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Just our usual complaints from out nairaland ladies... they think that everything in the world is victimizing them bla bla bla.

Not only do men do this also, but i don't know a man alive who cheated on his girlfriend and escaped unscathed... because 'she blamed the other woman and not him.' lol

This topic is dumb, grow up.

OP bad reasoning... ppl who rape would do it regardless of what the 'rapee' was wearing.

What an abomination.

Fellis you gotta stop bytching about everything, you have a dick now remember?

^ lol ok. because i was asking you right?

fellis: I had the audacity to post things that some people like oga pleep are not happy with.

That is the offence I committed.

i think you need the kleenex

haha its funny how the big strong dyke starts crying when she sees a man to save her

fellis: On a serious note I dunno why you took this thing serious enough to start directing insults at my person. If you don't like the article, cool, no wahala. Just read and criticize whatever you think is wrong with it.
There is no need to take it personal.

Fellis i don't give a flying rats a$$ about all that... if you dont want to feel the wrath of pleep, don't post dishonest, biased and illogical crap everywhere.

and besides you were doing it too.

You can post pictures all you want... but you cant deny anything i said.

Have you guys ever noticed that is the transexual, lesbian and ugly women who make all this feminist noise? The OP called herself a female last month but now she changed her profile to male. Does that look like something a normal decent woman like your GF or wife would do? Pretending to be man on the internet?

I want to remind all the men out there to try and avoid associating good moral and decent women from these filthy gender confused lesbians that give all women a bad name. Self-hating man/women creatures like fellis make all women look bad.


Fellis why don't you learn to love the body God gave you and stop competing with men? thats not what you were made for

^ Your name says male you deranged dumbass. Only god knows what you really are

The op completely erased his prior topic and replaced it with a completely new one.

This was the original post;

Does it seem like men feel kind of
entitled to sex? Does it seem like
we react to rejection with the
maturity of a child being denied a
toy?
Well, you have to keep in mind
that what we learn as kids is really
hard to deprogram as an adult. And what we learned as kids is that we males are each owed, and will eventually be awarded, a beautiful woman.

And now you see the problem.
From birth we're taught that we're
owed a beautiful girl. We all think
of ourselves as the hero of our own story, and we all (whether we
admit it or not) think we're heroes
for just getting through our day.
So it's very frustrating, and I mean
frustrating to the point of violence ,
when we don't get what we're
owed. A contract has been broken.
These women, by exercising their
own choices, are denying it to us.
It's why every Nice Guy is shocked
to find that buying gifts for a girl
and doing her favors won't win him sex. It's why we go to "slut" and "LovePeddler" as our default insults --
we're not mad that women enjoy sex. We're mad that women are distributing to other people the sex that they owed us.
Yes, the women in these stories are being portrayed as wonderful and beautiful and perfect. But
remember, there are two ways to dehumanize someone: by dismissing them, and by idolizing
them.

The op is batshit crazy, btw wasn't fellis a female before? dafuq is going on here?

CAMEROONPRIDE: fuc.k iffy too
On a serious note this topic is an epic fail.since the op left , I think the mods should lock/hide it

Agreed. Once mrs chima gets on a topic its best to just leave

ok w/e, it has nothing to do with me anyways.

True, and if he doesnt control this desire, it will turn him into an idio.t

fellis... we are getting off subject.

why don't you logically respond to my actual points? ( if you can)

totalbaby: Now you are being the ignorant one. When I mean long term am taklking abt 8yrs etc. How long wil it take yoy to finish such a course unless you are very dense. I am in a relationship nearing 3yrs and have no problems as am not financial stable enough. Just because op has gave up some sensible advice, guys like you who take decades and break ladies hearts are getting offended.

Woman, this is my last post to you so read it carefully. Three years is a long term relationship, anything over a year is more than double the average. If they are living together and sleeping together, this couple was simply married without the certificate, and they 'divorced' after 8 years.

Maybe the OP should have named his topic, don't enter into a pseudo-marriage, but he didn't did he?

totalbaby: But what he is saying is true. There are certain circumstances that may call for long term relationships such as long distance etc but 8 figgin years and nothing.

What he is saying is not true... its idiotic garbage.

Maybe you like to date ppl for 2 months, break up and find a new dick, but there are plenty of people who find that lifestyle distasteful. Long term relationships lead to fidelity and marriage just because some unfortunate lady had a freak accident does not give our dumbass OP the licesne to give out such yeye advice.

I dont want to marry my girlfriend, we r in college, that would be s.tupid. Should she break up with me because its a "long term relationship"? Abeg stop defending the indefensible.

Oh shut up, is that how you act when someone pulverizes your entire post to dust?

"Sexism mysogeny bla bla bla", there was once a time when those words meant something, then dumbass gender-confused manbytches like fellis came along.

D sage: Are you alright? Can you do such thing to a lady that stay with you for good 8years?

See, I can't stay with a girl I don't really want for 2yrs,let alone 8yrs. So,what the hell are you talking about?

Is there a pound of shyt in your brain? How fuckin clear do i have to be before you dumbass nairalanders can understand a damn thing i say?

We get the point that you wouldn't do that to a girl, i wouldn't either. There are bad men out there that hurt women, and they are bad women out there that hurt men. The difference is the ladies are not r.etarded enough to open a topic advising men to "avoid long term relationships" because of the actions of a single woman.

If the ladies took your silly advice they wouldn't see you any differently than the a$$hole you mentioned in the topic.

Its only when i started researching gender topics on the internet that i saw the true depth of human stupity and one sidedness. lemme break this down for you

Does it seem like men feel kind of
entitled to sex? Does it seem like
we react to rejection with the
maturity of a child being denied a
toy?
Well, you have to keep in mind
that what we learn as kids is really
hard to deprogram as an adult. And what we learned as kids is that we males are each owed, and will eventually be awarded, a beautiful woman.

Did Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Beauty and the Beast, Rapunzel, and The Little Murmaid etc etc etc... not teach girls that they deserve a prince charming?

The funny thing about most males is even though they are men themselves, they are incapable of looking at gender relations from a neutral objective standpoint and see things with exactly the same bias as women do. You say that men are "bad at reacting to rejection" have you ever stopped to think that maybe that is the way everyone reacts to rejection? Have you ever seen how a woman acts when shes rejected, have you ever had your car vandalized? The only difference is that males are expected to make the first moves, and thus get rejected more. Such facts are so obvious, yet the average E-intellectual will miss them every time.

And now you see the problem.
From birth we're taught that we're
owed a beautiful girl. We all think
of ourselves as the hero of our own story, and we all (whether we
admit it or not) think we're heroes
for just getting through our day.
So it's very frustrating, and I mean
frustrating to the point of violence ,
when we don't get what we're
owed. A contract has been broken.
These women, by exercising their
own choices, are denying it to us.
It's why every Nice Guy is shocked
to find that buying gifts for a girl
and doing her favors won't win him sex. It's why we go to "slut" and "LovePeddler" as our default insults --
we're not mad that women enjoy sex. We're mad that women are distributing to other people the sex that they owed us.
Yes, the women in these stories are being portrayed as wonderful and beautiful and perfect. But
remember, there are two ways to dehumanize someone: by dismissing them, and by idolizing
them.

Maybe you could do us all a favor and speak about yourself specifically? So called 'nice guys' are taught by society that being a kiss-ass spineless Mangina is what women want, its not. Thats why these guys end up angry, they do what women say they want, but get no results. To be honest their frustration is justifiable because they see dudes who don't do half the stuff they do ending up with the best women, then have to listen to these same women complain about such men, but still not give the nice guy a chance. It has nothing to do with your idiotic idea that men "feel like they are entitled to beautiful women" maybe that is just you, but the sociological evidence does not support that.

And one more thing @ the bolded violence? seriously?... they are not going to get violent because some women rejected them, thats why they are called 'nice guys' you dumbass.

Absolutly idiotic thread. OP your a dumbass

This is the Jew.

look at all this crap... this some of lamest e-beefs i have ever seen. Can yall just shut up and get back on topic? god knows ur not doing any 'damage'

Belmot: Guy read her post again u're just confusing yourself.

skrew off dude, am i talking to you? i read her post perfectly well and was reffering to what i quoted.

again bug off

lol, yea right. every steriotype is rooted in fact

D sage: A female friend of mine was just jilted by her boy friend after almost 8year of promising relationship.

According to her, she has done everything possible to prevent/denied any man in the past(including myself) into her life because of this guy. She also confess to me that she'd never denied him whenever he needed her whether for sex or something else.

She was called by her bf parent on wednesday, on getting there, they broke the news to her that her fiance has done a terrible mistake by impregnated a young girl whose parent refused to accepted nonsense but to married their daughter immediately. They plead my friend that they still love her to be their son wife blablabla.

I don't even know what/how to advise her. She will turn 30yrs later this year. She said they would have got married but the guy refused to take her to alter without getting a comfortable job. I really felt sorry for her.

Some men are just wicked, I can't do such a thing to a lady.

Well if the ladies listen to your advice they won't give you a chance either. Typical dumbass male

You posted "is this another punishment to women"? which is an absolutely insane way of looking at this

Sagamite: Inconclusive in my view, but I suspect some are.

I would be more interested in finding root causes and developing cures where possible rather than stewpid acceptance and integration.

+1 There is strong evidence that is can be partially caused by innaproprate childhood experiences or same/opposite sex molestation

But it think many are born with the pre-disposition to be be gay, events in their lives simply trigger the full blown 'syndrome'

sweetcheecks: Love is not a job its a free gift. Why should men be the one to give love and work as uoi say it. With love or soo I believe the more you give love the more love yet get back. Sowhy restrict anyone from loving according to thir ability?

I hope you atleast read all my post befor being this emotional. Love is Godly everone is suppose to exersice it freelly.

I'm not being 'emotional' that is the wrong word to use for anything on the internet.

I was flabergasted, and that was to prove a point about how insane what you wrote was. Love may be a free gift, but relationships require alot of work (according to this article all from the dude) The fact that all this ^^^^^^^ looks like "punishment women" to anyone shows how confused you people are. I agree that everyone should be able to excerize love freely but thats the quote im talking about.

I don't believe this. She is actually attractive (for a Chinese woman) they are plenty of men who would get with her even if she was broke.

there is a shortage of females in china