michelin89:

Sorry but I can't condemn someone because of a general belief. Even after my personal experiences I am still careful about how I label people. 

You? Careful about how you label people? Unless you repented just d last minute ago, good.

ayettymama:

i still dnt see wat the biggie is

i stay at my friends all the time

afte playin on his playstation till late

_{*just realised how that sounds and runs away*}

hum, that's all I have to say,

Anyways one thing female tend not to understand about guys is that guys are way to visual. We can visualize everything about a situation in less than a min, So looking at it from a guys prospective, when a man's gf tells him she is spending the night at a male friends house. The man ego/pride has already kicked in visualizing how another alpha male might be comming in to steal his gf. This is the way God made us,

My $.02cent.

it is not proper at all

yea it is proper. even if she trips and land on his di/ck it is absolutely proper

hes got a playstation ok!!!!!!!

and some wicked games!!!!

not every man is like u doggs


_{for the sake of this argument
cos everyman is a dogg}

hancock:

yea it is proper. even if she trips and land on his di/ck it is absolutely proper

lol this nigga got me busting out laughing.

@poster,

come on bro, time to assert yourself. dump the Arrow. what kinda nonsense is that.

ayettymama:

hes got a playstation ok!!!!!!!

and some wicked games!!!!

not every man is like u doggs


_{for the sake of this argument
cos everyman is a dogg}

No lie ma sister, na me be d big dawg. whooof.

ok, enough talks, find a female frnd and sleep @ her house, tell ur gf abt dis & see how she reacts

that's right!

Is not here fault. blame the PHC.

i believe you were a corper b4, ladies are always free sexually tooo loose with the idea (last time to enjoy), for me she told you so u will not suspect in the sense that at least u will belive nothing is happening. be careful my friend, if you want to marry go ahead, is just sex as the say.

it is not proper at all but the bottom line is trust is the key and pls communicate dont let the views of posters affect ur decisions you are the one wearing the shoes and know where it hurts trash this issue out and dont let it hang cos i have been on that road b4 and its not so plesant

IT IS NOT PROPER EVEN IF SOMETIMES NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. WHY

BECAUSE

NOT ALL GALS OR GUYS CAN PASS THRU THIS SITUATION AND NOTHING WILL HAPPEN

Only a dummy would believe this story.Is that her first time of experiencing PHCN failure?Does she run into every guy's house when NEPA strikes?Even her gf's house?Is she 12 years old and scared of ghosts?Abeg, make we hear word!

The girl don do oshofri. . .Period!

harakiri:

Only a dummy would believe this story.Is that her first time of experiencing PHCN failure?Does she run into every guy's house when NEPA strikes?Even her gf's house?Is she 12 years old and scared of ghosts?Abeg, make we hear word!

The girl don do oshofri. . .Period!

There's no doubt about that bcoz "u can't keep yam by the side of a Goat for its security"
I think d guys[i mean d corp] cocks was one hell of busy dat night ,Huh?
& maybe u don't make her feel like a woman[i mean u f**k her] dats why!

just tell d gal that u don't like her slipping to another man's house ,at least u hav ur own house & she can come over 4 rest without u being intimate with her unless she insist .
But shine ur eyes man, many ladies are heart breakers

Why u dey carry relationship matter come nairaland. U nevr even marry the babe, u wan go crazy, if u come marry am nko and she give another man the thing lick, that means na suicide u go comit naa, abi?

Call ur babe make u talk to am 1 on 1; and as for the Duplex wey dey make ur head big, that ur babe fit bone u go f**k even okada man if she want; so no be by duplex oooo. Woman matter e hard, so look for 4 ya sense apply am b4 u begin find atapaipia oooo.

Na wa for una ooo. A beg leave the guy. Na were they pain person e dey put near fire. Na the one wey dey pain am be that.

I love it wen female corpers sleep in ma house. Osho free. Na to chop clean mouth like say notin do me

hope when wetin dey follow sleeping with female corpers go come make you ready

in my view there is no mistake sleeping with. as we know cheating is sweeter than any thing in the world.

temsas:

in my view there is no mistake sleeping with. as we know cheating is sweeter than any thing in the world.

No problem my dear. Since cheating is sweeter than anything in the world may your partner[s] always cheat on you.

What does having duplex got to do wt ths? I think ur deliberately seeking attention frm nairaland babes.

They neva talk this thing finish?

Is not proper somehow. but she may be innocent in what ur trying to accuse her of. so find out from her. good luke

As a corps member i knw wat goes on here.Let her undstnd tat wat she did u dnt like it and try send her 10k to buy tiger gen to avoid such act again.

emeke_123:

hum, that's all I have to say,

Anyways one thing female tend not to understand about guys is that guys are way to visual. We can visualize everything about a situation in less than a min, So looking at it from a guys prospective, when a man's gf tells him she is spending the night at a male friends house. The man ego/pride has already kicked in visualizing how another alpha male might be comming in to steal his gf. This is the way God made us,
My $.02cent.

Spot-on, buddy.

Most ladies who sleep with another guy other than the one the love usually do it out of a foolish mistake.It quite possible she thought it was innocent to sleep in another guys house but she may not understand that we live in a very wicked world.A girlfriend of mine was a virgin till she went for NYSC,initially she told me that one married guy was always buying her things and coming to visit,i told her this was dangerous,she just pushed it aside saying I'm just being paranoid.Well to cut a long story short,she actually believed him and went to his house to cook him lunch,he deceived her and made her stay,convincing her to sleep over,that it was harmless,and eventually had his way with her.She came crying to me how men were heartless,i as a boyfriend, consoled her and ended the relationship,not because she slept with another guy,but she failed to listen to me advising her about another guy like me.

I know she didn't plan it,she was just stupid but if she had listened to me,she would have been wiser,why will a lady not listen to a guy advising her about what guys are capable of?Who should know guys better if not guys.Dear poster i could handle any s$it from a wife to be but one thing i can't handle is disobedience and rebellion,because when we now get married she will even fall into worse and it will be more devastating because we are now married.

You lady acted foolishly and indecently,as long as she is about to marry you,she should have acted like someone Else's wife to be,so if you are now married she will tell you one day that,"see honey there was no light in the house,so i slept at our neighbor's house(a budding single young man) with the kids(for emphasis)' i mean come on!,if she had any respect for you she should have sort your opinion and permission before she made such a move haba! and i don't know maybe she probably just told you casually that she slept in another guy's house because of Nepa wahala and when you protested she got upset and can't freaking understand what you are so mad about! Also for me it shows she is not content,see has long throat,hey you may not provide all for her but can she be contented with what you give her?

See it's your responsibility to protect her and guide her but if she doesn't see it that way,then why plan to marry her.Please re-evaluate,has this or something similar happened  before?If not be very stern with her and tell her you are not happy with her,please don't be moved if she says,"so you don't trust me",this is not about trust,she is your wife to be and you expect some decency and respect from her period!If it has happened before,take a deep look into the relationship,she may have a tendency to be rebellious(Now mark you,i didn't say wayward or loose,I'm assuming nothing happened,and she was just being naive),be very careful,this could spell trouble in future


Now i have two other scenarios why this happened

1)First she could be lying to you to test you,in that case if you do find out the truth,end it because your emotions are not for testing

2)Secondly she doesn't know how to end the relationship,because each time she has clearly messed up,hoping you will let her be,you forgave her and came back.So she decided,let me just do this and lets see if he will not leave me now.In that case end the relationship quickly.

All said,you know her better,you know her reaction when she told you and when you probably confronted her about her behavior,so you can tell if she doesn't just know how wrong and bad what she did is and if she is truly remorseful, these will help you decide.Good luck

She can sleep if only the guy is castrated and he has no tongue, finger etc. If he isn't your girl should collect when the angel of cold passes by

A few ladies spent nights at my place and no bodily fluids were exchanged. Whalai! She might have not cheated on you. However, if you dont trust her, there is no relationship or isle crawling sef. Maybe she does not know you have such and such plans for her so she is doubling her bet.

If indeed she was aware of your plans, she should not have done that.

But bros, na im be say if chikala stay ya place for night , you go conquer her base

@ Poster : It's very wrong , why not go to a fellow female corp members house to spend the nite why does it have to be a guy. If she needs something like that and the first person that comes too her mind is a guy then kasala dey , before she even considers a guy she must have asked a score of girls first. Take yourself do example , when u dey serve and you had to hang out somewhere due to one reason or the other who's house would you go?. You can't tell me he's the only corper P.H.C.N is giving light , there's more to it. Find out sharp and do what you have to do

Make una no crucify me ohh , na my own quota I dey contribute.