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FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 10:17pm On Apr 17, 2016
haul:
Sir, nothing is new under the sun, don't go choke yourself up like you've committed a grave offence.

Now, you bought condom and you forgot to use it?

You departed for over 20yrs just to find out she's childless?

You both got in heat of the moment and the result was a beautiful daughter?


The cynthia husband probably gave birth to kids outside without informing cynthia.

Nature just have a way of compensating cynthia also by giving her a child, you're just a the person used to drive all these nature bound things to happen.

I study coincidence a lot, and I know nature bound one when I see them.

For all those condemning him, jesus is naturally bound to be betrayed by someone, jesus knew this, judas was just a victim of circumstance.

He who is without sin should cast first stone. Sir, go and make peace with your family, you've done no wrong. If your wife can't understand you, then I guess she can live, but if she knows you well, she can stay. "We live and you learn, either you freeze or you burn"---jadakiss.

Person wey go marry two wives nogo stop at one.
Thanks. Just my thought too. Or how else, ur ex of 20yrs get connected back childless. And the only encounter wit her produced a baby. This is mystery common sense cannot explain. Some things are bound to be.
May she is d most appropriate woman my friend suppose to marry. Who knows.
People should look beyond d surface. Things happen for reason beyond what we can see .
FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 10:09pm On Apr 17, 2016
EfemenaXY:
First of all, this "friend" of yours hasn't got a shred of decency in his bones, but rather is a low-life-two-faced-scheming-coward lipsrsealed

Secondly, he should free his soul and do the decent thing by informing his wife that not only did he get a married woman knocked up, he's also been secretly funding his love child (probably with his wife's money or their joint funds). And while he's on his confession spree, he should admit to Cynthia's husband that she (Cynthia), is raising another man's seed under her husband's roof.

Finally, this "friend" of yours should advice his wife to quickly get herself checked out at the nearest STD clinic for HIV and other sexual nasties he's exposed her to. I mean Cynthia's husband has been with several women, Cynthia herself probably with several partners, and same thing with your friend. So many mix of bodily fluids finding their way to the unsuspecting wife.

Tufiakwa.
Cynthia is not with any man again. So issue of nursing another mans child under her husbands roof does not exist. She has bn sent parkibg because she bears no child
FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 9:57pm On Apr 17, 2016
DaVinChiSam:
I don't know which is worse, the story or the way its told...
Am not a story teller.....use ur brain
FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 5:44pm On Apr 16, 2016
Eketem:
What intergrity
His integrity of course......or he shld drown because he erred.
FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 2:48pm On Apr 16, 2016
babythug:
You or your friend just has to man up and tell your wife.

Look for a peace time and tell her. If you still love her reassure her that it was a one off incident and will never occur again.

Ensure you thereafter sleep with one eye open. This is to ensure she doesn't harm you in your sleep.

Also there is no guarantee the marriage won't collapse immediately afterwards. It may on the flip side strengthen things between the husband and spouse.

Decide and define your obligations to the child and the said baby mama.

May the Almighty God be with you through this challenging period of your/your friend's life
Amen. Thank you
FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 1:50pm On Apr 16, 2016
[b]it all rests on the woman not tryn to become selfish. Or else, ur frnd is in big soup.

For the moment She has not shown selfish tendency. For now she is happy she has a child. But u know women. They can change overnight. So far so good she has bn managing her family's pressure. But who knows tomoro.
FamilyHow Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op):
My friend is in a deep matrimonial sheet. I know some Thomases will not believe am routing for my friend. Anyway I will report the matter the way it is. And serious advice is solicited because life is involved.
My friend met Cynthia (an o level holder) during his days in the university. They parted ways wen my friend was about to graduate and Cynthia was not too serious about life. Fast forwarded to 2015 after parting for over 20yrs. Both have married. One thing led to the other they got connected back thru a friend who gave my friend Cynthia no.
My friend discovered from Cynthia (on phone) that she was having matrimonial issues. She has bn unable to have a child ( though not wedded) and her husband has gotten 2 children with another woman outside. She was in this trauma when my friend obtained her no. Her husband have sent her parking.This generated some sympathy in my friend. She initiated a vist and my friend granted. It was an outstation visit. That night she told my friend that her husband for over 4 yrs rarely have intimacy with her. May be thrice or four times in a year.
Cutting the long story short , they made love that night. Unprotected sex, despite d fact that he bought condom , he got carried away and did not wear it.
The lady got pregnant, ( no controversy about who is responsible cos the lady convinced us by swearing. She even said that if she knew she can conceive she would done it outside and leave her husband)
Issue of abortion is out. Last week the lady got delivered of a beautiful baby girl.
My friend has bn financially supportive. No more sex with her except that one that caused the pregnancy.
The issue is how should he handle this matter from here. Should he inform his wife about it. Or Neglect the woman or what ? Pls ur advice is needed. Because of my friends integrity the whole matter is between my friend, I and the lady. Pls ur advice is highly needed.

Mod kindly push it to FP for more response. Its an emergency pls

Lalasticlala abi wetin b ur monicker....wen less important issues like "Buhari is opening a bottled water all by himself" make the FP but mine because I no dey ur club abi. U no won push am go FP. Why not break this jinx for me once and for all
FamilyHow Do I Tell My Wife by ponkitibobo(op): 12:56pm On Apr 16, 2016
My friend is in a deep matrimonial sheet. I know some Thomases will not believe am routing for my friend. Anyway I will report the matter the way it is. And serious advice is solicited because life is involved.
My friend met Cynthia (an o level holder) during his days in the university. They parted ways wen my friend was about to graduate and Cynthia was not too serious about life. Fast forwarded to 2015 after parting for over 20yrs. Both have married. One thing led to the other they got connected back thru a friend who gave my friend Cynthia no.
My friend discovered from Cynthia (on phone) that she was having matrimonial issues. She has bn unable to have a child ( though not wedded) and her husband has gotten 2 children with another woman outside. She was in this trauma when my friend obtained her no. Her husband have sent her parking.This generated some sympathy in my friend. She initiated a vist and my friend granted. It was an outstation visit. That night she told my friend that her husband for over 4 yrs rarely have intimacy with her. May be thrice or four times in a year.
Cutting the long story short , they made love that night. Unprotected sex, despite d fact that he bought condom , he got carried away and did not wear it.
The lady got pregnant, ( no controversy about who is responsible cos the lady convinced us by swearing. She even said that if she knew she can conceive she would done it outside and leave her husband)
Issue of abortion is out. Last week the lady got delivered of a beautiful baby girl.
My friend has bn financially supportive. No more sex with her except that one that caused the pregnancy.
The issue is how should he handle this matter from here. Should he inform his wife about it. Or Neglect the woman or what ? Pls ur advice is needed. Because of my friends integrity the whole matter is between my friend, I and the lady. Pls ur advice is highly needed.
Science/TechnologyHow Do I De-register From TRUECALLER Application by ponkitibobo(op): 10:33am On Mar 07, 2016
Dear nairalanders.i need step by step assistance on how to get my number de-registered from True caller Application. Though i once downloaded the application and did some registration of my number on my phone. But i have since deleted the aplication from my phone BB10 series because i dont find it useful. However i still receive message from them and more spam calls. And strange people identify me before i identify myself on phone....this is creepy.
Plllllsssss i neeed help urgently.
NYSCRe: No Time To Waste, You Must See This Now by ponkitibobo: 3:25pm On Feb 25, 2016
Are you a millionaire already. If yes ...Good.


Then go ahead and invite your family, your friends, your firl friends, your family friends etc before you come here to invite innocent souls here.

I ccan belt with anything ...no nigerian will know how to make millions and make it public.

Ole, thief, barawo, oyin oshi.
CrimeRe: Many Killed As Bomb Explodes At Adamawa Police Station (must Watch) by ponkitibobo: 3:13pm On Feb 25, 2016
Buhari is junketing around while the nation is on fire
RomanceRe: Are There Guys Who Hate Sex! by ponkitibobo: 3:52am On Feb 25, 2016
Strahovski1:
I hate sex as much as I hate the letter Q.

I have sex about 3 or 4 times a year because I am supposed to. If I have my way, I won't.

So yes there are guys who hate sex.
For what purpose do you have sex.?
RomanceRe: Why Women Prefer Sex At Night by ponkitibobo: 3:38am On Feb 25, 2016
Am sure that is what u are doing right now op
CrimeRe: New Form Of Kidnapping. by ponkitibobo: 3:33am On Feb 25, 2016
UnclePati:
Writing...without paragraphs and right punctuations.

Just imagine, its the thorn u see and not the rose. Read with your head not ur eyes alone.
Which school did u finish from?
CrimeRe: New Form Of Kidnapping. by ponkitibobo: 3:31am On Feb 25, 2016
I asked my pastor one day that is it still considered a sin to refuse to help and be suspicious of everybody even to accept unsolicited assistance. Because most of this gestures is laden with danger
PropertiesRe: Quote For This Roofing Work by ponkitibobo(op): 11:54am On Feb 22, 2016
Whatsapp me on 08021179459 for details
PropertiesQuote For This Roofing Work by ponkitibobo(op): 11:50am On Feb 22, 2016
I need expert who can quote for the roofing of this building using stone coated step tiles. A good quote takes the job. Whatsapp on 08021179459 for more details

PoliticsRe: There Is An Oba In Imo State by ponkitibobo: 10:05am On Feb 19, 2016
Apart from Imo , mention another place u see Oba Yoruba. And i bet u whatever reverence he enjoys from d Yorubas is based on his personal leadership quality. And it can never b like the way the Ibo are going abt dia Eze Ndigbo stuff. Almost getting to the level of agitating for autonomy in anothers man territory. Nobody, i say nobody can do that in Ibo land. Go to Ibo states and see if u can point to any reasonable number of people from other tribes who succeeds in business in Ibo land.
AutosRe: Toyota Corolla 799k by ponkitibobo: 10:20pm On Feb 16, 2016
What amount are u trying to write79900k. Dont get it
TravelRe: How Can I Go To Ikeja GRA By Bus From Ejigbo by ponkitibobo: 10:03pm On Feb 16, 2016
Dont mind the guy above. He is a clown. Just find your way to Cele express. Cross to other side. Take oshodi bus. Go to under bridge oshodi and locate garage for buses going to Ikeja under bridge. At under bridge ikeja there u will get Ikeja GRA. Thank me later.
BusinessRoofers Amd Paraphet Experts Needed Urgently by ponkitibobo(op): 4:38am On Feb 15, 2016
There is urgent need for a Paraphet expert(those who dress pillars and roof clamps using cement cast).
Expert in roofing using longspan or tile sheets. Ability to make estimates from building drawings will be an advantage.
Interested persons can whatsapp or text message on 0802 117 9459
PropertiesParapet Expert And Rooofing Expert Needed Urgently by ponkitibobo(op): 4:28am On Feb 15, 2016
There is urgent need for a Paraphet expert(those who dress pillars and roof clamps using cement cast).
Expert in roofing using longspan or tile sheets. Ability to make estimates from building drawings will be an advantage.
Interested persons can whatsapp or text message on 0802 117 9459
FamilyRe: Doc In The House, Pls Help. by ponkitibobo: 4:10am On Feb 15, 2016
It is not absolutely imposible. The fact is that you pple are sexually active and the probable time to resume menstration met with a conducive condition for conception
Pls do not abort. Inform your doc abt it and prepare for another baby in a short while. Nothing to fear.
Foreign AffairsRe: Assad Explains Why He Is Not Ruling Out Turkish, Saudi Invasion Of Syria by ponkitibobo: 3:58am On Feb 15, 2016
This man is not relenting. He is still hot
RomanceRe: What Does It Mean When A Guy Calls You And Asks For You To Come To His House To by ponkitibobo: 9:58pm On Feb 12, 2016
He wants you assist him remove pimple frpm his face....ode
Christianity EtcRe: Pls Help I Cant Stop Fornicating by ponkitibobo: 9:50pm On Feb 12, 2016
You cant do it by your effort. First separate from that your lover. Encourage her to b born again too.
Secondly,Pray for the spirit of God(holy spirit) to help you. Gradually you will begin to see improvement.
PoliticsRe: Governor Fayose Challenges OBJ, Reveals Political Secrets by ponkitibobo: 8:16pm On Feb 08, 2016
We pray for you. At least somebody must speak out. We need mad dogs at home to keep other mad dogs at bay. OBJ is too hypocritical...abeg.
Jokes EtcRe: Hilarious Chat Between Two Couples by ponkitibobo: 5:27am On Feb 08, 2016
It aint funny.......atol
WebmastersRe: Facebook Affirms Nigeria As Its Biggest Market In Africa by ponkitibobo: 9:27pm On Feb 07, 2016
Nigerians are ostentatious consumers. Our taste for expensive phones has projected us as highest fb user.


But how does this reduce price of garri in d mkt.....smh

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