TonyeBarcanista:
A woman may be working class and still be a liability, while another could be a housewife and still be an asset to her man.

OP if a man is in need of urgent cash for important needs/project, a woman that really values him may give from her purse (if she has), borrow from friends/relatives, liquidate her jewelries (asset) to raise part or the entire amount (if need be or she has the means) or even give him from the savings she has been making from "feeding" money.

But the man must be someone that values, cherishes and love her whether he is her husband or husband-to-be...

Xenry:
He didn't even understood the original post, and he started reasoning with emotions (not logics)—probably because he's already emotionally attached to his Girlfriend who is definitely a liability. I only asked a question, and he started talking about stealing and borrowing, lol.

Kirkman:

Truly I get the main point of your post. But on turned tables would it be a bad thing to turn your liability into assets instead of just discarding it totally?

Kirkman:


if it's not worth it then don't even try, have you tried team foreign or other African ladies?

LadyTiannah2:
In that case, lemme go and dump my boyfriend since he's broke at the moment

Ladies pls avoid urgent 5k guys
Only go for big fish

Made619:
For the sanity of your mind as a guy, avoid ladies from poor background.(no offense to those from poor background)

Xenry:
There's nothing like '5k urgent guys' because a guy would rather ask his fellow guy for money than to ask his babe. So the original post/question is just an assumption.
Well, I wish you luck on your Big Fish hunt.
And please be careful with breaking your boyfriend's heart while dumping him, so that he won't come to Nairaland to disturb us with the usual emotional threads about break-ups. .

odiinsgrace:
For me ,I don't make friends or date any girl less of a Career lady..i scratch ur back and u scratch mine. love is all about giving and taking , if you are giving and not taking anything ,that is not love., so mine , Amaka is an asset at 18

LadyTiannah2:


Lol why are you contradicting yourself? You said don't date a girl who can't give you 5k when you need it. Now you're saying guys don't ask girls for money, they would rather ask their fellow guys. Bros are you confused?

justscorchone:
I once met a girl that gave me N20k few weeks after knowing her, sadly she was already in a relationship. This was years back in school

Xenry:
I never said "don't date..." I was only asking a question.
And try to understand: the question was only an assumption.

Made619:
For the sanity of your mind as a guy, avoid ladies from poor background.(no offense to those from poor background)

Xenry:
Damn! You were really lucky ooo!

Masonkaycares:
How am I supposed to know when I don't have a girlfriend bitch?

AwesomeStormy00:


Who doesn't have today is going to have tomorrow. Ghosting your gf cuz of 5k is low. You are not even man enough to tell her face to face. Bros you are a disgrace to men species.

Kebbiprince:

I believe you're supposed to understand the message unless your mental capacity is in doubt

Jessepaid:



Are you looking for attention from NL ladies bro?

Saying stupid shit doesn't work here...


Liabilities are headaches... They can't help out but they keep taking...


Men need urgent 5k too

The only difference is that the need for that 5k is for something tangible like food, gas, a debt etc..


Not to make hair or buy cloth...



I don't know your opinion on relationships..


But have your own money and let her have her own money too...

That way you can both respect each other more ..

Xenry:
Wft? I dropped her because she's a liability, not because of 5k. Read to understand, not to comment. If you couldn't understand after reading, just close the thread and waka.
You can't succeed in life if you are being pulled down by Liabilities—Those who relates with you as if their needs are your responsibilities.
And I'm gonna give you one tip: Don't and never try to reason logically with someone who would always choose emotions over logics, it's a waste of time. Why would I reason with her into becoming an asset when an average nigerian girl sees relationship as a source of income? Some girls ain't worth the effort, if she tries to pull you down, just drop and pass.

AwesomeStormy00:


You ghosted her? Not man enough to say it to her face why you are dumping her. Smh

Xenry:
Try to avoid me next time! No useless mentions abeg.

Xenry:
Try to avoid me next time! No useless mentions abeg. Instead of answering the damn question, you started to show how unreasonable you can be. I'm having a bad day abeg, just stay the fvck out of my mentions!

Xenry:
Try to avoid me next time! No useless mentions abeg. Instead of answering the damn question, you started to show how unreasonable you can be. I'm having a bad day please, just stay the fvck out of my mentions!

Xenry:
Try to avoid me next time! No useless mentions abeg. Instead of answering the damn question, you started to show how unreasonable you can be. I'm having a bad day please, just stay the fvck out of my mentions!

AwesomeStormy00:


Stop swearing we all have a bad day you aren't alone alot are going through different issues here and there. I dont come on here to pick fight with anyone if you don't want people to comment on your post keep it to yourself and don't post it on open thread. I was only giving my own opinion sorry if it is a bitter pill for you to swallow have a great weekend.... your next gold digger girlfriend is going to dig u out of the hole you are in. Can you not say a word without f word? Shows the kind of slob you are