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Gosh! jogego so what's d difference....u wanna kill us?

[quote author="jogego"]Abeg they are living in their paradise. Truth be told, if you aint giving the guy, believe me sincerely, he is getting it somewhere else. pure and simple[/quote]anyway i will agree with you half way because i wasnt giving my Ex-dude & he was seriously getting it elsewhere.but i still insist that there still guys out there re one can have a relationship with without having to warm their beds each night

anyi 385, you posted this topic & disappeared. people have been replying your post but you havent come back to feed us in on what's going on at present. anyway something inside of me tells me your story is far frm being the truth {i might be wrong }
if it's real, just know that mamba & chxta's advice re frm the moon.far fetched... run away from his advice o! (they re babbling ..they can't do it if they find themselves in such a case)
don't do it. if you re going to make it here, then stay. but if you have to make it abroad, you will be there with no hassles. if i were you i would tell your pupsy. even if he believes the woman at all times, one day God will vindicate you & he will believe you. but please don't do that unholy act.

morning peeps.. .am just waking up.....talking about NYSC
I was opportuned to be posted to somewhere i work my ass out...i work 12hrs a day, doing morning & night duties.... the advantage of the stressful work is that it has stretched me beyond my limit & increased my tolerance rate to 96%. & my only compensation apart from the meager salary is the cossy crib the company gave me...
Am serving in Benin.. it's a town of FUN but. ..with two big problems... floods & thieves...living here can be hell as much fun has it's gat

NYSC gave me opportunities to meet people, great & small.... but come to think of it, if am to account for this last one year, i will do so 45%....
the stupid allowance in the NYSC scheme is lil or nothing to Write home about, employers of Corp members also take advantage of U, by paying lil or nothing.
I am looking forward to the day NYSC Scheme will be scrapped...

i have to sleep now but when i wake up 2mrw morning i will post in my reply.. i am currently undergoing the programmme to be through on the 18th of august 05 {few days more} & ...................{later}

[quote author="jogego"]CimonJ you better live Pinky alone. She thinks she is in the world of Mills & Boons and Harlequin romance. This one na real world oh!!![/quote]gosh.. hhuhuhu! anyway i hate those books so i am not in that world....

[quote author="CimonJorr]It would be nice for Mizz Pink to explain how one can have an intimate relationship without intimacy... ??[/quote]i had one...... very intimate, without your so called intimacy............what else do you want to hear

CalabarMan: Pinky it's a free world so far as you and your partner agree with your concept nothing spoil

thankz jare......i employ u to scream it into jogego & Cimon's eardrums

wat's all da noise about in the house i only gave general rules......not something to adhere to for every relationship to work,, mind u all... those seeking a good wife will see light in those rules.........

it actually sounds WHhooosh

You won’t believe it, but every woman has the in-built ability to get any man she wants. But it is so sad that too many women just settle for any thing that comes their way or nothing at all. If you do decide to get married, it should happen.You don’t have to be embarrassed, pressured and feel useless because you are not married.

Your good qualities should be more than physical beauty. Inner beauty is a meek and quiet spirit - You are not threatening those around you, you do not compete, you don’t demand your rights, and get your way all the time. Meekness is not weakness. It is strength under control.

Most women re their own problem. They don’t act right, look good, and are very greedy. Some women are naturally gorgeous. But majority have to make an effort. Men are sight motivated. Your looks will attract him before he gets closer to know the real you. Some men might watch and study a woman for years without her knowing before finally making any move.There are 2 kinds of attitude.

One attitude says "here I am."    (the focus is on "Me."

The other says "here you are." ( the focus is on others.)

Which one are you? Many men are thrown off by the here I am woman. She is good for a fling, but not good enough to be a wife.
In your entertainment and social life, watch what feeds your mind. You find out that the most useless men are the ones you find in most useless places. If you're sure your circle of friends are good people. A good man will locate you.

Here re tips on what women do to put off a man.

To attract a husband, you must have the qualities of a wife & be able to submit. Men don’t like aggressive and domineering women. For some women, every man that shows a little interest, they see as a potential husband. That will scare any man away. even if you like a man, At that stage of the relationship, don’t show it. Be smart.
secret. If you treat all men you meet as a brother and a friend, you will win the heart of some man.and he will begin to imagine you as wife.

Some women are just so talkative. They talk a mile a minute. You will always get into trouble if you talk too much and anyhow. If a man is interested in you, and you act nice, but not interested, believe me, you got him.
All men love challenges. It is that lovely well behaved woman, that everyone says is hard to get, that most men will go all out to try to get. Men I lie?

[quote author="seun"]I believe you're nothing but a heartless player; the kind of person who makes me feel ashamed to be a man![/quote]cool down seun, dont be too harsh on danasco
[quote author="Danasco"]Make jealous people go sleep.{/quote]
u re truly a yeye guy, peeps re offering u advice & u re saying they re jealous... i shake my head for u
{quote author="pkrix"]Danasco, forget all this preaching wey everybody they yan.
see wetin happen.
That girl eh; she has got somebody who is far better than you in the act of finding time and taking care of a lady.
So, don't think of apologizing or reconciliation[/quote]now this is not a good advice at all. Pkrix if this is how u reason, then u re going down the drain at a high speed

shockreaction: @Danasco: Run fast, like the wind! When a girl requires too much time out when you've got little time to spare, and she starts complaining, don't hesitate to leave...

u re trying to tell us that if ur girl complains of inadequate attention , this is wat u will do in return......{i pity u}...u will be in the bachelor's lounge for long o

[quote author="hot-angel"]What about telling her and actually showing her that you love her by taking 2 days off work and tell her you want to be with her?[/quote]babygirl it dozent work that way..moreso this is Nigeria... u can get sacked for pulling that stunts... honestly if danasco needs the girl, he should fill in d empty spaces like i told him earlier on (reply #25)

[quote author="CalabarMan"]There must be sex in the relationship.[/quote]how wrong u re. it's not a must that sex should be in a relationship..once u guys agree not to have it, that doesnt make calabarMan or anybody else to see it as being platonic friendship

danasco danasco..am not short of words for you.... it's obvious you've got strings of girls.... that's your number one error
hmnnn ..the girl complains you don't have time for her....  let me tell you something, am a lady & i know when to start telling a guy it's over for lack of attention from him.. your girl must have taken it to the bearest minimum.... funny enough i doubt if you {or the girl re in love.. because love understands distance but lust doesnt,, if she loves you & you love her.. the fact that you guys see on weekends only wont be an issue at allllll
if you guys re crazy about each other... then you can create time out of no time for her..calls can fill in the spaces too...

[quote author=Danasco"]I love this girl too much because she is very BEAUTIFUL and presentable, also because of her family background[/quote]Now.. if a guys tell me he loves me because of all this you said .. am going to shove his ass in a trash where he belongs..

[quote author="jogego"]SO chin up pinky, if pinkybear has gone to be with someone else, don't worry, he wasnt meant to be urs.[/quote]hahahahahaha jogego... am ROTFWL.... thanks for the good advice... but wait ..wat gives u the impresion it's pinky bear thatlet me down..mind u.. i dont even have a heart to be broken...i was just let down..

private question.. bolasho..ask me via PM

legry baba, since i broke the relationship, i've  never cried & it's kinda too late to do that.. anyway we seem to gat the same goals  for relationships.... i am not going to hurt once more...& am not gonna play games with my heart anymore.. the only relationship i will go in to nowwwww.. is one going to lead into marriage.. i mite court for yrs till we'll both be set for the deed, but i've quit a situation where by a guy's gonna be playing games with my heart

na real esu be this o my peeps... ever since i broke up with that jerk of a dude, i have stopped having new male friends with or without ulterior motives, { i keep to my old ones}all of a sudden.. am having this male friend... he asked for a very little favour & i freaked out completely...shattering my friend's mind..... i just feel terrible inside.....i can't help myself..i wish i'm not in d office, so i can sit & shout or cry {cry? did i say cry over that thing ..... it was a slip of finger on my keyboard}

thanks peeps, am recovering from the shock, it really hit me like a big blow...... i guess i've been using bold face & gra gra to cover my hurt all da while.. tanx am better

Gosh...............some1 just opened my wound now, i thot it was healed..how wrong i am.... my tummy churns & turns..i just wanna faint..anybody help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flirting .......i do it unintentionally...God knows i don't actually like it, but then.. guys mistaken my bating of eyelids, body movement, sucking in of my lips  e.t.c{i guess all this re part of flirting} as flirting with them..meaning at times, i give them the very wrong impressions making them come strong on me.... so girls..... flirting can bring unnecessary attention beware

T-girl yes ke. wat a perfect reply

[quote author="stevo"]I think God hates me but i will not succumb until he kills me[/quote]wat a statement to make, so cos u cant get on the show, u feel God hates u......na wa o...

this is a new twist in the tale, a part no one ever thot of... hopy2005. i quote agree with u.. we need to know if this guy has ever cheated on d girl or done something terrible to make her wanna retaliate..
knowing guys for wat they re. .. after offending us in private, they come out to the public screaming BLUE MURDER