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 Family › Re: Tired: Need Advise by plappville(f): 3:00pm On Sep 22, 2011 |
This is a  situation, alot of women are struggling with it, some do like u by seek advise while others keep it to demselves and nurse the feelin alone, they may be scared of been rediculed by others.With the way u ve explained here, it may be true that he may be very busy at work as he keeps apologising. Or else, it seem to me like a sign of no longer interested in u. when a man is no longer interested to be home with his wife and finds it difficult to speak out, he can use his job as an excuse in this case, my advice here is that u should try and ask him for his office number so u can reach him. A mobile phone can be recieved anywhere and no prove of where he was at the time he recieves ur call. An other sign, he may get upset when asked where he was,? what he was doing? etc. But this does nt happen in ur case which its hard to confirm if he is actually not interested or not . A clear no longer interested sign is really when he gets upset esch time u speak with him of his late habit. As for ur phone not reachable, it maybe true, as Nigeria poor networks has failed to improve. If he is care less about cash responsibility at home as u stated, call him for a sitdown talk, take a leave prapare ur meeting with him and make him understand for real how u are feeling, It is a common practice dat the husband is the bread earner of the family and he should give financial support to the wife and kids if u ve one. A husband shld be the one contributing more in the family, if he is not playing this roles, its eventually another sign to judge him. I hope he is not ignoring u sexually because its one of the most suspectful sign. On ur own side, Maybe u also should evaluate urself, u may be thinking u are cooking the best food for him, wash is clothes and yet he persist. U have to do something to work thing out back, if it has not been like this right from day one u both met. Take divorce out of this, don't even think of it, work on ur home by putting it In prayers. Dont nagging will do no help so avoid it. God will help u save ur home. |
| Family › Re: Advice Fellow Moms In The House by plappville(f): 2:03pm On Sep 22, 2011 |
3 yrs and she takes only cerelac? A new mother u re surposed to asked question before your baby arrives. Where are all the vegetables and fruits in the market? At her age home made foods is what she needs. Buy fresh green vegetables, Spinach,sweet potato Carrot, rice etc, with all these, and make her thick soups. Thes are nutritionally rich, as they are fresh. But try to reduce the quentity of rice. By training her to this foods she learns straight away to eat the family food, and i tell u these foods are quite economical as compared to commercial products. Give semi-solids 3 times a day. She has teeth so she can shaw very well. Her milk can still continues for as long as she take it. Milk is very ensential for every1. I starts vegetable light soup with my kids from age 6 months, and they have been growing well. God give u wisdom on how to continue. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Following The Bible by plappville(f): 10:12pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
Pastor AIO:4giveness does not make one a Christian without cleansing of his\her sin by the blood of Jesus. This is why John the Baptist came with a message of repentance and remission: “And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Highest; for you will go before the face of the Lord to prepare His ways, to give knowledge of salvation to His people by the remission of their sins” (Luke 1:76,77). Salvation knowledge is based on the cleansing of sins, salvation is based on repentance & 4giveness, whic does't produce the fruits 2 Gods Kingdom. Without the removal of the source of sin, (which is cleansing) the sin problem is never dealt with and you are still left in a statue of being dead in trespasses and sin. God help us to understand ur words!!! Just how i can differentiate it to my understanding. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Following The Bible by plappville(f): 9:07pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
God is love is the common mantra. . . .Yet I don't see any thing close to love when I read the bible, half of it is filled with unnecessary violence all commanded by the same loving good, including violence against babies. . . [b]globexl, [/b]My brother, we are not talking about writing about love or making references to love. Anyone can write about love. What we are saying is that the very acts of love are missing in the bible, especially the so-called great love that god has for his creation. For example , why would a loving god who created all, then choose one tribe over thousands of others that he supposedly created? He then commands this one tribe to hate and kill other tribes? He even kills his so-called chosen people when they marry members of other tribes. Where is the love?Why do u think the above bold was not talking about the verses concerning LOVE i qouted?? Anyone who can write love in the way and manner u are thinking can as well write VOILENCE  |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Do you think Adam attained a height of 90 Feet ? by plappville(f): 8:39pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
Sweetnecta:1)Nothing is wrong with me, i just corrected ur bad speech about the bible. 2)Why do u want me to leave writing alone bros  3)Point of correction again, i do worship only one God not 3. 4)I ve no right to vex simply becos u ve offered ur soul to Allan, its ur choice. Chacun sa vie d'accord!! Vex is really a French word, its from the verb vexser, so u see u are with me in the French world hahaha. God loves u. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by plappville(f): 2:17pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
Dieu tu es impressionnants!! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Nairaland Christian E-Fellowship (Season 2) by plappville(f): 2:16pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
Awesome GOD!! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Do you think Adam attained a height of 90 Feet ? by plappville(f): 1:36pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
Sweetnecta |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Following The Bible by plappville(f): 11:44am On Sep 21, 2011 |
jayriginal: (KJV Matt 23:23)Jesus said,Matt23:23 was for((KJV Matt 23:23)Jesus said, “Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cumin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.) but not for (U dont have to say all christians are deleting/silenting some verses in the old testament, some laws are over shadowed in the old TM by the new NT when Jesus came.) U are trying to misquote me, i dont change te scripture. God is love is the common mantra. . . .Yet I don't see any thing close to love when I read the bible, half of it is filled with unnecessary violence all commanded by the same loving good, including violence against babies. . .[b]You did not really go to search for love in the bible but voilence , U only read the old testament and ur eyes keep seeing the word VOILENCE; iF U MUST JUDGE THE BIBLE? TRY TO READ FROM A TO Z THEN TELL ME IF UR STATEMENT IS CORRECT.The Bible is full of great verses and passages about love topics. God’s love for us is a perfect example ad starting place to study on love. There are also great verses about lov in relation to marriage, brotherly love or friendship, and loving your neighboor. and u are here saying a different thing, its to know though.[b]John 3:16 “For God so loved the world,that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should notperish but have eternal life. Romans 5:8 but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 8:37-39 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. 1 John 3:1 See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Romans 13:8 Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. Galatians 5:13 For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. Ephesians 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, 1 Peter 1:22 Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart[/b] Matthew 6:24-25 ”No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? John 14:21-24 Whoever has my commandments andkeeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.” Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, “Lord, how is it that you will manifest yourself to us, and not to the world?” Jesus answered him, “If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words. And the word that you hear is not mine but the Father’s who sent me. Jesus came because he loves us so much, his LOVE was poured all over in the new testament for us to obtain love.[/b] More LOVE verses for u, Matthew 22:37–39 Jesus said to him, 'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:4–8a Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails , Proverbs 15:17 A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate. Proverbs 17:9 Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. 1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. So do more research about love in the bible before u judge. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 10:56pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Physically? Euh!! That bros cant hurt a fly physically. Anyway, i get ur right now, it wont happy dont worry God is in control of the situation. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Following The Bible by plappville(f): 10:46pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
(KJV Matt 23:23)Jesus said, “Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cumin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone. Neither Jesus nor any of His apostles ever stated (make sure you do th things u consider to be important and the rest is comparatively unimportant.) all laws are important. On the contrary, Jesus was saying to us, (set in order not only th big isues but we should make sure that we don’t leave anythin undone. In light of tht, as to whether any issue is actualy (great) or (small) it really makes no difference because Jesus has told us He wants it ALL done. U dont have to say all christians are deleting/silenting some verses in the old testament, some laws are over shadowed in the old TM by the new NT when Jesus came. Like the hair covering thing, In (1 Corinthians 11: 1-16) almost all todays christian women dont cover ( including me) It all depense on the faith of a particular christian, or culture of a church. Although i see that U ve made some nice points as par the verses concerning the PRAYER and women mode of dressing in todays church, i believe these things are happening to accomplish Gods word, but at same time, some are still respecting both the old and new Law. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
OLAADEGBU:Yes he has to becos there is still denies of not ve dated sister juliet with 2kid. Our pastor is too busy to observed their movement, am so sure he hasnt heard about it . The truth is that Sister Juliet call off the relationship when she saw that Brother has gotten another lady outside. Since then, one can read the situation, after service, no more waiting for brother to finish his work in church. The hates btw Sister Juliets and brother play game in church is very high, the church will have to work on this, it will be very delicate i think. GOD will keep exposing them one by one. @image123, in what sense can he harm me?? By helping him to remove a curse from his entire life? He seem to ve realised himself. I dont get u, plz explain it thanks. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 4:09pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Joagbaje:Amen, i know this will course me much hatred from my friend and the other woman in the church, but it was done to save a soul and to grow/progress the word of GOD. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 2:43pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
legalalien:Amen, God bless all of u that contributed to his work Amen. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anointing: Why Do Pastors Blow Into Microphones? Why Must People Fall? by plappville(f): 2:36pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Joagbaje:  it makes me laugh, I dont think he is directing to u, @Op says blow air in a mic, but u qouted the bible, air through breath. I seems two different air, Christ was through breath today it has be copied and stylished through the mouths with a mic. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Jehovah's Witness by plappville(op): 2:08pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Amen and amen, May god bless u too. Thanks. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 2:02pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
OLAADEGBU:An email just came in now it reads, Thank u for the message, God has sent u to me, u are the second person God is sending to me, i will quitte Everything and hold God strong, i will call u later bye. I will use this your above method, he has to be free indeed and the church also. A genuine repentance is all he needs as u said. I hope we have restor a soul for GOD, thank u, God bless u. I will keep update by his grace. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: God Allegedly Directed A Pastor To Divorce His Eloped Wife by plappville(f): 1:49pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
But the kids should ve some role to play in this case no? Why mum left she be stated, no woman leave her matrimonia home without a reason be it geniue or fake. There is something missing in this matter |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 1:17pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
OLAADEGBU:Very right way to handle it, i didnt thought of it this way, but all the same, it went like this. After a long silent btw him, me and my friend. I called today for few questions. Me: are u really faithful to God? Him: yes! Me: are your work in the church in vain or for God? Him: for God of course why all these questions? Me: i have come to tell u that u have been decieving the church: Him: how? Go straight to the point Me: slow brother, the point is why all these yrs in church, u have been known for a true born gain brethren and yet U associate with the devils activities?? Him: i still dont know what u re tslking about! Me: brother, u ve slept with sister (Anna), i met her in your house the other day. I didt say it was that bad because she is a single u both could get married if possible, but u said somthing negetive that shocked my heard. u were just using her to hold your body) U have dated that married Sister Juliet with 2kids, and now u are dating my friend who is also married with 3kids Are there a way u can denial all these?? Him: I dated sister Anna, but i did not date sister Juliet with 2kids, she asked me out, but i refused. Yes i am dating your friend she told me that she has seperated from her husband. Me: as a christian is is right to go into a married woman? She told u she seperated, ok is the church aware of your relationship with these women? Him: no Me: why, dont u expose it to the church if u know in your heart its a right thing for a christian? Him: i dont believe i was sinning to God until now that u re telling me she has not divorced if i had known she was still married i wouldnt have, Bla bla blaring Me: brother the church respect u today because of your faith, your work, but its unfortunate u are going to dissapoint them because i will call the community and tell them to free the church from been polluted by members like u. Him: am sorry don't do that, i'm presently considering breaking up with your friend because we have not been finding things easy With each other. Me: brother, i ve not come to discuss your breakup with whoever, but to inform u that the church will be glad to know your ture color, if u choose to change they will pray with u or else? Him: let me explain, Me: dont borther, i am not the decision taker, i am runing out of time to pick kids from school se u on sunday in Church Him: nooo, wait, ok i will call u later. This was how it went, i hope he will wake up and hold firm his faith back. So what do u think Should be next? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anointing: Why Do Pastors Blow Into Microphones? Why Must People Fall? by plappville(f): 10:05am On Sep 20, 2011 |
Joagbaje:Ok so this was how Jesus did it? Am not saying they shouldnt copy JESUS!! I too lov to copy him. Are u aware of Ladies manner of dressing in some churches? and yet Pastors dont stop them is also Jesus copy right?? I am not judging but we should not lie everything they do today as copying Jesus. Some ve trun it to thier own style to gain many members for themselves And to be popular. A pastor who wants to gain brethren for God will go against mili skirt, tops that exposes the breast etc. I saw in Utube how a kid was practising his pastor, it was a well organise gardring, her parents were there etc, when this kid will grow up it will become Christ copy too. Anyway, God will judge us all one day. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Jehovah's Witness by plappville(op): 9:48am On Sep 20, 2011 |
Thanks for these verse, its has explained the answer. They came to me yestarday, i didnt welcome them. Thank u be blessed. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by plappville(f): 9:42am On Sep 20, 2011 |
Thank u Jesus, u re all tgat matters to me, i praise ur name oh lord I bless u for my family, reigh in the lives of my kids Amen. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 9:35am On Sep 20, 2011 |
Joagbaje:You are right, things has to be done rightly in the house of God. There is no church work u wont find him partaking. I am going to call him first and warn him, if he refuses to stay away from his ways, then the church will know who exactly his color. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 9:27am On Sep 20, 2011 |
legalalien:I am not everybody, like i said before, we are very few Nigerians in my City. These two married ladies, one is my church member and the other one a friend, she doesnt go to church here. I ve posted a thread here some yrs back about her adulterous manner. If i should inform her hubby. (i was her withness in her wedding day, so i felt i ve some gud role to play to save her marriage, but NLs advises me not to inform her hubby to avoid problem. I kept my silence even if it was hurting me. After few months she left her hubby, she ran away with the kids to my city becos she once live 4 yrs in this City.) she didt divorce her hubby before leaving. To me, she is still married. She distroyed her marriage document because she doesnt want to be known by any1 that she is married. I smell a cause or demonic forces disturbing her. She fell victim right from 1st day she saw this boy in my baby's dedication day in church. I ve spoke to her to go for deliverance she has picked offenses as she doesnt see things bad. Uncountable men that ve come in and go in sight of her kids. As for the boy, if not for the fact he is a brother in church i wouldnt borther, i am just confused on how to handle him, it may be that he is ignorant of what he is doing. For the past 2 months i have stop communicating with both, but my mind kept disturbing me to call him and asked him if he knows the consequences of his actions. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anointing: Why Do Pastors Blow Into Microphones? Why Must People Fall? by plappville(f): 8:52pm On Sep 19, 2011 |
Joagbaje:This is where the problems lies, to be Christlike doesnt mean they should be this stylish, some will qoute a verse and then danse in a wordly way and then say the lord likes when u danse like this and the crowd will shout Amennnnnn. Did Jseus realy blow out air as much as they do now? What about the head pushing?? Isnt the prayer alone enough?? Must they force ppl to fall on the ground? 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Ur Advice Plz. by plappville(op): 8:36pm On Sep 19, 2011 |
Its a church where i worship, its a French pentecostal church. We are very few Nigerians. So i was really ashame of this brother as Nigerians are always number 1 of dirty act in mist of Others. I find it very shameful for him because even the Pastors will not believe it. He is so hard working for God each service day but in secret, a different person entirely. If i had to report this to the church wont the whole Nigerians here hate me? Even if they are not also in surport of his habit of dating married women. Its mind ur business thing here like the white people. Two option, call him and warn him to stop fooling himself and not God Or Go straight and expose him to the church community, bu do i know if there others like him in the church?? Its hard to decide. legalalien:He cant try that with me, he goes after those that are without their husband for reason best known to them. Only cheap ungreatful and unsatisfied married women fall victim of this. |
| Christianity Etc › Jehovah's Witness by plappville(op): 4:47pm On Sep 19, 2011 |
As a Christian, how will u treat Jehovah's Witness who comes knocking at their door. Welcome them or reject them? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anointing: Why Do Pastors Blow Into Microphones? Why Must People Fall? by plappville(f): 4:26pm On Sep 19, 2011 |
A false Pastor will apear as a true pastor, a false prophet will apear as a true profphet, a false church wil appear as a true church. Even though dey appear as true, Jesus Christ says that they are wolves in sheep's clothing. Matthew 7:15. They are her to deceive many and even seducing the very elect with signs and wonders. This means they are within th Christian world showin' themselves as true powerful workers of the gospel. It takes the spirit of God for one to know if he/she is worshiping in the right place. To add: It is not a must to fall down, Somany people pretend to fall and this is promoting these pastors. I ve been to this type of church befor when they will push your head strongly so u can fall hahaha? its sad to TOY with God. |
man cannot be satisfied. Besides, ministry is by the spirit .if a man is led to minister in a particular way, who is anybody to judge1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 (of 249 pages)