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runnazz:
lolz..u don jam,if a girl admits to having had sex with 9 guys bro multiply that figure by 3 and you will get the actual number of guys when don pass that road(it doesn't apply to all girls)..@ 21 the girl sha! maybe she has changed lolz... jokes apart you know we all make mistakes growing up..some girls keep looking for love in all the wrong places and they love easily and are willing to do anything to please the guy they are dating..Abeg don't be quick to break up with her follow her with an open mind and forget wetin u find abt her past...u sef wetin concern u with how may guys she don nack...u nko hw many babes u don get down ? Just take things easy with her...but the girl might be truthful when she said nine most girls will say just 2 before u or u are the 2nd person...NINE!!! she must really trust u.. no fall her hand, keep an open mind..

thank God i can read
the op did not call her a slut
he only complained that the numbers of guy she has slept with is much
so you decided to call her a slut

KiidaACE:
i aint judging her.
Read the post again and see were the op mentioned it.

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Tallesty1:
Oh That!I was in heaven b4

lol

Isaacmacdon:
naughty u!!

lol
you be philanthropist

adedayourt:
And am good @ sewing things . Even fr free

you know me too well

bdek:
you that dont want to handle your responsibility before,

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tell the father to chill till his daughter gets pregnant..what a family

solace2013:
Dear friends in the house, kindly help me out. I instructed a Lawyer to file divorce for me last month but instead he asked people to plead with me, my office and phone line has now been turned to another thing as a result of the number of people trying to intervene. I met my wife at the Polytechnic, Ado Ekiti in 2007. I was in my final year at UNAD then. We courted for 4 years and got married in 2011. I began to have the thought that I am getting married to the wrong person in 2008 when my fiancee started making unnecessary monetary demands. At that time, I was a youth corper. She will be asking for N10k at a time my total monthly allowee was just N15k. I complained about the habit and she apologised. She later started using style to use her younger sister at FUTA to ask for money, recharge cards and other things which may not really br bad if I were to be working with good pay at that time. I discussed ot with her and she said she is not sure I can really shoulder the responsibilities of marrying her. I wanted to use style to end the relationship but she started begging and sending people to me especially my pastor's wife. She claimed to be testing me. I tried my best for her financially but I knew she wasn't satisfied. After NYSC in 2009, I started teaching in a private school with a pay of N18k , it was complaints all the way, she went for service that year, she finished in 2010. I sat her down to discuss the issues of our life together, she apologized for her past behaviour and promised to get things right. She actually changed and I was impressed. She got a job with a private firm with 40k per month, I was able to secure a job through the father of one of the students I coached for SSCE and JAMB in a private firm 3 months after her own, my pay was then 100k. We started planning for marriage. I was able to get a 2 bedroom for 150k a year, bought an old1996 volkwagen passat from the man who helped me secure the job for 200k, with this I thought marriage should be the next thing. I saved some money and secured a loan from my office coop society, making a total of 550k. I discussed with my fiancee all along. We did introduction, and we later fixed our wedding for December 2011. I asked for engagement list, she brought a list totalling 480k, I became confused, this is someone who knows my financial stand. I told her to plead with her family, she flared up, asking if I thought she was less than human since more than that were spent on some of her friends who had gotten married ealier. I pleaded with her that things will get better, she refused to listen to me, I told to let's postpone the whole thing to 2012. She later came begging again using my pastor's wife, I agreed again, my pastor and his wife sat her down and taught her a lot of things about marriage. We went for the wedding as scheduled for Dec 2011. During our wedding, I saw the other side of her family, I had to hurriedly asked my Aunty to organise food and drinks for my guests, thank God for the little money I left in the bank and gifts from my boss, my office and few friends and relations. They made sure that the food and drinks which I paid for never get to my guests, but my dutiful and experienced Aunty saved the day for me by the grace of God. wedding over, I discussed all these with her and she begged and blamed the devil as usual. That was the beginning of my ordeal in the hands of Biola, the lady that I loved and her family. The father called me and told me how I embarrassed him by initially postponing the wedding, I apologized. He made a list of demands from I and my wife, I tried to explain things to him without success, he told me that his daughter is an investment from which he must make profit, I was shocked at some of the things he said. I discussed with my wife, she took side with her father saying het family is our responsibility. That is not bad if we have the resourses but with 100k (now 130k) per month, their demands will be difficult to meet. Our marriage is now 17 months, it has been one argument or the other. In 17 months, mu wife has never missed her mensural period for once not to talk of being pregnant, that is not an issue as long as her family's demand are met. I have been spending heavily on fertility tests since we clocked 6 months in marriage, I decided to stop it last march. Her father continues to threathen fire and brimstone each time his financial needs are not met, she become sentimental each time I pick up issues with her saying I am "maltreating" her because she has not conceived. Her father has never been bothered by this issue for once, only her mum shows concern once in a while.
Since march, my doctor has been asking me why I should have high blood pressure at 33. Biola's father's demand could sometimes be so ridiculous, I have stopped any form of financial contribution to them since November 2012. The fire has increased in intensity since then. Our foodstuff which we buy in bulk will disappear in 2weeks, but since march, I have said enough is enough, worked my transfer to our Benin office from Ibadan without her knowledge, abandoned her in Ibadan and finally asked a lawyer to institute divorce against her in april. It is this lawyer who is wasting time now telling me that things are not that bad, that we can make up things, I am not ready for all these, he has involved so many people in pleading with me while my former pastor and his wife who knew us from the beginning are insisting we can't go our separate ways. Dear Nairalanders, this is my heart I am pouring out to the public, what should I do, unfortunately and unbelivrably, Biola's father continues to tell everyone that cares to listen that his demands from me are legitimate, what do you advise, thanks so much.

if my mother in law wont give me peace then i have no choice than to ignore her
if she believes i cant do things well then she should do it
i really don't have a spare life somewhere so no one should make me age before my time


though i am not married but in my little world i have learned a lot from my mom

if my mom is not cruel to her son's wives then why would someone inconvenient my life

i will ignore him or rather hand over the cooking job to him...

a shameless man,a weakling...
they should send him to sambisa to bring back our girls and he should be stripped of his title

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nice one omoT....more years in success

i was joking
sincerely

hadizadeezy:
but I think you were serious.

that is not awkward

duduhemit36:
typical example-THAT AWKWARD MOMENT WHEN U REALIZE YO BEING SERVED THE FOOD U HATE MOST THE MOST FOR BREAKFAST

and u

no o
im just wandering how you knew
so i can ask heaven about myself

Tallesty1:
Are You A Lawyer?

no...if its a smartphone
yes if its not a smartphone

why are u judging her by calling her slut
hey dude because she dated doesnt mean she slept with all
im sure she thought those dudes meant well for her
she needs a break after a break up not a dude thats why she has that much

KiidaACE:
She's slept with 9 guys at the age of 21?
1 word for her--*slut*
But sluts do change,mostly when they've found someone they truely love .
But as you said,you've got no feelings for her.
A relationship can't work without love,can it?
You either find the love or you quit.
Your call

why the face

Tallesty1:

prove it that heaven knows

Tallesty1:
Person wey no fine no fine, even heaven knows that.

keep washing the car while another dude drives it


dont you have a love life of your own

why would he want to change her
cant he love her that way

alberto2k:
Well, Talk to her.. U can make her better person.. If she really loves you, She'll change and you'll be surprised.

then i will be playing on his intelligence too

VKENNYJ:
its cool but how about if ur spouse is only playing on ur intelligence?

all u need is needle and thread
sew it up



joking

boredom

well i will forgive my spouse...and be happy

cos i know say first to do e no dey pain

yes i can