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RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 8:45pm On Jan 29, 2013
2buff: It is easier to pick a black woman up from the street than in a club.
Unless you've put in your time in gym tinz and you wear a tight shirt, pants, etc making her own biology work against her as she just wouldn't be able to resist your physique. wink

Other than that, if you be "normal" guy, better go elsewhere. Your chances of success are slim. cheesy

With white chicks though, They are much more accepting and more liberal.
It's really just because white chicks are more confident in themselves and have fewer low self-esteem issues.
They typically don't feel the need to be self-esteem parasites like our sistas. grin
You hit the nail on the head. This is clearly a black club thing. Cuz the white dudes i know usually end up getting plenty of numbers if they want, and sometimes leave with like 3 or four chicks that they've never met before. Nothing ever comes of it, tho grin.

But still you'll never catch me at a cracker club cool i only like exotic girls.

Anyways ur probably better off hollering at the non-black chicks in the black clubs.... they are snowbunies so they know exactly what they want.
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 7:52pm On Jan 29, 2013
So i think we can all agree that the club is not a place to meet ppl. Just a spot to get drunk and hang out with friends.
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 8:28am On Jan 29, 2013
Lets get some imput from the females; What do yall consider a 'successful' night at the club/party? why do yall even go anyway? grin
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 8:19am On Jan 29, 2013
All Women in the clubs are lesbians. Don't you know?
lol, they might as well be with the way they act. Grinding all nasty on their friends like a bytch in heat... thats one thing that will make me loose respect for a girl automatically. Attention whoring to the extreme.

the club is a sad joke, you would think its a place to meet people but you are better off in the library
CultureRe: Kenyan Ladies by Plarp: 5:50am On Jan 29, 2013
eh... this is gunna be a tough sell. where are ur usual pictures?
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 2:19am On Jan 29, 2013
stillwater: @OP

Live with it. grin
Lol, i'd rather not even deal with it. Its better to just forget about random girls in the club, they are not my type anyway.
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 2:16am On Jan 29, 2013
stillwater: 100% correct. Nothing more annoying than a blubbering stranger chatting you up at a club. cool
I can feel that. Thats why i said this was my first time approaching a stranger. Its something ive never done before, it just feels weird, and besides its better to get to know someone first.

but this chick was giving me so much play that i felt almost obligated to try and talk to her. Lessons learned i guess wink
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 11:30pm On Jan 28, 2013
sunny t: A gal refuses 2 tell u her name and u call it rejection, i dnt tink u knw wat rejection means.
Had a gal eva left u face 2 face bcs she belivs dis oda guy will offer wat u cant? Had a gal told u 2 stop calling her bcs u cudnt send her d airtime she asked for? Had a gal eva told u NO bcs of height, money or status? Now dats rejection. i shdnt feel hurt bcs a random gal refuses 2 be a friend. And Bro, gals have d options 2 either say yes or no to ur advances, respect their decision
Dude... its not my fault that girls have to tell you stop calling them, I'm not silly enough to get in that situation. This topic is about what I call rejection, because its the most i've ever got. If having to be dragged out of some chicks house is what you call rejection then you r on the wrong thread.

And secondly, when did i say i didn't respect her decision? All i did was smile and walked off. I don't give a crap about her, i just thought getting her number was a done deal. I was wrong w/e. That is the definition of "respecting her decision" you dumbass.
RomanceRe: What Are Ur Views About These Guys. by Plarp: 7:27pm On Jan 28, 2013
Nigerian dudes are flipping idiots online... i deleted almost every Nigerian fb friend i had.


The OP is correct 100%, the worst part is half these 'hot girl' profiles are fake, and you dumbniggas cant realize it!
RomanceRe: Men: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op):
fubbyy: Ask google " why do jerks get all the girls?" Take your time to read them all, I used to be like you but the article changed my life when it comes to women, you need to see me now, I really got game,am not asking you to be a jerk but you have to apply a lil bit of it in you

A jerk is selfish when talking to a woman, he doesn't care about her rejection, if a girl rejects you, move to the next girl even in her presence there, and don't take asking girls out too serious, see it as a game

There was a day I was talking to this chick and she was playing hard to get, I called another girl while both of us were still sitting down in the same table, she was suprised of what I was about to do, when the girl came, I asked her to leave and ask the new one to take that seat, guess what I told the new one

I was talking to this girl and she was playing hard to get when I saw you and you are far better than her so I had to drop her for you, I hope you won't play hard to get or else , she was humbled and over shadowed by me, I didn't even take her number, I gave her my card to call me, I even gave her instruction of when not to call because am a very busy man, I didn't give her the privilege to play hard to get

This gurl called me the same evening to ask if I got home safely and kept calling to know me better
haha very nice grin

binger: If you are rejected,dust your shoulders and move on to the next catch. Kini big deal?...also,i've realised that most times when a girl snubs ur advances,and u don't push it,she takes a keen interest in you. So,give her space at that time cos she'll come around later.
Yea but i don't want to be that guy who asks out a dozen girls every night. No matter what society says ill never abandon my dignity for some a$$. All you see in the club is a buncha dudes getting rejected until they are reduced to trying to hollar at the skank whos practically passed out in the lobby. its sad

Parties and clubs are like confidence transfers, the girls are like parasites. Every time a guy aproches a chick as she says no, she feels a little better about herself, and he feels a little worse. By the time its all over the ladies have sucked up all the dudes confidence until they feel inadequate and she feels like a princess grin

So Ill keep my 95% success rate talking to girls who i know, skrew hollering at random strangers, this was my first and last time.
RomanceRe: I Want To Be Listened To by Plarp: 8:14am On Jan 28, 2013
It funny, you are right about this one. My dad wouldn't listen to my moms advice if it would make him a millionaaire.

funny thing is, she is usually right grin
RomanceRe: 97-year-old Woman Marries 86-year-old Man, Keeps Her Name by Plarp: 8:11am On Jan 28, 2013
Dondav: Goodluck to the couple... Hope they spend the next two years ahead Happily Ever After.. smiley smiley
RomanceMen: Getting Rejected Does It Affect You? by Plarp(op): 8:01am On Jan 28, 2013
So i was at this party last night and the instant i walked in i made eye contact with this good looking blaisan chick...my shades were all fogged up so i thought she was someone else. I stared for a little bit and suddenly realized that the girl was not who i thought. So i forgot about her and started scoping the girls and dancing a lil bit.

Well every time i turn i see this chick staring at me...so i'm like. Lemme get this number, im attracted to her, she 'likes me' this is a sure bet. So i clear my throat and walk up to her and say in my smoothest voice; "so whats your name" Btw, while i did this it seemed like every other person in the club turned around and started watching us. But that was alright.... i had this is the bag right? wrong.

The silly chink just stared straight ahead, smiled a little and didn't say anything. I was thinking this was the usual 'hard to get' crap, so i repeated my question again, voice getting a little rougher. Still no response. All i could do was smile a little shake my head a little and walked away, i was drunk and didn't care... so i thought. As i looked around the club ( that silly girl was still looking at me every 5 seconds) all i started to see was dudes asking for numbers and asking for dances and getting rejected....Its like the ladies do it for fun. Even though i was drunk and 'didn't care' i did not ask for another number that night, no matter how much play i was getting.

And today when i saw that girl on my floor who i've been wanting to holla for a while.... I was just like fuk it, maybe next time, maybe never grin

So dudes, how does getting rejected affect you? is it a sub-concious reaction like mine, or do you just move on to the next girl?
RomanceRe: Do You Buy The Idea Of Marrying A Lady Far Taller Than You.(pic) by Plarp: 9:00pm On Jan 27, 2013
It can make you look like a real p.i.m.p, when you r with a much taller beautiful lady. grin i like the look, but i prefer shorter chicks.. they just cuter to me.
CultureRe: Django Unchained = Inappropriate And Awkward? by Plarp: 8:57pm On Jan 27, 2013
Logicboy03: wow.....on some serious haterade there! wink
So thats what you youngsters call the 'truth' now ...eh? wink
RomanceRe: When A Nigerian Ex-girlfriend Tells You She Is Now A Lesbian by Plarp: 8:47pm On Jan 27, 2013
Gboliwe: He thinks the reason she turned to lesbianism is because they are not together and because he thinks he alone holds the key to her being heteroxesual.
Imagine the pride exhibited in that post -should I date her again?
I don't want to speak for Mr. orinkala here... but he clearly stated that the girl began her homosexual lifestlye
because she is tired of dating guys.
Not because she stopped dating him in particular. Perhaps he feels guilty about possibly playing a role in her homosexuality, and wants to rectify his "mistake."

What you are doing is letting your own thoughts and biases color what the OP said, making it seem more extreme than it actually is. Nothing in his post suggests god-like pride.
RomanceRe: When A Nigerian Ex-girlfriend Tells You She Is Now A Lesbian by Plarp: 7:02pm On Jan 27, 2013
Gboliwe: Some men attribute god status on themselves.
how is he "attributing god status" on himself?... the dudes just cares too much about something that doesn't affect him.
RomanceRe: When A Nigerian Ex-girlfriend Tells You She Is Now A Lesbian by Plarp: 6:02pm On Jan 27, 2013
Why would you even care?
CultureRe: Django Unchained = Inappropriate And Awkward? by Plarp: 7:12pm On Jan 26, 2013
all4naija: Sorry, the story is about NIGGAS. There is nothing wrong in the numbers of time the N-word was used.
im not talking about django unchained, im talking about his other movies; "Resuvior dogs, and "Pulp fiction"

Both movies use the N word an excessive amount, and have nothing to do with black people.
CultureRe: Django Unchained = Inappropriate And Awkward? by Plarp: 7:05pm On Jan 26, 2013
PhysicsQED: Yeah I've seen it. A very overrated film. Not one of his best, although a lot of people seem to think it is.
I saw it yesterday and thought it was an absolute masterpiece, it completely changed the way i look at Quinten Tarantino. The guys a genious. That has got to be one the best, most realistic crime movies ive ever seen.

But what struck me was the insane amount of times he used the word 'nigger' ... litterally 20 times in a movie that only had 1 black character wtf!? The characters were making fun of black people thoughout the entire movie, for absolutely no reason. " You've got you a$$ so pumped full of nigger s.emen in prison that its gotten into your brain and now its comming out of your mouth" grin hilarious as always, but still....

The dude obviously has some racial issues, i wasn't sure before but i'm positive now.
CultureRe: Django Unchained = Inappropriate And Awkward? by Plarp: 6:59pm On Jan 26, 2013
all4naija: NO! I am not! That is your problem here.
Dont mind logicboy... hes just a silly little kid
CultureRe: Django Unchained = Inappropriate And Awkward? by Plarp: 6:50am On Jan 26, 2013
Has anyone here seen reservior dogs?
RomanceRe: Sex by Plarp: 6:54pm On Jan 24, 2013
Yea, there was nothing wrong with what silvertuke said.. hes right.
RomanceRe: Sex by Plarp: 6:10pm On Jan 24, 2013
DO NOT DO IT.

Find some kinda compromise, give him head maybe? but i would advise you not to have sex till marriage, be one of the few good ones wink
RomanceRe: Timid Guy Needs Help Pls. by Plarp: 2:16am On Jan 22, 2013
chikeorji123: Don't worry son just concentrate on ur studies for now since it's main reason why your in school,moreover as u comfirmed u don't have the LEVER..follow my advice for ur own good..
Forget that crap... you r in college. This is the hottest the ladies will ever be ever...

Take two shots of hennesy let it get you groovy... and get her friggin number! grin
RomanceRe: Timid Guy Needs Help Pls. by Plarp: 7:18pm On Jan 21, 2013
[size=30pt]Dude, forget all this yeye advice![/size] take two shots of strong liquer and walk up to her like you are the incredible friggin hulk


liquer can be subsituted with coccaine, speed, or benzos wink
RomanceRe: You Can 't Leave Me Like This!!! I Must Be Calmed! by Plarp: 7:14pm On Jan 21, 2013
I think the real question is... why are they so many "mad men" in nigeria? grin
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Like To Blame The Other Woman When Men Cheat by Plarp: 7:12pm On Jan 21, 2013
Thats how the "crime of passion" laws came about in the united states.. because men would often kill the man that their partner was cheating with.
RomanceRe: I Will Dress To Kill Them by Plarp: 7:09pm On Jan 21, 2013
There is nothing wrong with judging ppl by what they wear, stop living in fairyland. It is however, wrong to molest someone based on what they wear.

But if you dress like a prostitute you should not expect ppl to see you as a princess, just like if i dressed like a armed robber, i wouldn't expect to be seen as a non-treatening individual. Ppl need to grow up
RomanceRe: Places To Meet Responsible Girls by Plarp: 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2013
mondi_cheeks: I'm a responsible girl but u will never find me at the places mentioned above...especially a library angry
grin Mondi cheeks on what planet are you responsible? you have 5 kids!

There are plenty of good chicks in the library... the problem is getting their number

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