₦airaland Forum

MARRIAGE CRAZE MAKES PEOPLE VERY FOOLISH.

I DON'T KNOW WHY?

WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE AND WEDDING PEOPLE DOESN'T THINK WITH THEIR HEADS ANY MORE.

MOREOVER, ITS BORDER NOT BORTHER.

GBAM!

hmmmmm! I dey hear!

Abi na sapele weed?

na wa ooooo!

RUBBISH!! NA OUR FAULT?

hmmmmmm!

kay29000:
I have noticed that, in recent times, most marriages break up within 5 years. I have been the best man at two weddings in the last 4 years, and those couples are no longer together. Even some of my family members that got married in the last 10 years are no longer together.

Why is the case of divorce and separation so high these days. And if it is not divorce or separation, you read on Nairaland every day how one wife burnt the husband or cut off his manhood, or how a husband beat his wife to death.

Why is this so rampant these days?

ASK GOOGLE!!!

MRLINGTON:
If you're about to get married..which of this kind of women would you love to marry??

Chai bros, I don grab the good cook with two hands already.

I want wifey not a club girl.

Black coffee, no sugar no cream thats my specs.

The good cook looks homely and nurturing to me. In fact, she looks like a total wife.

She looks understanding and caring.

She is not too beautiful I don't want a beautiful wife the only thing they know is their beauty.

The African Black queen is my choice o o o.

Moreover, all that are dark are not dirt. I feel there is gold underneath her.

MRLINGTON:
If you're about to get married..which of this kind of women would you love to marry??

Chai bros, I don't grab the good cook with two hands already.

I want wifey not a club girl.

Black coffee, no sugar no cream thats my specs.

The good cook looks homely and nurturing to me. Infact, she looks like a total wife.

She looks understanding and caring.

She is not too beautiful I don't want a beautiful wife the only thing they know is their beauty.

The African Black queen is my choice o o o.

Moreover, all that are dark are not dirt. I feel there is gold underneath her.

Nna men! Why are women getting too worried about sexual compatibility these days?

I thought women hate sex. I thought to Nigeria women sex is okay any how it goes as far as it lands on a baby.

Well, you can teach him try and get him books and guides to read like this one.

MUMUNESS!!!!!!

TRAIN THIS! TRAIN THAT!

WHICH ONE PASS THROUGH ANAMBRA STATE.? NONSENSE!

THE CORRECT ANSWER TO THE QUESTION;
HOW DO AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN SLEEPING AND WAKING UP EVERY DAY FEELS THE PRESENCE OF A PRESIDENT?

IS THE REAL DEFINITION OF GOOD GOVERNANCE.


ATLEAST WHENEVER I PICK UP MY SMARTPHONE AND LOG ON TO NAIRALAND, I FEEL THE PRESENCE OF OBJ, SIX YEARS AFTER HE LEFT OFFICE.

GEJ NKO?

oburo ifu anua, I wee choba akpa ube.

THE DEFINITION OF FOOLISHNESS IS DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHILE EXPECTING A DIFFERENT AND BETTER RESULT.

EG. VOTING GEJ OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHILE EXPECTING HIM TO FIGHT CORRUPTION OR PERFORM BETTER.


IF YOUR EXPERIMENT DIDN'T GIVE A GOOD RESULT TRY ANOTHER OPTION. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.


IF THEY ARE WISE!!!

Zico0:
I don't like this post and because i feel since we don't say the truth it'll be a social problem. The Nigerian society is upside down and i feel it's because we hide the truth of reality.

First, because you pray, go to church and believe in God dosen't make you the better person. The better person is that one who make things work. If you have 'americana' accent and it's real, why don't you strive for Hollywood. For example, there's aisha tyler, estelle, oshinua whatever and one other black guy in Lost, there are two black dudes in 24hrs S07 etc. Does anyone think it's impossible? Hmmn! Planes fly, don't they?

Second, In life, what matters is what good you bring. Are you a asset or liability?, ultimately, it boils down to who's hungrier; ultimately, it boils down to science: knowledge, skill and information; ultimately, meritocracy apportions opportunities: if an executive will only outsource contracts based on friendship, then he does so at his own peril.

#500 no be money! Nigerians will go into an endeavour without careful consideration of the estimates. It's past time we became civilised. In every endeavour there's a standard and if you cannot make the standard, that activity is not for you. That's why we like to beg; abeg abeg abeg. The value is not the money, the value is the good or service. What's that thing your good at or can assist others through?, you have to make it useful to another person. Adam Smith said "...man has almost constant occasion for the help of his brethen, and it is in vain to expect it from there benevolence only. He will be more likely to prevail if he can interest ther self love in his favour, and shew them that it is for their own advantage to do for him what he requires of them... Nobody but a beggar chooses to depend chiefly upon the benevolence of his fellow-citizen..."

Hmmmmm! Too much turanci!

My Bible says its an abomination for a woman to wear what pertaineth (is meant) to a man.


All that does so are an abomination to the LORD your God! Deuteronomy 22 vs 5(kjv)

GBAM!!!!!

ABI NA JESUS CHRIST IN BE?




NO BE MAN LIKE ME!!!



SOME PEOPLE GET TIME SEF.

MTCHEWWWWWWWWWWWW!

[quote author=CharlesNneji1 post=31194465][/quote]NO BE IF I GET THEM TIME. UNA STILL GET TIME FOR GIRLS. ITS A SIN. A BEG I WAN BE LIKE MARK ZUCKERBERG.

NA WETIN I DEY PURSUE. NO BE GIRLS.

I WAN GET HOUSE FOR ABUJA, DUBAI, UK, ATL, SHENZHEN AND JERUSALEM.

bokom:
Hello Guys

My name is UD (not real name), a Nigerian and i am married to European who is 10 years older than me. We met in Europe but got married in Lagos.

Well, after our marriage, we always have family issues and fights like every other couple, but the problem i am having with my wife is that any time we are having our small misunderstanding, she always gets physical.. Initially, its just a small slap to my face and some nail scratching on my body here and there. And when this started in Europe, i will always try to walk away or hold her hands to calm her down, but seems the more i take the beatings, the more courage and bold she becomes in always hitting me during an argument or small misunderstanding with her.

Recently, we both came back to Nigeria for a business we brought down from Europe, and since we started living in Nigeria, i couldn't hold myself any longer as i have tried so in so many occasions to avoid hitting her back, but at a point i couldn't take it any more and i had to hit her back! though not so hard, but like oyibos, her skin where i hit her turned purple color and the next day everybody at our office was looking at me like the devil himself and a woman beater... I felt very very bad that i swore never to touch her again!

But last night she came all out for me again, hitting me, throwing lamps and whatever at me, and i lost it again and had to hit her! This time a bit hard! Please what am i supposed to do because i don't feel good after this fights especially when i have to hit her back.

And some of you might ask, why are we always fighting Well, i happens to be the bread winner in my family, but my wife doesn't understand why i should give money to my brother to help him in his business or pay for a new home for my mum. She said my family is too lazy and they should go and fend for themselves. My family is all i had and i feel obliged to help them even as i have a joint business venture with my wife and we run same account, thus finds out anytime i give them money. My brother was the one who helped and paid for my studies in Europe when his business was moving fine...now i feel i have to support him too because he has some problems with his business, but my oyibo wife will not hear of it and thus leads to our fighting and she getting physical with me..

Please guys, advise me what to do if you are in my shoes...only matured advises needed. Thanks

Report her to the police here and then welfare people for abuse and assault.

Let them give her serious warning and reprimand.

You can also report her to her people, so that they can caution her.

Divorce is seriously ruled out. You have entered, you have entered.

oneeast:
You have said the fact! But your name sound un-Anambran!

Dont mind me, its a mask! When I was in school a lot of ladies rejected me because I was poor and ugly, so I kind of come to get too used to the words.

And started liking them.

I use them in positive sense now, just like black Americans got used to been called NIGGERS and they started using it positively.

In fact let me answer the question;

Question: Why do Igbos Especially the Anambrarians(not Anambrans) marry from their tribe?

Answer 1: Our women fine die. And they have a tasty fashion sense.

Answer 2: No tribe can cook, ofe akwu, ofe egusi, ofe nsala, ofe oha, ofe onugbu, ona, ngwongwo, nkwobi, ugba, pass our women.

Answer 3: we want the maternal grandma of our children to live nearby for easy omugwo.

Answer 4: we want to speak Igbo well without annoying anyone.

Answer 5: we value marriage a lot, some tribes don't share our marriage views.

Answer 6: we go and solve scarcity of husband problem in another tribe who will come and solve for us.

Answer 7: in fact we are seriously obsessed with ourselves.

Answer 8: we want our values, virtues and ideologies to remain intact.

Answer 9: we are die hard hustlers, we don't want to introduce lazy blood into the bloodline.

Answer 10: our women knows how to take care of a man wella (inside bedroom inclusive).


We no send you. if it vex you, sorry o o o.

leere!!!

Neplusultra:
If he refuses to put a ring on it,she shud leave na! Every rltnshp mustnt end in marriage, dere r so many tribes to choose from, Ibibio, Efik, Eggon, Tiv, Yoruba, Kanuri

and Boko

iiiyyyk:
True talk my brother, we are wiser, our traits are given to us by God.
Most of my life, i ve lived within none igbo communities, they go inside they envy us and wish they were us, they come out they call us all sort of fake names.
In their eyes, young igbo boys will start with nothing, and within few yrs there millionaires. Theirs doughters will always flock around, but in 98% of cases the young man will marry an igbo sister that will be a strong support to him.
we have no apology for that....

Yes!! leave them am enjoying this!

#TeamAnambra

I no wan marry but all these things wey una dey write here against our sweet women don dey make me dey think about all the sweet sweet sweetness wey ful our Anambra dem ladies body.

Una dey make me change my mind o o o!

I be like say, I go go carry one fine Anambra girl now begin marry.

Anambra women sweet no be small. Abi na the wide hips and curvateous curves, if they swing am for your face you forget the name of your tribe.

ANAMBRA LADIES UNA TOO MUCH. MAKE UNA NO MIND THEM O O O.

WE UNA BROTHERS DEY HERE TO GIVE UNA LOVE, THE ANAMBRA WAY.

WHICH WOMAN FROM WHICH TRIBE SABI COOK BITTER LEAF SOUP? EHN! I DEY ASK WHICH WOMAN FROM WHICH TRIBE GO GIVE ME BITTER LEAF SOUP AS I WANT AM?

MAKE UNA LIF OUR GIRLS FOR US! JELOSY FIFUL!

Blitz888:
Anambrarians can't do without their mums... Don't blame us.

CORRECT!!!!!

;DSee! make una no make me vex! if una make me vex I go turn this thread into hook up thread for Igbo men and our over gorgeous neck twisting, over beautiful sexy sisters.

INFACT! IGBO GUYS AND GIRLS THAT NEEDS PARTNERS OYA, START POSTING YOUR REQUESTS. BECAUSE WE FULL HERE O!

OYA! WHAT IS YOUR SPECS POST!

I GO FIRST!
1) MUST COME FROM ANAMBRA.
2) TALL ATLEAST 5'10"
3) DARK (black coffee no sugar no cream)
4) VOLUPTOUS (full, back and front)
5) A GRADUATE!
6) CAN COOK OFE AKWU VERY WELL.

I no blame una! mtchewwwwwwwew!

onyedikachukwue:
Our women feel more comfortable with us.i can't marry a girl who is not from anambra.


Proudly ANAMBRA
I REP NNEWI

Collect five! Infact, chop knuckle! Chop am again! gbaaaa!

No mind them! Abi p***y don finish for Anambra? With our big, tall, I get am plenty up and down sweet ladies wey full Anambra. Wetin I dey look for sokoto dey plenty for sokoto.

Abi if we marry outside finish, who go come marry our sweet sisters? Moreover, we too like to visit our maternal grandma place, we no wan make I far.

Gbam!

But Anambra ladies sweet o o sha, with this their ofe akwu come join am.

I NO GO MARRY OUTSIDE ANAMBRA LAI LAI! GOD FORBID!!!!!!

I DON'T THINK THIS IS A SCAM AT ALL. THIS GUY HAS BEEN VERY CONSISTENT AND AS STRAIGHT FORWARD AS POSSIBLE.

ANYONE WHO CAN HELP, PLEASE KINDLY HELP.

REMEMBER WHAT THE GOOD BOOK SAYS;
" GIVE, AND IT SHALL BE GIVEN UNTO YOU; GOOD MEASURE, PRESSED DOWN, AND SHAKEN TOGETHER, AND RUNNING OVER, SHALL MEN GIVE INTO YOUR BOSOM. FOR WITH THE SAME MEASURE THAT YE METE WITHAL IT SHALL BE MEASURED TO YOU AGAIN." LUKE 6:38.

FYI: I DON'T KNOW THE OP OR THE SISTER BUT I HAVE GOOD FEELING THIS IS VERY REAL.

HAD IT BEEN I HAVE ENOUGH MONEY. I WOULD'VE SINGLE HANDEDLY FLOWN HER TO USA.

BECAUSE MY JESUS CHRIST IS ALIVE, FOLAKE IS HEALED! AMEN!!!

#folakewillsurelysurviveandrecover.

@PLEASE TALK TO SUNNEWSPAPER MANAGERS/EDITORS LIKE FEMI ADESINA, STEVE NWOSU, FUNKE AGDEMODE, LET THEM FEATURE HER STORY ON THE PAPER. SO THAT RICH NIGERIAN CEOS AND POLITICIANS CAN SEE IT.

GOD BLESS YOUR EFFORTS! AMEN.

Anybody get N50 change here o o !


Wetin concern me. no be persin wey shop bele full go begin talk poposa, abi ploposa, abi proposal.



*waka pass*

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chrislong:
Hi everyone....sorry I had to disturb u but I have to ask this o....I've been using power banks with my Samsung s3 just cause it's a work item for me and usually need it alive.

However I've noticed that am having to change batteries every month as often as I subscribe for data.

Please i need to know if the power bank is the one spoiling my batteries cause the batteries were actually bought in good conditions before it decides to charge backwards and gwt pregnant after....is someone experiencing this tooe

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machi25:
@ op are u indirectly saying you are wiser than God who created us.because last time I checked,u need to adhere completely to the instructions of a producer to make the best use of his or her product.the instruction states that we keep our selves until we are married but u believe u can't get d best sexual satisfactions from a virgin.if u no like virgins,na prostitutes u go like abi.agbaracha o

Ask am o o! You are seriously on point.

God that designed it in such a way that a man with a small "thing" will uncork his own and open to his size satisfaction. And a man with big "thing" will open his own and uncork to his size and satisfaction, is now stupid abi?

Op! Don't curse God indirectly before you incur HIS wrath.

If tightness did not get you satisfied how can looseness get you satisfied.

SONS OF THE LAST DAYS. OP! REPENT.