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Re: Some People Are Mean by bigjackass: 2:41pm On Mar 19, 2021
Mister man assuming your stories are even real, you have turned to begging as the solution to everything. For how long will you continue to beg undecided. Assuming there was no internet platform will you kill yourself or you will go and find a way to take care of your family ? The internet has turned people to something else. Because you got money from begging before you begin to rely on that. My father passed through worse when I was growing up and I never saw him begging here and there as the only solution. And we managed to grow up responsibly and finish school. Some illiterate women without husband are feeding and putting their children in school by all means , without knowing how to use internet to beg. Lots of people that use the internet with you are passing through similar hardship but you don't see them doing this. Only people that are sick are justified to beg perpetually. You are a full bodied man, not sick. Stop the block work that doesn't pay you and find another labour. Stop using your children as an escuse.
MondayUche:
Someone messaged me and said I should stop replying to all those negative replies that the more I reply the more it looks as if I am playing with people's minds. But let me just drop this and I hope those who will only come to the comment section to read negative replies and look for negative things to say should also read this. If you all check when I posted my situation and how everything started even during the lockdown how I was stranded in Abuja while my family was getting kicked out in Lagos. I cried out even some top men collected my landlord's number because he is a CSP officer threatening to throw my family out of his house even with the lockdown. Fast forward during April last year we managed to get a place and relocated since then I have been struggling and hustling to feed my family doing whatever I can I even posted a few of the side hustle I was doing here because I know much about car dealing business so I packaged myself to be a middleman agent to any property anyone wants to say so that I will be the middleman. I helped someone from this same NL to sell a car of 3m+ and this person did not give me anything. Then my wife was still around she told me this hustle is risky that what if someone sent me stolen car details to post then after-sales if anything happens they will pick me first blah blah fear grab me so I stop the stuff thou business were not coming sha. Remember schools was to resume last year but later postponed, all this while I put my kids in a lesson while hustling. I am not someone with handwork I was into a Coca-Cola dealership business before my business went down and I tried as much as I can for me not to meet a day like this. Even decided to travel out of the country to hustle any job for the betterment of my family but in return, I got duped by someone I trusted so very much. Everything getting tougher and harder so many promises of jobs even loan to start a restaurant business with my wife I got promises everywhere but in the end disappointment everywhere. I am owning money from everyone I know even down to my wife's brother I am owning him some change just to dey make sure the kids eat food and treatment. Fast forward then it was about a month for school to resume. Even someone promised my kids a scholarship but it was just for clout chasing and nothing happened at die minutes for school to start. Every parent should know that registering kids into a new school for the first time is always expensive like times 2 of the normal school fees. I have no option than to cry under the post where the fake scholarship was promised that nothing was done ooo and my kids are not even going to start school with their mates. And I was advised to seek assistant urgently which I did and God used 4 good heart people to raise me the 160k which the donation site removed 15% and the rest was sent to me my kid's school registration all total amount of 115k school bus was not there name dey go pick and drop them. My wife left on the 5th of September last year only parents will understand how hard and difficult it is to be a single parent and a dad for that matter. So many things I have been facing I never talk of how many times I have rushed my son who has a health condition to the hospital even meself dey shame to ask at times but when the situation don choke me beyond handling alone who I get again to bey too of not the public. Family and friends will only know and listen to you when you have money. I have learned a lot like this. I no pray to be in this kind of situation I never even finish recovering from the school processing stuff I went through now here is a house rent issue. Even the landlord don call me to ask if I received the letter from the caretaker Hmmmm. Those thinking I am a scammer or playing with people's minds eeeh I just hope you won't be among those to get shook news of whatever will happen and it will be too late for you to regret ever adding depressions with your comments. Please help me paste this reply to any other negative reply and I leave everyone with their thought. God bless you all
Re: Some People Are Mean by AishaYesufu: 2:50pm On Mar 19, 2021
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MondayUche:
And as for the gofundme own we didn't even see the money cos they don't send to Nigeria and the young lady who created it for me is very young she doesn't have the can of business bank account needed for her to be able to withdraw the money until she starts working. She is just a young student who was trying to help. So the money is still there she tried all her best submitted all what they asked her to submit according to her but still. Well, I leave everything to God but with little faith and believe that a matured and understanding someday will understand that I am looking for help for rent and help me.
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Oboy your story too plenty, you don cast abeg... Try another format
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 19, 2021
I am not a beggar the last time I got assisted was when I came here asking for help from any nurse or doctor regarding what happened to my son and I explained everything to those who knew what it was and I rushed him to the hospital with the little one I have. Then when the drugs were not doing anything I had to ask what other solutions can I follow everyone insisted I should go back to the hospital again. With which money Nah but still I had to rush and that was when 2 people assisted me ooo and I had to post to show appreciation. Then the school money has already been a promise since last year when the fake scholarship was promised and failed. Then the person told me never to worry that she will handle it. So I had to post after the promise what was fulfilled also. But thanks for your advice I just pray for open doors and miracles but I am not happy with this. If I have other means and options I won't be like this. But God knows the best sha thanks
bigjackass:
Mister man assuming your stories are even real, you have turned to beg as the solution to everything. For how long will you continue to egundecided. Assuming there was no internet platform will you kill yourself or you will go and find a way to take care of your family? The internet has turned people into something else. Because you got money from begging before you begin to rely on that. My father passed through worse when I was growing up and I never saw him begging here and there as the only solution. And we managed to grow up responsibly and finish school. Some illiterate women without husbands are feeding and putting their children in school by all means, without knowing how to use the internet to beg. Lots of people that use the internet with you are passing through similar hardship but you don't see them doing this. Only people that are sick are justified to beg perpetually. You are a full-bodied man, not sick. Stop using your children as an excuse.
Re: Some People Are Mean by AddictedToTech: 3:12pm On Mar 19, 2021
Ejo ti poju
Dem say your format don cast all other things na too much shalaye
Re: Some People Are Mean by OmodavidoX(m): 5:36pm On Mar 19, 2021
Those that sell bottle water and lacasera in hold up and bus parks or road side sellers with many kids could have decided to come and beg too just like you.

I have sold all this things and I don’t think you have even experienced all I have experienced in my life.

There is no justification for always coming online to beg. If the block carrying business is not good for you. Involve yourself in another one and stop the way you beg everytime
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 5:46pm On Mar 19, 2021
Seun, please we need a "block this user" feature on Nairaland
Re: Some People Are Mean by Rekhi(f): 6:47pm On Mar 19, 2021
Don't anyone here live around this ayobo area to confirm this man's authenticity?..i was moved by his story but so many things doesn't even add up...Can someone jz confirm?
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 19, 2021
Thank you so very much for your encouragement words and understanding. I don't beg always I have been struggling to carry my cross alone I only come to seek for an
assistant whenever he situation is beyond me and i am stuck in it. Now imagine haven't even started something benefiting and house rent issue has just landed. I just received an alert of 5k I don't know who sent and whoever it is May God almighty in heaven bless the person and his/her family for me Amen
OmodavidoX:
Those that sell bottle water anla camerara in hold up and bus parks oroadsidede sellers with many kids could have decided to come and beg too just like you.

I have sold altheseis things and I don’t think you haveveren experienced all I have experienced in my life.

There is no justification for always coming online to beg. If the block carrying business is not good for you. Involve yourself in another one and stop the way you beevery timeme
Re: Some People Are Mean by fertilewomb: 6:58pm On Mar 19, 2021
bigjackass:
Mister man assuming your stories are even real, you have turned to begging as the solution to everything. For how long will you continue to beg undecided. Assuming there was no internet platform will you kill yourself or you will go and find a way to take care of your family ? The internet has turned people to something else. Because you got money from begging before you begin to rely on that. My father passed through worse when I was growing up and I never saw him begging here and there as the only solution. And we managed to grow up responsibly and finish school. Some illiterate women without husband are feeding and putting their children in school by all means , without knowing how to use internet to beg. Lots of people that use the internet with you are passing through similar hardship but you don't see them doing this. Only people that are sick are justified to beg perpetually. You are a full bodied man, not sick. Stop the block work that doesn't pay you and find another labour. Stop using your children as an escuse.
Learn to live within your means. How can you use 115k to register your kids in school are there no government school where it is cheaper? how can you be living in a house of 200k per annum? can't you look for cheaper face me I face you one room to rent?

You are the architect of your problem. there are people passing through more difficult issues than yours and yet not coming to constantly beg like you. There are alot of things you can do to survive. Begging is not an honourable thing

@Mondayuche
Re: Some People Are Mean by AddictedToTech: 6:59pm On Mar 19, 2021
MondayUche:
Thank you so very much for your encouragement words and understanding. I don't beg always I have been struggling to carry my cross alone I only come to seek for an
assistant whenever he situation is beyond me and i am stuck in it. Now imagine haven't even started something benefiting and house rent issue has just landed. I just received an alert of 5k I don't know who sent and whoever it is May God almighty in heaven bless the person and his/her family for me Amen
You're working 5kobo work and you live in a 200k apartment
Hahahaha grin grin
Re: Some People Are Mean by AishaYesufu: 7:06pm On Mar 19, 2021
Rekhi:
Don't anyone here live around this ayobo area to confirm this man's authenticity?..i was moved by his story but so many things doesn't even add up...Can someone jz confirm?
My sister, this Uche story has been on since late 2019. He has used different formats and cashed out big time... From Twitter to Nairaland... Even Gofundme...
Re: Some People Are Mean by AishaYesufu: 7:12pm On Mar 19, 2021
AddictedToTech:
You're working 5kobo work and you live in a 200k apartment
Hahahaha grin grin
If not that Nigerians are very gullible, they would have seen that the OP is a cunny man.

A jobless man stays in 200k apartment grin when there are 2000/month face me I face you apartments in same Ayobo

A jobless men enrolls his children in over 100k school even when there are FREE government primary and secondary schools in Lagos.

A jobless man has no single relatives nor townsman in Lagos...

Same man will reject every ideas but insist on using his format.

Same man paint a picture that the world is against him grin

He has used different formats to make money for over one year, yet, he doesn't want to go on break.

I won't be surprised to know that OP has completed his house in Lekki and even bought a brand new Lexus ES370.

BTW he even lied that he carries block for 8kobo per block... Haba... For Lagos o, Ayobo cheesy
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 19, 2021
MondayUche:
I really don’t blame people who keep things to themselves, especially what they go through!

People pretend to be trustworthy and know what you’re dealing with. Then use it against you, they know you’re vulnerable.

Read my previous post before this one and check the comments under the post then see how people are adding more fuel to my depressions. But I leave them all to God and with their thoughts
Only a fool will fall for your scams

Lazy bastard
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 19, 2021
Spot on kiss kiss kiss

AishaYesufu:
If not that Nigerians are very gullible, they would have seen that the OP is a cunny man.

A jobless man stays in 200k apartment grin when there are 2000/month face me I face you apartments in same Ayobo

A jobless men enrolls his children in over 100k school even when there are FREE government primary and secondary schools in Lagos.

A jobless man has no single relatives nor townsman in Lagos...

Same man will reject every ideas but insist on using his format.

Same man paint a picture that the world is against him grin

He has used different formats to make money for over one year, yet, he doesn't want to go on break.

I won't be surprised to know that OP has completed his house in Lekki and even bought a brand new Lexus ES370.

BTW he even lied that he carries block for 8kobo per block... Haba... For Lagos o, Ayobo cheesy
Re: Some People Are Mean by jalodo2: 7:17pm On Mar 19, 2021
MondayUche:
Thank you so very much for your encouragement words and understanding. I don't beg always I have been struggling to carry my cross alone I only come to seek for an
assistant whenever he situation is beyond me and i am stuck in it. Now imagine haven't even started something benefiting and house rent issue has just landed. I just received an alert of 5k I don't know who sent and whoever it is May God almighty in heaven bless the person and his/her family for me Amen
are u not funny? With all the painted problems, ur kids drying up etc, u get heart to ask people to pay 200k for ur house rent, not a new house o that u can say d money includes some charges. 200k for basic rent
Some hardworking hustling guys cant even afford to pay that rent. Na wa o
If all this ur situations are real with ur selling point kids are really suffering, u go dey ask for 200k rent? Even for Ayobo o, whey rent is cheaper,200k na luxury. You will wake up 4 morning, after eating ur wife delicious food u go stretch 4 chair, begin use ur kids as babianla waiting for ur mates to go work and donate to u
Re: Some People Are Mean by Amb1045(m): 8:06am On Mar 20, 2021
all na fake from a harden criminal. a secondary school graduate with such write up lol. oga go hustle and stop collecting course from people. na your type dee wear suit dee beg for street. cooperate beggar
Re: Some People Are Mean by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 20, 2021
THANKS TO THOSE WHO CALLED AND PRAYED FOR US. THANKS TO THOSE WHO MESSAGED AND ENCOURAGED ME. AND A VERY BIG THANK YOU TO THE 2 ANON WHO SENT US 5K AND 2K MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL. THOSE WHO UNDERSTANDS MY STRUGGLE THANK YOU ALL. GOD BLESS EVERYONE IN EVERY WAY OF YOUR LIFE. AND I PRAY YOU WILL NEVER EXPERIENCE A SITUATION THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE BEEN LOCKED IN A CAGE AND COULDN'T GET OUT OF DISAPPOINTMENT. I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT MY TIME WILL COME AND WHEN IT COMES, I WILL TESTIFY AND WILL ALWAYS HELP THE NEEDY BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IT TAKES. I AM BLESSED WITH ALMOST EVERYTHING BUT LACK SUCCESS AND I DONT KNOW WHY GOD IS PURNISHING ME THIS WAY. ANYHOW SHA, I KNOW SOMEDAY MY PRAYERS WILL BE ANSWERED IF WE WILL STILL BE ALIVE TILL THEN. LET ME FINALLY TAKE THE WORLD THE WAY I SEE IT. AFTER RENT WHEREVER WE SEE OURSELF SO BE IT. EVEN IF NA FOR OPHANAGE HOME IF I CAN LEAVE MY KIDS IN A GOOD HAND OF A GOOD GOD FEARING MOTHER AND END IT SOMEWHERE E PAY ME THAN TAKING THEM BACK TO MY SO CALLED EVIL VILLAGE WHERE WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME IS COMIG FROM. MISSING THEM ALREADY BUT THEIR CREATOR KNOWS THE BEST. THANKS GUYS. I HAVE BEEN READING ALL THE COMMENTS SINCE LAST NIGHT AND I MUST SAY I REALLY APPRECIATE EVERYONE IN EVERY OF THEIR OWN UNDERSTANDING. EVEN IF I AM NOT FAVORED, MAY GOD FAVOR YOU ALL
MondayUche:
I really don’t blame people who keep things to themselves, especially what they go through!

People pretend to be trustworthy and know what you’re dealing with. Then use it against you, they know you’re vulnerable.

Read my previous post before this one and check the comments under the post then see how people are adding more fuel to my depressions. But I leave them all to God and with their thoughts
Re: Some People Are Mean by AishaYesufu: 9:41am On Mar 21, 2021
Uche has deactivated after he was bursted... He will come with an alternate with another format
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