated himself from the incidents and condemns the attacks. But, Tompolo is possibly having the time of his life right now, regardless.
Mr. President, there are many ways to cook fish. One-way traffic approach to law enforcement doesn’t always yield positive results.
Sir, you are not the first President of Nigeria. You won’t be the last.
When Tompolo did not have as much resources as he does today, he waged war against Obasanjo’s regime. You would recall, Sir, that Obasanjo’s (1999 – 2003) regime was tyrannical, just as yours. Obasanjo couldn’t finish the battle, he handled it over to his successor late President Musa Yar’Adua who continued the face-off with Tompolo and other militants. At a point, Yar’Adua declared Tompolo as the most wanted man in Nigeria.
The militants waged a campaign against oil production in the Niger Delta region that successfully crippled the nation’s economy from 2005 till 2009. One party had to blink first, and it was Nigeria when the country went broke.
Sir, you are well aware that Yar’Adua sent a presidential jet to fly Tompolo, Ateke Tom, leader of Niger Delta Vigilante, and Ebikabowei Victor Ben, also known as Boyloaf, and others to dine with him in Aso Rock and pleaded with them to lay down their arms so Nigeria could get “money to feed”.
The Niger Delta restiveness only ended when the late President Musa Yar’Adua successfully negotiated a cease-fire and launched the Niger Delta Amnesty Programme.

This is not the North East where an insurgency has been on for more than 7 years and in the midst of it,Nigeria’s economy grew to the biggest in Africa. This is the real ‘bread basket’ of Nigeria we are talking about.
When former President Goodluck Jonathan conceded defeat to you at last year’s presidential elections, his people followed his words and his actions and chose peace over conflict.
In the weeks leading up to the presidential elections, this year, Tompolo and other militant group leaders had threatened to make the country ungovernable if Jonathan was rigged out of office. But to our greatest relief, the militants accepted the results of a flawed election, and in a surprise move, Tompolo appealed for calm and everybody moved on. These current confrontations are uncalled for. They serve this country no good.
As a country, we depend on crude oil sales to survive. Prices are at an all-time low. Sales price is $6 below our production price of $31. Experts predict that prices will hover around $5 – $30 for the next six years. On Monday, it appears, sanctions against Iran will be lifted by the US and the U.K. Iran will gladly sell crude oil at $25 a barrel and smile to the bank because the country’s production cost is $12.60. India and China would gladly buy from Iran than Nigeria. Who wouldn’t buy from a closer source and save money?
Contrary to the message that your government is trying hard to push forward, the war against Boko Haram is far from won. Just yesterday, the terrorist group attacked a military base in Yobe. This follows Wednesday’s bombing of an Adamawa community near Sambisa Forest. Sunday, six Nigerians were brutally murdered in the same community by Boko Haram. It is only a matter of time before the terroristsstage a ‘spectacular’ attack just to prove your information minister, Lai Mohammed a liar.
There is a man on Twitter who seems to predict Boko Haram attacks days or weeks before they happen. Why he is walking around freely is something I don’t understand. But, he claims to see Boko Haram wires and says that the group is planning something big to shock Nigerians and the world. According to this person, who describes himself as some kind of security expert, Boko Haram has activated sleeper cells in reaction to your inauguration speech.
Mr. President, you have gone on record several times practically begging Boko Haram to accept an amnesty deal. If you can suspend your strong-arm image for Boko Haram. I wonder why you can’t also suspend this image just to allow things cool down in this Tompolo situation?
As far as your anti-corruption fight is concerned, there are many big fish to fry. There are low hanging fruits like former governors who enjoyed allocations when crude oil was $100 a barrel and did nothing to improve their states. Let us allow this Tompolo situation to simmer down a bit. We can always revisit the matter another day.
No country fights four wars at the same time and makes any progress. Already, Nigeria is home to thedeadliest terrorist group in the world, Boko Haram; the world’s 4th most deadly terrorist group, the Fulani militia also called Fulani herdsmen; then we are fighting a war against corruption. There is no need starting a 4th war in the process of waging the 3rd.
This appeal comes from someone who loves her country deeply and would hate to see Nigeria go up in flames just because of the massive ego of the EFCC. Please, please, please some wise Nigerians need to surround the President and offer alternatives to confrontation.
I also use this medium, being an open letter, to appeal to Nigerians who are close to the President, don’t be like the subjects of the naked king who kept admiring his imaginary coat and even took measurements of the coat just because they didn’t want to tell the emperor the truth – that he was unfit for his position. Leave a legacy of telling truth to power at all times, even when it was the uncomfortable truth.
Let all Nigerians bear it at the back of their minds that circumstances like Tompolo ignoring court summons are a direct offshoot of Buhari getting on national television and telling Nigerians that he obeys court orders only when they are in line with his beliefs. Lawlessness cascades downwards. The example shown by the government has now embolden Mr. Government.
Anarchy looms. May wisdom prevail.
God bless Nigeria.

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Pmb=Undemocratic


... E pain am well well....

Waste of life

RIP

[quote author=theshadyexpress post=42083776][/quote]10,000 likes!

War everywhere due to lack of good leadership

EFCC lying liars

Amitex:
I am wondering why our youth are wasting away their precious time on social media instead of being productive to better their lives. I have observed this Barcanista /TonyeBarcabista of a guy for sometime and I am wondering. Does this person have a meaningful job? Imagine a character that resumes on NL at 7.00am daily and closes at past midnight posting average of 90/100 comments a day. Even Seun does not spend such length of time on his NL.

I am sure this man needs a job, please if anyone can assist him so that he can put his time to more productive use and reduce time spent on social media.

@Tonyebarcanista, go back to your profile and check the time you spend daily on NL arguing back and forth and give your life some meaning! Sit for some professional examinations if you have a lot of time to read and research. Stop wasting time (arguing) on NL. If you think that this platform can provide you political relevance, please, think again. Who do you know has become one through NL? Especially with your views! Who would trust a character like that. Good politicians are tactful and focused and not tossed around like the sea waves.

"Time na money" is a popular Rivers slang! Wake up bro you are not getting any younger!!!

NB: I know as usual, you will call me IPOBIAN, it is entirely your business, but morning look at the mirror and tell whoever you see the the truth, it will help him.

Epic!

This is a good advice, those who have ears let them hear.

Humanbeing and greed! This is the reason why a parent will dehumanize his/her own offspring just for a few naira notes.

APC are embarrassing themselves with this display of cluelessness, Shame!

MummyEsther:
May you experience barrenness for 12 years so this your comment can make sense to you.

Haba, this is too harsh. It is obvious that he/she is looking for attention, you can ignore his post instead of this.

Bitterness is a terrible thing, desist from it because it ruins lives and destroys relationships

If Tompolo submits himself he should kiss freedom goodbye

The source is not credible, some bloggers and lies are like five and six. Be careful that your false posts will not put this man in further trouble with the Church