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Secretz:
Post her an invoice then innit.

eina:
I feel so alarmed by the fact that most guys here are of the opinion that money is definitely all it takes to win a girl's heart. Yes!!! of course the girls will surely come around when your money is there. But before you go on to flash your expensive cars and shower expensive gifts on any girl, I want you to pause and consider the following situation.

You quietly sneaked into your house one day without anyone inside noticing, and you heard voices discussing in your house which you realized was your girlfriend and a female friend of hers. As you maintained your unnoticeable presence, you could clearly hear the following conversation going on between your girlfriend and her friend; ''Linda what about your guy? I can see his treating you so well'' her friend asked. And your girlfriends reply was, ''Don't even bring up any issue about him. That guy is just a crap!!! so empty headed and boring. I just decided to date him simply because he is loaded and nothing else.''

guys how would you react when you hear these words come out from your girlfriends mouth? Do you think you can use money to change the fact that you are a crap and empty headed? Don't get me wrong, I have got my money but I wouldn't use it to get a girl. NO!!

Damoche10:
Sorry, I forgot to add this, the last muslim break we had I gave her some dough (Money) for her hair do, actually I always do that without her even asking for it, she told me she gave it to this guy because the guy was in a mess (flat broke) and needed help. I didn't respond to her statement because i ain't a bank that would be milked dry but I must admit she knew I was pissed. Manner wise she is anything you want in a woman, but she is fucking ( sorry to use that word) with my brains right now,

emekatimsu:
If not for this present ASSU strike,i won't have found myself in this present tight corner.
I school in the Eastern part of Naija,at the inception of this stupid strike,i decided to spend the break at my elder sister's place at Akure. She stays in a self contained bedroom, and since she's single & comes back very late from her bank work,i usually have the room to myself during the day.
I was watching movie one day and the landlord's second wife came knocking on my door. She said she wants to borrow a movie, i innocently let her to come & search 4 herself, when she came in, she took a CD plate & asked me if i have a blue film(mojo), of course i personally have,she now ask me to play the film. I was suprise but i played it. And that was it, b4 i could open my mouth and close it my landlady has pulled off the wrapper in her waist. What i saw,i could't resist. That was the beginning of my predicament, anytime she wishes she would sneak into my sister's room and make me commit adultary. She would call me omo igbo se kiakia. Pls fellow NL how do i tell her off since she knows am sleeping with the landlord's 1st wife's daughter. And has threatend to expose us if i don't sleep with her. Wot should i do b4 iut becomes worse.

Peterwilliams:
She had three guys before me, And she broke up with them because they asked for sex which she did'nt want to do because of her virginity, When we meet i promised her that i'm not that kind of person.,we have dated for 8months and she's demanding of sex from me or she go outside, She gets high each time we make love, What should i do, I dnt want another brother to hop in.Should i do it?Here is my number 08063221234

jojohnson:
Thanks everybody, have already travelled and now i am in holland studying for my Msc in petroleum engineering and Geosciences. Thank you all for all your contributions and suggestion. The good God blesses you all. To the last contributor, you can remain without cheating. It doesnt matter if it was common , you can be diffrent. In Europe here where most guys are crazy about white girls and it is like promiscuity is nothing to them, I have alws remain myself. It is my consecration and commitment. It is not hard to do. Just know relationship demands commitment and you will find yourself doing it. Thank u all

julian_H:
I am married now though but I can't just get Blessing (that is her name) out of my system no matter how hard I try.
The relationship was one of the best that I have ever had - and I had many!
She was everything one would ever want in a woman - just name it, she got it.

I can't still say what went into me; we were really looking forward to getting married even though we did not make any of such promises to each other but within our hearts we just knew that that was all we wanted.

I left the East for the North and everythinhg changed!

The last time I spoke with her she told me that she had forgiven me, but will i ever forgive myself?
At the slightest provocation by my wife she (Blessing) comes to mind!


I love my wife and all that but Blessing was in a class of her own:
so simple,
so kind,
so understanding,
so loving,
so caring and affectionate!

There was this understanding silence that we shared that nothing can ever equal!
Just the two of us; sitting or laying down, not touching or doing anything but lost in our seperate worlds but still being together!

I am not asking for any kind of help as I know that everything was my fault and all but i just wanted to be heard.

sweetpie23:
there certain types of people you feel will be more likely to cheat?

xynerio:
She always come to my house in d evening disturbing me. And at the end of every rough play she will ask me to kiss her lips. But I know of some girls dat play such play but has nothing in mind. But this girl is asking each time she comes to my house. Does she wants me?

Hi In house,
Pls i need your advice on this issue as it is very hot on me at this moment.I read a message on my fiancee phone requesting for money for her project from another guy she met on Hi5 which she told me they have never met but only communicate on phone.
She slept in my house that day because she will be presenting a seminar today at school and we need to work on that but she has slept off leaving me to finish it and that was the time i checked her phone and saw the message and in the morning,i asked her about the message,she denied it but she asked me to check her phone to confirm it and in the process,she deleted it but i did not want to be struggling with her.Till now she's still insisted that there is nothing on her phone.And i make sure i satisfy her with everything she wants at any time even when i had problem with my job,she will still ask for money or material which i will try as much as possible to get it for her.
Please,help me out because i don't know what to do because our plan is to get married in the next a year.

Why do married men go after single girls?
We all have reasons behind our actions.

Most Single man has more than one babe at a time, and it is hard for the babe to know who be the real owner.
So everyone na thief, na the one caught be barawo.

Women will always talk alot;that's just genetic.
About world balance or whatever you call it , i think the women should start with inventing something.
Women are simply welcome guest to the 'comforts' a man has built and by comfort i mean everything you set your eyes on from dawn till dusk.
Status is not earned by how much you can talk.
its a man's world ; just enjoy the ride ladies.

Someone mentioned earning more than men ; more than the men in your office or in your village,which one?.
You give birth but pampers is designed by men; do you know that your contribution to bra-making is to test if the first design sample is comfortable?.
You think Manolo is a woman?
Im stopping here pls , Ah

2 - about women inventing something - how on earth can we manage that? - will you carry the baby for 9months, birth it, breast feed it, raise it and cook your own meals? will you ensure those children go on to be the next inventors?

3 - and by saying we are 'welcomed guests' - that is one of the most insulting/demeaning thing i have ever heard a man say! towards women - yes, your father's sperm contributed to create your life - but WHO decided to let you carry on that life? - who decided to welcome and keep you in her body for 9months? - who decided to allow you see the world? who decided to breastfeed you and strengthen your immune system who made sure you were well fed, and healthy? who cooked the food, bought with your Father's money from his inventions?

You have three options ; plastic surgery , see a vulcanizer to help you pump it , or to a livestock feed mill and ask for broiler mash, mix it with your food.

@ Poster

1. TRUST him 90% (never have 100% trust for anyone)
2. Always COMMUNICATE (whether via email, letters, sms, calls i do not mean bombard or be overwhelming-but it's the key)
3.Always remain HONEST, liars eventually get found out, tell him how certain things make you feel or don't feel.
4. Leave a little MYSTERY to/for yourself, he/she doesn't need to KNOW all your SECRETZ
5. Do not NAG unnecesarily, especially about minor petty issues that you can LIVE/DEAL with.
6. Wait atleast 3 months before he even touches (passionately kisses you) lol
7. always LISTEN not just HEAR what your man/woman is saying.
8. Let your INSTINCTS/FEELINGS guide you through every situation/circumstance you both encounter, I believe that is the way God speaks to us.

That's all I can think of, remember you do not NEED ANY man/woman to COMPLETE YOU, you are already complete, it would be NICE to have someone else to share your completeness with, (hope this helps)

I believe that she loves me dearly, what I'm afraid of is bad influence from people around her since I'm not always with her.

It's not like i'm a virgin, but this guy portrayed himself like he was different
from others, Though he had never told me that sex was his problem in the
relationship.

@ Anthonykil, Comot for road! I would rather allow another guy do it,
he just doesn't worth it!

It's not like i'm a virgin, but this guy portrayed himself like he was different
from others, Though he had never told me that sex was his problem in the
relationship.

@ Anthonykil, Comot for road! I would rather allow another guy do it,
he just doesn't worth it![/quote

then u dont luv him. u just want to test him to know whether he is what he claimed to be to u. better 4get him coz u dont worth him period.