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Seems Nigeria Problem did not start yesterday, click like if you feel its a YES or click share if it's a NO. the picture below is a typical example.

Seems Nigeria Problem did not start yesterday, click like if you feel its a YES or click share if it's a NO. the picture below is a typical example.

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This your story is quiet similar to mine, let me hint you if the girl name is blessing kindly PM me

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Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Op na wa ooo

0. Bornu, Nigeria
I decided to include this, we as Nigerian as well as the world all knows what is going on in that city, and the activities of the dreaded Boko Haram makes it far more dangerous to leave in that city.

1. San Pedro Sula, Honduras
This city has ranked collectively as the world’s most violent for several years now. According to many authorities, it has the highest homicide rates on the globe -169 per 100,000 people. Weapons trafficking is a great dilemma, and unlawful firearms are widespread throughout the community. This is a city that tourists would likely be advised to stay clear of.

2. Karachi, Pakistan
Pakistan is without question undergoing a great deal of political unrest, as well as criminal activity as well as terrorism is widespread. Assassinations tend to be common, as well as suicide bombings and gang rivalry. Karachi has become one of the centers associated with this violence and travelers are advised to avoid this city.

3. Kabul, Afghanistan
Kabul has been essentially one the most high-risk locations in the world for a period of time. It is still a war zone, however U.S. troops are progressively being removed from the country. Terrorist attacks, along with many bombings are common. Kabul is facing a really uncertain years to come and will probably be a very dangerous place for the foreseeable years to come. Like Baghdad, Kabul serves as a city in which violence can occur anytime.

4. Baghdad, Iraq
Explosive bombings, shootings along with other dangerous happenings are common in Iraq. This region has actually been on the “do not travel” list for Americans for a number of years and Baghdad remains a dangerous place. The way forward for Iraq is incredibly unclear as U.S. troops are departing from the country. This is one other war-torn nation that is not going to be secure anytime in the near future. Considering that the violence in Baghdad commonly consists of unforeseen flare ups of terrorism, it’s not really a spot that people ought to visit if you don’t have a good reason.

5. Acapulco, Mexico
Not long ago, this city was considered a secure and luxurious resort location. Despite the fact that tourism to Acapulco remains popular, drug violence has now created this into a risky location. Recent statistics reveal that this community has one of the world’s highest murder rates -142 for each 100,000 people. People traveling to Acapulco usually are recommended to remain on the property of the resorts where they are staying, as most of the crime occurs in surrounding areas.

6. Guatemala City, Guatemala
Despite the fact Guatemala, a Central American nation located on the Caribbean, has lots of tourist attractions, it’s a realm that is plagued with drug violence. It has a substantially high murder rate and other common crimes that involve street robberies, public bus holdups as well as carjackings. It’s wise if perhaps visiting Guatemala to always be in safer regions and stay away from Guatemala City.

7. Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Numerous cities in Brazil have extremely high crime , and some are more unsafe than Rio de Janeiro. Nonetheless since Rio is certainly the preferred tourist destination in Brazil, it’s definitely worth focusing on here. Rio is really less dangerous than how it was about ten years ago, however street crimes remain common in many areas, primarily during the night. It’s possible to enjoy the resorts as well as sandy beaches of this city, although reasonable safety measures are important to take.

8. Cape Town, South Africa
On account of the occurrence of poverty and social unrest in this city, it has been suffering from an extremely high criminal activity. Although many vacationers tend to be enticed to South Africa due to its natural beauty and vicinity of natural grounds and other attractions, Cape Town may be a hazardous spot, But It is possible to enjoy a visit to this city if you do in fact avoid the more dangerous areas and don’t journey alone during the night.

9. Ciudad Juarez, Mexico
Mexico’s problems with drug traffickers are well recognized and certainly Ciudad Juarez is amongst the nation’s most violent locations nowadays. Law enforcement are often employed or paid off big time by drug cartels, which means that many offences get unreported.

From the least to the top is 10 Of The Most Dangerous Cities In The World to leave in:


10. Caracas, Venezuela
This is basically the capital city in Venezuela and it is currently facing a problem linked to drug gangs. Criminal offenses such as muggings and thievery are often regular, making this an undesirable place for most vacationers. Many other cities in Venezuela also have high criminal activity.

8 tips to get you going, even if you don't know where to start

If you want to start a business but don't know where to start, don't worry--you are not alone. In fact, given the new economic reality of our time, more people than ever before have found the "job" they thought was waiting for them doesn't exist. Others have come to the conclusion that they would rather create work they love, constructed to fit with their own life goals. No matter what the motivation is to be your own boss, you can start today.

Here are 8 Tips to Get You Started:

1. Take a Stand for Yourself.
If you are dissatisfied with your current circumstances, admit that no one can fix them except for you. It doesn't do any good to blame the economy, your boss, your spouse or your family. Change can only occur when you make a conscious decision to make it happen.

2. Identify the Right Business for You.
Give yourself permission to explore. Be willing to look at different facets of yourself (your personality, social styles, age) and listen to your intuition. We tend to ignore intuition even though deep down we often know the truth. Ask yourself "What gives me energy even when I'm tired?"

How do you know what business is "right" for you? There are three common approaches to entrepreneurship:

Do What You Know: Have you been laid off or want a change? Look at work you have done for others in the past and think about how you could package those skills and offer them as your own services or products.

Do What Others Do: Learn about other businesses that interest you. Once you have identified a business you like, emulate it.

Solve a Common Problem: Is there a gap in the market? Is there a service or product you would like to bring to market? (Note: This is the highest-risk of the three approaches.) If you choose to do this, make sure that you become a student and gain knowledge first before you spend any money.

3. Business Planning Improves Your Chances for Success.
Most people don't plan, but it will help you get to market faster. A business plan will help you gain clarity, focus and confidence. A plan does not need to be more than one page. As you write down your goals, strategies and action steps, your business becomes real.

Ask yourself the following questions:
- What am I building?
- Who will I serve?
- What is the promise I am making to my customers/clients and to myself?
- What are my objectives, strategies and action plans (steps) to achieve my goals?

4. Know Your Target Audience Before You Spend a Penny.
Before you spend money, find out if people will actually buy your products or services. This may be the most important thing you do. You can do this by validating your market. In other words, who, exactly, will buy your products or services other than your family or friends? (And don't say. "Everyone in Nigeria will want my product." Trust me--they won't.) What is the size of your target market? Who are your customers? Is your product or service relevant to their everyday life? Why do they need it?

There is industry research available that you can uncover for free. Read industry articles with data (Google the relevant industry associations) and read Census data to learn more. However, the most important way to get this information is to ask your target market/customers directly and then listen.

5. Understand Your Personal Finances and Choose the Right Kind of Money You Need for Your Business.
As an entrepreneur, your personal life and business life are interconnected. You are likely to be your first--and possibly only--investor. Therefore, having a detailed understanding of your personal finances, and the ability to track them, is an essential first step before seeking outside funding for your business. This is why I recommend setting up your personal accounts in a money management system such as Mint.com to simplify this process.
As you are creating your business plan, you will need to consider what type of business you are building--a lifestyle business (smaller amount of startup funds), a franchise (moderate investment depending on the franchise), or a high-tech business (will require significant capital investment). Depending on where you fall on the continuum, you will need a different amount of money to launch and grow your business, and it does matter what kind of money you accept.


6. Build a Support Network.
You've made the internal commitment to your business. Now you need to cultivate a network of supporters, advisors, partners, allies and vendors. If you believe in your business, others will, too.

Network locally, nationally & via social networks. Join networks like NAPW.com, your local chamber of commerce, or other relevant business groups. Here are some networking basics:

- When attending networking events, ask others what they do and think about how you can help them. The key is to listen more than tout yourself.
- No matter what group you join, be generous, help others and make introductions without charging them.
- By becoming a generous leader, you will be the first person that comes to mind when someone you've helped needs your service or hears of someone else who needs your service.

7. Sell By Creating Value.
Even though we purchase products and services every day, people don't want to be "sold." Focus on serving others. The more people you serve, the more money you will make. When considering your customers or clients, ask yourself:

- What can I give them?
- How can I make them successful in their own pursuits?
- This approach can help lead you to new ways to hone your product or service and deliver more value, which your customers will appreciate.

8. Get the Word Out.
Be willing to say who you are and what you do with conviction and without apology. Embrace and use the most effective online tools (Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn) available to broadcast your news. Use social networks as "pointer" sites; i.e., to point to anything you think will be of interest to your fans and followers.

Even though social networks are essential today (you must use them!), don't underestimate the power of other methods to get the word out: e.g., word-of-mouth marketing, website and internet marketing tools, public relations, blog posts, columns and articles, speeches, e-mail, newsletters, and the old-fashioned but still essential telephone.

If you take these steps, you'll be well on your way to becoming your own boss. It's important to remember that you are not alone. If you want to "be your own boss" but you still feel stuck, reach out and connect with other entrepreneurs in a variety of ways. You may be surprised by the invaluable contacts that are right at your fingertips.

Oil prices are close to hitting $50 per barrel for the first time since November — but it has nothing to do with Saudi Arabia and Iran cutting oil production, as so much of the market has hoped.

It's all down to Nigerian militants.

Nigeria was dethroned as Africa's largest oil producer this month because the deteriorating political and security situations pose such a threat to Nigeria's oil output.

Militant activity from group Niger Delta Avengers is forcing supply disruptions and has made the country's output fall by 800,000 barrels per day to 1.4 million barrels per day, according to Nigeria's oil minister Emmanuel Ibe Kachikwu.

Data cited by RBC Capital Markets' commodities team in an early May research note said Nigeria's oil production slipped to 1.69 million barrels per day.

Regardless of either assessment, this is still below the production level of Angola, which held steady in April, at 1.8 million barrels per day.

You can see the effect of the Nigerian militant activity on the oil market on Tuesday, reducing supply and boosting the price:

I so came across this video online... Its so worrisome and disheartening , I think this is morally wrong
https://www.facebook.com/110015815683919/videos/1178881188797371/

also glo and airtel

Spend ke, this is what i did, i practically prétend to fall in love with that yoruba girl(Ramota) and her mother owns a food stand very close to my office... If you are reading this comment thén you can join me to conclude thé rest !

This guy must be high on dry groundnut leave... it is high time this Political Party called PDP get buried...

this is bad..

From where im seated, it seems that stadium is empty... and what is Emeka Ike looking for there?

nice one... i foresee My country Nigeria been among the world power Nation in the nearest future...Click Amen if you believe President Buhari and is Predecessor will take us there!!!

here we go again.... same admin... irrelevant news

mr koluption

he be like say beta news no dey nairaland dis afternoon, or may be our admin no know wat to update us with... Mr Seun you need to sit up who so ever is updating nairaland this afternoon..

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