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Yap! but why are u _sad. hope i never offended anybody

I have read everyones reply.
And I'd like to thank everyone for their input.

I've made the decision to stay with my husband.
And put this part of my life behind me, look to the future with my husband, starting our family.

I do love him dearly and deep down I believe it's worth fighting for.
Marriages aren't supposed to be easy, especially a mixed race & mixed culture one!

I'm glad I asked for people views, at least it gave me the chance to hear other people and take opinions on board before making mine.

I feel good about my choice (It's me who will live with it), Now I must forget the past, and look towards the future

Nice decision. Happy to hear that. Gudluck

Well, looking at the comments made here, I guess yeah, you can say that.

Hmmmmm what a bad imagination! maybe u're right _{not only 9ja dudus, other race are involved.} 9ja have some gud dudus who fall in luv becoz they truely luv the gal _{not for sex}. Hey what do u think.

I need to know (preferably from a man) if you think he's likely to do it again.
He says he loves me and it was an accident. And That he'll never get that drunk again.
I need an unbiased view.
My heart says stay with him, But My head is confused.

for the fact that he opened up to u before u find out and is very sorry about it is an indication that he will NOT DO IT AGAIN. he will definitely take correction. pls dear give him a second chance as ur post shows that u really luv him. _{remember he is still ur husband}

Dont give him another chance,lnfact never marry a nigerian.

i dont blame u

nigeria again. pls giv him a second chance coz he is ur husband not ur boyfriend. they say b4 u can change others change urself. for 4years now u ought to know his likes and dislikes. try to find out what makes him do that. change ur xter to suite his and show him more luv. i think what is urs is urs 4ever. gudluck.

simple, i just wish am d woman, but if u kno d kind problem wey those women dey face ehn? no be small thing o, orisirisi bebe out there

but i love them handsome

u are just being honest. kudos

yes, true talk.

_{back on track} are u trying to say that 9ja dudus are womanizers or what. pls be plain and let get ur point now. _{stop beating around the bush}

Huh? Wetin happen?

i just hate judging on people's looks. . . it puts me off thats all

i know but atleast for the fact that he is handsome, u can admire him _{(his handsome)}

Am not interested in him because he owns a car, i come from a very comfortable home. i just think i have this feeling for him.

It's not as if am desperate, i just dont like pretending about my feelings, am a kind of person that if i like someone i tell him point blank and that doesnt mean am desperate or cheap.

are u sure he has the same feelin for u or he just need ur p***y. gal beta be careful and dont fall a prey.

Am sorry but Im the type pf person whom do not notice looks first. . . Thats just me. I only lkook at personality. . . Period. Looks are alwasy deceiving every single individual.

what a gal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To guys who spoke brashly against washing gf panties and who wouldn't do if for any reason.

I know many of u will F***K thesame gf when she's on her monthly circle (then its not smelling se?). And when she's not "on" you would go extra miles from 4King to Sucking. Now you're here faking up your lives that you cant wash.

Please tell me which is worse out of licking/sucking/drinking/(even biting) and washing the cover of what u 4k and suck.

Guys get real forget the african man stuff, are u saying if your wife/gf is indispose you cant do that for her? or doing it to cover her shame or to safe her from embarassment. My question is "what is love that you profess? is it just fucking?

Is it by washing ur gf pant that shows ur luv for her or are u trying to be romantic. Whichever way, it make no sense. It is _{(using abnormal is an understatement)} absurd to bring urself so low by doing that.

A lady sucking a man's money dry aint childish but selfish but a man do that cos u gals of this days are not trustworthy(unfaithful), so guys dont want to b the losers is plain childish

It really sounds funny

just recovering 4rm laughter

I agree with ur above statement.
Seems u hav won for now but will be back later

Nope. havent been heartbrokn yet.

And pray never to experience it cos u may not survive the pains. It hurts alot

I did not allow him to wash. He washed it while I was still sleeping. Imagine. . . evertime I move a little, the blood just drips like mad so even that, how I fit wash? Dont you think that is a no choice thingy which he had to do?

And he doesnt seem to mind cause I always wash his undies. Infact, I always wash his clothes and iron them and fold and hang them neatly all the time. I dont see why cant he help me as well once in awhile?

U and ur guy must be two luv birds.

sounds funny

what sort of assumption is this!!!!!!

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Asumption indeed. I rather call it imagination

I don't understand this story ooo

Indeed u r d purest boy ever ,

how do i tell her or how do i ask a girl out what are the ways to win her heart

maybe u are a JJC.

No1 thing a gal(whether my gf or not) can do to annoy me is pretends, cos i usually notice when they are pretending and it really piss me off.

Chei, nothin we no go happen in the name of luv. luv ko luv ni.
I no fit suck my gf pussy much more of wash in pant. God forbid

Now isnt that childish?

Childish!!! what then will u say to those gals that are only after a man's money and pretend to luv the man. Maybe when they exhaust the man to poverty they will leave the man. My dear, thats not childish.

Niaja dudus do that cos u gals of this days are not trustworthy(unfaithful), so guys dont want to b the losers.

I never supported that kinda behaviour.

I gist the girl and finish with her on bed,haha!water go pass garri

U just unconsiously exposed urself.

@gabrywyl

I dont know what on earth i should do or say to convince u that what u experienced their are different from what goes on here.
let me b frank with u, some Niaja dudus do that cos u gals of this days are not trustworthy(unfaithful), so guys dont want to b the losers. But the fact is that it is not majority cos true luv still exists in Naija. I hav been to many states in my country and hav made many friends, most of them mean what they say about luv. Coming to what u experience there, i can say that u maybe extra-ordinarily beautiful for guys especially Naija to be tripping for u. Dont 4get, Naija guys lik better thing.

Giv ur present gf a benefit of doubt. let ur past do not appear to b present. try surpass ur feelings at val day and move out with ur new gf.
dont giv her 100% trust. u may think u re deceiving urself n lying to her but it is not so, u are tryin to avoid the past mistakes. just play along with her but dont be so luving, caring and romantic to her lik u did to ur ex. b a little hard (not all d time) to her. if she truely luvs u she will endure all ur actions to her and still stick on to u.

GUDLUCK DUD

[its a fact that most naija girls change when they when admitted to uni. My advice to any naija guy is call the relationship day when she gets the admission letter. besides, who wants to go uni with relationship wahala sef.
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No b say u talk, na true talk b that. It had happened to me.

@gabrywyl

Hav u done a general statistics for this or do u just hav this bad impression for Nigerians. Plsoooooooooo 9ja guys are good and trustworthy, atleast u should hav seen it in ur bf xter.
Anyhow, i still believe many 9ja guys meant luv when dey say it and are not always in a rush. If u want to prove ur theory into becomin a law, then come over to nigeria and make more observations n dont b surprised when u see they are not what u think. if u com try contact me

@poster

Pele bros, to b a man no be a day job.

but interesting somhow. U hav to agree on one thing, that not only 9ja guys fall in luv after 5 mins, other guys from other countries also do that.

but wait ooo, na gal be dat or abi na man we dey on skirt be dat. dat pic really dey funny.