goran3310:

You will get divorced sooner or later. Look at your marriage like that and be ready for it. A woman will ruin your marriage. She will divorce you or force you to divorce her, to leave her. That is the sad reality of 2024. When you divorce, continue to take care of your children and forget about her.

Sapasenator:
Never give birth the next two years after marriage to organize your finances and ensure both of you have your careers in place.

Ignore pressures from parents and friends about pregnancies and kids, no big deal, you will have kids eventually.

When you are ready, only have one child.

If you are doing well financially, you can add the second child with at least 5 years gap in between otherwise, I would stick to one child only if possible.

If you follow my advice, you will thank me 10years from now. I see the future very clearly.

superCleanworks:


Don't get married if you are selfish & inconsiderate. You will pay for it one way or the other.

If you are a redpiller and you still went ahead to get a woman whom you actually need to apply redpill treatment to, then you have failed before the game starts.

You can never know a woman 100% but Be sure you have done your own due diligence and kindness, cheerfulness, contentment and at least 70% honestly are part of the items you ticked as her traits. Coming back later to call her a bad and wicked woman would make you look foolish.

As a man, I hope you can do very vital things for yourself. This is important so she knows that you can actually do without her but you married her because you chose her to spend life with you. If woman sabi say you no sabi do anything at all, you are finished. How? She knows if she chooses to cook LUNCH by 7pm, there is nothing you can do. But when a woman knows that you can get up and cook for yourself if she messes up, then she would MOST LIKELY not want to use that as a weapon.
I no talk say make you go dey cook and clean house for your marriage oh. Those are cards you should play once in 5 years. very rare.

If you are the blame game master, habitual lier, bad in bed, intolerant naggermaniac, marriage will turn you to a woman.

If you are about to marry someone who you have had the need to check her phone more than once or even ever before, you are headed for a slopy hill on gear 7.

I remember when I had a conversation with my cousin who just got married and I asked him "what is she like", he told me "Bros, this one no be all those one wey go dey tell you I CAN EXPLAIN"... and that was very satisfying.

Marry with intention and purpose. There should be set goals that must have been subtly discussed in jokes or light talks by both of you. It might not go as planned but it will keep you from autopilot situation.

If you feel you can run your marriage by dishing out commands and commands and too much expectations with no appreciation, get ready to beat your wife one day.

Lastly, if you can't pay for all these which I have written, then you have broken the first advice.

MarketDispatch:


Don't be carried away to do joint account.
Don't be carried away to do joint business..some partner sometimes end up duping each other. One partner may open secret account and may be diverting money without the other's knowledge.

Samfloxin:
Money is more important than love in marriage. Love is not a big deal, even animals can love. MAKE SURE YOU PREPARE FINANCIALLY before bringing somebody's daughter in

plenitude:
please what kind of war? Does it involve Gun and bullets??

BeyondCertainty:
Marriage is WAR, it's OK to lose some battles but NEVER lose the WAR.

samuelson06:
Once married, you'll have to learn to take your eyes off certain things. Just ignore. In all you do, make peace a priority. Make sure you settle your issues before going to bed. Lastly, don't keep a boring sex life else one person will feel seriously bad about it and that could lead to other issues.

udede:
Don't marry anybody that eats ewedu even if you do. E get why.

illicit:
I remember the first time I was shocked by electricity

🥵

Thephilosopher1:
Perhaps being born into a poor family afforded me an uncensored childhood, unlike my mates who were born into rich families, always being monitored, always locked up in their flats (we didn't live in a flat), conveyed to and from school by car, etc. having said that, I lived my childhood days to the fullest

Lizard and bird hunting with self made catapult,

Building toy car with empty peak milk tin,

Inserting one leg into a heap of sand and making a house out of it,

Getting a wheel out of a burnt car tyre and riding it to errands,

Carving out a tyre from an old slippers and using it to make a stick car,

Playing four man post (a type of football game),

Playing PS2 (it nearly derailed me),

Grinding nzu and using it to mimic cigarette smoke,

Forced siesta

Playing okoso

Playing games with rubber bands

Playing under the rain,

PerfectStranger:
I got dirty childhood memories

aQUINandmore:
Imangine airport o, I was surprised to see cows grazing at the front of national stadium Abuja not to talk of an airport. Na wa

Ebubu3:
Na very big men get those cows.

Very rich Bureu De Chanhe BDC owners, etc from North

Not like they don’t have money for ranching but as Ethnic Fulani men they believe cow trekking is a proud identity of a fulani than cow ranching

Well Wike will fight them.

He knows how to fight big men


Let them carry the trekking and go to neighbouring Nasarawa state.

Nebes:


I didn't doubt you for one second. I was only being sarcastic because some people in this country are shameless. We've heard stories of some flights being delayed from landing or taking off because cows were on the runway. I believe you oh!

Nebes:
Probably Photoshop or AI generated.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Peer pressure and moving with bad friends. He was influenced wrongly.

BarrElChapo:


Sorry for your bro. May he/she rest in peace.

Crystal Methamphetamine a.k.a Mkpuru mmiri, ice etc is one of the most deadliest addictive laboratory made drugs.

Unlike marijuana, cocaine and some others that have some derivatives from nature, meth on the other hand is completely chemicals, if only people knew what they were experimenting with. ☹️

TeeAL:
Honestly, Ice is everywhere and the sad thing is that the users know they are hooked and wish to stop but they are already addicted!

Neddstark:
Almost did.
Thank God for rehabilitation
If we didn't get him as soon as possible,thenext 24hours would have been mourning.
Say no to drugs.

Japaperson:


How did he die
Was it in Nigeria or abroad

dandig:
We have a high rate of Mentally deranged Youths on our streets...owing to the new drug 'Ice' . I believe weed has been a longtime thing with an unending effort to halt..But with the coming of this new bomb called ICe ...all hell has been let loose

SageWithSarcasm:
So sorry for your loss bro.
This coulda been me thank God for second chance. Crystal meth is just something else and I was addicted to it at some point.
Lets just make better choices while we live

okrikaboi:


I live with older men as I try to stack up, thing is these people make money and try to live responsible lives though I have my own ambitions I simply cannot resist free pills sometimes for the energy, sometimes for the depression when things become slow.

FahBuLous:
Who knows a pill i can take to get high, very high? I don't need alcohol or weed bkus it will be obvious you drank or smoked..
Just swallow and no one smells it.. I need suggestions.