Problem is that there are not enough jobs in Nigeria to go round, for law-abiding Nigerians, talk-less of for Prisoners. Many Nigerians will gladly accept those jobs that the prisoners would have done.
The guy’s mouth and hands is not connected to his brain 🧠. Just stay and drops a random statement
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
I’m beginning to think I would want separate rooms. I swear there are just times I really hate people
TruthU87: To those who claim the airstrike was carried out because of Hamas: If Hamas were to hide behind Tel Aviv University or jew populated area and fire rockets, would the IDF carry out an airstrike on the university, killing all the Jewish students? Your guess is as good as mine. Israel is committing acts of genocide and ethnic cleansing against the Palestinians.
A leaked video of Netanyahu is circulating on social media where he boldly admits to carrying out genocide on the Palestinians. What more evidence do you need?
Don't be surprised if the October 7th attack was orchestrated by the Israeli government just to provide them with a pretext to carry out genocide and ethnic cleansing against the Palestinians.
Your senseless statement shaaa. I hope the innocent people don’t perish any further but op your siting of Jew blah blah is absolute rubbish. Your guess doesn’t make sense and is not even relatable. What do you mean Hamas hiding under Jew tents
Ayokequeen: Kindly give your candid opinion on this matter. As a master holder what would you rather go for; a clean office job of 100k salary or a legit but unbefitting business like selling pepper that makes a profit of 400k monthly?
Zxcvbnmghtr: Enugu community?!!! So Fulanis can as well attack the people who are always jubilant when Fulanis attack other communities outside their own? Abi Fulanis don forget their cheer givers so soon.
I AM SO SURPRISE WHY FULANIS ARE TREATING THEIR FANS THIS WAY. REALLY, REALLY SURPRISE. E get as e be o. Their fans who are quick to call others COWARDS when Fulanis attack them don finally collect wotowoto-watawiti from the EVIL which the praise because of their bitterness for others progress.
Obi should send that his Mad man advicer to Aso rock. He is needed urgently.
At your fool age you took your time to put up this rubbish emotional intelligence i suppose is also very expensive
Gistmedia10: A Nigerian woman found herself in a state of shock and despair after her boyfriend took her to his village to meet his family for an introduction, only to discover weeks later that he ended up marrying another woman instead of her.
The young lady, whose identity remains undisclosed, had been in a relationship with her boyfriend for some time. Full of excitement and anticipation, she eagerly accompanied him to his village, met his family, and possibly discussed their future together.
Only for her to discover that her boyfriend has gotten married to another lady!
Obi is a clown and Ayra Starr is indeed a Star. Yet wealthy Nigerians can and should do more. A Nigerian Minister, on TV, bemoaned how Nigeria used to be a wealthy nation but not anymore.
She is right and if all Nigerians know and accept this fact then we will all start doing all we can, within our power, to bring the productivity and wealth back as Ayra has done in her private capacity.
I till don’t get how poor miscreants as yourself summon the temerity to insult billionaires. Just pulse and think about your life and call Obi a clown again
WhiteWood: Lol, Obi will always be a boy but I think he's right about this, because increasing the monetary policy rate and cash reserve ratio can cause job losses in sectors that depend on bank loans and credit. Just sticking to traditional economic theories will not be enough to handle Nigeria's current complicated economic problems. All I want is progress for Nigeria --Kudos Obi
With your cheap android phone and 2k data you just called obi a boy judge yourself oh
Gracelander: I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.
Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.
I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong?
That is how my babe was just talking to a guy I don’t even know over the 📱 phone. See it is wrong oh cus I don’t trust her the way I use to but no wam. I already promised myself never to complain about anything again. I will get the last laugh
Make oyinbo people come colonize us again abeg. So Pablo Escobar no go carry ie taxation and drug money run the country him dy blame obi and atuku who we really offend for this country